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In this series of How to Choose your phone sex Mistress let me reassure you that you are speaking with a whole person … it’s not some dumb little phone sex script. You can have as much or as little of the whole person as you want. After all, I think amazing phone sex can often be way more than merely the description of the sex scene.
Phone sex is more than sex
I have very real friendships and fascinating conversations on a variety of topics. Just the other day a caller and I were comparing our favorite museums and it turns out that we’ve gone to the same museums. It wasn’t an exact overlap so he gave me ideas and I gave him ideas. Let me just pass on one idea here, if you haven’t gone to the Museum of Sex in New York City the next time you’re there, you really should go!
This connection doesn’t have to take a huge amount of time on the phone to do this. I might make a couple of offhand comments and see how they play. If I sense you like the direction I’m going we might chat a bit. If you want to get right down to the business of stroking that cock, just let me know and we can do that too. Each person is different.
smart is very sexy
I’m smart. I’ll tell you that right up front. My callers are smart. YOU are smart. Don’t you think great sex begins in the brain and then travels … ahem … lower? Honey, I use everything to bring us both the ultimate in please as you can tell from one of my phone sex reviews:
Olivia was sensual and smart, dominant but funny, sexy but firm, beautifully engaging my imagination as she playfully humiliated me. I thoroughly enjoyed speaking with her and sharing over webcam. I really look forward to talking to her again. She was as spectacular to speak with as her photos would suggest.
Do you think smart is sexy? ~gestures my fingers in a swirling motion~ Discuss!
Phone sex is awesome!! For me it’s great way of having girl talk about fashion/dresses/makeup/shoes/lipsticks/lotions. I’d love to meet real women and talk about things like that but am to shy to ask:( they will think I’m sissy boy which in truth I am:(
~laughs~ Yes you are a sissy peter!
Also too I was at wine tasting with couple girls I play tennis with and they were taking about getting nails done as I was there with both. What’s your take on this Ms Olivia the one was taking with the other and ske told me to pretend to pay attention to the conversation. I did but kept quiet.
Hmmmm, I don’t know peter but, of course, I’m always open to a conversation to talk about it!
Beautiful Mistress Olivia:
Yes, you are smart and funny but beautiful doesn’t do you justice. My opinion is that there are not words known to the human race that are adequate to describe how attractive you are (not just appearance but personality as we’ll). Also, I would adore going shopping with you and possibly spend a day with you at your favorite spa getting the full feminine treatment then spend an evening out with you and your girlfriends. Sissy is always ready to accommodate whatever wishes and training assignments you have for her.
Your Sissy Cocksucker,
Kellie
P.S. I still would like to know were you got that outfit.
Spa day pampering and then shopping for sissy and Mistress! I like that! A lot. I get outfits from various places. This was from a hotel boutique in South Beach (Miami) ….couldn’t find it again if I tried! ~laughs~ We’ll go online shopping on your next call! ~smiling~
I think there are all kinds of sexy. Sexy looks, styles, attitudes, even timing. As for smart, it can certainly be sexy. Someone who is smart, can use that intelligence to deepen or broaden or enhance a relationship. Also, I find, that people of similar levels of intelligence engage in conversation or activities in similar ways. So going to museums, or reading books, or movies are appreciated at the same level in similar ways. That means more empathy, more connections, and therefore more sexy.
Now that was all very clinical and not very sexy at all. Being sex smart can also be very sexy. Picking up on what pushes someone buttons the right way, and then pushing them (subtly or blatantly) that can be sexy too.
Well said! Thank you wellspanked.
Ms. Olivia ~ I love this post. Often times I wonder why someone calls. I love when they say it was something specific that I wrote but sometimes it’s just the sound of the voice. Next comes the dance. Getting to know a little bit about each other. Maybe next it’s a little back and forth, it just seems like you have known each other forever or it’s bam and there’s that common thread. Thank you for sharing some insight into your relationships.
Thanks for the comment Kay Marie and you’re so right….it is a DANCE …. a fucking HOT dance, isn’t it? ~grinz~ I love these relationships … so varied and vibrant!