Do you need to be submissive to Mistress?

Are you submissive to Mistress? Some of you say that being submissive to Mistress is an occasional thrill.  For others, being in subspace centers your mind and your body.  One is not “more right” than another; there is no right or wrong with power...

3 reasons to be a sissy for Mistress

Find sanctuary in your feminine side I know there’s a lot of pressure in having a male ego, societal responsibilities and all the expectations that go with that. For many people, being a sissy for Mistress is like taking a vacation; you escape all the tension and...

LGBT and kink in pop culture

The LGBT and kink communities have a lot of overlap Maybe those of us in the kink and fetish community can use the example of activists in the LGBT community.  After all, LGBT and kink groups have members who readily identify in both (and other) groups. A sissy named...

Social roles and the submissive male

Submissive male in pop culture I write a lot about power exchange between a submissive male and a Femdom Mistress.  I love playing in the “face to face” BDsm and fetish scene. Distance domination on the phone really expands my experience and creativity.  I...

BDsm and kink in pop culture

Lots of kink in pop culture Have you ever been watching a movie and go, “WOW, I just spotted a kink or fetish?”  I have. Quinten Tarantino has a foot fetish!  That’s just one example.  Oh sure, sometimes there is an obvious reference like in the movie 50 Shades...