Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do YOU like stockings as much as I do?  *wink*

A really great pair of legs can stop traffic!  Sheer, sexy stockings make My long legs really put on a show and stop you in your ….. tracks. Let’s talk about our mutual love of stockings on your phone sex call.

What do you love about stockings?

Look carefully at the photo, that seam up the back of sheer stockings is like a path to the pleasure cove! Or maybe you believe that the journey is even more fun than the destination!  As you can tell, I love wordplay as much as I adore the silky feel of stockings.

Legs, stockings and high heels can spin a submissive man into erotic torment.  *wink*  And, if you have a foot or leg fetish then you’re falling under My influence right now, aren’t you?

Crossdressers and stockings

Maybe you’re looking at that photo and you start to imagine yourself in a garter belt, sheer stockings and sexy high heels.  If you’re a crossdresser then you know that there are many styles of tights, pantyhose, and stockings.  What are the best stockings for a crossdresser to wear?  The answer is the same as for Me, wear what makes you feel sexy!

Maybe we should ALL go to a party!  A sexy adventure like you can hear in this erotic audio about the thigh high stockings party!   Tell Me all about your love of stockings!  Ohhhhh that sounds just little like the phrase, “I’ll show you mine, if you show Me yours.”  ~laughs~

Ms Olivia

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I’ll admit it.  I love to hear YOUR voice!

Your tone and timbre, the words you use, the *gasp* as you catch your breath.  The sound of your voice turns Me on!  Which is probably one of the many reasons why phone sex is so much fun!!

A number of you have discovered just how easy it is to call an American Mistress!   I’m glad I get calls from all over the world because I think YOUR accents are delicious. You can hear My *accent* in this erotic audio.

Whatever words you use, you know what *feels good* when you masturbate, don’t you?

Solo masturbation can get boring!

Let’s face it, what you’re doing now is fine but less then great.  Oh sure, you still get the release …. but, is there the real thrill of excitement in the build up TO your orgasm? Perhaps the whole thing is even beginning to feel a bit mechanical and unimaginative.

Guided masturbation is way more FUN!

When your stroking becomes monotonous, then you’re ready for guided masturbation.  I am the Experienced Mistress and I take men on a masturbation journey that allows us both to enjoy your cock stroking!

What is guided masturbation?

It’s more than just new stroking techniques, but that IS part of it.  You learn new skills and become proficient in a variety of cock stroking styles.

While I don’t HAVE a penis, I have played with so many I know what I’m talking about!   I have a wealth of knowledge that can turn you inside out with pleasure.  You hear My voice encouraging you, experiencing YOU as you stroke for Me …. all this and more, are some of the things that take your erotic enjoyment to the next level … and beyond!

Let’s not forget that there is also My lovely American accent and choice of words that will also take your masturbation to new …. ahem…..heights, as it were.  ~laughs~  You do know that an American Mistress can be a wicked cock tease, don’t you?  I use My imagination as you can hear in this erotic audio *wink*.

Ms Olivia

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Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Tease and denial masturbation

Do you love the feeling of cock stroking and edging?  I really love tease and denial sessions.  This type of phone sex is so erotic for us both!  You get to feel all those amazing sensations and I get to listen to you gasp and moan as you stroke to delayed orgasm.

Are you ready for tease and denial?

I return tomorrow from several days off.  Are you ready?  How do you know you’re ready for the ultimate tease and denial session from a Mistress?  Here’s how.  You know you want to cum at the end of the call but you want the build up. You know you want *more* then what you currently experience with the way you masturbate solo.

Role of a Mistress

Imagine when you are right on the edge of orgasm.  It’s HARD to stop, isn’t it?  The orgasm is calling you over the edge and that siren song feels so good you follow.  BUT …. what if you can experience the music of the siren’s song for longer than you currently do?  When you are edging before your final explosive orgasm it usually helps to have someone like this Experienced Mistress to tell you, “Take your hand OFF your cock.  Do NOT cum yet.”

Mistress guides your cock edging

Think of Me as a personal trainer … a cock trainer! ~laughs~  When I get to know you, I can *tell* when you’re going to go over that edge and My voice can help you stay just *this* side of your orgasm.  That means that the peak sensations of arousal last so much longer!

So…..are you ready to experience the ultimate in orgasm edging? ~smile~

Ms Olivia

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Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Where does your erotic fetish start?

Some people are adventurous and come to fetish sex by being open to erotic adventures.  Others, have the seeds of their fetish fantasies planted years ago by some seminal (pun intended) event or person.

I’ll be away for a couple days this week during the times I’m normally here for you.  I will be here today though (*wink*) if you’d like to call right away.  Here’s My schedule for you to plan your call.  If you can’t catch Me today, I wanted to leave you with something to think about.

What is a fetish?

A fetish is *something* that has power over you.  For example, it can be an object that has *supernatural powers*.  I’ve done numerous blog posts about the power of panties.  Realistically, it’s just bits of lacy fabric and elastic, but they are so alluring to you there’s a real sense of amazing powers of sexy panties.

Where does a sex fetish start?

I’m always curious about your erotic life.  What you think about, why you think about that thing and not something else, etc.  As the Experienced Mistress, I know that knowledge is power.  Any cock control Mistress can tell you that!  I use what you tell Me to create the most amazing phone sex experience for you.  Your session is so great that your phone sex fun is guaranteed!

Where his sexy panties fetish began

I’m always thrilled when you let Me post your comments!  Here’s one example from our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.

Panteezd says: “As a young man I was teased by a very sexy blonde (like you!) who wore her skirts a little shorter than perhaps was going to stop the boys from looking, or at least trying to look up her skirt.
She purposely would reveal her panties to me making me extremely excited and then would point out my enormous erection when she discretely had the opportunity (not in front of others).
She did this many afternoons and it seems to have left me with an enormous desire to be teased even though I’ve never had any problem meeting woman and having mutually pleasurable relationships.
I still crave that erotic teasing power she had over me and denial and teasing gives me sooo much pleasure more so than straight sex.”

Thank you panteezd for your comments!  Now, I’d like to hear from you!  Where and how did your kinky sex fantasies start?  ((Please just say ‘younger years’ instead of naming the age.))  As always, please post your comments, questions and anything else you’d like to say.  I’ll approve and respond to your comments!  I always learn and get inspired from YOU — so, happy typing

Ms Olivia

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Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Do you have sexual fantasies about eating your own cum, tasting cum or cum spurting out of a cock?  You are not alone!  This is one of the most intense erotic desires of all the kinks. This Experienced Mistress is an expert at seducing, coercing and encouraging you to eat your own cum.

Your desires are unique.

You are unique.  That means the expression of your sexual desire is unique.  The arc of your arousal is distinct to you.  This Experienced Mistress finds out about you and then creates an arousal arc that touches all of your sexual buttons.

Not all cum eaters are the same

It is important that your Femdom Mistress knows YOU.  That allows Me to use My creativity to pace your phone sex session in the best way for you.  There is a very big difference between the sissy slut who gobbles cum for Mistress and someone who is into the rush of erotic humiliation when Mistress says, “Eat your own cum, NOW!”

What do you do when you have a sort of nameless urge and desire?  Then, it’s time to turn to the Experienced Mistress.  You urges become so much more satisfying when you have an experienced cum coach to guide you, encourage you and show you all that you know you want.

Again, it’s ALL about you as an individual:

Man:  Over the last couple of years I’ve developed this fascination with eating my own cum…. All the stuff on the internet is degrading and the talk nasty which turns me off. Its an embarrassing fetish but I think if the right person can talk me through it I may do it. Enjoy dirty sweet talk and someone encouraging me to do it.

Are you ready to be encouraged?  Are you ready to explore?  ~smiles~  Ahhhhh, I think you are ready.  Aren’t you?

Ms Olivia

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Olivia 1-800-601-6975

It’s ‘only’ phone sex, so what’s the big deal; why can you call one woman for .69/minute and you’re asked to pay more here?

What’s the difference?  Ms Ally, the owner of LDW, knows what it takes for the ‘something special’ to happen in our erotic fantasy sessions.  She only works with the best, like this Experienced Mistress.  Something as ‘simple’ as this masturbation stroking erotic audio will be an sensuous adventure!.  Each Mistress has her own page of Mistress Reviews so you can see what others are saying about each of us.

What YOU need and want

We’ve given real thought to what you need beyond the session itself.  That means lots of free sites including the only adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  This career is My livelihood so I do manage My time well but you’ll get lots of interaction from Me on EE and here in the comments section of My blog.  I asked one new EE member about his reaction to finding our network of sites:

BG talks about his reaction to our community

Me:  Were you surprised at what you found?

BG:  Yes, I was definitely surprised. I was very much surprised at the loveliness of the ladies. I was surprised at the sophistication of the writing and conceptual development of the site. I was surprised at the variety of interests represented.

Mostly, I was surprised at how exciting things seemed to be. I was a bit suspicious that I was being taken in. I am generally a pretty analytical and cautious person. Even though I take significant risks from the perspective of someone not engaging in FemDom, I tend to check things out pretty thoroughly before I make any commitments.

In the end, I think a large part of the reason I committed was the depth of the LDW site. I found ladies who had obviously been involved for years. I found policy statements that and procedures designed quite obviously to protect both me, and the ladies. I had to respect that. That was really not even present in the face-to-face Domination with which I had become familiar. All of that surprised me.

I have not participated in any other phone domination sites. When one is feasting on sirloin steaks, why would he choose hamburger?”

~laughs~  I love that last line!  BG always leaves thoughtful comments (with a little quirky thing at the end).  You might say the same thing about Me.  Thoughtful, passionate, creative …. and, yes, a little quirky at the end.  *wink*

Ms Olivia

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Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

I’m on vacation right now.  I’m doing luscious, fun and sometimes very naughty things.  But, I will be back tomorrow.  Since I know you missed Me, I will be logged in for your phone sex calls on My normal day off.  Look for Me this Thursday November 3rd as well as My regular schedule.

Kinky play during My time off

I will have lots to tell you!  When I’m *off* calls that doesn’t mean I am away from the BD/sm scene.  I am a real life Mistress and I do love My fetish and kinky sex play off (and on) the phone.

Even your sex fantasies aren’t all fantasy

The Experienced Mistress is …. well, EXPERIENCED.  ~laughs~  This means  that the creative phone sex fantasy scenes that we do are grounded in My real life. I use everything that I am — that means history, learning, travel, experiences and more to create vivid erotic roleplay scenes for you where I am your Femdom Mistress.  Most of all, I use My love of (and skill with) language.

Phone sex and wordplay

We both know the power of language.  Using wordplay I ~whisper~ into your senses to give you peak experiences that make you go, ohhhhhhhhh how did She know to say THAT!?  Words … the exact right words … have power. If you’ve received an email from Me recently, you’ll see that I’m using this Mark Twain quote in My email signature:

“A powerful agent is the right word … Whenever we come upon one of those intensely right words … the resulting effect is physical as well as spiritual, and electrically prompt … The different between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.”

Are you ready for the exact right word — that bolt of erotic lightening?  Well then, I’m ready to talk with you — or I will be, when I return tomorrow for your delightful conversations by phone or sexy texting sessions.

Ms Olivia

My Schedule (returning from vacation on Wednesday Nov 2nd) — Best ways to talk with Me

Ms Layla 1-800-601-6975

I’m on vacation until Wednesday Nov. 2nd.  You can see My current schedule here — note that since I know that many of you will be missing Me, I will be available for sessions on My regular day off, Thursday Nov. 4th, of that week.  As many of you have found out, I’m in high demand and have created a Sessions page, showing options of how to maximize your opportunities to get a session with Me.

My friend, the lovely Ms Layla is a Tantrika and She is graciously giving you some ideas for your pleasure!  Enjoy!

Tantric Yoga Positions

One of the many ways you can explore Tantra is through Tantric yoga positions.  These positions not only help you regulate your breathing they help you achieve greater and more intense levels of pleasure.

Tantra isn’t just about sex….but I guarantee you will discover a deeper pleasure than you have ever had before!  Don’t worry you won’t be twisting yourself up like a pretzel!

Here are a few poses to help guide you towards Tantric bliss.  I suggest a phone sex cam call so I can watch you and share in the experience.  There’s nothing more connected than partner yoga!

Mountain Pose

Mountain pose sounds very simple but definitely takes time to master.  Stand at the edge of your yoga mat and rest your hands down at your side.

How long before you slump?  Five seconds?  Ten?  I bet you don’t last long during a tease and denial session either!

Mountain pose is about posture and the grounding of your feet.  Your body should be light but your feet should be grounded.  That doesn’t mean you should curl your toes or press your feet into the floor.  It does mean that your energy is more focused at your feet.

Take a deep breath in and exhale.  Don’t let your mind wander….just focus on your breathing and letting your breath fill your entire body.

Tree Pose

From there you will move into tree pose.  Tree pose shifts the position of your cock, making you more aware of it.  It is this awareness that will give you pleasure.  But remember, there’s a difference between awareness and distraction.

Take your right foot and place it against your left thigh.  Use your breathing and posture to help maintain your balance.  Fold your hands into prayer position in front of you and hold.

Now breathe.

As you inhale, draw air and energy from your surroundings.  As you exhale, release the air into your body filling every single spot from your fingers to your toes.  Take time to focus on each body part.  When you come to your cock, stop and really experience the feelings of pleasure and erotic awareness that are a result of your deep breathing.

Hold this position as long as it feels natural and then switch legs.

Remember, you must learn to control your cock.  The more you practice this pose the more you will discover inner reserves of strength and control.  These two things will help you achieve greater, deeper and more intense orgasm with the ebb and flow of your breath.

Relaxation Pose

The final pose is relaxation pose.  Lie on your back with your legs a few inches apart and your hands down by your side.  Breathe normally as you adjust your body making yourself as long as possible.

This pose is about relaxing your entire body, mind and spirit so it is important that all of you feels completely at ease.  Take a moment to notice all parts of your body.

Are you aroused?  Great!  But that doesn’t mean you can’t feel relaxed at the same time.  Don’t focus on the physical feeling, but rather your state of being.

Easier said than done isn’t it?  This takes a lot of practice.  Breathe deeply for a few cycles of breath and then sit up.

You are well on your way to learning the art of Tantric yoga!  Stay tuned for more yoga positions.

Ms Layla

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

We’ve talked about it here on My blog.  We’ve talked about it when you call for the various cock oriented phone sex calls.  Some of you want to be a cuckold and others have bisexual fantasies.   I know there are LOTS of men who are as fascinated by the penis as I am!

Since I often discuss the *elephant in the living room* let’s talk about the difference between real life cock sucking and fantasy cock scenes.

Advantage of fantasy sex

The advantage of phone sex is that you can live out fantasies without the real life consequences.  I’m a big fan of fantasy for this reason.  Phone sex is safe, private, creative and hot and Ms Layla describes how she worked with a caller to give him an amazing fantasy phone call that was very real to him!

Turning your sex fantasy into real life

For those that have your heart and cock set on *the real thing* then you’ve got a couple of options.  First you can eat your own cum and Ms Violet can even show you how to suck your own cock!  This is the only totally safe way to eat cum, because you are eating your own cum.

Second safest way to suck a cock in real life

You *might* not want to hear this, but I do care about you and your other intimate partners, so I’m going to say it.  If you want to suck a cock in real life, safer sex means use a condom.  Notice I said safer because it is not 100% safe.  Because there are risks you have a moral obligation to talk with your real life partner to give HER options about the risks she wants to take with her own sexual safety.  If you suck an uprotected cock and the woman (or man) in your life thinks you are exclusive then she puts herself at risk when she exchanges bodily fluids with you (and the others you have sex with).  This is  NOT GOOD.

High risk sex

The *fantasy* of cock sucking at a glory hole or anonymous sex situation is totally hot!  The reality is very risky.  My personal ethics, emotional and professional responsibility, and general requirements of My own standards mean that I will NOT encourage you to do this in real life without protection or if you have to do it without protection I will tell you to make sure your sexual partner knows the risks she takes with you.

Sorry guys, I know that isn’t sexy, but that is My professional standard and it’s one that I use in My own personal life.  My guy and I do not have a totally monogamous sex life but we are honest with each other and each understands the health risks we choose to take.  It is worth it to us both and we’ve made fully informed decisions about the risks we are willing (and not willing) to take.

Was this blog post a total downer?  What are your thoughts, reactions, comments and questions?

Ms Olivia

Are you looking for a beautiful Femdom Mistress?

If you’re like most people, you have a general idea of what you want.  And, like most people, you know you’ve found what you’ve been looking for WHEN you find it.  BUT — What do you do during the in between time — of having an idea and then taking action to get what you want.

Tim writes:  “I must tell you that I, in fact, thoroughly enjoy phone sex (perhaps a bit to much! lol) and although I have only experimented with the Domme/sub phone session, it is only because I have an idea of what I would like and what direction I would want to head in, and so far I have not found just what I am looking for. I do think that winding up here at EE was no accident, especially after our brief, yet detailed correspondence.

I have no doubt in my mind that I am destined to submit, and I look forward to that time.”

Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Fetish exploration with phone sex

Phone sex is a wonderful way to explore all sorts of kinky desires.  You might be curious about this whole area of fetish sex.  Or, you might be like Tim, armed with a general idea and an internet search engine.  Let’s start with the basics.

Sensual or Strict

One of the most common questions I hear is this:  “Are you a sensual or strict Mistress?”  I always answer, “Both!”  but I can *be* either style exclusively.

Here’s what most men like: first, the sensual tease and then the *torment* of your submission begins.  So, the sensual beginning will be lots of cock tease and denial and then I move to a more strict and stern tone (for those who want strict).  Very few callers want the mean bitch off the top (so to speak).  Personally, I like to combine both tones all the way through the session, because you thrill to the sensuality after a stern command.

Communication

It’s important that we communicate but that doesn’t mean you have to know what you want or even do lots of talking.  I am an expert communicator and I use all those skills to gently peel away the layers of your psyche.  I find out what you know you want and then go deeper … delving into your most secret desires.  This can be as ‘simple’ as being your masturbation manager or as complex as detailed role plays.

Unique experience

There is something that happens when the two of us combine and entwine together.  This ‘something’ is larger then even the sum of us both as individuals.  And, that something really is amazing and memorable as you can hear in this free erotic audio.

Are you ready to experience the thrill ride of male submission where each moment is as unique as you are?  If you know you’d like to try this, please give Me a call.

When you’re not sure, then it’s time to keep doing research.  I have every confidence you will find the exactly want you want.  Please post your comments and questions here, I’m happy to be on this journey of exploration with you!

Ms Olivia

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