Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do you YEARN to please your Mistress?  *nods*  I see that you do.  You literally ache to hear My approval, My sigh of pleasure in your willingness to submit to Mistress needs, wants and Desires.  This free erotic audio about Desire asks you some questions about your experience of sexual desire.

The Dance of submission

How do you know you are ready to submit or begin the journey of submission to this Experienced Mistress?  First, please know that submission comes in many flavors.  Here are some comments from one caller who talks about what it takes to be a submissive man to a Femdom woman.

There are so many things to explore when you begin to think about ways to Please Your Mistress.  You might know what you want or you might be in the exploration phase.

As we get to know one another, the relationship deepens.  I’ve known krissy for several years now and this crossdressing slave serves Me well.

One caller’s experience of Femdom Mistress Domination by phone:

“Oh , it is a feeling in the belly and it takes control of my body and soul.  Your dominance weakens me completely.  i get immediately aroused by seeing You or hearing You. When i see that You are online, it takes complete control of me, it is a weakness, an urge to be with You.  It takes control of my behavior.  my purpose to serve, knowing that i can serve a Lady like You, is good because i m slave towards dominance, Your dominance.”

The Theater of the Mind of phone sex is perfect for this exploration.  What is available?  Anything your and My mind can dream up!  We have LOTS of options as you can see in our erotic fetish stories and essays.

YOU have been so *pleasing* to us, LDW is giving you a GIFT or a free call during October.  It’s the Alphabet promo and you need to be a previous caller in order to take us up on the free call.

If you’d like that call to be with this Experienced Mistress, click on the Sessions page to hear all the ways you can get a session with Me.  Or, you can simply call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Me!  Read on for the details of the offer of a free phone sex call for YOU!

The Alphabet Promo! A Free call for all previous callers of LDW Group

Starting on October 6th and continuing through October 31st, each day we will post a “Letter of the Day” on The Daily Cock blog. If your last name starts with that letter, you get a free 10 minute call with the Mistress of your choice! You must be a previous caller of the service before the first letter in your last name is the “Letter of the Day” in order to take advantage of this promotion.

Now here’s the trick – you’ll have to visit The Daily Cock blog or your favorite Mistresses’ blogs to find out the letter of the day. Our lovely dispatchers will not be able to tell you the letter of the day, so you can’t call in and ask if it’s your day. You’ll need to tell the dispatcher that you’re calling in for the Letter of the Day promo in order to get your call.

The Letter of the Day will be posted right after Midnight Eastern Time each day, and you can call to claim your call anytime after that.

One note, I will be away the latter part of October.  Please check My schedule page for availability times, appointment options and vacation time scheduled.  For those of you ready to experience a session with Me please take a look at the new post about SESSIONS to find out the best ways for you to get My undivided and personalized attention via phone, skype or sexy texting.

As always, I’ll answer each blog comment in detail, so it’s always good to ask questions, post your comments and thoughts, here.   My new schedule has Me off on Thursdays.  I’ll be starting to post blog updates on regularly scheduled days, look for that announcement shortly.  Enjoy!

Ms Olivia

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Informatrix

I get lots of questions about all sorts of things.  Most issues are in the BDsm and sex fetish arena but I’m an Informatrix (new term from a caller of mine) — we can talk about anything your heart or your dick desires.  After all, it’s phone sex and it’s fun!  (Unless of course you want to be tormented and this Experienced Mistress can do that too! ~laughs~)

These IM chats are about real issues for real men.  So, there really isn’t anything too strange to ask.  There are no limits on what you ask; I’ll manage My end.

Free IM Chat Time

Now, I do have some boundaries about these free IM Chats.  First, if you want My undivided attention in private or ‘scene’ creation that IS a session.  Second, if I do one of these free IM Chats with you it is with the clear understanding that I will be posting it on My blog.  You ‘can’ change your mind at the end of the free chat and decide I can’t post our IM chat but don’t expect to get another free chat.    Finally, I don’t IM during a call or sexy texting session.  Within those limits you can ASK anything and you’ll get real consideration and a response.

This IM chat background

This IM chat is with a man who called as part of his exploration of BDsm and fetish.  He’s interesting to Me because he’s at the beginning of his fetish exploration journey.  He knew he enjoyed various elements of cock control (cock tease and denial) and wanted to find out more.  Our session was amazing and I thoroughly enjoyed it!  He IM’d with a question, here’s part of our chat.  There are other parts and those will follow.

Question about sex professionals

Man:  So bizarre question, or maybe not so, for you…for a “toe in the water” sensation play experience, am I better off in the hands of a sensual escort, or a regular playing amateur?

Ms Olivia:  PERFECT question for My blog.  Want to post it and I’ll answer there?

Man:  sure – will have to post tonight (at work now!)

Ms Olivia:  We can chat here if I can have permission from you to post this IM to My blog.  I do a lot of that and this is a perfect conversation for that.  As always, I’ll take off your IM and take out identifiers…….but, I’d like to post because I get this sort of question.

Man:  sure

Ms Olivia:  GREAT !   So……couple of questions first……Have you been to an escort before?

His escort experience

Man:  yes – more traditional/GFE (girlfriend experience) versions

Ms Olivia:  *nods*   Another question…..did you want to have sex with the escort after play?

Man:  yes

Ms Olivia:  So, double check the laws in your state.  In most (with the exception notably in NV) paying for sex is illegal.  Be aware of possible risks, etc. that you take.  I, obviously, recommend that you stay within the legal limits wherever you are.  THAT said, here’s a difference between Pro Dommes and escorts.

Man:  ok

Pro Domme versus escort

Ms Olivia:  Pro Dommes are primarily into sensation play, Domination/submission, pain play, etc.  They generally do NOT engage in any sex during or after the session.  Escorts on the other hand, know that sex is more than likely part of the deal.  Escorts generally KNOW about BDsm (fetish fashions, play, etc. is part of our pop culture).  If the escort is good at what she does she’s familiar with BDsm in a provider sense and most likely is at various levels of skill with that.  If they are skilled enough they generally become Pro Dommes and leave the escort business.  Skill level often decreases the actual opportunity for sex for you in a paid setting.  LOL  Makes sense?

Fetish doesn’t mean sex

Man:  Yes it does. I think that’s an interesting distinction – dommes are in it for the role, not the sex…I didn’t think of it that way.

Ms Olivia:  *nods*  Exactly……

Man:  on MY end of it, they are linked, but on their end, they are not

Ms Olivia:  I know one man who is on IM right now who went to a strict Domme and a sensual Domme.  Both did paddling and sensation play.  Let Me check with him to see if the sensual one had sex after the play and paddling.

Man:  lol ok

Ms Olivia:  He might have stepped away from his computer…..he’ll back back and if we’re still texting, I’ll get your answer from him.  MY experience is that there are different advantages to all THREE categories depending on what you’re looking for.

Man:  Three?

Ms Olivia:  Sure, Pro Domme, escort (still paid professional) and amateur.

Man:  So the follow up question/post is..what sort of questions can/should I ask to ensure I’m getting the right experience from a Pro Domme or escort?

Ms Olivia:  GREAT folo.  Just a sec the other guy is writing back.

Man:  ok

Another man shares his real life experience

Ms Olivia:  Here’s what he wrote:  “More like an escort doing domme stuff, but in a way that was fine.  I was just happy to find someone to do the kinky stuff, and I had the feeling she enjoyed it.  She didn’t seem inexperienced or awkward at it  was sort of like the fun people at a play party.”

Man:  gotcha..so for his end (which sounds similar to mine) might be best for an escort with a domme/sensation play side

Ms Olivia:  *nods*  Yes because a Pro Domme doesn’t do the sex part……although things are usually negotiable and you can always ask.

( …. to be continued ….)

Preview of cumming attractions

This was a long IM chat so I’m posting it as a series.  The next couple of days will bring an exchange about professional sex versus fetish play with an amateur.  There are different advantages to both.  As always I appreciate your comments and questions.  I’d like to begin the conversation about making a distinction between someone who is paid for sex and someone who isn’t.  When you pay for something there’s a different dynamic.  That’s not automatically bad OR good.  Being a customer gives you different options (and benefits) then you get as a romantic partner.  I find that the ‘trouble’ starts when the paid and unpaid distinctions get blurred.  For example, I don’t mind at all when I phone sex caller abruptly hangs up right after orgasm but I sure don’t suggest you do that with a real live woman you’re in an intimate relationship with!  ~laughs~

Ms Olivia

How is it possible that I can feel you in my blood, the very cells of my body? Sometimes a caller can really ‘get’ to me. I know that we’re distant …. Linked by the soft voices on the phone …. But you get under my skin, twining inside my senses…curious, urgent, passionate…exploring. I find out things about myself that I didn’t know; desires in me I didn’t know that I didn’t know.

Power Exchange

Such is the case with my current exploration of Power with a very interesting caller …. We are both in the visceral inquiry of Domination and submission. If you’ve been reading my blog, you might have noticed that I write a lot about Power Exchange and the “interesting” sensual phone sex experiences available when we engage in Power Exchange. This particular exploration is most assuredly beyond the ‘norm’ of where we started with a more ‘expected’ session involving cock control.

Delicious Deisre

Of course, I want to get under your….ummmm…skin. It is the deliciousness of desire. And, sometimes, you get inside me. It is delightful to experience what you tell me about how I get under your skin. This is what I want to bring to your life … the fulfillment of (perhaps) forbidden fantasies … exploration of your sensual boundaries …. The intense release of pent up sexual energy. I think of myself as a facilitator of sorts. Maybe it’s a type of therapy…lol…therapy with a ‘happy’ ending!

Intimacy

And, as that facilitator, the intimate moments we share are, of course, about you. Still sometimes it does become about me. And, I (also) ride the wave of erotic energy and then tip over, falling into my own orgasm listening to you as we both experience sensual masturbation sessions. You …. Stroking for me … Me, touching myself with you. Delicious. Delightful. Thank you!

Olivia