Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do you have sexual fantasies about eating your own cum, tasting cum or cum spurting out of a cock?  You are not alone!  This is one of the most intense erotic desires of all the kinks. This Experienced Mistress is an expert at seducing, coercing and encouraging you to eat your own cum.

Your desires are unique.

You are unique.  That means the expression of your sexual desire is unique.  The arc of your arousal is distinct to you.  This Experienced Mistress finds out about you and then creates an arousal arc that touches all of your sexual buttons.

Not all cum eaters are the same

It is important that your Femdom Mistress knows YOU.  That allows Me to use My creativity to pace your phone sex session in the best way for you.  There is a very big difference between the sissy slut who gobbles cum for Mistress and someone who is into the rush of erotic humiliation when Mistress says, “Eat your own cum, NOW!”

What do you do when you have a sort of nameless urge and desire?  Then, it’s time to turn to the Experienced Mistress.  You urges become so much more satisfying when you have an experienced cum coach to guide you, encourage you and show you all that you know you want.

Again, it’s ALL about you as an individual:

Man:  Over the last couple of years I’ve developed this fascination with eating my own cum…. All the stuff on the internet is degrading and the talk nasty which turns me off. Its an embarrassing fetish but I think if the right person can talk me through it I may do it. Enjoy dirty sweet talk and someone encouraging me to do it.

Are you ready to be encouraged?  Are you ready to explore?  ~smiles~  Ahhhhh, I think you are ready.  Aren’t you?

Ms Olivia

My schedule — Best ways to talk with Me

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It’s ‘only’ phone sex, so what’s the big deal; why can you call one woman for .69/minute and you’re asked to pay more here?

What’s the difference?  Ms Ally, the owner of LDW, knows what it takes for the ‘something special’ to happen in our erotic fantasy sessions.  She only works with the best, like this Experienced Mistress.  Something as ‘simple’ as this masturbation stroking erotic audio will be an sensuous adventure!.  Each Mistress has her own page of Mistress Reviews so you can see what others are saying about each of us.

What YOU need and want

We’ve given real thought to what you need beyond the session itself.  That means lots of free sites including the only adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  This career is My livelihood so I do manage My time well but you’ll get lots of interaction from Me on EE and here in the comments section of My blog.  I asked one new EE member about his reaction to finding our network of sites:

BG talks about his reaction to our community

Me:  Were you surprised at what you found?

BG:  Yes, I was definitely surprised. I was very much surprised at the loveliness of the ladies. I was surprised at the sophistication of the writing and conceptual development of the site. I was surprised at the variety of interests represented.

Mostly, I was surprised at how exciting things seemed to be. I was a bit suspicious that I was being taken in. I am generally a pretty analytical and cautious person. Even though I take significant risks from the perspective of someone not engaging in FemDom, I tend to check things out pretty thoroughly before I make any commitments.

In the end, I think a large part of the reason I committed was the depth of the LDW site. I found ladies who had obviously been involved for years. I found policy statements that and procedures designed quite obviously to protect both me, and the ladies. I had to respect that. That was really not even present in the face-to-face Domination with which I had become familiar. All of that surprised me.

I have not participated in any other phone domination sites. When one is feasting on sirloin steaks, why would he choose hamburger?”

~laughs~  I love that last line!  BG always leaves thoughtful comments (with a little quirky thing at the end).  You might say the same thing about Me.  Thoughtful, passionate, creative …. and, yes, a little quirky at the end.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

My Schedule —  Best ways to talk with Me.

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I’m on vacation right now.  I’m doing luscious, fun and sometimes very naughty things.  But, I will be back tomorrow.  Since I know you missed Me, I will be logged in for your phone sex calls on My normal day off.  Look for Me this Thursday November 3rd as well as My regular schedule.

Kinky play during My time off

I will have lots to tell you!  When I’m *off* calls that doesn’t mean I am away from the BD/sm scene.  I am a real life Mistress and I do love My fetish and kinky sex play off (and on) the phone.

Even your sex fantasies aren’t all fantasy

The Experienced Mistress is …. well, EXPERIENCED.  ~laughs~  This means  that the creative phone sex fantasy scenes that we do are grounded in My real life. I use everything that I am — that means history, learning, travel, experiences and more to create vivid erotic roleplay scenes for you where I am your Femdom Mistress.  Most of all, I use My love of (and skill with) language.

Phone sex and wordplay

We both know the power of language.  Using wordplay I ~whisper~ into your senses to give you peak experiences that make you go, ohhhhhhhhh how did She know to say THAT!?  Words … the exact right words … have power. If you’ve received an email from Me recently, you’ll see that I’m using this Mark Twain quote in My email signature:

“A powerful agent is the right word … Whenever we come upon one of those intensely right words … the resulting effect is physical as well as spiritual, and electrically prompt … The different between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.”

Are you ready for the exact right word — that bolt of erotic lightening?  Well then, I’m ready to talk with you — or I will be, when I return tomorrow for your delightful conversations by phone or sexy texting sessions.

Ms Olivia

My Schedule (returning from vacation on Wednesday Nov 2nd) — Best ways to talk with Me

Are you looking for a beautiful Femdom Mistress?

If you’re like most people, you have a general idea of what you want.  And, like most people, you know you’ve found what you’ve been looking for WHEN you find it.  BUT — What do you do during the in between time — of having an idea and then taking action to get what you want.

Tim writes:  “I must tell you that I, in fact, thoroughly enjoy phone sex (perhaps a bit to much! lol) and although I have only experimented with the Domme/sub phone session, it is only because I have an idea of what I would like and what direction I would want to head in, and so far I have not found just what I am looking for. I do think that winding up here at EE was no accident, especially after our brief, yet detailed correspondence.

I have no doubt in my mind that I am destined to submit, and I look forward to that time.”

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Fetish exploration with phone sex

Phone sex is a wonderful way to explore all sorts of kinky desires.  You might be curious about this whole area of fetish sex.  Or, you might be like Tim, armed with a general idea and an internet search engine.  Let’s start with the basics.

Sensual or Strict

One of the most common questions I hear is this:  “Are you a sensual or strict Mistress?”  I always answer, “Both!”  but I can *be* either style exclusively.

Here’s what most men like: first, the sensual tease and then the *torment* of your submission begins.  So, the sensual beginning will be lots of cock tease and denial and then I move to a more strict and stern tone (for those who want strict).  Very few callers want the mean bitch off the top (so to speak).  Personally, I like to combine both tones all the way through the session, because you thrill to the sensuality after a stern command.

Communication

It’s important that we communicate but that doesn’t mean you have to know what you want or even do lots of talking.  I am an expert communicator and I use all those skills to gently peel away the layers of your psyche.  I find out what you know you want and then go deeper … delving into your most secret desires.  This can be as ‘simple’ as being your masturbation manager or as complex as detailed role plays.

Unique experience

There is something that happens when the two of us combine and entwine together.  This ‘something’ is larger then even the sum of us both as individuals.  And, that something really is amazing and memorable as you can hear in this free erotic audio.

Are you ready to experience the thrill ride of male submission where each moment is as unique as you are?  If you know you’d like to try this, please give Me a call.

When you’re not sure, then it’s time to keep doing research.  I have every confidence you will find the exactly want you want.  Please post your comments and questions here, I’m happy to be on this journey of exploration with you!

Ms Olivia

My schedule —  Best ways to get My attention

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do you YEARN to please your Mistress?  *nods*  I see that you do.  You literally ache to hear My approval, My sigh of pleasure in your willingness to submit to Mistress needs, wants and Desires.  This free erotic audio about Desire asks you some questions about your experience of sexual desire.

The Dance of submission

How do you know you are ready to submit or begin the journey of submission to this Experienced Mistress?  First, please know that submission comes in many flavors.  Here are some comments from one caller who talks about what it takes to be a submissive man to a Femdom woman.

There are so many things to explore when you begin to think about ways to Please Your Mistress.  You might know what you want or you might be in the exploration phase.

As we get to know one another, the relationship deepens.  I’ve known krissy for several years now and this crossdressing slave serves Me well.

One caller’s experience of Femdom Mistress Domination by phone:

“Oh , it is a feeling in the belly and it takes control of my body and soul.  Your dominance weakens me completely.  i get immediately aroused by seeing You or hearing You. When i see that You are online, it takes complete control of me, it is a weakness, an urge to be with You.  It takes control of my behavior.  my purpose to serve, knowing that i can serve a Lady like You, is good because i m slave towards dominance, Your dominance.”

The Theater of the Mind of phone sex is perfect for this exploration.  What is available?  Anything your and My mind can dream up!  We have LOTS of options as you can see in our erotic fetish stories and essays.

YOU have been so *pleasing* to us, LDW is giving you a GIFT or a free call during October.  It’s the Alphabet promo and you need to be a previous caller in order to take us up on the free call.

If you’d like that call to be with this Experienced Mistress, click on the Sessions page to hear all the ways you can get a session with Me.  Or, you can simply call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Me!  Read on for the details of the offer of a free phone sex call for YOU!

The Alphabet Promo! A Free call for all previous callers of LDW Group

Starting on October 6th and continuing through October 31st, each day we will post a “Letter of the Day” on The Daily Cock blog. If your last name starts with that letter, you get a free 10 minute call with the Mistress of your choice! You must be a previous caller of the service before the first letter in your last name is the “Letter of the Day” in order to take advantage of this promotion.

Now here’s the trick – you’ll have to visit The Daily Cock blog or your favorite Mistresses’ blogs to find out the letter of the day. Our lovely dispatchers will not be able to tell you the letter of the day, so you can’t call in and ask if it’s your day. You’ll need to tell the dispatcher that you’re calling in for the Letter of the Day promo in order to get your call.

The Letter of the Day will be posted right after Midnight Eastern Time each day, and you can call to claim your call anytime after that.

One note, I will be away the latter part of October.  Please check My schedule page for availability times, appointment options and vacation time scheduled.  For those of you ready to experience a session with Me please take a look at the new post about SESSIONS to find out the best ways for you to get My undivided and personalized attention via phone, skype or sexy texting.

As always, I’ll answer each blog comment in detail, so it’s always good to ask questions, post your comments and thoughts, here.   My new schedule has Me off on Thursdays.  I’ll be starting to post blog updates on regularly scheduled days, look for that announcement shortly.  Enjoy!

Ms Olivia

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

What is phone sex Femdom and what does it mean to have a Mistress in control?

You might have a curiosity about Femdom and cock control.  You might have stumbled across some Dominatrix porn that caught you attention.  You might even know that you do like a woman to be the one who is sexually in charge.  Any of these things might apply to you.  Or, you might be a seasoned submissive but new to submission during a phone sex session.

You might also be *across the pond* from Me and wonder how an American Mistress can possibly control your cock from so far away.  There are two answers to that question.  One is the simple answer of technology and all the ways for International Phone Sex Callers to connect with a Mistress.  This is just the details of the technology.  The real answer is in the techniques of the mind and body.

Power Exchange – Dominance and submission

The dance of Power Exchange is THE experience.  The *types* of submission and the various ways you submit are tools of your submission.  There are so many various ways to do this.  Take a look at some of the essays on male submission and see if you can find yourself there.  *nods*  Some or all of the writing causes that, now familiar and yet still new, ZING of desire, doesn’t it?  *nods* I thought so.

When you are new to this from of erotic play, don’t be shy.  I take you where are you and explore with you.  I am an Experienced Mistress and can understand where you are and then guide you.  In THIS dance, I lead you follow — and we both create together what tune we’ll be listening to for the dance!  Being the dance with Me when you listen to this erotic audio about Desire.

Ms Olivia

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MY MY MY!  That post about the Femdom Power of Panties has elicited QUITE a …. *response* …. from you!  I love it!

I’m back from My lovely vacation and have MORE new sexy panties!  You’re not the only one with a panty fetish! 

Thank you to everyone who posts comments on My blog and on the polls I create on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  When you write, I get inspired to write MORE.

Speaking of inspiration, I find Myself enjoying some new panties!  I love shopping for new panties.  There are so many styles, fabrics, features like detailed embroidery, sheer tulle, and elegant little additions like the artfully placed subtle bow.  Sometimes I feel elegant and sophisticated.  Other times I feel like timeless styles of simple, classy grace.  There’s an art to shopping for and buying panties that will match and/or inspire a mood.

Of you like to wear panties and would love to have some en femme panty shopping advice then I’d like to hear from you.  There are ways to really boost your crossdressing experiences with just the right pair of panties.

Panties … the lure, the power, the yearning for what’s inside …. are a powerful symbol of Femdom Mistress control over a submissive male.  And, that’s exactly what I’m thinking about today when I woke up wondering about YOU!

What is your favorite style of panty?  Right now, today, My favorite … the panty I’m wearing *wink* and the one I’m thinking about is the V-String Thong.  That’s why I’m talking about the Lure of Thong Panties!  ((that’s an audio link so careful when you click it if you’re not someplace where you can listen to My sexy voice describe these thong panties.))

So, what are some of YOUR favorite panties and why?  Post your comments here or please feel free to send Me an email to get to know Me before a phone sex session.  My email is:  Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com

Ms Olivia

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Want to *see* Me on vacation?  *wink*  Now, that I have your …. ahem …. attention, I wanted to let you know I’ll be away from Friday, September 16th until Thursday September 22th.

I even have a SCHEDULE PAGE on the blog so you can keep up to date with all My comings and goings.  Ohhhhhhh, now that sounds darn right naughty, darn RIGHT!   Until I *see* you again, please leave your comments and I will answer each and every one when I return.

While I’m gone …. don’t do anything I wouldn’t do.  Erm….wait….~ laughs~ you know what I mean.  I hope YOU have a great week too!

An earlier blog post asked the question what is “normal” in terms of sexual arousal and erotic fantasies.

Since we’re in a kinky community that is considered outside the vanilla *norm* I asked folks on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire how comfortable they are with their sex fantasies.

The poll results change so click here to see the latest.  But, as of right now, 59% say they’ve always been comfortable with their sex fantasies.  41% of respondents say they have wondered if their sexual desires are *normal*.

Like with most of blog posts and all of My polls, I use the original content to spark a conversation.  The real FUN of the exploration is in the comments section.  I love that you are so willing to share your sex secrets and intimate thoughts/feelings with Me. THANK YOU.  I cherish that!

I’m going to start us off with Eddie’s comment:

Eddie says, “Well what is Normal? “Normal” is what is considered acceptable by the majority of society. What is considered acceptable today is very different from what was considered normal say 60 years ago. And today’s normal will be very different from what it is 60 years from now.”

Eddie (and many others) bring up a good point about the concept of normal being tied to time, culture, class …. it’s ALL about context.  When I read Eddie’s comment I immediately thought about the original Kinsey reports on human sexuality.  The book on men came out in 1948 and the book on women followed in 1953.  Talk about a bombshell!  What those reports and others have shown is that the private fantasies and behaviors usually don’t *match* what is presented in public.  So, we’re back to the question of, what is *normal* …. ?

My *society* is the Mistresses, Dispatchers and executives here at LDW.  Also included in My society is the community of My blog and Enchantrix Empire.  My direct and main community is, of course, the people who call for erotic conversations, fetish fantasies and any sort of phone sex.  Given that this is My context, I have a very expansive definition of what is *normal.”

Kel wrote about this in his comment on the poll.  His society includes the real life kink/fetish community.

“Anyway, I’ve noticed a tendency in myself to look at male dom/female sub relationships as “normal” and tend to view the things that I am into (Femdom) as somehow “edgier” and “kinkier”.

It’s a strange place to be, to view certain people who are heavily in the leather scene as “normal” but that goes to show how fluid the concept is. When you’re surrounded by kinky people, a new “normal” comes into play.

I agree kel !  Submip has a nice, elegant definition:  “For me anything that is consensual between all parties is ‘normal’.”  Safe, sane and consensual (and RACK – risk aware consensual kink) are the watch words of the fetish community.

Is there anything else to add?  Eddie finishes his comment with something that I cherish about the EE community and I think would make a wonderful standard in conversations about what is *normal* in terms of sexual fantasy.

Eddie says:  “… our society, if you will, is the Enchantrix Empire. Here the preponderance of what is normal seems to be, in my opinion, Tolerance. We choose not to judge someone for their fantasies or lifestyles but accept them simply as another unique human being and most anything is acceptable as long as it doesn’t hurt yourself or someone else.”

Yours in tolerance and kink,

Ms Olivia

PS, I’ll be away doing fun, naughty things until Sept 22nd but I’ll talk with you then

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

What is it about panties that makes such a tiny bit of fabric sooooooo ….. of all the words that come to mind, POWERFUL sums it up the best, doesn’t it? Talking about and teasing with the various panty styles is one of the keys to phone sex!

What is it for you?  What do YOU love about a great pair of panties?

The look?  The feel?  The way the little bits of lace and silky fabric make you YEARN?  Is it, perhaps, the way panties can bring you to your knees, quite literally in the form of male submission as the Femdom Mistress drives you crazy with cock teasing sensuality?

I asked about the power of panties in a poll and got a lively response from the folks in our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  The pantie poll results show …. wait for it …. panties are very popular!  ~laughs~  Okay!  No surprise there!  I like the overall poll results ‘data’ but MY favorite part of any poll (or blog) is always YOUR COMMENTS.  The comments were so great, I got inspired to write this post.

Power of the silky, sexy panty

Kel wrote an insightful comment after taking the time to look up the definition of fetish.  Here’s kel’s comment:

“Fetish (n) 1. an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.”

That’s the archaeological or sociological definition of course, and not the way it is used as much these days.

Anyway, it is amazing what influence a simple piece of cloth can have. And how that same exact piece of cloth would have no effect on someone not from our culture (or close to it). ”

I think everything is symbolic. Panties are just a very good demonstration and proof of that

I totally agree kel!  I’ve done posts on the use of panties as an Experienced Mistress.  Just because you like to be put in panties doesn’t mean you’re a crossdresser or a sissy. But lingerie is a powerful identifier for those who want to switch to en efemme crossdressing.   For example, a new member of the Enchantrix Empire page on Facebook is Tatjanalove who posted this about her love of a particular style of panty, the THONG!

Tatjanalove says:  “Just the feel of a nice thong between my cheeks takes me away from the prison of maleness into the wonderful world of femininity!”

Who doesn’t love a sexy thong?  Witness the photo *wink* that got your attention.  Oh yes, I can *work* a thong!  All this brings Me to the final point, a comment from candygurl and it made Me laugh out loud!

Candygurl:  “Panties are like a swiss army knife, so many uses from one tool.”

Tell Me about some memorable experiences you’ve had with sexy panties!  Post your comments here and then go take care of the wet spot!  *nods*  Gotcha!  ~kiss~

One final note, I’m on vacation for a week (you can check My schedule page) and will answer your comments and your ~ahem~ needs when I get back.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

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Hello there!  Periodically I open the blog to your questions.

Now, in all fairness, I do answer questions in the comments on ANY topic when you post a question in the comments.  But, let’s do a blog post specifically for your questions.  Go down at the end of this post and click on the comments section and post your question there.

Feel free to ASK Me anything; I’m a cock teasing Femdom I’ll manage My responses.  *wink*  This is your place to ask about phone sex, erotic conversations, how I handle IM chats before the call, do I like sissies …. all the stuff you want to know.

OH and if you’d like to read up on any and every thing to do with fetish sex take a look at our Femdom Fetish Essays.  Even if you know what you like, take a look at some of the essays because I’m sure other ideas and topics will……ahem……come up and catch your …. attention.  I’m referring to your INTELLECTUAL attention of course!  ~laughs~

If your question is not about kink but if you’re curious about the Experienced Mistress you can also ask those types of questions.  You know that I’m totally curious about you, your real sexual issues and more.  Frankly, what you ask Me also tells Me about you….and I like that!  I’m taking Saturday off, but if you post questions quickly, I’ll get to them right away (in between calls) and, who knows, YOU might inspire and be the topic of future blog posts!  I like THAT as well

Ms Olivia