Experienced Mistress - brought to you by LDW Group » phone sex http://www.experiencedmistress.com Mistress Olivia 800-601-6975 Sat, 01 May 2010 01:41:15 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 The business of Phone Sex http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/04/the-business-of-phone-sex/ http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/04/the-business-of-phone-sex/#comments Fri, 16 Apr 2010 17:55:37 +0000 olivia http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=425 Olivia 1-800-601-6975

So, we both know that I get paid to talk with you during our phone sex sessions.  I get paid and you do the paying.  That makes it a business exchange, right?  Sure!  I have also noticed that moving the whole issue of sex/sexuality/sensuality and even conversation into a *business* [...]]]>

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

So, we both know that I get paid to talk with you during our phone sex sessions.  I get paid and you do the paying.  That makes it a business exchange, right?  Sure!  I have also noticed that moving the whole issue of sex/sexuality/sensuality and even conversation into a *business* realm allows for a certain freedom on your part…and mine.

Of course, the fact that you reach Me via a phone sex line means there is a flexibility and anonymity for us both.  We can cheerfully engage in a variety of explorations.  I have had quite a journey of my own exploration of Self as I’ve moved (with the same caller) from guided masturbation to erotic roleplay to cock control sessions when I end up as submissive on the Power Exchange equation.

This particular post is about business not necessarily about sex.   Although they are one and the same in a literal and overt manner in the adult industry.  (That alone lends itself to a certain level of honesty, doesn’t it?)  One of the interesting things about any business plan is that it must, by definition, take into account of and maximize the economic environment.  In this … the sex trade … the parameters of the *economic environment* are not the same as say, new car sales …. altho both advertising campaigns do employ scantily clad, beautiful women (the photo caught your eyes, didn’t it?).  *wink*

A *basic* about any business …. sex, cars, news or widgets is that if you know what your customer wants, give it to him or her with Value, Customer Service and Innovation then you tend to be successful.  THIS is one reason why LDW Group is the premier service in the phone sex industry.  We …. management and the actual Femdom and Erotic Phone Entertainers (like moi) …. take customer service very seriously.  So, seriously in fact that the founder/owner of LDW, Ms Ally, makes a written promise to you.

I haven’t seen many promises like that in my such-n-such years on this planet.  You don’t get a promise like that from the government, your spouse, probably not even from yourself.  I think this is a rarity.  As such, this business plan is unique and, in my opinion Ms Ally should be asked to be on talking head business discussion panels.  I’ve often thought the Head Mistress would make a sophisticated and smart addition to a business news forum but have, heretofore, thought the general news public wasn’t ready.

I was wrong.  I am *often* wrong but in this particular instance the mainstream media might just be more ready for the Innovation Secrets of a successful Phone Sex Madame.  I offer this proof for My premise.  The Owner/founder of Kink.com was recently on a panel about “Successful Failure” …. at a conference called Innovation:  Fresh Thinking for the Ideas Economy.  You can read/view all about it in The Economist ….. that erudite and for many esoteric magazine that geeks like Me read.  Who KNEW?

And, we here at LDW …. and, of course, yours truly, the experienced mistress of phone sex …. can cheerfully *embrace* Fresh Thinking (slap your ass kind of fresh) or, of course immerse ourselves in the Ideas Economy (ohhh, yes the idea of forced bi IS certainly erotic isn’t it?).  See what I mean?  And, what is successful failure but another word for erotic humiliation or, maybe cuckold fantasies?  Like I said.  Sex sells.  Academe and Other Business experts might be a *smidge* uncomfortable to see SEX in The Economist (note the body language of the panelists on the stage with kink.com guy (Peter Ackworth) when you watch the video — ie, just how THIRSTY can they possibly be in a cool television studio?  LOL).  Personally, I’m glad the vast majority of people get uncomfortable talking about sex …. that’s not written into My business plan, but it’s certainly part of the environment that makes this career good business and an INNOVATIVE choice for Me.  :)

Enough for now.  *For a good time, call Olivia*  LOL   25% more humor in the same sexy packaging.

Olivia

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]]> http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/04/the-business-of-phone-sex/feed/ 5 All I ask of you …. Boundaries and the Mistress http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/01/all-i-ask-of-you-%e2%80%a6-boundaries-and-the-mistress/ http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/01/all-i-ask-of-you-%e2%80%a6-boundaries-and-the-mistress/#comments Sun, 10 Jan 2010 21:43:34 +0000 admin http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=384 Erotic conversation, the intimate exchanges over something as mundane as what’s billed as a phone sex line, can lead to unusual relationships. I am open to exploring beyond the usual roles of caller and Mistress. All I ask of you is that you want to give Me. However that looks in [...]]]> Erotic conversation, the intimate exchanges over something as mundane as what’s billed as a phone sex line, can lead to unusual relationships. I am open to exploring beyond the usual roles of caller and Mistress. All I ask of you is that you want to give Me. However that looks in each particular relationship. That can be a little or a lot.

Some callers have a particular fantasy that they want to experience in erotic roleplay and I excel at making your fantasy ‘real’ to you. Some callers have “secret” fantasies that they would never share or even want to experience in real life. I have callers that enjoy forced-bi and cuckold fantasies but those stories remain erotic fantasies filled with sexual charge but contained in the boundaries of a phone call to an Experienced Mistress.

Some callers are looking for a fantasy or relationship that evolves. As the evolution of our relationship happens, it can get to a point of, where do we go from here? When the relationship is based in the erotic fantasy, the answer is…anywhere we want to go. When that relationship includes conversations that involve real life topics for you or me, then it can get tricky. When individuals are dating there comes to a point where they need to ‘take the relationship to the next level’ … I’ve seen that happen here with certain callers so I want to take a moment to say something about that.

I don’t have many requirements or limits within the context of the phone call ….I am open to fantasy and sexual exploration. I have a curious mind and enjoy delving into the shadow side of your (and my own) kinky side. I have a great deal of respect for people who embrace their own sexuality however the actual expression might look to the vanilla world.

That said, the one thing that I do insist on is that you respect My boundaries. I don’t meet callers in real life. I don’t want to talk with your wife or girlfriend without HER consent. I also don’t involve others in what is a non-consensual call on their part. I have had people who try to push those limits. My boundaries don’t move and those who push me move on, or are gently (or not so gently) edged away. I’m not saying no, but meaning yes. No actually means no.

The ones who understand the limits of our relationship and don’t try to push my boundaries are generally delighted with the opportunity to open up into what can become a real and delicious intimacy, protected by the boundaries. You can tell Me things that perhaps you can’t tell others in your life. When I feel safe with you, I can be a safe harbor for you as well. I don’t feel safe with a caller who continues to push my boundaries. These boundaries are best for us both because we can explore as much intimacy as we like knowing that it won’t blow up either of our lives….or the lives of people involved with either of us.

For example, the curious sir who “reads too many blogs” (LOL), gives me a safe harbor to explore and experience myself along with your inquiry into who you know yourself to be. What an amazing cocoon-experience. THANK YOU so much for your consideration and respect. I treasure you.

All I ask of you — all of you — is everything you yearn to give honoring the appropriate boundaries of this environment. Delicious? Yes. Dangerous? No. This mutual acknowledgement and your respect for Me makes it best for all involved.

Olivia

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$2.50/min., 10 min. minimum, billed to your credit card.

]]> http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/01/all-i-ask-of-you-%e2%80%a6-boundaries-and-the-mistress/feed/ 7 Mistress music for the soul … http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/01/361/ http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/01/361/#comments Fri, 08 Jan 2010 21:33:45 +0000 admin http://www.experiencedmistress.com/?p=361 Words and language.  Masculine energy/feminine energy.  Breath.  The whisper of the most intimate.  Erotic conversation with me can be so much more then what you may think of as phone sex, and the various implications of cock control for men, crossdressers and sissies alike.  This experienced Mistress so enjoys our masturbation sessions in all their [...]]]> Words and language.  Masculine energy/feminine energy.  Breath.  The whisper of the most intimate.  Erotic conversation with me can be so much more then what you may think of as phone sex, and the various implications of cock control for men, crossdressers and sissies alike.  This experienced Mistress so enjoys our masturbation sessions in all their glory.

It “can” be as simple as all that …. Or, it can go beyond into uncharted territory.  When we’re both on the same page, dancing in unison to some primal musical score … what becomes available is an intimacy that unfolds … it is tangible … very real although the nature of a phone sex call itself is in the realm of so-called fantasy.  For me, that sensual dance is much like what I appreciate about music.  To me, music can be both, ethereal and real.

Music triggers everything in me …All that I am comes to attention while the music swirls around, outside/inside, passion and possibility.  Whim and whimsy.   Hope and yearning.  Telling stories that touch me … Touching me in the place beyond words …. And, if you’ve called me, you know I love the intricacies available with language…so, to go beyond that place is …well, I have no words, which alone says a lot.

Sometimes a caller and I connect …. In the language of words, breath, and the delicious intimacy of like-minded curious personalities.  In those moments, your call and you begin to live as music in my very being …. Acoustic … soaring….funky Motown, tantric techno, swinginess of swing, complexity of the classics, music through the ages, luscious stories from musicals … beyond and yet encompassing all the different “types” of music …. Access to ALL, faith from beauty and truth … tone and rhythm pulsing, urgent and intense.  Your calls become music ….

And, in this New Year … I want you to know that I appreciate you in words I can’t even begin to say … it is from the place where we dance beyond words.

Olivia
1-800-601-6975

$2.50/min., 10 minute minimum, billed to your credit card.

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