For YOUR tease and denial instructions call Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I know that many of you want and need an Experienced Mistress to control your cock stroking.  Perhaps you are like this caller, who needs:

Caller:  “… a lady who can control me and my orgasms. Someone to abuse me and give me instructions and then get me to the point my cumming and then stop and then abuse me some more.”

Ms Olivia decides cock tease and denial wish

I get so many requests for cock stroking instructions before the phone sex call that I’ve decided to do a series of blogs.  If you would like stroking instructions or assignments personalized to you, you can always call (or email) Me to set up your session.

Stay right here though for more general cock stroking and denial information and instructions.  Even solo cock tease and denial can be FUN!

When you want Mistress guidance and control I’m available early morning and through the day (eastern, US time).  You can check to see who is available for your stroking tease and denial sessions.

Orgasm denial without a chastity device

This man will not be in a male chastity device but he will have orders from Mistress on how to stroke his cock and then he won’t be allowed to cum until I give him permission to cum.  I want to hear him BEG on his phone calls, May I cum?  Please Mistress, I’m begging to cum!”

Did you click that begging link?  Those are your first tease and denial instructions.  We’ve talked on the phone so you know what other things Mistress expects you to do with that naughty cock of yours.  Remember, there will be NO unauthorized wanking!  You will perform for Mistress and follow My instructions.

I’d like your comments…what do YOU think of having a Mistress control your cock while giving you a sexy tease?  What do you think and feel when she abruptly says, nope we’re done now, no orgasm for you!  I want to hear from YOU (just click on the comments section and leave your thoughts).

Ms Olivia

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Do YOU like stockings as much as I do?  *wink*

A really great pair of legs can stop traffic!  Sheer, sexy stockings make My long legs really put on a show and stop you in your ….. tracks. Let’s talk about our mutual love of stockings on your phone sex call.

What do you love about stockings?

Look carefully at the photo, that seam up the back of sheer stockings is like a path to the pleasure cove! Or maybe you believe that the journey is even more fun than the destination!  As you can tell, I love wordplay as much as I adore the silky feel of stockings.

Legs, stockings and high heels can spin a submissive man into erotic torment.  *wink*  And, if you have a foot or leg fetish then you’re falling under My influence right now, aren’t you?

Crossdressers and stockings

Maybe you’re looking at that photo and you start to imagine yourself in a garter belt, sheer stockings and sexy high heels.  If you’re a crossdresser then you know that there are many styles of tights, pantyhose, and stockings.  What are the best stockings for a crossdresser to wear?  The answer is the same as for Me, wear what makes you feel sexy!

Maybe we should ALL go to a party!  A sexy adventure like you can hear in this erotic audio about the thigh high stockings party!   Tell Me all about your love of stockings!  Ohhhhh that sounds just little like the phrase, “I’ll show you mine, if you show Me yours.”  ~laughs~

Ms Olivia

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When did you start crossdressing and/or experiencing a need to be en femme?

There are many different *kinds* of crossdressers.  Your experience of being a man in panties is as unique as you are!  In fact, you might not even be a *man* no matter what is between your legs.  The Experienced Mistress knows the difference between a crossdresser, a sissy and a TV/TG girl.

I listen and learn who you really are

You are unique.  Your sexual fantasies are individual and personal. When we do a session I create an erotic fantasy that targets your own experiences and expressions of your desires.

If you simply like to wear sexy panties as Mistress control over a submissive male then there’s nothing worse (for you) then being called a sissy!  When you’re a sissy slut who yearns to be told to suck cock for Mistress, chances are you don’t want a lot of conversation about current lingerie fashions!  See what I mean?

Your first experiences tell Me a lot

When I ask you about your crossdressing history, it’s not idle conversation.  It’s a map of your erotic landscape.  I use what you say to push buttons and sexual triggers that you might not even think to articulate to Me.  How it all *started* tells Me a lot about you and what you *need* now.

pantyboy tells about the beginning

pantyboy:  “I first started wearing panties in college. I had messed around with panties and such before that, but it wasn’t until I had a long term girlfriend in college that I found myself doing it a lot. I loved buying lingerie for her, and she loved wearing it for me, many times I found myself sneaking them and wearing them from time to time.”

I’d like to hear from you.  How do you express your feminine and/or submissive side?

Ms Olivia

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I’ll admit it.  I love to hear YOUR voice!

Your tone and timbre, the words you use, the *gasp* as you catch your breath.  The sound of your voice turns Me on!  Which is probably one of the many reasons why phone sex is so much fun!!

A number of you have discovered just how easy it is to call an American Mistress!   I’m glad I get calls from all over the world because I think YOUR accents are delicious. You can hear My *accent* in this erotic audio.

Whatever words you use, you know what *feels good* when you masturbate, don’t you?

Solo masturbation can get boring!

Let’s face it, what you’re doing now is fine but less then great.  Oh sure, you still get the release …. but, is there the real thrill of excitement in the build up TO your orgasm? Perhaps the whole thing is even beginning to feel a bit mechanical and unimaginative.

Guided masturbation is way more FUN!

When your stroking becomes monotonous, then you’re ready for guided masturbation.  I am the Experienced Mistress and I take men on a masturbation journey that allows us both to enjoy your cock stroking!

What is guided masturbation?

It’s more than just new stroking techniques, but that IS part of it.  You learn new skills and become proficient in a variety of cock stroking styles.

While I don’t HAVE a penis, I have played with so many I know what I’m talking about!   I have a wealth of knowledge that can turn you inside out with pleasure.  You hear My voice encouraging you, experiencing YOU as you stroke for Me …. all this and more, are some of the things that take your erotic enjoyment to the next level … and beyond!

Let’s not forget that there is also My lovely American accent and choice of words that will also take your masturbation to new …. ahem…..heights, as it were.  ~laughs~  You do know that an American Mistress can be a wicked cock tease, don’t you?  I use My imagination as you can hear in this erotic audio *wink*.

Ms Olivia

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Tease and denial masturbation

Do you love the feeling of cock stroking and edging?  I really love tease and denial sessions.  This type of phone sex is so erotic for us both!  You get to feel all those amazing sensations and I get to listen to you gasp and moan as you stroke to delayed orgasm.

Are you ready for tease and denial?

I return tomorrow from several days off.  Are you ready?  How do you know you’re ready for the ultimate tease and denial session from a Mistress?  Here’s how.  You know you want to cum at the end of the call but you want the build up. You know you want *more* then what you currently experience with the way you masturbate solo.

Role of a Mistress

Imagine when you are right on the edge of orgasm.  It’s HARD to stop, isn’t it?  The orgasm is calling you over the edge and that siren song feels so good you follow.  BUT …. what if you can experience the music of the siren’s song for longer than you currently do?  When you are edging before your final explosive orgasm it usually helps to have someone like this Experienced Mistress to tell you, “Take your hand OFF your cock.  Do NOT cum yet.”

Mistress guides your cock edging

Think of Me as a personal trainer … a cock trainer! ~laughs~  When I get to know you, I can *tell* when you’re going to go over that edge and My voice can help you stay just *this* side of your orgasm.  That means that the peak sensations of arousal last so much longer!

So…..are you ready to experience the ultimate in orgasm edging? ~smile~

Ms Olivia

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Where does your erotic fetish start?

Some people are adventurous and come to fetish sex by being open to erotic adventures.  Others, have the seeds of their fetish fantasies planted years ago by some seminal (pun intended) event or person.

I’ll be away for a couple days this week during the times I’m normally here for you.  I will be here today though (*wink*) if you’d like to call right away.  Here’s My schedule for you to plan your call.  If you can’t catch Me today, I wanted to leave you with something to think about.

What is a fetish?

A fetish is *something* that has power over you.  For example, it can be an object that has *supernatural powers*.  I’ve done numerous blog posts about the power of panties.  Realistically, it’s just bits of lacy fabric and elastic, but they are so alluring to you there’s a real sense of amazing powers of sexy panties.

Where does a sex fetish start?

I’m always curious about your erotic life.  What you think about, why you think about that thing and not something else, etc.  As the Experienced Mistress, I know that knowledge is power.  Any cock control Mistress can tell you that!  I use what you tell Me to create the most amazing phone sex experience for you.  Your session is so great that your phone sex fun is guaranteed!

Where his sexy panties fetish began

I’m always thrilled when you let Me post your comments!  Here’s one example from our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.

Panteezd says: “As a young man I was teased by a very sexy blonde (like you!) who wore her skirts a little shorter than perhaps was going to stop the boys from looking, or at least trying to look up her skirt.
She purposely would reveal her panties to me making me extremely excited and then would point out my enormous erection when she discretely had the opportunity (not in front of others).
She did this many afternoons and it seems to have left me with an enormous desire to be teased even though I’ve never had any problem meeting woman and having mutually pleasurable relationships.
I still crave that erotic teasing power she had over me and denial and teasing gives me sooo much pleasure more so than straight sex.”

Thank you panteezd for your comments!  Now, I’d like to hear from you!  Where and how did your kinky sex fantasies start?  ((Please just say ‘younger years’ instead of naming the age.))  As always, please post your comments, questions and anything else you’d like to say.  I’ll approve and respond to your comments!  I always learn and get inspired from YOU — so, happy typing

Ms Olivia

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Do you have sexual fantasies about eating your own cum, tasting cum or cum spurting out of a cock?  You are not alone!  This is one of the most intense erotic desires of all the kinks. This Experienced Mistress is an expert at seducing, coercing and encouraging you to eat your own cum.

Your desires are unique.

You are unique.  That means the expression of your sexual desire is unique.  The arc of your arousal is distinct to you.  This Experienced Mistress finds out about you and then creates an arousal arc that touches all of your sexual buttons.

Not all cum eaters are the same

It is important that your Femdom Mistress knows YOU.  That allows Me to use My creativity to pace your phone sex session in the best way for you.  There is a very big difference between the sissy slut who gobbles cum for Mistress and someone who is into the rush of erotic humiliation when Mistress says, “Eat your own cum, NOW!”

What do you do when you have a sort of nameless urge and desire?  Then, it’s time to turn to the Experienced Mistress.  You urges become so much more satisfying when you have an experienced cum coach to guide you, encourage you and show you all that you know you want.

Again, it’s ALL about you as an individual:

Man:  Over the last couple of years I’ve developed this fascination with eating my own cum…. All the stuff on the internet is degrading and the talk nasty which turns me off. Its an embarrassing fetish but I think if the right person can talk me through it I may do it. Enjoy dirty sweet talk and someone encouraging me to do it.

Are you ready to be encouraged?  Are you ready to explore?  ~smiles~  Ahhhhh, I think you are ready.  Aren’t you?

Ms Olivia

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It’s ‘only’ phone sex, so what’s the big deal; why can you call one woman for .69/minute and you’re asked to pay more here?

What’s the difference?  Ms Ally, the owner of LDW, knows what it takes for the ‘something special’ to happen in our erotic fantasy sessions.  She only works with the best, like this Experienced Mistress.  Something as ‘simple’ as this masturbation stroking erotic audio will be an sensuous adventure!.  Each Mistress has her own page of Mistress Reviews so you can see what others are saying about each of us.

What YOU need and want

We’ve given real thought to what you need beyond the session itself.  That means lots of free sites including the only adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  This career is My livelihood so I do manage My time well but you’ll get lots of interaction from Me on EE and here in the comments section of My blog.  I asked one new EE member about his reaction to finding our network of sites:

BG talks about his reaction to our community

Me:  Were you surprised at what you found?

BG:  Yes, I was definitely surprised. I was very much surprised at the loveliness of the ladies. I was surprised at the sophistication of the writing and conceptual development of the site. I was surprised at the variety of interests represented.

Mostly, I was surprised at how exciting things seemed to be. I was a bit suspicious that I was being taken in. I am generally a pretty analytical and cautious person. Even though I take significant risks from the perspective of someone not engaging in FemDom, I tend to check things out pretty thoroughly before I make any commitments.

In the end, I think a large part of the reason I committed was the depth of the LDW site. I found ladies who had obviously been involved for years. I found policy statements that and procedures designed quite obviously to protect both me, and the ladies. I had to respect that. That was really not even present in the face-to-face Domination with which I had become familiar. All of that surprised me.

I have not participated in any other phone domination sites. When one is feasting on sirloin steaks, why would he choose hamburger?”

~laughs~  I love that last line!  BG always leaves thoughtful comments (with a little quirky thing at the end).  You might say the same thing about Me.  Thoughtful, passionate, creative …. and, yes, a little quirky at the end.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

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I’m on vacation right now.  I’m doing luscious, fun and sometimes very naughty things.  But, I will be back tomorrow.  Since I know you missed Me, I will be logged in for your phone sex calls on My normal day off.  Look for Me this Thursday November 3rd as well as My regular schedule.

Kinky play during My time off

I will have lots to tell you!  When I’m *off* calls that doesn’t mean I am away from the BD/sm scene.  I am a real life Mistress and I do love My fetish and kinky sex play off (and on) the phone.

Even your sex fantasies aren’t all fantasy

The Experienced Mistress is …. well, EXPERIENCED.  ~laughs~  This means  that the creative phone sex fantasy scenes that we do are grounded in My real life. I use everything that I am — that means history, learning, travel, experiences and more to create vivid erotic roleplay scenes for you where I am your Femdom Mistress.  Most of all, I use My love of (and skill with) language.

Phone sex and wordplay

We both know the power of language.  Using wordplay I ~whisper~ into your senses to give you peak experiences that make you go, ohhhhhhhhh how did She know to say THAT!?  Words … the exact right words … have power. If you’ve received an email from Me recently, you’ll see that I’m using this Mark Twain quote in My email signature:

“A powerful agent is the right word … Whenever we come upon one of those intensely right words … the resulting effect is physical as well as spiritual, and electrically prompt … The different between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.”

Are you ready for the exact right word — that bolt of erotic lightening?  Well then, I’m ready to talk with you — or I will be, when I return tomorrow for your delightful conversations by phone or sexy texting sessions.

Ms Olivia

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We’ve talked about it here on My blog.  We’ve talked about it when you call for the various cock oriented phone sex calls.  Some of you want to be a cuckold and others have bisexual fantasies.   I know there are LOTS of men who are as fascinated by the penis as I am!

Since I often discuss the *elephant in the living room* let’s talk about the difference between real life cock sucking and fantasy cock scenes.

Advantage of fantasy sex

The advantage of phone sex is that you can live out fantasies without the real life consequences.  I’m a big fan of fantasy for this reason.  Phone sex is safe, private, creative and hot and Ms Layla describes how she worked with a caller to give him an amazing fantasy phone call that was very real to him!

Turning your sex fantasy into real life

For those that have your heart and cock set on *the real thing* then you’ve got a couple of options.  First you can eat your own cum and Ms Violet can even show you how to suck your own cock!  This is the only totally safe way to eat cum, because you are eating your own cum.

Second safest way to suck a cock in real life

You *might* not want to hear this, but I do care about you and your other intimate partners, so I’m going to say it.  If you want to suck a cock in real life, safer sex means use a condom.  Notice I said safer because it is not 100% safe.  Because there are risks you have a moral obligation to talk with your real life partner to give HER options about the risks she wants to take with her own sexual safety.  If you suck an uprotected cock and the woman (or man) in your life thinks you are exclusive then she puts herself at risk when she exchanges bodily fluids with you (and the others you have sex with).  This is  NOT GOOD.

High risk sex

The *fantasy* of cock sucking at a glory hole or anonymous sex situation is totally hot!  The reality is very risky.  My personal ethics, emotional and professional responsibility, and general requirements of My own standards mean that I will NOT encourage you to do this in real life without protection or if you have to do it without protection I will tell you to make sure your sexual partner knows the risks she takes with you.

Sorry guys, I know that isn’t sexy, but that is My professional standard and it’s one that I use in My own personal life.  My guy and I do not have a totally monogamous sex life but we are honest with each other and each understands the health risks we choose to take.  It is worth it to us both and we’ve made fully informed decisions about the risks we are willing (and not willing) to take.

Was this blog post a total downer?  What are your thoughts, reactions, comments and questions?

Ms Olivia