Man in lingerie: does that make me gay

Do you wear panties under your man clothes? Some men want to wear lingerie simply because women have the best undergarments!  It doesn’t have anything to do with gender identification.  It’s just great to be a man in sexy lingerie.  I get a lot of phone...

What to call the Experienced Mistress

Mistress or Goddess I got an email from a submissive who wants to know My thoughts on the various labels I use.  I hadn’t really thought of this before.  Sometimes I will call Myself a Goddess, Empress, Mistress or even other defining terms like Cuckoldress or...

IM Chat: Emotional landmines with amateur fetish dating

The last post asked the question why pay for sex? I, personally, think one of the primary reasons for phone sex is to avoid all the messy entanglements of real life dating!  When you know you want to get off and know how you want to do it (for example with fetish sex...

fetish girls are available, why pay for sex?

Why pay for sex There’s a lot of free sex available.  You can jack off to all sorts of free porn clips or photos on the internet.  There are dating and casual hook up sites galore!  There are online communities devoted to fantasy relationships.  Even the adult...

IM chat: Question, Pro Domme versus escort

Question about a Pro Domme I get lots of questions about all sorts of things.  Most issues are in the BDsm and sex fetish arena but I’m an Informatrix (new term from a caller of mine) — we can talk about anything your heart or your dick desires.  After...