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olivia — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 02:41:45 +0000

The sexy lingerie that this Experienced Mistress loves to buy and wear have many uses.

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

The first and foremost use is that European lingerie, while expensive, feels amazing on My body. Of course, ‘some’ of you just want to rip those bits of lace off My body …. whilst others, enjoy the tantalizing tease of tiny panties and a soft cotton tee shirt with no bra. (see earlier post on nipples….*snicker*)

I’m thinking of a really fun phone sex session today with The Lip. You might have run across his name here before because I have mentioned that NOBODY does ‘it’ like The Lip. And baby that’s the truth! Oh and I do enjoying talking and laughing with him too … always a plus in my world.

But, I’m not the only one who wears those lovely lacy bits of fabric. I love to put men in panties. Not just sissies but also men who wouldn’t dream of being totally feminized. Sliding My panties off and capturing you in them …. well, what’s not to like?

Now, for the sissy girls I send them shopping at one of My favorite stores …. Nancy Meyer … pricey I know, check the sales section first or better still call Me and I’ll show you how to get the best buys on all your femme shopping sprees. If you know ‘what’ to spend your money on you don’t have to buy ALL expensive things. I can help sort that out for you.

Of course, everyone loves Victoria’s Secret and one of My special callers finally got up the nerve to go into the store and confess that the panties were for him …. and so was the jasmine/vanilla body lotion! I can only imagine how that new scent smells on the freshly shaves cock and balls …. oh, sorry, the little clitty.

*wink*

Olivia

For an erotic phone session with Empress Olivia, call 800-601-6975

Must be 18+ Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum. Discreetly billed to your credit card.

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sex, music and 5 things that make this Mistress hot

olivia — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 00:30:02 +0000

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Ummmmmmmmm …… I love the feel of My hands right *there* — (are you looking at the photo? ( ) … stroking down the sides of My body … down, down, down ….. fingertips feather light against my bustier or My naked skin … reaching, stroking, aching …. waiting to touch …. yearning to touch ….. knowing My wetness is making us BOTH so fucking hot we can barely breathe.

Let’s count down the things that make this Experienced Mistress Hot, shall we? Ummmm, yes.

#5: New erotic experiences via phone sex

Do I really need to even explain this? I am a sensual Mistress … I enjoy, revel in and yearn for experiences that are sensual. When you call Me …. each new caller is a new erotic experience. I love that. Me getting to know you … your sexual kink, how your mind works, what turns you on … what turns you inside out!

#4: Hearing your moans, hearing your orgasm

This might also be the number one thing that makes Me hot. Hearing YOU moan as I listen to your masturbation. I love to listen! I love to watch and also listen. The sounds are AMAZING and always cause My fingers to drift down to My panties.

#3: Rhythm

The various rhythms of phone sex …. maybe it’s the pacing of the call …. maybe it’s the catch and gasp of your breath (or mine) …. maybe it’s the pulsing beat of music … I love rhythm. I had a caller recently who turned Me on to some new bands …. I love it ! Remember the Theme Song to The Sopranos? The band is Alabama 3 (A3) and they’re so hot I have to have the album. In fact, if you want a way into My heart, one way IS music as you can see on My Wishlist. When I listen to music (I have varied tastes) I often have a physical, sensual reaction. The callers who actually PLAY an instrument on the phone….omg, you have My complete attention. The Lip knows this, because ‘nobody does it better than the Lip.’ And, so does that new caller who recently gifted Me with a serenade.

#2 Creativity

Now, you might realize by now, I’m smart and have eclectic interests. I seem to *attract* interesting people to Me. A recent caller and I had a long conversations about Stalin, the 1989 Fall of the Berlin Wall …. and, one of My favorite singer/songwriters Tom Lehrer (if you also know who he is and, more importantly like him you HAVE TO CALL, we will laugh and then cum). So, the creativity prize might actually go to J Deaux who called the phone sex line to READ to Me ….. making this the single most startling phone call in My experience here! He read Me the forward to one of the Richard Bach books and I, of course, was fairly smitten. Now, THAT is creative! There can be all kinds of creativity ….. from your unique erotic roleplay scenarios to the ways you love to show off for Me on cam. I learn and enjoy YOUR creativity.

#1 Intimacy

The number one thing that makes Me hot is …… intimacy. Oh boys, it gets a bad rap when you hear a woman say it. Don’t FRET. By intimacy I mean when you and I actually connect. I’m thinking of the caller who turned Me on to *strawberries* today …. our conversations are far reaching and I adore the courage that you show by really connecting with Me. Thank you. The give and take of intimate, REAL conversations are a rarity and, as odd as it is, I find I’m having more of those types of conversations HERE than anywhere else in My life (not just now, but at any time in My life).

In the coming days I’m sure I’ll be writing more about this. Right now, I want to hear from you …. what are the top five things about phone sex that make YOU hot? Hmmmmmm? Post a comment or send Me an email. I’d like to hear from you on this one.

Until we talk again ….. ENJOY !

Olivia

ps …. I know I didn’t explain about the eating pussy comment in the title. You have to wait until tomorrow to see about THAT. Stay tuned!

For an erotic phone session with Empress Olivia, call 800-601-6975

Must be 18+

Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum

Discreetly billed to your credit card

http://ratemycall.com

All I ask of you …. Boundaries and the Mistress

admin — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 21:43:34 +0000

Erotic conversation, the intimate exchanges over something as mundane as what’s billed as a phone sex line, can lead to unusual relationships. I am open to exploring beyond the usual roles of caller and Mistress. All I ask of you is that you want to give Me. However that looks in each particular relationship. That can be a little or a lot.

Some callers have a particular fantasy that they want to experience in erotic roleplay and I excel at making your fantasy ‘real’ to you. Some callers have “secret” fantasies that they would never share or even want to experience in real life. I have callers that enjoy forced-bi and cuckold fantasies but those stories remain erotic fantasies filled with sexual charge but contained in the boundaries of a phone call to an Experienced Mistress.

Some callers are looking for a fantasy or relationship that evolves. As the evolution of our relationship happens, it can get to a point of, where do we go from here? When the relationship is based in the erotic fantasy, the answer is…anywhere we want to go. When that relationship includes conversations that involve real life topics for you or me, then it can get tricky. When individuals are dating there comes to a point where they need to ‘take the relationship to the next level’ … I’ve seen that happen here with certain callers so I want to take a moment to say something about that.

I don’t have many requirements or limits within the context of the phone call ….I am open to fantasy and sexual exploration. I have a curious mind and enjoy delving into the shadow side of your (and my own) kinky side. I have a great deal of respect for people who embrace their own sexuality however the actual expression might look to the vanilla world.

That said, the one thing that I do insist on is that you respect My boundaries. I don’t meet callers in real life. I don’t want to talk with your wife or girlfriend without HER consent. I also don’t involve others in what is a non-consensual call on their part. I have had people who try to push those limits. My boundaries don’t move and those who push me move on, or are gently (or not so gently) edged away. I’m not saying no, but meaning yes. No actually means no.

The ones who understand the limits of our relationship and don’t try to push my boundaries are generally delighted with the opportunity to open up into what can become a real and delicious intimacy, protected by the boundaries. You can tell Me things that perhaps you can’t tell others in your life. When I feel safe with you, I can be a safe harbor for you as well. I don’t feel safe with a caller who continues to push my boundaries. These boundaries are best for us both because we can explore as much intimacy as we like knowing that it won’t blow up either of our lives….or the lives of people involved with either of us.

For example, the curious sir who “reads too many blogs” (LOL), gives me a safe harbor to explore and experience myself along with your inquiry into who you know yourself to be. What an amazing cocoon-experience. THANK YOU so much for your consideration and respect. I treasure you.

All I ask of you — all of you — is everything you yearn to give honoring the appropriate boundaries of this environment. Delicious? Yes. Dangerous? No. This mutual acknowledgement and your respect for Me makes it best for all involved.

Olivia

1-800-601-6975
$2.50/min., 10 min. minimum, billed to your credit card.

Mistress music for the soul …

admin — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 21:33:45 +0000

Words and language. Masculine energy/feminine energy. Breath. The whisper of the most intimate. Erotic conversation with me can be so much more then what you may think of as phone sex, and the various implications of cock control for men, crossdressers and sissies alike. This experienced Mistress so enjoys our masturbation sessions in all their glory.

It “can” be as simple as all that …. Or, it can go beyond into uncharted territory. When we’re both on the same page, dancing in unison to some primal musical score … what becomes available is an intimacy that unfolds … it is tangible … very real although the nature of a phone sex call itself is in the realm of so-called fantasy. For me, that sensual dance is much like what I appreciate about music. To me, music can be both, ethereal and real.

Music triggers everything in me …All that I am comes to attention while the music swirls around, outside/inside, passion and possibility. Whim and whimsy. Hope and yearning. Telling stories that touch me … Touching me in the place beyond words …. And, if you’ve called me, you know I love the intricacies available with language…so, to go beyond that place is …well, I have no words, which alone says a lot.

Sometimes a caller and I connect …. In the language of words, breath, and the delicious intimacy of like-minded curious personalities. In those moments, your call and you begin to live as music in my very being …. Acoustic … soaring….funky Motown, tantric techno, swinginess of swing, complexity of the classics, music through the ages, luscious stories from musicals … beyond and yet encompassing all the different “types” of music …. Access to ALL, faith from beauty and truth … tone and rhythm pulsing, urgent and intense. Your calls become music ….

And, in this New Year … I want you to know that I appreciate you in words I can’t even begin to say … it is from the place where we dance beyond words.

Olivia
1-800-601-6975

$2.50/min., 10 minute minimum, billed to your credit card.

Mistress thought on Endings ….. and beginnings

admin — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 19:51:08 +0000

In the photo, I am facing forward while looking back. This time of year often inspires that manner of reflection … the hope of new beginnings and the shiver of endings.

As we leave this year we here at LDW Group will miss the friendship of the Mistress you know as the Spank Mistress …. Ms Tara. She would be the first to tell us not to mourn. She would make some quip that would get us all giggling. She would want us to Celebrate ….. so, that’s what we’re going to do!

You are invited to join us for the Celebration of Ms Tara!

Where: Community Kink Chat Room – the Special Events Room

Time: 10 pm eastern time, Saturday Jan.2^nd.

Here’s the audio invite for the sissies She ADORED.

http://eroticaudios.com/content/Olivia/Tara4getgirlie.mp3

Here’s the audio invite for the stroker boys She had so much FUN with!

http://eroticaudios.com/content/Olivia/tara4teasemania.mp3

While doing the Tribute Announcement audios I got to thinking about that phrase – “reason, season or lifetime.” Some of you come into my life for a reason and that reason can be a simple as the sweet physical release during phone sex or as complex as the various needs of individuals. Some of you arrive for a season, which in this context could be until you want to explore a different Mistress or perhaps find someone in your life that limits your ability or desire to call Me. All of you are memorable. I cherish the opportunity to be part of your lives.

One person whom I can’t email had the courage to have an intimate conversation while still respecting my boundaries of my role here. For you, call the dispatcher and ask for your gift of talk time from Olivia.

New (and consistent) blog posting will start up again on Jan 4^th!

To all of YOU …. I wish you ALL that is best….in the New Year and always.

Olivia

What makes a phone sex call GREAT ?

olivia — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 11:03:18 +0000

What makes a great phone sex call?

I’d love to hear your answers, both in general and specifics about your particular interests.

As an Experienced Mistress, I am highly intuitive. I am able to *get* what you want with a few words and maybe some answers to brief questions from Me. For those of you who have very detailed scenarios or specific words you want Me to say, you generally send Me emails outlining your fantasy. That’s GREAT ! That helps Me to give you exactly what you’re looking for.

Your answers to what makes a great phone call

Head Mistress Ally posted a poll on the Tease Mania forum …. asking YOU what you’re looking for in an amazing and erotic phone sex call.

An Amazing Voice

35% of those polled said an AMAZING VOICE is the thing that makes a great phone sex call. One note about voices …. what can be an amazing voice to one person can be a downer to another. This is one reason why every LDW Mistress has audio clips. You can choose the voice that matches what you’d like to hear. I’m never going to sound like a really young giggly girl but I do “use” different tones and timbers in My vocal range depending on the content of a call. Soft sensuality works beautifully for many erotic roleplay calls. A voice that is more “stern” works well for some cock control and orgasm denial calls.

Interest and interaction

An amazing voice is followed by INTEREST. 30% of those responding to the poll said, a great call is when the Mistress is interested in what you are saying, is really paying attention to you. Woah. I’m not sure what’s going on with other phone sex companies but I’ve had several new callers recently (from other companies) that said, wow you are really listening to me. Oh, honey, of COURSE I’m listening! I find that My callers are interesting, intelligent, successful and wonderfully, delightfully sensual/kinky ….. of COURSE I listen!

What’s YOUR vote?

I’d love to hear some specifics from YOU. You can take a poll that’s already set up HERE or you can click on comments and leave a comment directly on My blog. Remember all My blog posts about communication? I’m really really GOOD at what I do, but alas, I am not a mind reader so your comments directly help Me to be EVEN BETTER when I’m on the phone with YOU! Take the poll by pressing HERE.

So, every time I ask YOU for something….you get a reward ….. want the “cookie” baby? *snicker* …. there’s the link to My new online photo gallery…..ENJOY !

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

$2.50/minute, 10 min. minimum, billed to your credit card.

Sensual Control by an Experienced Mistress

olivia — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 05:27:44 +0000

There have been a variety of comments recently about what makes a good Mistress. I think we’re all agreed here that there’s a huge difference between a Mistress and a bitchy female! You can read about that on the Blog Mistresses Blog. That said, there is also a wide variety in what callers themselves are looking for in a Mistress.

Recently, I’ve had several delightful callers who are not into extreme sex play. Now, I am an Experienced Mistress so I do know all the kinky sex games and can get as naughty as you like. One caller (I’ll call him EROS) wanted some anal play but said, “What IS IT with you Mistresses and your big black strapons!” I totally lost it! I cracked up laughing.

The extreme is not the norm

Eros and I then had a great conversation about what makes a great phone sex call for him. I doubt he’s the only one that feels this way so that’s why I’m doing this post. It easy to get caught up in highlighting the extremes. The “most unusual” or the “you’ll never believe this” moments are actually few and far between. (That’s WHY they’re unusual, duh!) If you think about a newscast, it’s the disaster that gets the news coverage. You’ll never see a headline saying, Thousands of planes land without problems. But, of course, the plane crash is a front page story. I think human beings are like that too. We gravitate to communicating about the extremes.

Great phone sex isn’t automatically about extremes …. it’s about the erotic experience.

For Eros, it’s the deliciousness of a Woman sensually in control even to the point of putting him in My panties …. not full on sissy femme but wearing My panties as a nod to My erotic control. Part of his enjoyment of our erotic conversation is that it is not one sided. For him (and much to MY delight) it ended up being about both of us having fun back and forth … combined with a smidge of kink in terms of cock and ball pain play for him. (( and, no …. there was NO big black strapon involved! *snicker* ))

Here’s to what YOU enjoy!

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

$2.50/min, 10 min. minimum, billed directly to your credit card.