Olivia 1-800-601-6975

It’s ‘only’ phone sex, so what’s the big deal; why can you call one woman for .69/minute and you’re asked to pay more here?

What’s the difference?  Ms Ally, the owner of LDW, knows what it takes for the ‘something special’ to happen in our erotic fantasy sessions.  She only works with the best, like this Experienced Mistress.  Something as ‘simple’ as this masturbation stroking erotic audio will be an sensuous adventure!.  Each Mistress has her own page of Mistress Reviews so you can see what others are saying about each of us.

What YOU need and want

We’ve given real thought to what you need beyond the session itself.  That means lots of free sites including the only adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  This career is My livelihood so I do manage My time well but you’ll get lots of interaction from Me on EE and here in the comments section of My blog.  I asked one new EE member about his reaction to finding our network of sites:

BG talks about his reaction to our community

Me:  Were you surprised at what you found?

BG:  Yes, I was definitely surprised. I was very much surprised at the loveliness of the ladies. I was surprised at the sophistication of the writing and conceptual development of the site. I was surprised at the variety of interests represented.

Mostly, I was surprised at how exciting things seemed to be. I was a bit suspicious that I was being taken in. I am generally a pretty analytical and cautious person. Even though I take significant risks from the perspective of someone not engaging in FemDom, I tend to check things out pretty thoroughly before I make any commitments.

In the end, I think a large part of the reason I committed was the depth of the LDW site. I found ladies who had obviously been involved for years. I found policy statements that and procedures designed quite obviously to protect both me, and the ladies. I had to respect that. That was really not even present in the face-to-face Domination with which I had become familiar. All of that surprised me.

I have not participated in any other phone domination sites. When one is feasting on sirloin steaks, why would he choose hamburger?”

~laughs~  I love that last line!  BG always leaves thoughtful comments (with a little quirky thing at the end).  You might say the same thing about Me.  Thoughtful, passionate, creative …. and, yes, a little quirky at the end.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

My Schedule —  Best ways to talk with Me.

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Some of you have called phone sex before, some haven’t.  Maybe some of you have called other services to varying degrees of satisfaction.  Let Me be blunt, the phone sex business has changed a lot since the early days of the 900 numbers and the moan & groan.

Just like any other industry, this is competitive.  Just like any other career, I work very hard to be the best at what I do and have written directly about what you pay for when you do a session with Me. LDW Group is the undisputed leader in the high end phone sex business, especially when you’re looking for a Femdom Mistress for cock tease and denial.

What this means to you

This means we have a network of sites that cater to your needs before, between and after your call.  Our CIA is here to help you — That means the Ladies on the Live Help Desk that we call your personal cock information agents (or, clitty information agents).

Before your session, please feel free to contact Me directly — My email is olivia AT enchantrixempire.com.  I answer all emails.  I encourage you to leave comments and questions on My blog, I answer every one with a thoughtful response.  If you’re having any difficulty getting My undivided attention, then please take a look at My sessions page to find out the best ways to talk with Me.  You’ll find various options and you can pick the one that works best for you.

Interaction is the difference here

I love to hear from you!  I will always answer you and, please know that the delays in answering you are due to the fact that I’m in high demand.  If you’re already one of My callers, then you know that *wink*.  I post tons of polls (where the real fun is in the comment section) on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. I think you’ll like the interaction just as much as I do!  It creates a sense of community overall and, specifically, a relationship with YOU!

Eddie1 says what the changes mean to him:  “I think the old style phone sex with just calling in and talking to someone doesn’t really work because it is basically devoid of the emotional attachment and is considerably unsatisfying. Will it get you there, sure it will, but then again you could get there without them. Once your call is done, you know she bounced off to another call and you are left with a dial tone, a feeling of remorse, a mess to clean up and lighter in the wallet.”

What’s different here

The LDW Group has a network of sites that give you options (for things other than a call).  For example, did you know that we have the phone sex library that is FULL of kinky fetish information!  We offer you tons of free cock teasing content.  And, we DO genuinely care about you!  Which you can see in all the Mistress interactions on Enchantrix Empire.

Here’s Eddie1 again:  “With the LDW style we develop genuine relationships, friendships and entire emotional connection with one or more of the mistresses that love, care and support us as an individual and not just as the customer of the minute. I have had several calls with Ms Catherine where we haven’t discuss anything remotely erotic. We discussed other things life issues, concerns of the day, even hobbies and music with which she freely offers her take on things and gives you a different perspective to consider.”

As always, comments, questions, thoughts and your personal stories are encouraged in the blog comments!

Ms Olivia

My schedule  (I have a vacation staring Oct. 27th) —  Best ways to get a session with Me.

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What is it about panties that makes such a tiny bit of fabric sooooooo ….. of all the words that come to mind, POWERFUL sums it up the best, doesn’t it? Talking about and teasing with the various panty styles is one of the keys to phone sex!

What is it for you?  What do YOU love about a great pair of panties?

The look?  The feel?  The way the little bits of lace and silky fabric make you YEARN?  Is it, perhaps, the way panties can bring you to your knees, quite literally in the form of male submission as the Femdom Mistress drives you crazy with cock teasing sensuality?

I asked about the power of panties in a poll and got a lively response from the folks in our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  The pantie poll results show …. wait for it …. panties are very popular!  ~laughs~  Okay!  No surprise there!  I like the overall poll results ‘data’ but MY favorite part of any poll (or blog) is always YOUR COMMENTS.  The comments were so great, I got inspired to write this post.

Power of the silky, sexy panty

Kel wrote an insightful comment after taking the time to look up the definition of fetish.  Here’s kel’s comment:

“Fetish (n) 1. an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.”

That’s the archaeological or sociological definition of course, and not the way it is used as much these days.

Anyway, it is amazing what influence a simple piece of cloth can have. And how that same exact piece of cloth would have no effect on someone not from our culture (or close to it). ”

I think everything is symbolic. Panties are just a very good demonstration and proof of that

I totally agree kel!  I’ve done posts on the use of panties as an Experienced Mistress.  Just because you like to be put in panties doesn’t mean you’re a crossdresser or a sissy. But lingerie is a powerful identifier for those who want to switch to en efemme crossdressing.   For example, a new member of the Enchantrix Empire page on Facebook is Tatjanalove who posted this about her love of a particular style of panty, the THONG!

Tatjanalove says:  “Just the feel of a nice thong between my cheeks takes me away from the prison of maleness into the wonderful world of femininity!”

Who doesn’t love a sexy thong?  Witness the photo *wink* that got your attention.  Oh yes, I can *work* a thong!  All this brings Me to the final point, a comment from candygurl and it made Me laugh out loud!

Candygurl:  “Panties are like a swiss army knife, so many uses from one tool.”

Tell Me about some memorable experiences you’ve had with sexy panties!  Post your comments here and then go take care of the wet spot!  *nods*  Gotcha!  ~kiss~

One final note, I’m on vacation for a week (you can check My schedule page) and will answer your comments and your ~ahem~ needs when I get back.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

Erotic humiliation is an art form.  It requires an Experienced Mistress who knows how to get inside your head and really make you squirm.  It’s a specific sexual kink that walks the fine line between pain and pleasure. My very special pet describes it as a ‘rollercoaster feeling.”  Phone sex is a fantastic way to find out if erotic humiliation arouses you.

What a phone sex caller has to say about erotic humiliation

pet describes the rollercoaster:  “The feelings are fear, anxiousness, once you’re going up the hill there are thoughts of “why am I doing this?  Am I crazy?”  But in the middle it’s fun and exciting. And, when it’s over, you’re glad you did it and want to do it again.  But, then it’s scary again.  Sometimes you look at the rollercoaster and chicken out a few times but if you’re really drawn to it eventually you’ll ride the ride.”

What happens during the RIDE of erotic humiliation?

Generally it’s participatory.  The Mistress has you do something that you wouldn’t ‘normally’ do.  (For Me, anything in public has to be legal, safe and sane.)  For example, there’s an amazing feeling (for Me and you) about making a man wear panties or dress in women’s clothing that goes beyond just the sensual pleasure of simply crossdressing as an erotic experience.  Dressing a man in panties is a very FUN way to inspire that rollercoaster feeling of erotic humiliation.  When this is done on cam with Me watching it becomes erotic public humiliation that is highly charged.

A caller describes his first roleplay call with me

I was very stern on this call (yes I have a sensual voice and can be very commanding with it).  He was on cam.  We’ve talked before in the Community Kink Adult Chat Room but we really had a chance to ‘connect’ on IM before the call itself.

He says he experienced, “… the rush of excitement when i had to slip those panties on in front of you when i was hard.  Hearing your laugh was just a feeling of ecstasy.  But i still couldn’t believe it — earlier I was called the handsome man wearing my guy clothes now here i am in front of a gorgeous woman in a pair of ladies panties then a dress.  The feeling is hard to describe  — it’s a mix of ecstasy, horniness, but complete humiliation and loss of control at the hands of your mistress.”

Part of the experience of erotic humiliation is when you are *ordered* or *made* to do something you find embarrassing.  One man recalls, “I remember the first time I had to tell the Victoria Secret salesgirl I was buying panties for myself but didn’t know what size I wore….. my stomach was in my throat, I was sweating and blushing, and my legs felt rubbery.  When I was doing it I was very excited.  Part of that was knowing that someone (Mistress!) was on the phone listening.  When I was done I was very happy. ”

He got hard just TELLING Me about his first experience with public humiliation.  Then I got a phone call and stopped IM-ing with him; he wrote to tell Me that he jerked off and shot a fantastic load of cum just from the memory.  That is how powerful this is for those who are attracted to the sexual kink.

Is this exciting to YOU?  I’d love to hear about your experiences.

Ms Olivia

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

You work hard for your money.  Why should you spend it on erotic conversations? You probably have access to a sexual partner in your real life and/or there’s certainly no limit to free porn on the internet.  So, why CALL someone for erotic fantasies?

Most of our callers are in a relationship where sex is ‘available’

According to MasturbatingIdiot’s poll on our adult networking site Enchantrix Empire …. the vast majority of people who come to our site are either married or in a committed relationship.  You can access the poll here if you’re already a member of EE.  If you’re not a member you can register for free and enjoy our kinky and interesting community.

Since approximately three quarters of you are in a relationship that presumably provides access to sex, why pay for a CALL about your erotic fantasies?  I was chatting on IM with someone recently who gave some insight.  I’m curious about what you think of all this so tell Me (blog comments or emails).

What one phone sex caller has to say:

“The phone sex experience is extremely important to me because it allows me to fulfill my immediate and some long term needs.  Let me explain.  I am happily married and have children but the phone sex experience allows me to have my fun and satisfy my needs when I have the time.  I’m able to venture outside of my vanilla world and connect with like minded individuals.”

It’s about MORE than just sex

Nothing wrong with sex….I love sex.  But a regular caller articulates some of the nuances that I love to explore on this blog.  This post about intimacy is just one example.

Freedom from hidden agendas

Another plus to phone sex is the candor!  A caller puts it like this:  “When I am able to talk with You and confide in you it builds trust between us which is important to me.   No hidden agendas,  no pretending;  just You and I exploring and pushing respected boundaries.  The call itself is not the most important thing for a great experience.  When You allow me to chat with you and not rush me for a call it shows me that you are interested in me and want to find out what drives me so you can provide all the necessary elements for a call.”

How to use IM to make sure we get to know one another

We have a new service that allows you to to talk directly with Ms Ally (the Head Mistress) and other Mistresses.  It’s called Live Help or Help My Cock.

You can also contact Me directly.  My YIM is:  empress . olivia @ yahoo.com.  I will talk with you before calls and between calls.  I’ve had IM conversations where I suggest another Mistress for Her voice / style or fantasy.  I’ve also had long conversations with people who say they have no money for a call or an erotic text session.  You don’t HAVE to spend money here … there are all kinds of fun things that are totally FREE.  Check out the variety of erotic websites at your fingertips.

Value of IM

I love to IM with you.  It establishes the connection before the session.  One caller put it this way:  “If You don’t chat with me prior to the call I move on to someone else.  Let’s face it times are tuff and I need someone who will want to understand my needs as well as someone who lets me understand her needs.”

Things to consider when you IM this Experienced Mistress

There are a couple things to note about IM-ing with Me.  When I am on a call or a text session I do NOT answer IMs … you wouldn’t want Me to be typing away with someone else when you call now would you?  *nods*  Of course not.  Also, I answer IMs when I am off the session.  I generally have 10 – 15 open IM conversations going at any given time.  I’m not ignoring you when there’s a delay in My answer … you know what to do if you want My undivided attention.

Wow, this got long!  I’ll close for now, after saying the answer to the original question:  Why pay for phone sex?  Because HERE you get more than your money’s worth!

Ms Olivia

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

How do YOU decide which phone sex Mistress to call?

Some callers, like the first time caller I mentioned earlier, will call the dispatch line and simply ask the Dispatcher to make a recommendation from the LDW Ladies who are available.

If you want to SEE who is logged in go directly to a page like cock control.  But, we all know that sometimes you aren’t able to access the actual site pages.  So, when that happens you can just call Dispatch at 1-800-601-6975 and ask who is available and/or ask for the Mistress of your choice.

How do you choose a Mistress?

Which Mistress is right for you?  You can tell a lot about personality and erotic style by what we write (bio pages or blogs) or through our free erotic audios.

You can read fetish specific bios and listen to audios on each site page … like this example of fantasies about men sucking cock.  Or, here’s another example, for men who like to dress in panties.  Or even something as specific as a Giantess fantasy.  There are so many choices!

Tell Me what you look for in a Mistress

I’ve just created a new poll on Enchantrix Empire asking members of our adult social networking site to vote on various ways they choose who to call.  If you’re not a member of EE then you can always post a comment here or send Me an email: olivia AT enchantrixempire.com or empress . olivia AT yahoo.com.

I’m always curious about what motivates people.  So, I’d like to get to know you a little better by asking this question.

So many interesting people

I meet amazing people through this *work* and within our kinky/intimate community.  The Mistresses are equally interesting.  You’ll find a diversity of passions and a wealth of experience (erotic and otherwise).  You can tell about many of My interests on Olivia’s Wish List …. lots of items that revolve around creativity and fun.

As I get answers to the poll, I’ll write posts.  Thanks in advance for taking your time to comment and/or vote!

Ms Olivia

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

How did you feel right before you made your first call to a phone sex service?

Nervous about calling a phone sex line

I talked with a first time caller recently.  He was a little nervous and shy.  He just wasn’t used to articulating what HE wanted sexually.  (It IS very different from the emotional trapdoors of dating!)  One of our amazing Dispatchers gently asked him some questions.  He wanted someone who specialized in erotic teasing and masturbation … someone who knew how to take control but wasn’t a “mean Mistress.”  The insightful Dispatcher sent him to this Experienced Mistress.

What was your first time experience?

I would love to hear from YOU.  I would like to know what it was like for you to make that very first phone sex call. How did you FEEL?  How did you finally make the decision to call?

More than just sex?

Why call a service specializing in cock control unless you’re looking for sex?  *giggle*  That might BRING you to Me, but there’s so much more we can do.  Many of you know that we here at LDW Group say we are the premier service for intelligent erotic conversations.  The Ladies who are on the other end of the phone line are specialists in CONVERSATION…..I particularly specialize in LISTENING to you and being fully present with you.  While your arousal might lead you to our family of kinky websites we want you to know that you can also just talk about anything on your mind and/or join in our community.  We have a variety of free ways to interact with us.  In the coming days I’ll highlight specific sites.

Getting back to the first timer.  He ENJOYED his time with Me.  I mentioned that as fantastic as that orgasm was (and it left him panting!) there are so many creative ways to use our intimate connection to really feel ALIVE … as a person and as a man.  After all, THE most erotic organ of the body is …. the BRAIN !

Ms Olivia

Erotic conversation, the intimate exchanges over something as mundane as what’s billed as a phone sex line, can lead to unusual relationships. I am open to exploring beyond the usual roles of caller and Mistress. All I ask of you is that you want to give Me. However that looks in each particular relationship. That can be a little or a lot.

Some callers have a particular fantasy that they want to experience in erotic roleplay and I excel at making your fantasy ‘real’ to you. Some callers have “secret” fantasies that they would never share or even want to experience in real life. I have callers that enjoy forced-bi and cuckold fantasies but those stories remain erotic fantasies filled with sexual charge but contained in the boundaries of a phone call to an Experienced Mistress.

Some callers are looking for a fantasy or relationship that evolves. As the evolution of our relationship happens, it can get to a point of, where do we go from here? When the relationship is based in the erotic fantasy, the answer is…anywhere we want to go. When that relationship includes conversations that involve real life topics for you or me, then it can get tricky. When individuals are dating there comes to a point where they need to ‘take the relationship to the next level’ … I’ve seen that happen here with certain callers so I want to take a moment to say something about that.

I don’t have many requirements or limits within the context of the phone call ….I am open to fantasy and sexual exploration. I have a curious mind and enjoy delving into the shadow side of your (and my own) kinky side. I have a great deal of respect for people who embrace their own sexuality however the actual expression might look to the vanilla world.

That said, the one thing that I do insist on is that you respect My boundaries. I don’t meet callers in real life. I don’t want to talk with your wife or girlfriend without HER consent. I also don’t involve others in what is a non-consensual call on their part. I have had people who try to push those limits. My boundaries don’t move and those who push me move on, or are gently (or not so gently) edged away. I’m not saying no, but meaning yes. No actually means no.

The ones who understand the limits of our relationship and don’t try to push my boundaries are generally delighted with the opportunity to open up into what can become a real and delicious intimacy, protected by the boundaries. You can tell Me things that perhaps you can’t tell others in your life. When I feel safe with you, I can be a safe harbor for you as well. I don’t feel safe with a caller who continues to push my boundaries. These boundaries are best for us both because we can explore as much intimacy as we like knowing that it won’t blow up either of our lives….or the lives of people involved with either of us.

For example, the curious sir who “reads too many blogs” (LOL), gives me a safe harbor to explore and experience myself along with your inquiry into who you know yourself to be. What an amazing cocoon-experience. THANK YOU so much for your consideration and respect. I treasure you.

All I ask of you — all of you — is everything you yearn to give honoring the appropriate boundaries of this environment. Delicious? Yes. Dangerous? No. This mutual acknowledgement and your respect for Me makes it best for all involved.

Olivia

1-800-601-6975
$2.50/min., 10 min. minimum, billed to your credit card.

Words and language.  Masculine energy/feminine energy.  Breath.  The whisper of the most intimate.  Erotic conversation with me can be so much more then what you may think of as phone sex, and the various implications of cock control for men, crossdressers and sissies alike.  This experienced Mistress so enjoys our masturbation sessions in all their glory.

It “can” be as simple as all that …. Or, it can go beyond into uncharted territory.  When we’re both on the same page, dancing in unison to some primal musical score … what becomes available is an intimacy that unfolds … it is tangible … very real although the nature of a phone sex call itself is in the realm of so-called fantasy.  For me, that sensual dance is much like what I appreciate about music.  To me, music can be both, ethereal and real.

Music triggers everything in me …All that I am comes to attention while the music swirls around, outside/inside, passion and possibility.  Whim and whimsy.   Hope and yearning.  Telling stories that touch me … Touching me in the place beyond words …. And, if you’ve called me, you know I love the intricacies available with language…so, to go beyond that place is …well, I have no words, which alone says a lot.

Sometimes a caller and I connect …. In the language of words, breath, and the delicious intimacy of like-minded curious personalities.  In those moments, your call and you begin to live as music in my very being …. Acoustic … soaring….funky Motown, tantric techno, swinginess of swing, complexity of the classics, music through the ages, luscious stories from musicals … beyond and yet encompassing all the different “types” of music …. Access to ALL, faith from beauty and truth … tone and rhythm pulsing, urgent and intense.  Your calls become music ….

And, in this New Year … I want you to know that I appreciate you in words I can’t even begin to say … it is from the place where we dance beyond words.

Olivia
1-800-601-6975

$2.50/min., 10 minute minimum, billed to your credit card.