submission to BDsm Mistress Olivia?
If you’re like most people, you have a general idea of what you want with BDsm. And, like most people, you know you’ve found what you’ve been looking for WHEN you find it. BUT — What do you do during the in between time — of having an idea and then taking action to get what you want. This is often the case with BDsm because it has nuances.
Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975Tim writes: “I must tell you that I, in fact, thoroughly enjoy phone sex (perhaps a bit to much! lol) and although I have only experimented with the Domme/sub phone session, it is only because I have an idea of what I would like and what direction I would want to head in, and so far I have not found just what I am looking for. I do think that winding up here at EE was no accident, especially after our brief, yet detailed correspondence.
I have no doubt in my mind that I am destined to submit, and I look forward to that time.”
Fetish exploration with phone sex
Phone sex is a wonderful way to explore all sorts of kinky desires. You might be curious about this whole area of fetish sex. Or, you might be like Tim, armed with a general idea and an internet search engine. Let’s start with the basics.
Sensual or Strict
One of the most common questions I hear is this: “Are you a sensual or strict Mistress?” I always answer, “Both!” but I can *be* either style exclusively.
Here’s what most men like: first, the sensual tease and then the *torment* of your submission begins. So, the sensual beginning will be lots of cock tease and denial and then I move to a more strict and stern tone (for those who want strict). Very few callers want the mean bitch off the top (so to speak). Personally, I like to combine both tones all the way through the session, because you thrill to the sensuality after a stern command.
Communication
It’s important that we communicate but that doesn’t mean you have to know what you want or even do lots of talking. I am an expert communicator and I use all those skills to gently peel away the layers of your psyche. I find out what you know you want and then go deeper … delving into your most secret desires. This can be as ‘simple’ as being your masturbation manager or as complex as detailed role plays.
Unique experience
There is something that happens when the two of us combine and entwine together. This ‘something’ is larger then even the sum of us both as individuals. And, that something really is amazing and memorable as you can hear in this free erotic audio.
Are you ready to experience the thrill ride of male submission where each moment is as unique as you are? If you know you’d like to try this, please give Me a call.
When you’re not sure, then it’s time to keep doing research. I have every confidence you will find the exactly want you want. Please post your comments and questions here, I’m happy to be on this journey of exploration with you!
Ms Olivia
My schedule — Best ways to get My attention
MsOlivia, I am your density. 🙂 (Had to start with the BTTF line.)
Here’s a bit of a digression as You’ve come to expect. You mentioned someone asking about strict or sensual and You answered both. A very good answer, I might add. I agree one can be both, but I am not sure they are even separate things. That is, I don’t necessarily think one needs to be sensual at first and then move to strict. i.e. both can be done at the same time to the fullest extent instead of moving between them in a session.
I think a Domme can be strict, giving commands and expecting complete obeyance to such while doing so sensually. Perhaps putting the sub in tight bondage or making him kneel immediately while whispering how much she enjoys seeing him down there. Does that make sense?
Anyway though I did want to say that I think research is important. I know that in my case, the internet really opened up what I had been exposed to for different fetishes and really what was out there. I would encourage people to look at things like that to find out what it is they like. And You touched upon the fact that it can be an evolving process. Maybe you might think you like something only later to find out that maybe it’s not or maybe your fantasy really doesn’t mesh well with reality. I think it’s important to find out though.
Well put magnus and thank you for your comment!
I totally agree with you about the blending of the seemingly opposite styles of strict and sensual!
I’ve noticed that when someone first asks about Me as phone sex Mistress, they do break it down into those two groupings whereas I, like you, don’t see them as separate. Personally, the style I tend to use (quite effectively I might add) is one of *the erotic startle* …. combining tone, instructions, wordplay, noises, sensations and more to keep the lovely man slightly off balance but fully engaged…..bound up in the erotic fantasy! *wink*