Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Tease and denial masturbation

Do you love the feeling of cock stroking and edging?  I really love tease and denial sessions.  This type of phone sex is so erotic for us both!  You get to feel all those amazing sensations and I get to listen to you gasp and moan as you stroke to delayed orgasm.

Are you ready for tease and denial?

I return tomorrow from several days off.  Are you ready?  How do you know you’re ready for the ultimate tease and denial session from a Mistress?  Here’s how.  You know you want to cum at the end of the call but you want the build up. You know you want *more* then what you currently experience with the way you masturbate solo.

Role of a Mistress

Imagine when you are right on the edge of orgasm.  It’s HARD to stop, isn’t it?  The orgasm is calling you over the edge and that siren song feels so good you follow.  BUT …. what if you can experience the music of the siren’s song for longer than you currently do?  When you are edging before your final explosive orgasm it usually helps to have someone like this Experienced Mistress to tell you, “Take your hand OFF your cock.  Do NOT cum yet.”

Mistress guides your cock edging

Think of Me as a personal trainer … a cock trainer! ~laughs~  When I get to know you, I can *tell* when you’re going to go over that edge and My voice can help you stay just *this* side of your orgasm.  That means that the peak sensations of arousal last so much longer!

So…..are you ready to experience the ultimate in orgasm edging? ~smile~

Ms Olivia

My Schedule (returning Saturday Nov. 12th) — Ways to talk with Me

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Where does your erotic fetish start?

Some people are adventurous and come to fetish sex by being open to erotic adventures.  Others, have the seeds of their fetish fantasies planted years ago by some seminal (pun intended) event or person.

I’ll be away for a couple days this week during the times I’m normally here for you.  I will be here today though (*wink*) if you’d like to call right away.  Here’s My schedule for you to plan your call.  If you can’t catch Me today, I wanted to leave you with something to think about.

What is a fetish?

A fetish is *something* that has power over you.  For example, it can be an object that has *supernatural powers*.  I’ve done numerous blog posts about the power of panties.  Realistically, it’s just bits of lacy fabric and elastic, but they are so alluring to you there’s a real sense of amazing powers of sexy panties.

Where does a sex fetish start?

I’m always curious about your erotic life.  What you think about, why you think about that thing and not something else, etc.  As the Experienced Mistress, I know that knowledge is power.  Any cock control Mistress can tell you that!  I use what you tell Me to create the most amazing phone sex experience for you.  Your session is so great that your phone sex fun is guaranteed!

Where his sexy panties fetish began

I’m always thrilled when you let Me post your comments!  Here’s one example from our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.

Panteezd says: “As a young man I was teased by a very sexy blonde (like you!) who wore her skirts a little shorter than perhaps was going to stop the boys from looking, or at least trying to look up her skirt.
She purposely would reveal her panties to me making me extremely excited and then would point out my enormous erection when she discretely had the opportunity (not in front of others).
She did this many afternoons and it seems to have left me with an enormous desire to be teased even though I’ve never had any problem meeting woman and having mutually pleasurable relationships.
I still crave that erotic teasing power she had over me and denial and teasing gives me sooo much pleasure more so than straight sex.”

Thank you panteezd for your comments!  Now, I’d like to hear from you!  Where and how did your kinky sex fantasies start?  ((Please just say ‘younger years’ instead of naming the age.))  As always, please post your comments, questions and anything else you’d like to say.  I’ll approve and respond to your comments!  I always learn and get inspired from YOU — so, happy typing

Ms Olivia

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Do you have sexual fantasies about eating your own cum, tasting cum or cum spurting out of a cock?  You are not alone!  This is one of the most intense erotic desires of all the kinks. This Experienced Mistress is an expert at seducing, coercing and encouraging you to eat your own cum.

Your desires are unique.

You are unique.  That means the expression of your sexual desire is unique.  The arc of your arousal is distinct to you.  This Experienced Mistress finds out about you and then creates an arousal arc that touches all of your sexual buttons.

Not all cum eaters are the same

It is important that your Femdom Mistress knows YOU.  That allows Me to use My creativity to pace your phone sex session in the best way for you.  There is a very big difference between the sissy slut who gobbles cum for Mistress and someone who is into the rush of erotic humiliation when Mistress says, “Eat your own cum, NOW!”

What do you do when you have a sort of nameless urge and desire?  Then, it’s time to turn to the Experienced Mistress.  You urges become so much more satisfying when you have an experienced cum coach to guide you, encourage you and show you all that you know you want.

Again, it’s ALL about you as an individual:

Man:  Over the last couple of years I’ve developed this fascination with eating my own cum…. All the stuff on the internet is degrading and the talk nasty which turns me off. Its an embarrassing fetish but I think if the right person can talk me through it I may do it. Enjoy dirty sweet talk and someone encouraging me to do it.

Are you ready to be encouraged?  Are you ready to explore?  ~smiles~  Ahhhhh, I think you are ready.  Aren’t you?

Ms Olivia

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Are you looking for a beautiful Femdom Mistress?

If you’re like most people, you have a general idea of what you want.  And, like most people, you know you’ve found what you’ve been looking for WHEN you find it.  BUT — What do you do during the in between time — of having an idea and then taking action to get what you want.

Tim writes:  “I must tell you that I, in fact, thoroughly enjoy phone sex (perhaps a bit to much! lol) and although I have only experimented with the Domme/sub phone session, it is only because I have an idea of what I would like and what direction I would want to head in, and so far I have not found just what I am looking for. I do think that winding up here at EE was no accident, especially after our brief, yet detailed correspondence.

I have no doubt in my mind that I am destined to submit, and I look forward to that time.”

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Fetish exploration with phone sex

Phone sex is a wonderful way to explore all sorts of kinky desires.  You might be curious about this whole area of fetish sex.  Or, you might be like Tim, armed with a general idea and an internet search engine.  Let’s start with the basics.

Sensual or Strict

One of the most common questions I hear is this:  “Are you a sensual or strict Mistress?”  I always answer, “Both!”  but I can *be* either style exclusively.

Here’s what most men like: first, the sensual tease and then the *torment* of your submission begins.  So, the sensual beginning will be lots of cock tease and denial and then I move to a more strict and stern tone (for those who want strict).  Very few callers want the mean bitch off the top (so to speak).  Personally, I like to combine both tones all the way through the session, because you thrill to the sensuality after a stern command.

Communication

It’s important that we communicate but that doesn’t mean you have to know what you want or even do lots of talking.  I am an expert communicator and I use all those skills to gently peel away the layers of your psyche.  I find out what you know you want and then go deeper … delving into your most secret desires.  This can be as ‘simple’ as being your masturbation manager or as complex as detailed role plays.

Unique experience

There is something that happens when the two of us combine and entwine together.  This ‘something’ is larger then even the sum of us both as individuals.  And, that something really is amazing and memorable as you can hear in this free erotic audio.

Are you ready to experience the thrill ride of male submission where each moment is as unique as you are?  If you know you’d like to try this, please give Me a call.

When you’re not sure, then it’s time to keep doing research.  I have every confidence you will find the exactly want you want.  Please post your comments and questions here, I’m happy to be on this journey of exploration with you!

Ms Olivia

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Olivia 1-800-601-6975

One of the main concerns of any caller to a phone sex line is this:  “Will the woman I call understand my fantasy?”  It’s horrible to be aroused and then have the voice on the other end of the phone say or do something that takes you out of your fantasy.  Let’s talk about that today.

How to pick the right Mistress

Even if you’re new to phone sex, you will want to experience this with the woman who is right for you.  If you’ve called other phone sex companies, we’re sure you’ll be pleasantly surprised when you call us.  Our Mistresses are successful women who are creative and articulate in all the fantasy areas we offer.  Here’s a post about what others say about how to choose the right Mistress.

My background

I’m a former journalist and have been in communications My entire professional life.  This career in erotic entertainment is an extension of what I’ve been doing all My life!  I use active listening techniques combined with subtle interviewing to make sure I *get* your individualized expression of your kinky fetish or erotic needs.  As a network of erotic sites, we have a wealth of information about all sorts of fun fetish ideas.  And, we take the subtleties of your erotic needs seriously as you can see in these essays about various forms of crossdressing.

Experienced Mistress

I really AM the Experienced Mistress.  I am a *fetish player* in real life.  My personal relationship is with a sexually submissive man who loves erotic humiliation.  As a photographer, I got to know and adore men who like to cross dress.  I understand the difference between a crossdresser and a sissy.  I understand there are nuances and each person, each fantasy, is DIFFERENT!  I love those nuances and finding out what makes you *tick*.

We communicate before the session

I welcome your emails with details about what you want, your questions for Me and anything else on your mind.  One note, I’m in demand and therefore increasingly unable to give you blocks of time in IM before your session.  Many of you are in the midst of the IM “warm up” and I’m whisked away by a caller who gets Me before you.  I’ve posted what this means to you and how to best communicate with Me on My sessions page.  I don’t want to limit your ability to communicate with Me outside of sessions but please know that this is My livelihood and I will take the sessions in first come, first served basis.

Live Help Desk for immediate assistance

We have a Live Help Desk staffed by lovely Mistresses who can help you find the perfect Mistress for you.  I am usually one of the Mistresses who will be recommended for you if you say you want to do your session during My schedule of availability.

I communicate a lot with Ms Molly on Live Help.  Here’s a specific instance of how we work together to make sure you are FULLY satisfied!  *wink*

Ms Molly:  I’m proud every day of our service! One instance in particular was YESTERDAY–you know who I’m talking about, too!  We had a gentleman who was feeling pretty bummed, and was convinced that no one would be able to ever quite get his fantasy.  I was able to convince him to give our lovely, lovely Olivia the opportunity to listen to what he had in mind.

He fell in love with your look and your voice, but he was still feeling uneasy.  I promised him (and I don’t break promises) but he was still rather worried.  I GUARANTEED that he would enjoy himself with you.

Ms Olivia:  Awww…you know I always take care of the guys you send to me!  He did send Me an email to make sure I knew what he wanted.  He was still a little nervous, but YOUR IM with him made all the difference in the world.  I can understand that they’re horny for something specific and it’s such a letdown if the woman you’re talking with doesn’t ‘get it.’  That’s why Live Help is SO GREAT for all of us!  Then, he’ll only have blue balls if he wants them!

Ms Molly:  lol!!!  I told him to e-mail you.  He didn’t even realize he could!

Have you talked with our lovely Ladies on Live Help?  They’re GREAT!  Also, please feel free to send Me emails before your session to make sure you’re comfortable making that call.  What are some of your comments and questions?

Ms Olivia

My schedule —– How to get a session

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Your sexual fantasies are deeply intimate.  It takes trust to bring another person in and tell that person what turns you on.  You open yourself up in so many ways.  Yes, it’s scary!  I know that so I want to talk with you about trust.

trust and phone sex

There are two key areas of trust when you’re considering calling for an erotic conversation.  One question you should ask yourself is:  How will the phone sex company handle private billing information?  The other main issue is:  Can I trust the person I talk with to really understand me?  I’m going to start with the non-sexy part.

Your private billing information

We take your privacy very seriously!  I do NOT get your private billing information.  I don’t even know your full name, I don’t have access to your location or your credit card information.  Anything you would like to tell Me (with the exception of your credit card information) I will hear and hold it in the strictest confidence.

Here’s what the owner, Ms Ally, promises:

Our billing procedures and data handling processes are PCI Compliant. What this means for you, is: we have designed our processes to comply with the Payment Card Industry’s stringent standards for secure credit card processing, which are designed to minimize theft and instances of security compromise. We have benefitted from extensive consultations with security professionals to make our processes as secure as they can possibly be.

In addition, in 2005, we assumed the expense of changing our call distribution system to limit, as much as possible, the number of individuals within the company who have access to your billing information. Even as owner of the company, I cannot see your full billing information once it’s entered into our system – all information is encrypted and unviewable by anyone, from the dispatchers to me, the Company Owner.

Will She understand My fantasy?

We know you want the perfect Mistress for you.  We offer you our Live Help Desk where you can go for any questions you have.  My schedule has Me working closely with Ms Molly, who describes herself as the CIA of LDW.  In this instance, CIA means Cock Information Analyst or, if you’re a crossdresser then it’s Clitty Information Analyst!

The next post will be details about how the Live Help Desk and I work with you to make sure your experience is AMAZING!  More on that in the next posts and by the way, have you noticed?  I’m now posting blogs on a regular schedule — Look for new posts every Tuesday, Friday and Sunday.

Ms Olivia

My Current Schedule —- How to get a session

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I’m curious about you!  That’s one of the many reasons why I love to talk with you.  I’m naturally curious.

Difference between curious and intrusive

I often write about privacy issues and phone sex and we have a detailed privacy policy.

I like getting to know as much about you as you’d like to share with Me.  One of the questions I like to ask you when you call Me for your phone sex session is:  “What position are you in?”

My masturbation position

I will often masturbate on My stomach with My elbows propped on a pillow.  As an Experienced Mistress, one of the ways I dominate you is by controlling what your masturbation position.  After all, that’s what a Femdom does, She is a woman who sexually dominates a man.  I’ll often ask you, “What are your favorite positions?”

Masturbating while laying on your bed.

It’s so comfortable when you can lay down and masturbate.  Most men lay down on their back.  This allows the cock to stick straight up.  It’s a great position for easy access to cock and balls and great for an erotic roleplay call when the call is more about the mental images then simply cock stroking techniques.

You might be one of the guys who likes to be on your stomach grinding your penis into the bed. For men who like to wear panties, laying on the stomach is amazing because your penis rubs against the pantie fabric in the most delightful way!

Of course, if you’re a sissy crossdresser, you might be prancing around, fully dressed in your sluttiest attire!

Many men like to masturbate while sitting in a chair.

If you’re in your office, chances are you’re sitting in a chair to stroke.  I’ve noticed that men also tend to sit down for guided masturbation sessions.  When you’re sitting you can be right at the computer to look at My sexy photos *wink*!

Whatever position, masturbating is more fun with company

If you already have favorite positions or want to try some new ones, it’s always more fun to masturbate with this Experienced Mistress!  I might just masturbate with you!  Now, that’s a win-win situation, isn’t it?

So, tell Me, what are some of YOUR favorite positions when you masturbate?

Ms Olivia

My Current Schedule —— How to get a session

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I’ll admit it, there’s a *giggle factor* to phone sex.  I had no idea just how powerful this could be as a source of erotic exploration when I took My first phone sex call!  If you are new to the possibilities of a cock control Mistress, then I understand!

I’ve asked a variety of people who now call Me about their fears and concerns before they actually made the first call.  Here’s what one man says.  He knew he was interested in erotic humiliation, but wasn’t exactly sure how this could work on the phone.  Here’s our IM chat; btw, this caller is someone who is now one of My favorite playmates!

IM chat about how he felt BEFORE his first phone sex call

Ms Olivia:  How did YOU feel before the first session?  Were you nervous?

Man:  very nervous and scared

Ms Olivia:  What concerns did you have?  Tell Me about being nervous and scared.

Man:  was nervous and excited at the same time. I never done something like this before.  My concern was whether I could do what you ask for but you were very nice.

Ms Olivia:  I love that !!  What made you actually decide to call?

Man:   read ur blog and ur page. They really turn me on. Then i chatted to you on yahoo and ask you questions and you gladly answered them.

Ms Olivia:  Were you nervous about phone sex?  Were you nervous about giving control of your orgasm to Me?  Were you nervous about being on CAM ?

Man:  I was very nervous my heart was pounding my palms were sweaty but i was excited at the same time. I was with an experienced mistress that took it easy on me the first time.

~giggles~  Now, I’ll tell YOU, I didn’t take it tooooooo easy on him that first time; I took him on that thrill ride of erotic humiliation (his particular kink).  By the way, we did an amazing session shortly after that IM exchange with a naughty, humiliating cum eating twist, and here’s what he wrote after he caught his breath:  “ thx olvia best 75 dollars ever spent!”

You know I leave you with questions to start the blog comments.  What did YOU want to know before doing your first phone call?

Ms Olivia

My schedule —–  How to get a session with Me.

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Did you know that lots of women have a love of fashionable shoes that turns into a foot fetish?  Oh YES!  This might *look* like the lady simply owns tons of pairs of shoes.  But, dig just a little deeper and chances are you’ll find a woman who will love to have her feet and legs the focus of your …. ahem …. attention.

I knew I liked shoes.  I knew I liked getting My toes all painted and pretty.  I knew I loved *showing off* My long legs.  But, all of this really *clicked* when I discovered the foot, shoe and leg fetish community!  This Experienced Mistress has a love of feet and legs just like you do!  And, I know exactly how to torment you with My toes, satiate you with My soles and articulate My and your needs with My arches.  *wink*

Like all great images, how your FRAME the image makes a difference.  Shoes are the frame on a lovely foot.  magnus asks if I have a favorite pair of shoes to show off My lovely feet.  GREAT question magnus.  I like it because it is impossible to answer!

So, as always, I want to hear from YOU!  Instinctively I would say, these sexy red shoes are My fetish favorites.  But ….. hmmmmmm ….. what about all the various styles that can torment you into total and complete submission to Me?  And, shoe styles are just as varied as the myriad of ways I can tease a man’s cock.

For example, I wouldn’t wear these peep toe platforms in an business executive setting.  Even as a Femdom I’ll be in business attire.  Of course, I’ll have My own unique and subtle twist.  For example, I’m the boss, you’re here for an interview, I cross My long legs and slip the heel of My black patent leather stiletto off My foot and just let it …. dangle.  *smile*  I might have you naked in a heartbeat even while I am fully clothed.  CFNM is all about the details, isn’t it?

So, the issue really is….how to narrow down the delicious choices.  When you have a foot fetish there are so many choices that get your *attention*  … how can I choose?

I just finished a book called The Enlightened Bracketologist: The Final Four of Everything.  Just like the final four in sports it’s a way to determine which one of two choices is better.  It’s a simple “this is superior to this” choice.  List 16 choices and break them up into pairs.  The winner of the pair advances to the next round.  The winners of the first round (8) are paired up and then compete.  Then, the four winners of that round.  You’re left with two choices.  Of those two, it is once again simple to do a choice – which one is superior?

Listen to hear My final four and I’d like you to determine which go to the semi-final round and then the winner.  I already did the bracketing and I’ll reveal My choice, but only after you talk about what you like and why.  Click here to listen to the audio of the Final Four choices of sexy shoes to show off a foot fetish.   *wink*

I’m looking forward to hearing about YOUR choices and why you picked the pair you did.  As always feel free to digress.  Who know?  Your comments might just inspire more audios!

Ms Olivia

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do you sometimes feel like your hands are tied?  Like you’re trying to get things done and you are wearing handcuffs?

I know the feeling!  ~laughs~  So, that’s what the old YIM name was doing so I have a new YIM name, EnchantrixOlivia.  Please delete the old YIM name of empress.olivia.  If you’d like to instant message with the Experienced Mistress, then please use EnchantrixOlivia.

Now we can both get into the FUN part of being bound up!  Tell Me, do you enjoy being a knotty boy or are you more into simply being naughty? A little (or a lot) of cock teasing and cock control might be in your future.

And, to take the question just a little farther — because you know how I like to push boundaries — what is your *flavor* of naughty?  What do you like to do on your phone sex calls?  Are you a lovely sissy or crossdresser that yearns to be coerced into all sorts of wicked behavior?

Tell ALL to Mistress and we’ll…..ahem…..discuss!  ~wink~

Ms Olivia