Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Tease and denial masturbation

Do you love the feeling of cock stroking and edging?  I really love tease and denial sessions.  This type of phone sex is so erotic for us both!  You get to feel all those amazing sensations and I get to listen to you gasp and moan as you stroke to delayed orgasm.

Are you ready for tease and denial?

I return tomorrow from several days off.  Are you ready?  How do you know you’re ready for the ultimate tease and denial session from a Mistress?  Here’s how.  You know you want to cum at the end of the call but you want the build up. You know you want *more* then what you currently experience with the way you masturbate solo.

Role of a Mistress

Imagine when you are right on the edge of orgasm.  It’s HARD to stop, isn’t it?  The orgasm is calling you over the edge and that siren song feels so good you follow.  BUT …. what if you can experience the music of the siren’s song for longer than you currently do?  When you are edging before your final explosive orgasm it usually helps to have someone like this Experienced Mistress to tell you, “Take your hand OFF your cock.  Do NOT cum yet.”

Mistress guides your cock edging

Think of Me as a personal trainer … a cock trainer! ~laughs~  When I get to know you, I can *tell* when you’re going to go over that edge and My voice can help you stay just *this* side of your orgasm.  That means that the peak sensations of arousal last so much longer!

So…..are you ready to experience the ultimate in orgasm edging? ~smile~

Ms Olivia

My Schedule (returning Saturday Nov. 12th) — Ways to talk with Me

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It’s ‘only’ phone sex, so what’s the big deal; why can you call one woman for .69/minute and you’re asked to pay more here?

What’s the difference?  Ms Ally, the owner of LDW, knows what it takes for the ‘something special’ to happen in our erotic fantasy sessions.  She only works with the best, like this Experienced Mistress.  Something as ‘simple’ as this masturbation stroking erotic audio will be an sensuous adventure!.  Each Mistress has her own page of Mistress Reviews so you can see what others are saying about each of us.

What YOU need and want

We’ve given real thought to what you need beyond the session itself.  That means lots of free sites including the only adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  This career is My livelihood so I do manage My time well but you’ll get lots of interaction from Me on EE and here in the comments section of My blog.  I asked one new EE member about his reaction to finding our network of sites:

BG talks about his reaction to our community

Me:  Were you surprised at what you found?

BG:  Yes, I was definitely surprised. I was very much surprised at the loveliness of the ladies. I was surprised at the sophistication of the writing and conceptual development of the site. I was surprised at the variety of interests represented.

Mostly, I was surprised at how exciting things seemed to be. I was a bit suspicious that I was being taken in. I am generally a pretty analytical and cautious person. Even though I take significant risks from the perspective of someone not engaging in FemDom, I tend to check things out pretty thoroughly before I make any commitments.

In the end, I think a large part of the reason I committed was the depth of the LDW site. I found ladies who had obviously been involved for years. I found policy statements that and procedures designed quite obviously to protect both me, and the ladies. I had to respect that. That was really not even present in the face-to-face Domination with which I had become familiar. All of that surprised me.

I have not participated in any other phone domination sites. When one is feasting on sirloin steaks, why would he choose hamburger?”

~laughs~  I love that last line!  BG always leaves thoughtful comments (with a little quirky thing at the end).  You might say the same thing about Me.  Thoughtful, passionate, creative …. and, yes, a little quirky at the end.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

My Schedule —  Best ways to talk with Me.

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I’m on vacation right now.  I’m doing luscious, fun and sometimes very naughty things.  But, I will be back tomorrow.  Since I know you missed Me, I will be logged in for your phone sex calls on My normal day off.  Look for Me this Thursday November 3rd as well as My regular schedule.

Kinky play during My time off

I will have lots to tell you!  When I’m *off* calls that doesn’t mean I am away from the BD/sm scene.  I am a real life Mistress and I do love My fetish and kinky sex play off (and on) the phone.

Even your sex fantasies aren’t all fantasy

The Experienced Mistress is …. well, EXPERIENCED.  ~laughs~  This means  that the creative phone sex fantasy scenes that we do are grounded in My real life. I use everything that I am — that means history, learning, travel, experiences and more to create vivid erotic roleplay scenes for you where I am your Femdom Mistress.  Most of all, I use My love of (and skill with) language.

Phone sex and wordplay

We both know the power of language.  Using wordplay I ~whisper~ into your senses to give you peak experiences that make you go, ohhhhhhhhh how did She know to say THAT!?  Words … the exact right words … have power. If you’ve received an email from Me recently, you’ll see that I’m using this Mark Twain quote in My email signature:

“A powerful agent is the right word … Whenever we come upon one of those intensely right words … the resulting effect is physical as well as spiritual, and electrically prompt … The different between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.”

Are you ready for the exact right word — that bolt of erotic lightening?  Well then, I’m ready to talk with you — or I will be, when I return tomorrow for your delightful conversations by phone or sexy texting sessions.

Ms Olivia

My Schedule (returning from vacation on Wednesday Nov 2nd) — Best ways to talk with Me

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I’m on vacation until Wednesday Nov. 2nd.  You can see My current schedule here — note that since I know that many of you will be missing Me, I will be available for sessions on My regular day off, Thursday Nov. 4th, of that week.  As many of you have found out, I’m in high demand and have created a Sessions page, showing options of how to maximize your opportunities to get a session with Me.

My friend, the lovely Ms Layla is a Tantrika and She is graciously giving you some ideas for your pleasure!  Enjoy!

Tantric Yoga Positions

One of the many ways you can explore Tantra is through Tantric yoga positions.  These positions not only help you regulate your breathing they help you achieve greater and more intense levels of pleasure.

Tantra isn’t just about sex….but I guarantee you will discover a deeper pleasure than you have ever had before!  Don’t worry you won’t be twisting yourself up like a pretzel!

Here are a few poses to help guide you towards Tantric bliss.  I suggest a phone sex cam call so I can watch you and share in the experience.  There’s nothing more connected than partner yoga!

Mountain Pose

Mountain pose sounds very simple but definitely takes time to master.  Stand at the edge of your yoga mat and rest your hands down at your side.

How long before you slump?  Five seconds?  Ten?  I bet you don’t last long during a tease and denial session either!

Mountain pose is about posture and the grounding of your feet.  Your body should be light but your feet should be grounded.  That doesn’t mean you should curl your toes or press your feet into the floor.  It does mean that your energy is more focused at your feet.

Take a deep breath in and exhale.  Don’t let your mind wander….just focus on your breathing and letting your breath fill your entire body.

Tree Pose

From there you will move into tree pose.  Tree pose shifts the position of your cock, making you more aware of it.  It is this awareness that will give you pleasure.  But remember, there’s a difference between awareness and distraction.

Take your right foot and place it against your left thigh.  Use your breathing and posture to help maintain your balance.  Fold your hands into prayer position in front of you and hold.

Now breathe.

As you inhale, draw air and energy from your surroundings.  As you exhale, release the air into your body filling every single spot from your fingers to your toes.  Take time to focus on each body part.  When you come to your cock, stop and really experience the feelings of pleasure and erotic awareness that are a result of your deep breathing.

Hold this position as long as it feels natural and then switch legs.

Remember, you must learn to control your cock.  The more you practice this pose the more you will discover inner reserves of strength and control.  These two things will help you achieve greater, deeper and more intense orgasm with the ebb and flow of your breath.

Relaxation Pose

The final pose is relaxation pose.  Lie on your back with your legs a few inches apart and your hands down by your side.  Breathe normally as you adjust your body making yourself as long as possible.

This pose is about relaxing your entire body, mind and spirit so it is important that all of you feels completely at ease.  Take a moment to notice all parts of your body.

Are you aroused?  Great!  But that doesn’t mean you can’t feel relaxed at the same time.  Don’t focus on the physical feeling, but rather your state of being.

Easier said than done isn’t it?  This takes a lot of practice.  Breathe deeply for a few cycles of breath and then sit up.

You are well on your way to learning the art of Tantric yoga!  Stay tuned for more yoga positions.

Ms Layla

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

One of the main concerns of any caller to a phone sex line is this:  “Will the woman I call understand my fantasy?”  It’s horrible to be aroused and then have the voice on the other end of the phone say or do something that takes you out of your fantasy.  Let’s talk about that today.

How to pick the right Mistress

Even if you’re new to phone sex, you will want to experience this with the woman who is right for you.  If you’ve called other phone sex companies, we’re sure you’ll be pleasantly surprised when you call us.  Our Mistresses are successful women who are creative and articulate in all the fantasy areas we offer.  Here’s a post about what others say about how to choose the right Mistress.

My background

I’m a former journalist and have been in communications My entire professional life.  This career in erotic entertainment is an extension of what I’ve been doing all My life!  I use active listening techniques combined with subtle interviewing to make sure I *get* your individualized expression of your kinky fetish or erotic needs.  As a network of erotic sites, we have a wealth of information about all sorts of fun fetish ideas.  And, we take the subtleties of your erotic needs seriously as you can see in these essays about various forms of crossdressing.

Experienced Mistress

I really AM the Experienced Mistress.  I am a *fetish player* in real life.  My personal relationship is with a sexually submissive man who loves erotic humiliation.  As a photographer, I got to know and adore men who like to cross dress.  I understand the difference between a crossdresser and a sissy.  I understand there are nuances and each person, each fantasy, is DIFFERENT!  I love those nuances and finding out what makes you *tick*.

We communicate before the session

I welcome your emails with details about what you want, your questions for Me and anything else on your mind.  One note, I’m in demand and therefore increasingly unable to give you blocks of time in IM before your session.  Many of you are in the midst of the IM “warm up” and I’m whisked away by a caller who gets Me before you.  I’ve posted what this means to you and how to best communicate with Me on My sessions page.  I don’t want to limit your ability to communicate with Me outside of sessions but please know that this is My livelihood and I will take the sessions in first come, first served basis.

Live Help Desk for immediate assistance

We have a Live Help Desk staffed by lovely Mistresses who can help you find the perfect Mistress for you.  I am usually one of the Mistresses who will be recommended for you if you say you want to do your session during My schedule of availability.

I communicate a lot with Ms Molly on Live Help.  Here’s a specific instance of how we work together to make sure you are FULLY satisfied!  *wink*

Ms Molly:  I’m proud every day of our service! One instance in particular was YESTERDAY–you know who I’m talking about, too!  We had a gentleman who was feeling pretty bummed, and was convinced that no one would be able to ever quite get his fantasy.  I was able to convince him to give our lovely, lovely Olivia the opportunity to listen to what he had in mind.

He fell in love with your look and your voice, but he was still feeling uneasy.  I promised him (and I don’t break promises) but he was still rather worried.  I GUARANTEED that he would enjoy himself with you.

Ms Olivia:  Awww…you know I always take care of the guys you send to me!  He did send Me an email to make sure I knew what he wanted.  He was still a little nervous, but YOUR IM with him made all the difference in the world.  I can understand that they’re horny for something specific and it’s such a letdown if the woman you’re talking with doesn’t ‘get it.’  That’s why Live Help is SO GREAT for all of us!  Then, he’ll only have blue balls if he wants them!

Ms Molly:  lol!!!  I told him to e-mail you.  He didn’t even realize he could!

Have you talked with our lovely Ladies on Live Help?  They’re GREAT!  Also, please feel free to send Me emails before your session to make sure you’re comfortable making that call.  What are some of your comments and questions?

Ms Olivia

My schedule —– How to get a session

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Your sexual fantasies are deeply intimate.  It takes trust to bring another person in and tell that person what turns you on.  You open yourself up in so many ways.  Yes, it’s scary!  I know that so I want to talk with you about trust.

trust and phone sex

There are two key areas of trust when you’re considering calling for an erotic conversation.  One question you should ask yourself is:  How will the phone sex company handle private billing information?  The other main issue is:  Can I trust the person I talk with to really understand me?  I’m going to start with the non-sexy part.

Your private billing information

We take your privacy very seriously!  I do NOT get your private billing information.  I don’t even know your full name, I don’t have access to your location or your credit card information.  Anything you would like to tell Me (with the exception of your credit card information) I will hear and hold it in the strictest confidence.

Here’s what the owner, Ms Ally, promises:

Our billing procedures and data handling processes are PCI Compliant. What this means for you, is: we have designed our processes to comply with the Payment Card Industry’s stringent standards for secure credit card processing, which are designed to minimize theft and instances of security compromise. We have benefitted from extensive consultations with security professionals to make our processes as secure as they can possibly be.

In addition, in 2005, we assumed the expense of changing our call distribution system to limit, as much as possible, the number of individuals within the company who have access to your billing information. Even as owner of the company, I cannot see your full billing information once it’s entered into our system – all information is encrypted and unviewable by anyone, from the dispatchers to me, the Company Owner.

Will She understand My fantasy?

We know you want the perfect Mistress for you.  We offer you our Live Help Desk where you can go for any questions you have.  My schedule has Me working closely with Ms Molly, who describes herself as the CIA of LDW.  In this instance, CIA means Cock Information Analyst or, if you’re a crossdresser then it’s Clitty Information Analyst!

The next post will be details about how the Live Help Desk and I work with you to make sure your experience is AMAZING!  More on that in the next posts and by the way, have you noticed?  I’m now posting blogs on a regular schedule — Look for new posts every Tuesday, Friday and Sunday.

Ms Olivia

My Current Schedule —- How to get a session

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

What do you think of when you hear the words cock control?  Does that phrase make you sit up and go, ohhhhhhh ?  ~laughs~  If it does, then read on!

This is an IM Chat with a man who is exploring his …. ahem …. growing interest in orgasm control by considering phone sex and working with a phone sex Mistress.

Our chat on IM

man:  i read some of your blog on cockcontrol.com and i figure you might be someone i might be comfortable enough to try to talk to. I am really new to this whole scene of orgasm denial. But it sounds so exciting. By the way I am (his first name) .

Ms Olivia:  hi (his first name) ! What would you like to know? Have you seen My blog? I do lots of these free IM Info Chats between calls……. especially with men who are new to Femdom, cock control and/or phone sex.

man:   i am very new to it but it sounds so thrilling

Ms Olivia:   Have you seen how I use these chats on My blog?

man:   somewhat yes

Ms Olivia:   great……I’m more than happy to talk you here and answer your questions.  May I have your permission to post this on My blog? (taking out your identifiers)

man:   That’s no problem you can post it.  I have been reading your blog a lot the last couple of days i finally got the courage to IM you.

Ms Olivia:  THANK YOU ! Tell Me a little about getting the courage to IM.

Courage to IM with Me

man:  I have like butterflies in my stomach right now lol

Ms Olivia:  Sometimes I forget that the first step of contacting Me or any Mistress can be daunting. Can you tell Me more about it?

He wants interaction with Mistress but is very new and shy

man:  Well a couple of months ago somehow i stumbled upon the tease and denial thing on wikipiedia and i read about it.  One way or another i found other websites.  None of them had any real interaction with a live person.

Ms Olivia: *nods* yes

man:  I have been thinking of this fetish and fantasizing about it for a while.

Ms Olivia:  Really! ? Tell Me more about that if you will…… I am a live person….I won’t bite…..I love to answer questions.  (Please note that I am in high demand for sessions.  Sometimes I will be able to do this type of IM chat without being in a session, but more often then not, I will have limited availability due to session volume.  Please check the Sessions page to find out all your options of how best to interact with Me.)

Ms Olivia:  One thing to let you know, when I get a call I’ll have to pause our chat.

man:   ok i understand you have a job to do.

He is curious about orgasm control & tease and denial is no FUN solo

man:  Wondering what it would be like to actually have a real women take control of my orgasm

Ms Olivia:  Having someone control your cock stroking and orgasm is different then doing it solo.  It’s a very different experience for you.  Can you tell Me more?

man:   Well I have been doing these webteases that I found on this one website. Where they tell you how to masturbate but then it tells you to stop.  It is really hard to make yourself stop when there really isn’t a person there to force you to stop stroking etc.. the whole idea of being forced to stop and leaving yourself high and dry is a real turn on.  So last week I was searching google and found this website. I saw some of the blogs of some of the young ladies on here. I read them and they are so exciting I thought about trying to IM to talk to some of the girls but every time I think about hitting the send button I would freeze up.

Ms Olivia:   ahhhhhhhhh that makes a great deal of sense! It’s a very NEW thing to you isn’t it?

man:  Yes but I want to try it. I would love to be under some hot smart and sexy girls thumb.

Free erotic teases are different from individual interaction

Ms Olivia:   You’re very correct that the experience of the free erotic audios and the tease and denial instructions on our orgasm denial assignment sites are fantastic. BUT, the experience of actually talking with someone takes it to a new and different level. We (LDW Group) have tons of free stuff and it’s all there to use however you’d like to use it. The paid sessions, though, are personalized.  That is where you get intimate and explicit interaction with you, rather than something for a general audience. The specificity is what makes it more intense.

man:  Yes, a whole new level.  By the way, you are just down right so hot! You’re a very gorgeous woman.

Ms Olivia:  Thank you!  And, I know how to use My beauty, brains, voice and creativity to create amazing erotic sessions for you!  *wink*

Now, I’m curious about those of you reading this blog.  How did YOU *stumble upon* tease and denial or orgasm denial as a hot erotic fetish?  And, are you nervous when you interact with a Mistress for the first time?  As always, please leave a blog comment for your comments, questions and anything else you’d like to tell Me.

Ms Olivia

Schedule updated regularly /// How to get a session with Me

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do you YEARN to please your Mistress?  *nods*  I see that you do.  You literally ache to hear My approval, My sigh of pleasure in your willingness to submit to Mistress needs, wants and Desires.  This free erotic audio about Desire asks you some questions about your experience of sexual desire.

The Dance of submission

How do you know you are ready to submit or begin the journey of submission to this Experienced Mistress?  First, please know that submission comes in many flavors.  Here are some comments from one caller who talks about what it takes to be a submissive man to a Femdom woman.

There are so many things to explore when you begin to think about ways to Please Your Mistress.  You might know what you want or you might be in the exploration phase.

As we get to know one another, the relationship deepens.  I’ve known krissy for several years now and this crossdressing slave serves Me well.

One caller’s experience of Femdom Mistress Domination by phone:

“Oh , it is a feeling in the belly and it takes control of my body and soul.  Your dominance weakens me completely.  i get immediately aroused by seeing You or hearing You. When i see that You are online, it takes complete control of me, it is a weakness, an urge to be with You.  It takes control of my behavior.  my purpose to serve, knowing that i can serve a Lady like You, is good because i m slave towards dominance, Your dominance.”

The Theater of the Mind of phone sex is perfect for this exploration.  What is available?  Anything your and My mind can dream up!  We have LOTS of options as you can see in our erotic fetish stories and essays.

YOU have been so *pleasing* to us, LDW is giving you a GIFT or a free call during October.  It’s the Alphabet promo and you need to be a previous caller in order to take us up on the free call.

If you’d like that call to be with this Experienced Mistress, click on the Sessions page to hear all the ways you can get a session with Me.  Or, you can simply call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Me!  Read on for the details of the offer of a free phone sex call for YOU!

The Alphabet Promo! A Free call for all previous callers of LDW Group

Starting on October 6th and continuing through October 31st, each day we will post a “Letter of the Day” on The Daily Cock blog. If your last name starts with that letter, you get a free 10 minute call with the Mistress of your choice! You must be a previous caller of the service before the first letter in your last name is the “Letter of the Day” in order to take advantage of this promotion.

Now here’s the trick – you’ll have to visit The Daily Cock blog or your favorite Mistresses’ blogs to find out the letter of the day. Our lovely dispatchers will not be able to tell you the letter of the day, so you can’t call in and ask if it’s your day. You’ll need to tell the dispatcher that you’re calling in for the Letter of the Day promo in order to get your call.

The Letter of the Day will be posted right after Midnight Eastern Time each day, and you can call to claim your call anytime after that.

One note, I will be away the latter part of October.  Please check My schedule page for availability times, appointment options and vacation time scheduled.  For those of you ready to experience a session with Me please take a look at the new post about SESSIONS to find out the best ways for you to get My undivided and personalized attention via phone, skype or sexy texting.

As always, I’ll answer each blog comment in detail, so it’s always good to ask questions, post your comments and thoughts, here.   My new schedule has Me off on Thursdays.  I’ll be starting to post blog updates on regularly scheduled days, look for that announcement shortly.  Enjoy!

Ms Olivia

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

MY MY MY!  That post about the Femdom Power of Panties has elicited QUITE a …. *response* …. from you!  I love it!

I’m back from My lovely vacation and have MORE new sexy panties!  You’re not the only one with a panty fetish! 

Thank you to everyone who posts comments on My blog and on the polls I create on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  When you write, I get inspired to write MORE.

Speaking of inspiration, I find Myself enjoying some new panties!  I love shopping for new panties.  There are so many styles, fabrics, features like detailed embroidery, sheer tulle, and elegant little additions like the artfully placed subtle bow.  Sometimes I feel elegant and sophisticated.  Other times I feel like timeless styles of simple, classy grace.  There’s an art to shopping for and buying panties that will match and/or inspire a mood.

Of you like to wear panties and would love to have some en femme panty shopping advice then I’d like to hear from you.  There are ways to really boost your crossdressing experiences with just the right pair of panties.

Panties … the lure, the power, the yearning for what’s inside …. are a powerful symbol of Femdom Mistress control over a submissive male.  And, that’s exactly what I’m thinking about today when I woke up wondering about YOU!

What is your favorite style of panty?  Right now, today, My favorite … the panty I’m wearing *wink* and the one I’m thinking about is the V-String Thong.  That’s why I’m talking about the Lure of Thong Panties!  ((that’s an audio link so careful when you click it if you’re not someplace where you can listen to My sexy voice describe these thong panties.))

So, what are some of YOUR favorite panties and why?  Post your comments here or please feel free to send Me an email to get to know Me before a phone sex session.  My email is:  Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com

Ms Olivia

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

What’s under that white coat that I’m wearing?  If you are a willing subject, you just might get to SEE!

Here’s the reality of your situation right now.  Your Doctor is My friend and we have been plotting about YOU!  We’ve decided to turn you into a study for our research on men.  Therefore, when you come in for your regularly scheduled physical exam, we turn the exam table on you and outline a very THOROUGH exam.

When you arrive at our office, you will hear something like this:  Free Erotic Audio.  We will get you all …. prepared and ….. ahem … ready.

Remember this is all for medical science.  We’ll need to be very thorough, detailed, and exacting.

Didn’t I tell you?  You’re going to be in a study that looks at cock teasing and cock control.  You will need to stay HERE for the duration of the study.  Don’t worry you’ll be quite comfortable in all ways but, perhaps, one.  ~laughs~

People will come in to study your physical responsiveness to various sorts of stimulation.  Ohhhhh, don’t worry.  Our staff has done this before.  We have a body of research to back up all our activities.  Do you have any questions?

Oh!  you’re wondering about that poster on the wall?  Why yes, that’s Me.  But, noooooo….I won’t be disrobing, you will be.  Yes it is time for naked male, clothed female during these various tests.  Now, don’t be shy, you’ll find you’ll be doing a number of things you never thought you would do, for example, have you ever thought about tasting your own cum?  Well, that might be part of your research protocol ….but, I’m getting ahead of Myself.  Get comfortable and I’ll see you in the morning.

Mistress (Doctor) Olivia