I *play* in the fetish scene in real life. In person BD/sm play has the same elements of fetish scene negotiation and power exchange as a scene face to face. In this way, there is NO difference between lifestyle BDsm and fantasy kink play.
As this delightful graphic from slave pet shows, I refer to myself as a lady in the living room, a chef in the kitchen and a (fill in the blank) in the bedroom. Actually, I should say more about that so I’ll post those comments when I add this image to the page for slave pet artwork.
I’m away this weekend because I’m going to a fetish event/play party. When I mentioned my schedule, I got a great question in a blog comment from magnus.
Real Life Partner of the Experienced Mistress
I do have a real life partner; I’ve written about him here on the blog before. Magnus is curious and wanted to know:
Magnus asks, “How much playing do You do on Your own vs with Your guy at these type of parties? I don’t mean You’re going by Yourself. I mean once You arrive. If that’s not an okay question, not a problem, but this post and follow on (oh so hot) comment made me curious.”
Questions for the Experienced Mistress
ALWAYS feel free to ask me anything. I have very good boundaries and I’ll tell you if I don’t want to answer. I’m known as Mistress Direct! ~laughs~ This question from Magnus has sparked my interest so I’ll answer it in a series of blogs to keep YOU amused while I’m being naughty elsewhere! ~grinz~
Real Life Play
My primary play partner in face to face settings IS my personal partner … so YES, Magnus, I DO play with him at these fetish events. He is my male submissive at these events. I’ll get into specifics in the next series of blog posts so keep reading so I’ll answer your question and more! ~smiles~
Ms Delia will be Available this Weekend
Let me also say that I know several Mistresses here. Ms Delia is also a real life Mistress who is active in her fetish community in face to face play parties. She is a wicked and wonderful play partner and I speak from personal experience! She WILL be here while I’m away. Her personal life partner, Jack, wants to get on the phone with you. WOAH! Super HOTNESS! And here’s the scoop on getting your session with Ms Delia and Jack.