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Questions for the Experienced Mistress

olivia — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 15:13:36 +0000

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

Hello there! Periodically I open the blog to your questions.

Now, in all fairness, I do answer questions in the comments on ANY topic when you post a question in the comments. But, let’s do a blog post specifically for your questions. Go down at the end of this post and click on the comments section and post your question there.

Feel free to ASK Me anything; I’m a cock teasing Femdom I’ll manage My responses. *wink* This is your place to ask about phone sex, erotic conversations, how I handle IM chats before the call, do I like sissies …. all the stuff you want to know.

OH and if you’d like to read up on any and every thing to do with fetish sex take a look at our Femdom Fetish Essays. Even if you know what you like, take a look at some of the essays because I’m sure other ideas and topics will……ahem……come up and catch your …. attention. I’m referring to your INTELLECTUAL attention of course! ~laughs~

If your question is not about kink but if you’re curious about the Experienced Mistress you can also ask those types of questions. You know that I’m totally curious about you, your real sexual issues and more. Frankly, what you ask Me also tells Me about you….and I like that! I’m taking Saturday off, but if you post questions quickly, I’ll get to them right away (in between calls) and, who knows, YOU might inspire and be the topic of future blog posts! I like THAT as well

Ms Olivia

Phone sex: Is it cheating?

olivia — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 16:07:58 +0000

One caller has this question: Do I think I’m cheating by calling or texting the Mistresses?

I hear that question from many men who want to call for phone sex and even from the men who currently use erotic conversation as a generally kinky or specific sex fantasy outlet. I’m going to talk about My thoughts on that and, as always, ask for YOUR COMMENTS.

What do YOU think? Is phone sex cheating?

I’ve created a poll asking that specific question on our adult networking site Enchantrix Empire. This poll will also have space for comments and I’ll post the poll results here on My blog in a couple of days. I want you to leave comments here to get the conversation going.

Is phone sex a solution to a no win situation in your life?

As you leave your comments and questions, I’d like you to consider something. The majority of the men who call this Experienced Mistress are married or in a committed / steady relationship. Many men say that their wife or girlfriend doesn’t understand or even know about their sex secrets.

According to My recent poll, post and your comments on Handling your sex secrets men talk about how they have been shot down when they’ve tried to talk about their erotic or kinky desires. This is especially the case with men who are closet crossdressers and sissies.

If you can’t get what you want sexually, what do you do?

Do you give up that level of sexual arousal for the sake of the relationship on your partner’s terms? On that note: Should your wife or girlfriend get to dictate what YOU do sexually? Even if you want to give your partner what she wants you to do (ie stop thinking about your fetish) can you just ‘stop’?

When sex at home is non-existent or lacking

What do you do when, for whatever reason, you don’t get sex at home? Maybe your wife of many years has zero sex drive. Maybe she has sexual hangups of her own that preclude an open conversation about erotic needs of both of you.

Or, maybe you get sex but your partner doesn’t get into the sexual kinks that you do. What are your options? You could have a real life affair with all the risks involved with that OR you could have an outlet like phone sex which I know is much safer for you! One caller refers to phone sex as ‘sin management.’

When you can’t talk about your kinky needs

This is particularly true with something like cuckolding.

Call Olivia@ 1-800-601-6975

Men with the cuckold fantasy have pointed out here that cuckolding your husband means the woman will have to get her head around sleeping with another man. Maybe she really wants a different cock or a bigger dick or maybe she has her own fantasies about her man sucking cock for Mistress. Maybe your partner is equally shy about telling YOU about the kinky stuff she thinks about!

Now, do YOU think that phone sex is cheating?

I’ll answer all your comments here and I’m really looking forward to reading what you have to say.

Ms Olivia

Mistress music for the soul …

admin — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 21:33:45 +0000

Words and language. Masculine energy/feminine energy. Breath. The whisper of the most intimate. Erotic conversation with me can be so much more then what you may think of as phone sex, and the various implications of cock control for men, crossdressers and sissies alike. This experienced Mistress so enjoys our masturbation sessions in all their glory.

It “can” be as simple as all that …. Or, it can go beyond into uncharted territory. When we’re both on the same page, dancing in unison to some primal musical score … what becomes available is an intimacy that unfolds … it is tangible … very real although the nature of a phone sex call itself is in the realm of so-called fantasy. For me, that sensual dance is much like what I appreciate about music. To me, music can be both, ethereal and real.

Music triggers everything in me …All that I am comes to attention while the music swirls around, outside/inside, passion and possibility. Whim and whimsy. Hope and yearning. Telling stories that touch me … Touching me in the place beyond words …. And, if you’ve called me, you know I love the intricacies available with language…so, to go beyond that place is …well, I have no words, which alone says a lot.

Sometimes a caller and I connect …. In the language of words, breath, and the delicious intimacy of like-minded curious personalities. In those moments, your call and you begin to live as music in my very being …. Acoustic … soaring….funky Motown, tantric techno, swinginess of swing, complexity of the classics, music through the ages, luscious stories from musicals … beyond and yet encompassing all the different “types” of music …. Access to ALL, faith from beauty and truth … tone and rhythm pulsing, urgent and intense. Your calls become music ….

And, in this New Year … I want you to know that I appreciate you in words I can’t even begin to say … it is from the place where we dance beyond words.

Olivia
1-800-601-6975

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