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		<title>The business of Phone Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 17:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>olivia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p class="wp-caption-text">Olivia    1-800-601-6975</p>
<p>So, we both know that I get paid to talk with you during our phone sex sessions.  I get paid and you do the paying.  That makes it a business exchange, right?  Sure!  I have also noticed that moving the whole issue of sex/sexuality/sensuality and even conversation into a *business* [...]]]></description>
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<p>So, we both know that I get paid to talk with you during our phone sex sessions.  I get paid and you do the paying.  That makes it a business exchange, right?  Sure!  I have also noticed that moving the whole issue of sex/sexuality/sensuality and even conversation into a *business* realm allows for a certain freedom on your part&#8230;and mine.</p>
<p>Of course, the fact that you reach Me via a phone sex line means there is a flexibility and anonymity for us both.  We can cheerfully engage in a variety of explorations.  I have had quite a journey of my own exploration of Self as I&#8217;ve moved (with the same caller) from <a href="http://www.strokeforme.com/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">guided masturbation</span></a> to <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">erotic roleplay</span></a> to <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">cock control</span></a> sessions when I end up as submissive on the Power Exchange equation.</p>
<p>This particular post is about business not necessarily about sex.   Although they are one and the same in a literal and overt manner in the adult industry.  (That alone lends itself to a certain level of honesty, doesn&#8217;t it?)  One of the interesting things about any business plan is that it must, by definition, take into account of and maximize the economic environment.  In this &#8230; the sex trade &#8230; the parameters of the *economic environment* are not the same as say, new car sales &#8230;. altho both advertising campaigns do employ scantily clad, beautiful women (the photo caught your eyes, didn&#8217;t it?).  *wink*</p>
<p>A *basic* about any business &#8230;. sex, cars, news or widgets is that if you know what your customer wants, give it to him or her with Value, Customer Service and Innovation then you tend to be successful.  THIS is one reason why LDW Group is the premier service in the phone sex industry.  We &#8230;. management and the actual Femdom and Erotic Phone Entertainers (like moi) &#8230;. take customer service very seriously.  So, seriously in fact that the founder/owner of LDW, Ms Ally, makes a <a href="http://voxerotic.com/customer_promise.html" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">written promise to you.</span></a></p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t seen many promises like that in my such-n-such years on this planet.  You don&#8217;t get a promise like that from the government, your spouse, probably not even from yourself.  I think this is a rarity.  As such, this business plan is unique and, in my opinion Ms Ally should be asked to be on talking head business discussion panels.  I&#8217;ve often thought the Head Mistress would make a sophisticated and smart addition to a business news forum but have, heretofore, thought the general news public wasn&#8217;t ready.</p>
<p>I was wrong.  I am *often* wrong but in this particular instance the mainstream media might just be more ready for the Innovation Secrets of a successful Phone Sex Madame.  I offer this proof for My premise.  The Owner/founder of Kink.com was recently on a panel about &#8220;Successful Failure&#8221; &#8230;. at a conference called Innovation:  Fresh Thinking for the Ideas Economy.  You can read/view all about it in The Economist &#8230;.. that erudite and for many esoteric magazine that geeks like Me read.  Who KNEW?</p>
<p>And, we here at LDW &#8230;. and, of course, yours truly, the experienced mistress of phone sex &#8230;. can cheerfully *embrace* Fresh Thinking (slap your ass kind of fresh) or, of course immerse ourselves in the Ideas Economy (ohhh, yes the idea of <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">forced bi</span></a> IS certainly erotic isn&#8217;t it?).  See what I mean?  And, what is successful failure but another word for<a href="http://www.phonehumiliation.com/" target="_blank"> <span style="color: #ff0000;">erotic humiliation</span></a> or, maybe <a href="http://www.cuckoldfantasies.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">cuckold fantasies</span></a>?  Like I said.  Sex sells.  Academe and Other Business experts might be a *smidge* uncomfortable to see SEX in The Economist (note the body language of the panelists on the stage with kink.com guy (Peter Ackworth) when you watch the video &#8212; ie, just how THIRSTY can they possibly be in a cool television studio?  LOL).  Personally, I&#8217;m glad the vast majority of people get uncomfortable talking about sex &#8230;. that&#8217;s not written into My business plan, but it&#8217;s certainly part of the environment that makes this career good business and an INNOVATIVE choice for Me.  <img src='http://www.experiencedmistress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Enough for now.  *For a good time, call Olivia*  LOL   25% more humor in the same sexy packaging.</p>
<p>Olivia</p>
<p>For an erotic phone session with Empress Olivia, call 800-601-6975</p>
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<p>Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum</p>
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		<title>What makes a phone sex call GREAT ?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 11:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>olivia</dc:creator>
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<p>I&#8217;d love to hear your answers, both in general and specifics about your particular interests.</p>
<p>As an Experienced Mistress, I am highly intuitive.  I am able to *get* what you want with a few words and maybe some answers to brief questions from Me. For those of you who have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>What makes a great phone sex call?</h3>
<p>I&#8217;d love to hear your answers, both in general and specifics about your particular interests.</p>
<p>As an <a title="vox olivia" href="http://www.voxerotic.com/main.php?action=show&amp;tease=133" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Experienced Mistress</span></a>, I am highly intuitive.  I am able to *get* what you want with a few words and maybe some answers to brief questions from Me. For those of you who have very detailed scenarios or specific words you want Me to say, you generally send Me emails outlining your fantasy.  That&#8217;s GREAT !  That helps Me to give you exactly what you&#8217;re looking for.</p>
<h3>Your answers to what makes a great phone call</h3>
<p>Head Mistress Ally posted a poll on the<span style="color: #ff0000;"> <a title="tease mania forum" href="http://www.teasemania.com" target="_blank">Tease Mania</a></span> forum &#8230;. asking YOU what you&#8217;re looking for in an amazing and erotic phone sex call.</p>
<h3>An Amazing Voice</h3>
<p>35% of those polled said an AMAZING VOICE is the thing that makes a great phone sex call.  One note about voices &#8230;. what can be an amazing voice to one person can be a downer to another.  This is one reason why every LDW Mistress has audio clips.  You can choose the voice that matches what you&#8217;d like to hear. I&#8217;m never going to sound like a really young giggly girl but I do &#8220;use&#8221; different tones and timbers in My vocal range depending on the content of a call.  Soft sensuality works beautifully for many<a title="vox" href="http://www.voxerotic.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;"> erotic roleplay</span></a> calls.  A voice that is more &#8220;stern&#8221; works well for some <a title="cock control main site" href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">cock control</span></a> and <a title="cock control olivia" href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/index.php?action=show&amp;tease=133" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">orgasm denial</span></a> calls.</p>
<h3>Interest and interaction</h3>
<p>An amazing voice is followed by INTEREST.  30% of those responding to the poll said, a great call is when the Mistress is interested in what you are saying, is really paying attention to you.  Woah.  I&#8217;m not sure what&#8217;s going on with other phone sex companies but I&#8217;ve had several new callers recently (from other companies) that said, wow you are really listening to me.  Oh, honey, of COURSE I&#8217;m listening!  I find that My callers are interesting, intelligent, successful and wonderfully, delightfully sensual/kinky &#8230;.. of COURSE I listen!</p>
<h3>What&#8217;s YOUR vote?</h3>
<p>I&#8217;d love to hear some specifics from YOU.  You can take a poll that&#8217;s already set up <a title="Poll" href="http://www.teasemania.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=2777" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">HERE</span></a> or you can click on comments and leave a comment directly on My blog.  Remember all My blog posts about communication?  I&#8217;m really really GOOD at what I do, but alas, I am not a mind reader so your comments directly help Me to be EVEN BETTER when I&#8217;m on the phone with YOU!  <a title="Poll what makes a call great?" href="http://www.teasemania.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=2777" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Take the poll by pressing HERE.</span></a></p>
<p>So, every time I ask YOU for something&#8230;.you get a reward &#8230;.. want the &#8220;cookie&#8221; baby?  *snicker* &#8230;. there&#8217;s the link to <a title="photo gallery Olivia" href="http://cockcontrol.com/galleries/Olivia  " target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">My new online photo gallery</span></a>&#8230;..ENJOY !</p>
<p>Olivia   1-800-601-6975</p>
<p>$2.50/minute, 10 min. minimum, billed to your credit card.</p>
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		<title>Sensual Control by an Experienced Mistress</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 05:27:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>olivia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>There have been a variety of comments recently about what makes a good Mistress.  I think we&#8217;re all agreed here that there&#8217;s a huge difference between a  Mistress and a bitchy female!  You can read about that on the Blog Mistresses Blog.  That said, there is also a wide variety in what callers themselves are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There have been a variety of comments recently about what makes a good Mistress.  I think we&#8217;re all agreed here that there&#8217;s a huge difference between a  Mistress and a bitchy female!  You can read about that on the <a title="blog mistresses" href="http://www.blogmistresses.com/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Blog Mistresses Blog</span></a>.  That said, there is also a wide variety in what callers themselves are looking for in a Mistress.</p>
<p>Recently, I&#8217;ve had several delightful callers who are not into extreme sex play.  Now, I am an <a title="cock control olivia" href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/index.php?action=show&amp;tease=133" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Experienced Mistress</span></a> so I do know all the kinky sex games and can get as naughty as you like.   One caller (I&#8217;ll call him EROS) wanted some anal play but said, &#8220;What IS IT with you Mistresses and your big black strapons!&#8221;  I totally lost it!  I cracked up laughing.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000000;"> The extreme is not the norm</span></h4>
<p>Eros and I then had a great conversation about what makes a great <a title="vox olivia" href="http://www.voxerotic.com/main.php?action=show&amp;tease=133" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">phone sex</span></a> call for him.   I doubt he&#8217;s the only one that feels this way so that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m doing this post.  It easy to get caught up in highlighting the extremes.  The &#8220;most unusual&#8221; or the &#8220;you&#8217;ll never believe this&#8221; moments are actually few and far between.  (That&#8217;s WHY they&#8217;re unusual, duh!)  If you think about a newscast, it&#8217;s the disaster that gets the news coverage.  You&#8217;ll never see a headline saying, Thousands of planes land without problems.  But, of course, the plane crash is a front page story.  I think human beings are like that too.  We gravitate to communicating about the extremes.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000000;"> Great phone sex isn&#8217;t automatically about extremes &#8230;. it&#8217;s about the erotic experience. </span></h4>
<p>For Eros, it&#8217;s the deliciousness of a Woman sensually in control even to the point of putting him in My panties &#8230;. not full on <a title="sissyschool Olivia" href="http://sissyschool.com/index.php?action=show&amp;tease=133" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">sissy femme</span></a> but wearing My panties as a nod to My erotic control.   Part of his enjoyment of our erotic conversation is that it is not  one sided.  For him (and much to MY delight) it ended up being about both of us having fun back and forth &#8230; combined with a smidge of kink in terms of <a title="cock control olivia" href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/index.php?action=show&amp;tease=133" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">cock and ball</span></a> pain play for him.      (( and, no &#8230;. there was NO big black strapon involved! *snicker* ))</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to what YOU enjoy!</p>
<p>Olivia    1-800-601-6975</p>
<p>$2.50/min, 10 min. minimum, billed directly to your credit card.</p>
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