** Ms Olivia audio cock curious **
BIG cock
According to the book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts, this married man is not alone in thinking about cock — his cock and the cocks of other men. Men (and women) think about cock a lot! The book is written by 2 neuroscientists and they analyzed web search behavior to gain insight into sexual desires. The theory behind the science is that most people don’t actually tell the truth about sexual thoughts, erotic fantasies or sex desires. As someone in the phone sex business I know this is true! Which is why this married man is asking me about his cock fantasies. I loved reading the book and learning more about the science of Wicked Thoughts.
Marriage and sexual fantasy
Take a look at my blog post on the results of the sex secrets poll — be sure to read the comments! Phone sex is perfect for fantasy exploration. I don’t think erotic thoughts about someone other than your wife would be cheating. In fact, I don’t think it’s reasonable to think you would ONLY have sexual thoughts for 1 person, that’s just not a realistic goal. Marriage doesn’t mean that you’re not going to think about things that turn you on. ((I believe it is possible to be in a committed relationship and be sexually polyamorous but that’s another blog post – this one is about thoughts.))
Turned on by a cock
I think what he is really worried about is the fact that he is turned on by a man’s penis. What does that mean? Could he be gay or bi? That doesn’t really have anything to do with being married. Being cock curious doesn’t mean you’re gay. There are lots of straight men that think about and even fantasize about sucking cock.
Do YOU worry about what turns you on or do you just go with the erotic pleasures without the burden of (in my opinion) unreasonable guilt?
Goddess “O”:
You know that I think about cock all the time but you also know that I am as gay as they come (can we all say Sissy Fairy Faggot together – LoL). I guess this is not for me to comment on ~ smiles~.
Love you,
Your Sissy Crystal
~laughs~ YES we can all ways SISSY FAIRY FAGGOT! All together now ….. ~laughs~ …. Oh I do so enjoy you! 🙂
Happy Birthday Ms. O.
Sent you the first thing on your wish list. (Maybe you should list the Microsoft Surface Pro 3 first:) Only tell you this because I’m not sure you are going to get it.
Amazon required a phone number for delivery so I gave them 800-601-6975 as I seem to have misplaced your home number. Not sure that is what they had in mind but at least if the delivery guy gets lost someone will tell him to get his cock sucking, cross-dressing, sissy ass in gear and get Ms. O her gift.
Then Amazon gave me this message “We’re sorry. This item can’t be gift-wrapped or sent with a gift note.”
Bottom line Ms. O is someone in Massachusetts may or may not be getting an unwrapped handbag in the near or not so near future.
Next year maybe I could just anonymously send some crumpled up tens and twenties in an envelope.
Enjoy you day Ms. O. You make the word a nicer/better place.
laughs …. oh WOW … what a great comment! I have no idea what’s up with the darn Wish List….I accidentally locked myself out of the wish list so I actually might end up changing Wish Lists again! I miss my original wish list … it had all sorts of presents on it, going back years … now you can see what people bought off the list … waaaa ….
You know I tell strippers all the time that crumpled $1 bills spend the same as money-money …. BUT, in all fairness, just try buying a big TV with crumpled $1 bills. ~laughs~ Right?
What a wonderful and thought-provoking post!
Sometimes I think it’s plausible to make a relationship stronger by revealing some of those pent-up fantasies. It can liberate both partners and even create a tighter bond when there is acceptance and space left open for fantasies to breathe.
Maybe it’s more often than not a projection of fear onto a significant other when it merely originates from oneself. Exploring those kinky thoughts and dreams can be mutually beneficial.
I agree Ms Fiona … vulnerability is the absolute most difficult thing to do because you are … well … VULNERABLE. I was watching a TED talk recently about vulnerability and fear and more. It’s tough … but if things were easy then it wouldn’t be as interesting or as important as when things are a bit more challenging, right?
I really enjoyed this post, Ms. Olivia!
I think I may have to get the book you mentioned! I love science and scientific reasons for why we all do what we do!
I also like the topic. As you know I have had my subby hubby, Jack suck cock for me one time, and it was a really sexy way for us to explore that part of our kink!
I can’t wait to read the blog post about married polyamory when you write it! Such amazing food for thought!
Ms. Delia
You would LOVE this book Ms Delia …. okay, the next time we get together I’ll bring you my copy … did you know what sissy school is IN the book! OMG! I was reading this on the train back from NYC and I shrieked when I read sissyschool.com and then started laughing when I realized I was traveling with civilians 🙂
Great post, Ms. Olivia! I think lots of callers have worries about how “normal” or “appropriate” their fantasies are. I always remind them that they’re just that…fantasies! While some people’s lives and fantasies are completely aligned, others like to use their fantasies to explore things they’d never do in person. Both are completely okay! And if you ask me…it’s pretty difficult to NOT be turned on by a thick, throbbing cock. 😉
Thanks Ms Marlena! I think everyone worries a bit about the “am I okay” sort of thing … you know what I mean? It’s as normal as … well, liking COCK! Tee hee
In the absence of a better outlet I find myself typing into search engines on a daily basis things like “overwhelming urge to kneel and suck” and “uncontrollable need to suck cock and swallow cum”
Do you ever connect with someone NB or do you like the voyeur kinds of things?
Heavens, no. Connection really isn’t the goal I don’t think. Just a release for the bottled up suppressed feelings. Vocalization is powerful, and I suspect in today’s digital world Google Searches wind up fulfilling some similar impulse :-p
You’d be surprised NB … I think there’s always a ‘market’ for connections … it’s similar to the blog I wrote about porn: okay to look at but not interactive … still wildly popular obviously! Glad you get what you need 🙂
Ms O
I use to be very sensitive about thinking about dick, but since being cuck trained to serve and pleasure others, I careless what other may think. I am excited about being labeled as a true cocksucker.
tim
A cuck should be prepared to do what SHE says, and that might be to service and suck a dick!
Sorry about not be able to access your wish list Ms. O but just a heads up, I checked my Amazon account and it appears everyone can still buy stuff off the list you have posted. It said your order shipped from the Big Handbag Shop in the UK and expected delivery: Friday, April 10, 2015, by 8:00pm.
(Sorry Ms. O. I didn’t see that part when I ordered it. Apparently they are sending it over via the Mayflower. I have the tracking and order number if it does not show up)
Sorry for the confusion! Hope you had a great Birthday!
~laughs~ Awwww, now I know you’re kidding and here I was getting all excited about getting a new handbag. Okay, so here’s something behind the scenes …. I have a LOVE of luggage! Seriously! Yes handbags but even more luggage and all sorts of organizing things. I am NOT CDO I’m not and WHO would call that obsessive compulsive disorder when it CLEARLY fucking needs to be compulsive disorder (4) obsessives. I digress.
Actually not kidding Ms. O and now I feel really bad. Sent you an email.
My track record of less than serious commenting on your blog has apparently come back to bite me in the ass.
Telling someone you would are sending them a present and not sending anything would make one….. The….Worst…Guy…In…The…World.
Way worse than “I plan on calling” guy.
I have f’d up this birthday thing worse than Pete Carroll f’d up the Super bowl.
🙁
OH MY !!!!! Awwwwwwww, now THIS really is a birthday surprise! Thank you so much! Wow, that color really is amazing on that bag isn’t it? You re the best and don’t feel bad at all because you are NOT NOT NOT The….Worst…Guy…In…The…World — but I have met him again and again in this line of ‘work’ so I never ever ‘assume’ anything …. hope that makes sense. AND do NOT NOT NOT stop the less than serious comments on the blog … those are like little easter eggs in my world … oh and as an aside, I hardly ever call them easter eggs I usually call them easter bunnies and then laugh at my own joke whether or not anyone else finds it funny …. so you see, I thoroughly enjoy the less than serious.