BDsm and kink in pop culture

Lots of kink in pop culture Have you ever been watching a movie and go, “WOW, I just spotted a kink or fetish?”  I have. Quinten Tarantino has a foot fetish!  That’s just one example.  Oh sure, sometimes there is an obvious reference like in the movie 50 Shades...

Myths about finding real Dominance and submission

What is real Dominance and submission? Listen to me read you this blog post about MY Dominance and your submission. While phone sex is billed as a fantasy, the BDsm experience is very real.  This matters to you if you are a real submissive but you can’t go to...

Intimacy of strangers

Intimacy and the slave Listen to me read you this blog post about BDsm kink intimacy and erotic slavery. I had a VERY interesting conversation with a slave today. We started off talking about my recent blog post about the difference between a submissive and a slave....

Your submission: want OR need

How important is your submission to you? Listen to me talk to you about power exchange and submission. There are lots of people curious about fetish and power exchange.  Do you WANT to submit in a fun, casual kind of way or is your submission something that is...