Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I’m curious about you!  That’s one of the many reasons why I love to talk with you.  I’m naturally curious.

Difference between curious and intrusive

I often write about privacy issues and phone sex and we have a detailed privacy policy.

I like getting to know as much about you as you’d like to share with Me.  One of the questions I like to ask you when you call Me for your phone sex session is:  “What position are you in?”

My masturbation position

I will often masturbate on My stomach with My elbows propped on a pillow.  As an Experienced Mistress, one of the ways I dominate you is by controlling what your masturbation position.  After all, that’s what a Femdom does, She is a woman who sexually dominates a man.  I’ll often ask you, “What are your favorite positions?”

Masturbating while laying on your bed.

It’s so comfortable when you can lay down and masturbate.  Most men lay down on their back.  This allows the cock to stick straight up.  It’s a great position for easy access to cock and balls and great for an erotic roleplay call when the call is more about the mental images then simply cock stroking techniques.

You might be one of the guys who likes to be on your stomach grinding your penis into the bed. For men who like to wear panties, laying on the stomach is amazing because your penis rubs against the pantie fabric in the most delightful way!

Of course, if you’re a sissy crossdresser, you might be prancing around, fully dressed in your sluttiest attire!

Many men like to masturbate while sitting in a chair.

If you’re in your office, chances are you’re sitting in a chair to stroke.  I’ve noticed that men also tend to sit down for guided masturbation sessions.  When you’re sitting you can be right at the computer to look at My sexy photos *wink*!

Whatever position, masturbating is more fun with company

If you already have favorite positions or want to try some new ones, it’s always more fun to masturbate with this Experienced Mistress!  I might just masturbate with you!  Now, that’s a win-win situation, isn’t it?

So, tell Me, what are some of YOUR favorite positions when you masturbate?

Ms Olivia

My Current Schedule —— How to get a session

HUGE reaction to the Super Hero’s and fetish post   Thank you!  I love all your comments and our conversations. I learn something new each day and I don’t just mean about all the creative ways to cause you sensual torment!  For example, I had a delightful conversation with Ms Lauren about how her erotic roleplays are inspired by comic geekiness!  Who knew?  ~laughs~

Now, I could easily see the fetish images in the costumes.  In fact, I could just imagine the whips and ropes being used for some serious cock control!  I love the thigh high boots and immediately think of My favorite foot fetish calls!  Those larger than life breasts are fodder for many a crossdressing sissy slut call!

One of My favorite lines came from magnus:  ” … the tvtropes site calls the ability for those buxom superheroines to squeeze into their tight costumes as the most common superpower. I rather like that. A lot.”

~laughs~  We ALL do, magnus My kinky friend!  I don’t think coffeeboy has YET recovered from the phrase sexy women in latex!

Fetish and classic archetypes of the epic journey

For all the fun and frolic, there are some classic themes here.  Wellspanked had a fantastic point:  “I think one of the biggest attractions for super heros is confidence. One common theme often used in comics is where the hero is struggling and it’s usually that they are doubting themself. It’s not until they gain some insight, or get inspired in some way that they get past the insecurity and win. So it relates to real people and real world challenges. If you doubt yourself and your abilities you struggle, no matter what they are. But if you have confidence and determination you can overcome anything. And I’ll add that for most people confidence is a big turn on (as long as it’s not arrogance).”

Playful confidence is sexy

I totally agree wellspanked that arrogance is not sexy.  Mark describes the conversations as banter, and compares it to what we do in the fetish play.  I never thought of that!  But, I love it.

Here’s what Mark pointed out,  ” … both of these super worlds seem to be full of a back and forth banter that is unmatched anywhere else on the planet. hero-villian-mistress-sub all have their roles… their fun exciting outfitted banter-filled roles with endless imagination.”

Speaking of banter….have I told you recently that these types of conversations and our banter is one of the things I most enjoy and the main reason I’ve made phone sex My career?  True!

This is from Hooterville Hank.  I HAD to post it in it’s entirety!

“They all got to be totally kinky. When I’m not having disturbing thoughts about Judy Jetson, I wonder what the kinks of the superheroes really are.

The Punisher (Marvel) Obvious male dom. Into impact play.  Probably not a switch.

Aquaman (DC Comics) Obvious watersports fetish.

Captain Commando (Japanese Comics) Not wearing underwear is a superpower?

Elongated Man (DC Comics) It is if you’re named Elongated Man.

Speedy (DC Comics) Surprisingly not as popular with the female superheroes as Elongated Man.

Blade (Marvel) Knife Play.

Big Bertha (Marvel Comics) BBW fetish.

Gravity Girl Amazing breasts at age 84.

Icemaiden (DC Comics) Super power is having the most kick ass divorce lawyer in Hooterville. Totally into financial domination. Totally. DO NOT be late with the alimony payment. Just saying.

Owlwoman (DC Comics) Who knows what her secret fetish is? I said who…oh never mind.

Crimson Curse (Marvel Comics) Some crazy “that time of the month” fetish. No one seems to be in a hurry to have this be the next superhero to be adapted for the big screen. And certainly not in 3D.

She-Thing (Marvel Comics) Shemale fetish. Momentarily stuns villains by whipping out the She Thing when they least expect it. Actually would like to see this one on the big screen and most definitely in 3D.

3D Man (Marvel) Nobody knows what his fetish is but he charges $3 extra for you to see it.

Freakshow (Marvel) Yeah… he’s definitely calling in on the taboo line.

Maggott (Marvel) You’re a superhero and you call yourself Maggot? Here you go buddy…http://www.phonehumiliation.com/

Feedback (Marvel) Filling out comment cards is a superpower?

Iron Fist (Marvel)  Not my kink but it works for a lot of people.  Start slowly for best results.

Once again, after reading that, I’m laughing so I’ll close it here.  Kisses, pinches and swats to you ALL!

Ms Olivia

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I enjoy getting to know you!  I love your comments on My blog and I always respond to each comment.  When I’m logged in I’m available for IM conversations.  (NOTE:  I don’t IM while I’m in a session).

I write a lot about the importance of communication in any relationship and phone sex is no exception.  Here is an IM conversation I had with a man new to phone sex and new to the joys of tease and denial.  I’m including it in it’s entirety (posted with his permission).  Bold headers are My addition.

New YIM window pops up with a friend request

New Guy: Thanks Olivia xx

empress.olivia:  Hi there!

New Guy: Hey how are you?

empress.olivia: I’m great and you?

New Guy: Hmmm….frustrated, lol
New Guy: Found the site yesterday and need to decide on the right Mistress for me.

empress.olivia: Welcome !

He’s new to tease and denial

New Guy: Never heard of self denial before then.

empress.olivia: OH !  Is that why you’re frustrated?  ~giggle~

New Guy: In a good way though
New Guy: i enjoy erotic literature and found a story on tease and denial which eventually led me here
New Guy: So I have been ‘practising’ since yesterday.

empress.olivia: That’s great!  WE are the experts.  Or, I should say … sexperts!  LOL

New Guy: I can see that
New Guy: So much content on the site
New Guy: and all the girls are so beautiful

empress.olivia: Have you seen My blog?  You can hear My voice on the audios page.

New Guy: I am looking at it right now

empress.olivia: fantastic !

New Guy: Yes it is!
New Guy: May I be a naughty little boy and ask what age you are?

empress.olivia: sure!  I’m 42.  Did you listen to my voice?

New Guy: wow….I do like a slightly more mature lady
New Guy: I did…you sound lovely

empress.olivia: Thank you!

New Guy: You are most welcome

He’s a new caller and wants to know how long to talk

New Guy: How long would you recommend for a first time caller?

empress.olivia: I actually did a couple of blog posts about first time callers and also choosing the right Mistress.

New Guy: Oh…should be an interesting read

empress.olivia: But, I can talk with you here about it if you like.

New Guy: I would like that

empress.olivia: I know a lot of people have similar questions/issues.  Can I take your IM name off and use this conversation on My blog?

New Guy: Of course

empress.olivia: Thank you!  And, I’m VERY VERY VERY protective if your privacy so if there’s a question you don’t want me to post, just say the word and I’ll take that out.

New Guy: I’m not shy

empress.olivia: ~~ laughs ~~~
empress.olivia: GOOD !
empress.olivia: So, what questions do you have?

How long should a first session be?

New Guy: Well firstly I am very new to cock control and would like to know how long a ‘break in’ session should last.

empress.olivia: One thing to tell you quickly is that I’ve been away for several days……..and the phone is likely to light up.   You’ve got me until it does……I don’t IM when I’m in a session.  But, I’ll come back to IM after the session until the next session.

New Guy: No worries….I will need to leave in a short while too

empress.olivia:  Great, thanks!  Okay, first session……it totally depends on you.  Have you done phone sex before?

New Guy: Sadly not

He’s also new to phone sex in general

empress.olivia:  Oh!  You’re in for a new treat.  It’s AMAZING !

New Guy: it sounds like it is amazing

empress.olivia: Yes! Phone sex is masturbation with a kick!  After all, you’re on the phone with the Experienced Mistress……. it can’t be anything BUT amazing ! LOL  The first call can be anything from 10 minutes (the minimum)  to hours…… we can talk about anything !

What to do before the first call

New Guy: Should I ‘practice’ alone before making a tease and denial call?

empress.olivia: hmmmmmm … that’s an option……..and, again, it’s totally up to you.  For many men….the thrill of tease and denial is, in part, DOING the denial and the stroking FOR someone.  And, in this case the someone is the Mistress.

New Guy: The Mistress having control of when is a thrilling thought

empress.olivia: PLUS, you have the Mistress with you…….guiding you…….telling you what to do and when.  It’s like a personal trainer at the gym.  LOL  The trainer knows more and can GET more from you than you think you can do.

New Guy: I want to come to your gym!

empress.olivia: You TOTALLY do…..LOL…….My personal trainer is smokin’ hot !

What about erotic roleplay?

New Guy: What about roleplaying? What sort of roles do you perform for a tease and denial session?

empress.olivia: Roleplay scenes again will totally depend on you. All aspects of Power Exchange are so sexually charged.  Power Exchange is where one person is “more powerful” than the other.  It can be a kind of bait and swtich…..like you’re my boss but then I turn the tables on you and become the boss of your orgasms and therefore YOU.  You can apply the same concept to anyone in a situation where one inherently has more ‘authority’ over the other.

What is off limits?

New Guy:  Is there anything that you will NOT perform?

empress.olivia: Really anything goes in roleplay.  What I don’t do are the things that We at LDW, don’t do.   Did you have something specific that you’re asking about?

New Guy: Not really…just curiosity
New Guy: all new to me

empress.olivia: I don’t get the sense that you’ll need to worry about those limits.  Sometimes a tease and denial session can start off with guided masturbation.  That’s where I tell you how to stroke.  What to do…..how to do it.

New Guy: That is something I have enjoyed, however not a 1-2-1 basis, I have looked at videos

empress.olivia: That’s great!  Sometimes a caller knows exactly what he wants.  Sometimes, like you, he is new. Maybe new to LDW or new to phone sex in general.  The exploration is half the fun, isn’t it?  This is like you’ve just now wandered into the hottest new restaurant and I’m explaining the specials on the menu!

New Guy: I have to tell you the thought alone is very arousing

empress.olivia: *nods* oh YES !  By the way, I’m not getting explicit here because I don’t have age verification for you.

New Guy: I understand

empress.olivia:  Thank you for understanding!

What goes on during the session?

empress.olivia:  Everything can and does get very explicit during a session.  One interesting thing is that someone might call for a ‘sex call’ but then end up asking about all sorts of questions about sex/sexuality/relationship issues.  Sometimes we end up talking and connecting about all sorts of non-sexual things.  No matter the topic, this is one of the rare places where you will be fully HEARD.  You have My undivded attention in a session.

New Guy: So many avenues to explore!

empress.olivia: *nods*

Finding the right Mistress

New Guy: and I am enjoying trying to find the right Mistress and trying to decide exactly what I want

empress.olivia: PERFECT !  Now, My suggestion is don’t worry too too much about finding the PERFECT MISTRESS right away….. or on the first call…… or even STAYING with only one Mistress.  We have an unconditional quality guarantee.  There’s a 10 minute minimum for all calls, but if you know in the first couple of minutes that you’re not *clicking* with the Lady, don’t be shy, simply say, ‘thank you for your time, please send me back to the dispatcher.’  This will NOT offend us.  We want you HAPPY!  The Mistress will hang up and you’ll automatically go back to dispatch.  You won’t be charged for that call and dispatch will work with you to get you a better fit. That’s where this is unlike DATING …. LOL … you don’t have to worry about getting away from someone you don’t like AND all this comes with the LDW quality guarantee.  Does that make sense?

New Guy: I read the quality guarantee and it makes perfect sense.

empress.olivia: FANTASTIC !  Even if you find a Mistress that you adore….I, for one, always encourage a variety of experiences !  I even recommend Mistresses. For example I don’t work late nights and I have women that I recommend depending on what you want.

New Guy: Right now I just cannot wait for my first!

How to talk about tease and denial with your Mistress

empress.olivia: LOL, I understand!  Wanted to give you a heads up about tease and denial.  Be sure to tell the Mistress if you want to cum at the end of the session.  If you tell her you want to be denied She WILL, no matter how much you beg!  If you leave your orgasm up to the Mistress, you might get to cum but then again, you might not!   ALWAYS make sure to talk with your Mistress about what you want.  Are you at work now?

New Guy: I am at home but need to head to work soon
New Guy: So I will still be in ‘denial’ for a while
New Guy: I have read quite extensively on the site… I have been edging since last night!

empress.olivia: I bet you work HARD today!  LOL

New Guy: I hope I don’t get aroused at work!
New Guy: My biggest fear is all the tension thats been building gives me a constant erection!

empress.olivia: *wink*  Sometimes fear is FUN !  It’s tapping into the whole roller coaster of emotions thing.

New Guy: I kind of would like to hold it unitl I make my first call
New Guy: It does seem a much more exhilarating experience than just having a quick wank

empress.olivia: It IS a totally *different* experience because you’ve been doing the wank for years, right?  LOL

New Guy: Yes

empress.olivia: So this adds something totally NEW and exciting

New Guy: So difficult though!

empress.olivia: Isn’t the newness and the difficulty half the FUN !?

New Guy: It really is!

empress.olivia: Let Me also mention that we have ‘Cocksperts” on the Live Help Desk. I answer IMs and many of the Ladies answer IMs between calls.    BUT, but if you’re trying to IM with a Mistress and She doesnt answer then you can go to the live help desk @ www.helpmycock.com for immediate ….. ahem …. assistance!

New Guy: It’s such a well run site

empress.olivia: *Nods*  Oh yes.  We’re a well-oiled ‘machine’  LOL …. we love the lube!  ~laughs~

empress.olivia: I’m getting a call…..so I’m going to let you go. Glad you stopped in!  Have fun on My blog.  There are LOTS of ideas, etc.

New Guy: So am I…need to go get some ice on it before work now!

Later

New Guy: Hello again You being kept busy?

empress.olivia: LOL always but I’m not on the phone right now.

New Guy: OK…Hate to interupt xx

empress.olivia: THANK YOU btw, for being understanding that I don’t IM while I’m on the phone or in a texting session.  I appreciate your patience.  I always check IMs when I’m out of the session.  Don’t worry about interrupting; when I’m in a session I don’t respond.  You can always send an IM and I’ll answer asap.  I really like IM conversations.  Did you have more questions?

New Guy: Sorry, I logged off as I am in work…..No more questions yet xx

empress.olivia: no problem !

New Guy: Goodnight you stunning lady….and a million thanks for taking some time to talk to me today xx

empress.olivia: Sure thing!  My pleasure!  I’m glad you wrote and have FUN exploring the erotic world of phone sex!