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Do clothes make the Femdom and real TPE

BDsm and Femdom stereotypesFemdom Mistress Olivia 1-800-601-7259

Listen to me tell you about being a real Femdom in my private life.

If you think BDsm and Femdom are all about a fierce woman in leather and latex, think again.

Oh, that attire CAN be part of a Mistress wardrobe, but the power of the Experienced Mistress Olivia comes from way more than clothing.

Power Exchange and BDsm

A Mistress gets her power all sorts of ways.  Mostly it is an internal sense of natural Dominance.  I am very clear about something: you might want a mean Femdom, but Mistress does not mean bitch.  Total power exchange, TPE, is a mutual thing — even though I demand your obedience.

The most extreme BDsm and fetish play should include a sense of appreciation for your submission.  That might take the form of tender aftercare, communication between sessions, negotiation before your session or something else.

A naturally Dominant woman

There is a SENSE you will get from a naturally Dominant woman that you will never get from vanilla women.  You can put a vanilla woman in hot latex, and you still won’t have a Femdom.

Thoughts?  Comments?  A gif of a hot woman in even hotter latex?

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia

13 comments to Do clothes make the Femdom and real TPE

  • Petey cream puff

    For me it’s you and the mistresses keeping me in dresses/bra/panties/heels/lipstick/makeup/wig/feminine arched eyebrows doused in perfume/lotions smelling like a girl all the time along with having me in leggings/yoga pants/women’s choke tops/turtleneck sweaters along with halter tops as well in heels/ankle & knee high boots. I’m glad that you/Ms Delia/Ms Cindy and Ms Erika have taken control of my cock and myself as your cream puff girl.

  • chrissy

    Hello Mistress Olivia,

    Yes, you are naturally a Dominant woman! I am naturally a submissive sissy and I the want nothing more than to submit at your feet. Nothing more than and be your little panty boy. I hope to talk to you soon.

    Sissy chrissy

  • princess

    You’re SOOOOOOOO right! It’s not Her clothes it’s Her brain….Her attitude! ….Sure, sexy clothes and BDSM implements are wonderful, But a real Domme can thrill a true true sub by simply using him as a footstool! Putting him (or her) on his hand knees before Her, while She is just watching TV on the couch, wearing t-shirt and jeans. Casual Dominance can be as rewarding and exciting to me as an elaborate scene….I think it’s a matter of both the Domme and the sub embracing their true self , trusting each other and living their dreams 24/7! Great post!

  • mitch

    I once read that American actors go from the inside out, starting with feelings. English actors go from the outside in, starting with the costume. I guess femdom mistresses are American actors.

    • Olivia

      Hey that’s pretty cool …. I’d never heard that. You know I think ANYONE serious about kink, kink culture and history, fetish exploration is attracted to the “performance art” aspect of it all … I sure know I am! Is that acting? Sure! Acting as designed emotions, reactions, etc … it’s the good sort of manipulation.

  • Nexux

    I totally agree Miss Olivia,- i have seen Alpha Women in the plainest of plain clothes, and non-alpha Women in leather and latex,- and only the Alpha Women send out the femdom vibe! For me the clothes are more like spices,- they certainly add to the meal,- but do nothing on their own.

    • Olivia

      YES !!!! Every Halloween all sorts of non-Alpha women “dress up” in naughty and/or kinky outfits … and, honestly, it really ends up looking like a costume.

  • Mitch

    Of course Mistress I gladly surrendered to you quite some time ago. I only wish I could surrender in person.

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