Comments on: What makes a phone sex call GREAT ? http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2009/11/what-makes-a-phone-sex-call-great/ Mistress Olivia 800-601-6975 Tue, 06 Jul 2010 12:10:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: DarkWyldchilde http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2009/11/what-makes-a-phone-sex-call-great/comment-page-1/#comment-3837 DarkWyldchilde Tue, 15 Dec 2009 03:00:59 +0000 http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=316#comment-3837 Another thing that can take a phone sex call from the ordinary to the sublime is honesty with oneself and your operator. We all have those dark fantasies we never mention not to our lovers, and most certinaly not to our friends. Fantasies that only exsist in the darker recesses of our imagination. Yet with phone sex there's no threat, the operator isn't going to shriek in horror, at most she may suggest another operator might be better for your fantasy. No one will ever know but you and her, and that dark, secret little desire can finally have some life of it's own. Another thing that can take a phone sex call from the ordinary to the sublime is honesty with oneself and your operator.

We all have those dark fantasies we never mention not to our lovers, and most certinaly not to our friends. Fantasies that only exsist in the darker recesses of our imagination.

Yet with phone sex there’s no threat, the operator isn’t going to shriek in horror, at most she may suggest another operator might be better for your fantasy.

No one will ever know but you and her, and that dark, secret little desire can finally have some life of it’s own.

]]> By: MsOlivia http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2009/11/what-makes-a-phone-sex-call-great/comment-page-1/#comment-3823 MsOlivia Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:08:56 +0000 http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=316#comment-3823 LOL Jake.....cowboy attire and short hair and cowboy hats! ROFLOL !......yes, the slam dancing would be quite the thing to see ! :) Olivia LOL Jake…..cowboy attire and short hair and cowboy hats! ROFLOL !……yes, the slam dancing would be quite the thing to see !
:)
Olivia

]]> By: Jake http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2009/11/what-makes-a-phone-sex-call-great/comment-page-1/#comment-3822 Jake Mon, 30 Nov 2009 22:26:57 +0000 http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=316#comment-3822 Know what you mean DWc. While most the Domme outfits and accessories are hot, I would love being in control of a women who was wearing jeans & a t-shirt with no makeup too. There are so many possibilities with stuff in any household. Love your comment too Empress Olivia. Would be funny though to go to a metal concert and see all the band members in cowboy attire. ;-) As for what makes a phone sex call great? Yes the voice plays a large part for me also. Another big part is when I get surprised. Love when a Mistress really gets in my head. Also if I'm looking for humiliation that they really are into trying to make the boy cry. Know what you mean DWc. While most the Domme outfits and accessories are hot, I would love being in control of a women who was wearing jeans & a t-shirt with no makeup too. There are so many possibilities with stuff in any household.

Love your comment too Empress Olivia. Would be funny though to go to a metal concert and see all the band members in cowboy attire. ;-)

As for what makes a phone sex call great? Yes the voice plays a large part for me also. Another big part is when I get surprised. Love when a Mistress really gets in my head. Also if I’m looking for humiliation that they really are into trying to make the boy cry.

]]> By: olivia http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2009/11/what-makes-a-phone-sex-call-great/comment-page-1/#comment-3812 olivia Sat, 14 Nov 2009 21:21:38 +0000 http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=316#comment-3812 Dear DWc ..... I love the way you write and how you express yourself. You are, as usual, on target with your comments.....the *stuff* of the fetish obscures the true nature of the experience. It's like getting all dressed up to hear live music and then remaining focused on the clothing instead of the music! Assuredly, one option of how to experience life, but I personally find that limiting and ultimately boring. I know you enjoy ALL your explorations m'dear ....so, here's to continuing to enjoy the Journey of Live, Love/love and Experience :) Olivia Dear DWc ….. I love the way you write and how you express yourself. You are, as usual, on target with your comments…..the *stuff* of the fetish obscures the true nature of the experience. It’s like getting all dressed up to hear live music and then remaining focused on the clothing instead of the music! Assuredly, one option of how to experience life, but I personally find that limiting and ultimately boring. I know you enjoy ALL your explorations m’dear ….so, here’s to continuing to enjoy the Journey of Live, Love/love and Experience :)
Olivia

]]> By: DarkWyldchilde http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2009/11/what-makes-a-phone-sex-call-great/comment-page-1/#comment-3802 DarkWyldchilde Thu, 05 Nov 2009 23:41:11 +0000 http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=316#comment-3802 In trying to explain Domination to those who have never experienced it all their attention often goes to the instruments like hand cuffs or riding crops, and sadly even those who use those hand cuffs or riding crops sometimes get stuck at that level. While that can be fine for some it's just that... fine, at best a pleasant sort of mediocre. To truly experience Domination, to excel at those sensations is where I feel the concepts of Domination and submission come into play, and they come into play with power exchange. The problem is that you can not explain power exchange. Those who have done it already know, and those who haven't lack the frame of experience. Your only real option is to try it (from both sides if you can *deliberate snicker*), but the other side of the coin is not to rush it. I learned Dominance very quickly, but took a long while to feel a level of connection and trust that allowed me to let go and submit. The funny thing was that after hemming and hawwing for so long I felt that immediate *click* and I knew it was a matter of when instead of if. In trying to explain Domination to those who have never experienced it all their attention often goes to the instruments like hand cuffs or riding crops, and sadly even those who use those hand cuffs or riding crops sometimes get stuck at that level.

While that can be fine for some it’s just that… fine, at best a pleasant sort of mediocre.

To truly experience Domination, to excel at those sensations is where I feel the concepts of Domination and submission come into play, and they come into play with power exchange.

The problem is that you can not explain power exchange. Those who have done it already know, and those who haven’t lack the frame of experience.

Your only real option is to try it (from both sides if you can *deliberate snicker*), but the other side of the coin is not to rush it. I learned Dominance very quickly, but took a long while to feel a level of connection and trust that allowed me to let go and submit.

The funny thing was that after hemming and hawwing for so long I felt that immediate *click* and I knew it was a matter of when instead of if.

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