Myths about finding real Dominance and submission

What is real Dominance and submission? Listen to me read you this blog post about MY Dominance and your submission. While phone sex is billed as a fantasy, the BDsm experience is very real.  This matters to you if you are a real submissive but you can’t go to...

Intimacy of strangers

Intimacy and the slave Listen to me read you this blog post about BDsm kink intimacy and erotic slavery. I had a VERY interesting conversation with a slave today. We started off talking about my recent blog post about the difference between a submissive and a slave....

Your submission: want OR need

How important is your submission to you? Listen to me talk to you about power exchange and submission. There are lots of people curious about fetish and power exchange.  Do you WANT to submit in a fun, casual kind of way or is your submission something that is...

submissive versus slave

Differences between submissive versus slave Listen to me read you this blog about the difference between submissive versus slave. I like to answer your questions.  I’ll answer pretty much anything you ask — you’ll hear what I mean if you listen to my...

Surprise BDsm confession from the Experienced Mistress

BDsm and porn Listen to me read you this Experienced Mistress blog post. I didn’t think I would like the kink world.  Before getting involved in the real BDsm and fetish scene, my only impression of kink was from pop culture.  I didn’t think it was for me...

What is Woman in Charge Femdom

Woman in Charge Listen to me read you this Femdom blog post. There are so many terms for kink, fetish and BDsm.  Phone sex is is the perfect venue for fetish curiosity.  Some of the words look interchangeable but it’s important to take a moment to communicate...