There is a saying, “Control the cock, control the guy.” Is that true? ~laughs~ Hmmmmm, that was, perhaps, a rhetorical question!
Tell Me about being controlled by sexual arousal
I can laugh about being the ultimate prick tease but I would like to hear from you. Where, when and why have you been controlled by your sexual arousal? Tell Me about times in your life when you have been so aroused that you would do anything and everything for the sexy woman who is making your balls ache with all her wicked tease and denial by a Femdom.
Ruled by your dick?
Are you ruled by your dick? ~laughs~ I have written about how a hard cock causes a man to lose his inhibitions! I know that is true. Cum eating is a perfect example. There are so many men that yearn to eat their own cum but lose the desire just as soon as they have an orgasm. That is why you need an Experienced Mistress to coach you on eating your own cum.
Power of cum
I use a man’s orgasm as the carrot and the stick. When we play these power exchange Dominance and submission games I insist on cock control. I then use everything at My disposal to entice, order or trick him to do My bidding. Cum can then be BOTH the reward and the instrument of his predicament … or I should say, pre-DICK-a-ment.
~laughs~ THAT is when you only get to cum when you swallow cum….that can be your own cum or cum from a cock of My choosing! When you show Me what a naughty lil cum dump you’ll be for Mistress, then (and only then) will you get to shoot your load.
How’s THAT for control? ~winks~
Answer this question for the Experienced Mistress
Now back to your question….I really DO want to know where, when and why you have been controlled by your cock!
Ms Olivia
Hey Ms Olivia, I’m writing as per your request. Alot of times when I call you, I’m being controlled by my manhood, but when I was about 22 or 23 and I was in New Orleans, I was teased at a bar to the point I went along with things I wouldn’t have normally gone along with. 2 girls sat at my table and started teasing me thru my shorts. Working on taking them back to their place I let their hands roam under the table. As we talked, and they teased, I ended up having to cum right there for them before we could leave. After being teased for an hour or so, I ended up going along with them, and was glad I did. We had a blast that night. Knowing what I know now, I would have probably gone along with alot more, but was tickled to death with the way it did go. Tore up from the floor up….mmmmmmeeeerrrcccyyyyy
~uncontrollable giggles~ Oh YEAH I do know you were tore up baby! And New Orleans……I lived there for several years and it’s all about the bare legs, bare feet in sandals and…..ohhhhhhhhhh, if I were there at that table with you….I’d use My bare feet to get you to do some VERY naughty things! *wink*
wow I’ve never had that happen to me. I know it won’t ever happen. At my age as well as city I’m in no way. I’m to shy and to many people know me. I’d love if girl I knew would come up and put lipstick on me but that’s wishful thjnking . It sucks I have bad luck with women as parents want to marry me off go girl I’ve never seen before. If she’s not as hot as mistresses on here then no way. this is what I’m looking for…. feminjzation.
Ahhhhh alas peter, the vast majority of ‘hot girls’ that you or anyone meets during the course of a day (or dating) will not even know what feminization is. Yes, I think you’re right, it is best not to expect the women you know to come up to you and put lipstick on you. BUT….you know the Mistresses here know you and we love to do that to you! *wink*
Dear Mistress Olivia
Control the cock, control the guy. There is no question about it. Men, with a little bit of heat going, will follow their cocks anywhere. Men crave attention to their cocks and erections and will do most anything for that and for the potential for release. And the sexual power of women is intoxicating. So dominant women can have a field day with men, tease and denial, submission, feminization, CBT, cum eating, coached stroking and all the rest. As someone who is proud to be a submissive sissy i totally accept and appreciate the sexual authority and supremacy of women, and, of course, of my Mistress in particular. i willingly surrender full authority over my releases to her – limited to the times i am on cam with her – and i gratefully eat the cum that she blesses me with. Yes, she controls my cock (or sissy clitty) and i am fully devoted to her. Others may be less clear about how true it is that she who controls the cock controls the guy, but it is true nonetheless.
Well put susan and you’re right….control the sissy clitty and control the sissy also applies! ~chuckles~
Right now I think I’d do anything to be allowed by you to cum, including eating my own cum, plus I am quite curious to do so. I very much could do with your training
You are such a good student jake! I love that you’re willing (and able) to experienced orgasm denial! It’s the BEST isn’t it? *wink* It increases your YEARNING! That is what the training is all about 🙂
I have to say that I have never been controlled by my cock. I can think of a few times in my life that it has been tried on me but my particular situation kept it from happening.
By the way I am enjoying reading the first of the two books you suggested to me.
Hey that’s FANTASTIC Forrest! As you know I love to read and learn. I think this whole area is fascinating….not just because it’s kinky but because the play is so primal! And that is interesting to me. I’m glad it’s interesting to you as well 🙂
I’m somewhat torn here, MsOlivia. I certainly can see the whole of being controlled by my cock. Hmm especially we’re some rather pretty toes used for the controlling part. 😉 But there is also the part of me who knows I’m not an animal either. Not a slave to my urges or a Pavlov’s dog salivating at the ring of a bell. To me that’s more the desirable sub quality – putting someone else first and doing so at a very conscious level rather than just following the “guidance” of one’s loins.
Now I have to wonder if this should be “control the mind, control the man”. 😉
~laughs~ OR……dear magnus…..what about the most amazing combo of all….control his MIND and his cock? *wink* You know I agree with you that a thinking submissive is so much more fun than blind obedience….and yet in scene play that unthinking obedience that comes from a complete surrender to Mistress is (I’ll admit) fucking HOT! Yes, I’m feeling more than a smidge naughty and Dominant right now as you might be able to tell!
Oh now that I agree with so very completely, MsOlivia. My point was that a thinking sub was the way to go. I never said he wouldn’t be totally devoted and obedient. Plus his cock may do things of its own volition, but controlling his mind means that he gave that willingly. And a freely controlled mind and cock together? Yeah…
Oh and please do feel free to be as Dominant as You like! (Like You wouldn’t anyway. ;))
~snicker~ Oh I will magnus, I will!
Dear Ms Olivia,
I once had an online Mistress who would only allow me a certain amount of strokes a day and apart from that, I was not allowed to touch. This really focused the mind on the Mistress to the extent of thinking about not much else during my day apart from not touching and pleasing Mistress by doing so. When eventually allowed to cum after many days of this, it was unbelievable but at this point I probably would have done many things I wouldn’t have had I not been in that state. My cock was like an electric eel and it took every ounce of discipline not to touch let alone stroke furiously. My cock was definitely controlled by a higher power:)
Thanks
Paul
What a wonderful description Paul….and you’re right…..the control can be the number (high or low) of strokes, the amount of edges, time and timing and more. THAT is where the individuality comes in. And, figuring out what will make you go Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh is what I enjoy!