As a phone sex expert and Experienced Mistress I have a group of men that I can play with and study! That means I really know what I’m doing in terms of erotic conversations, sexual techniques and finding out what men really want for sexual release.
Reaction from phone sex caller
Plunger boy left a comment on My earlier post about Erotic Humiliation. In part he said: “I think, like most, the more we get excited, the more we are willing to do. The inhibitions go down ….”
What a great comment and it got Me thinking. (shocking, I know! LOL) I know that people who enjoy phone sex also use this as a way to explore sexual fetishes and fantasies that many might not (or MIGHT) want to experience in real life.
Every erotic fantasy I do makes your experience with Me even better
As I talk with a large number of men about personal and intimate topics I am able to have a wealth of information to explore and create an amazing experience for each individual that only gets better with time.
I’m not talking about just the how to ‘do’ sex calls that are exciting but other things that are equally, if not more, important. Things like the ability to also draw you out to find out what really makes you tick sexually …. really being able to ‘get’ an erotic fantasy is much more than just understanding the particular scene (like conceptually knowing a sexual kink like humiliation or a fetish like orgasm denial).
Is there a link between your hard on and your inhibition level?
:: knowing giggle :: …… You tell Me !!
I know what I know and I say YES ! Using that knowledge I can toy with you to My total enjoyment. Another caller recently told me, “Wow! Intense! Amazing!” And it was for Me also …. I’m really looking forward to our next session.
What this Sensual Domme enjoys
I enjoy experiencing YOU as you’re in that space of amazing sexual excitement and pleasure! THAT is what gets ME off !
I’d love to hear from YOU about this topic. As always, you can pick up the phone and talk with Me directly or do a sexy texting session where you get My undivided attention on IM.
And, you KNOW I love comments here, maybe YOU will inspire a blog post of your own!
Ms Olivia
I agree that when I have a hard-on inhibitions are lowered however I also found in my one experience of chastity that not being able or allowed to have a hard-on leads to my inhibitions being lowered also, but that is a means to being allowed to have one.
Thank you for your comment Jonathan 🙂
As you might have guess…..I *do* get inspired by comments and I like to keep the conversation going.
Ohhhh…..chastity is so much FUN and you bring up a really good point…..an artful cock tease and denial session with or without chastity is LIVELY !!!! And, it’s even MORE FUN when you leave the denial decision up to Me. After all, there IS that…. *giggle* hope for the orgasm release. Isn’t there?
I did a post a while ago with a link to a hot erotic chastity audio about chastity and I think you might *like* it.
Just click on the search box in the upper right of My blog and type in chastity and ENJOY!
*snicker*
This is an interesting topic! How a submissive, like me, comes to a comfort level in reaching and breaching his or her inhibitions to achieve more erotic satisfaction.
Well, I can only speak for myself, but I think it comes down to a couple of things. First Trust and comfort and second, enjoying shared mutual interests or fetishes.
As to the first, for me feeling comfortable with a Mistress, enjoying talks about life, music,or just joking around is a great starting point. I think before a call, it can be done in IM, EE chats, comments on EE, and even emails are all good places to start. I want to feel that she enjoys my company ‘almost’ as much as I enjoy hers. Achieving this level of friendship or mutual compatablity in non sexual areas……….I think makes the next step even more Hotter!
Of course, enjoying a Mistress’s style, her looks, voice and sexuality as expressed in her blogs or audios is also a HUGE factor! Mutual enjoyment of common kinky subject matter. Things that makes you both go MMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
For me that is cuckolding…But whatever your kink, knowing that she loves it too and has some new and bold takes on it, things you wish you could try in the safety of a Phone session. Well, that is like a magnet drawing you to release your fears and go with your desire to submit!
When you combine all that with the trust factor, I think makes for explosive sessions. Sexy, flirty, mutual kink with someone safe you really dig…..in EVERY way…..what could be hotter than that?
So Trust, safety and mutual interests in and out of kink………these are the things that make it work for this caller and what allow me to let go of my inhibitions and truly enjoying submitting to the mind and whims of a Mistress!
I hope these comments help Ms O 🙂
Ahhhhhhh cuckmike……I do adore getting your comments on My blog. THANK YOU !
You always get Me thinking ….. sometimes VERY naughty erotic thoughts…..and sometimes interesting thoughts inspired by my friend. I do consider you a friend…..like I’ve said on EE (that’s http://www.enchantrixempire.com – our adult social networking site) ….. I sooooo enjoy your love of music, you as the non fetish you and, of course, your sexual kinks and fantasies! Cuckolding is one of My all time FAVORITE fantasies. And there’s so many lovely ways to take the cuckold fantasy. I like having so many options and erotic roleplay ideas to play with !
Now, after reading your comment I’m going to think more because I think you’re touching on a nerve with the trust issue and phone sex. I’ve been considering a blog about privacy and phone sex. Your comment made me realize there are many ways to look at the issue of ‘Is phone sex safe?’ There’s the practical safety issue of billing information and call content on My end. Then the issues of privacy on your end….like when to call, how to call, etc. But your post made Me think of safety in terms of the personal relationship that often does develop because phone sex is so very intimate. So, thank you once again for making Me think!
I will check out that audio Mistress, thank you.
Yes the other thing about the tease & denial scenario is the surprise when the teaser does something very unexpected which as you say is all your own choice Mistress.
YES Jonathan……I got the best compliment from a caller the other day…..it was an erotic humiliation session …. and he loves it when I push his sexual boundaries. He said, “The combination of Sensual Mistress and Stern Mistress was so intense.” In part, because as you said so well, I was doing something unexpected. I think that’s why many men go to this Experienced Mistress because I can take you through any of your own sexual fantasies. Then, they find a treat! I can use my intuition, experience and skill as a phone sex entertainer to give you that unexpected and it SUCH an intense sexual rush !
Thanks for writing Jonathan 🙂
Even though my kinks are completely different than my friend DCMike’s, I agree with what he said about what makes things comfortable and hot. Well said, Mikey!
*snicker* ….. don’t want to SAY your kinks tommie? Hmmmmmm……pet ….. you know I dooooooo have that lovely flogger and while it’s a BDSM phone fantasy the discipline and submission is still access to sub space. Wheeeeee. Isn’t so great to be uncomfortable AND sexually stimulated at the same time? Hmmmmmmm…..HOT !
i think there too much put on the “hard on”. It is not am i hard but am i horny. i am often horny but still soft. It is a mental thing. So much more about my mental state
Well put toy…..and you know that the Mistresses dooooo enjoy seeing you struggling in your chastity device. LOL
At that point …. I would say your mental state is ….. hmmmmmmm ……. well, when you’ve done an erotic cam call with Me you’re sure STRUGGLING…..which, I confess, makes Me :: giggle :: at you !
I think you are absolutely correct here Ms. Olivia. Certainly from my own personal experience I can say that an aroused state certainly makes me more pliable and more eager.
Certainly the mass media concurs, the wily Femme Fatale seducing secrets and loyalties has been a staple of espionage fiction forever. I can recall as a much younger person being particularly moved by a small segment of some Ken Follet movie… The Key to Rebecca maybe? Where a belly dancer had been seducing some government bureaucrat and taking advantage of his state of bliss to steal secrets. And pretty much every B grade movie involving satanic crap would have some poor slob seduced by a demonic chick.
I for one would make a terrible spy or demon hunter :-p
Hi Nicholas ….. I loved your analogy on the movies !!! LOL Yes, some of the sexiest Strong Women are in the movies! And, the Femme Fatale using her seduction skills to have the men around her do what She wants …. well, that sounds like a Mistress doesn’t it? When I got into professional phone sex three years ago I began to SEE all the kinky references in our current pop culture. And, now I’m giggling thinking about you in the movie where you are the terrible spy because you’ve been seduced by the Experienced Mistress ! LOL