Do you use sex toys?
~smiles~ I do! There are so many different kinds of toys and it’s a wonderful way to add even more fun to My creative phone sex calls with you.
Are you curious about sex toys?
Most people are at least a little curious about sex toys. Since you’re in our community then I think you’re probably more adventurous than most people. So, I’m going to be launching a series of blog posts about sex toys. They won’t be all in a row, there will be lots of other topics. Think of the topics on My blog like the weather in Florida: if you don’t like it, wait about 15 minutes and it’ll change! So, back to sex toys.
Mistress is a real life fetish player
AND, I’m going to give you a peek inside the toy bag of this Experienced Mistress. I am a real life fetish player. I will often go into My personal toy bag for naughty kinky sex toys to use on Mistress domination calls.
If you are new to the blog or if you’d like a refresher on the way I identify as a BDsm player then this post will let you read about Mistress as Domme and a switch. Since I was inspired to go into My personal fetish party bag recently for a call I’m going to be telling you what’s in there, how I use the items, where I get them and more!
First, though, I want to hear from you! Do YOU have sex toys? If so, what do you have? Tell Me all about your toys. How do you use them on calls or in your own life? Are you CURIOUS about certain items? If so, what questions do you have? Let’s get this conversation about sex toys started!
Ms Olivia
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I have toys. Ms Violet told me buy Hitachi magic wand and fleshlight. They both are awesome. Can’t get off without magic wand. Vibration is awesome and intense. Fleshlight is great also. To me wearing women’s clothes, bra, wig, lipstick, lotion, perfume, heels is only way of getting off with wand and fleshlight. I have dildos also but have yet to try out. I want to but think it will hurt. I’ll need mistresses help on that to push me.
That’s RIGHT peter! I remember when she told you that. You were a little unsure about whether you would like them at first. Can you tell Me more about what you wanted to know before you decided to go ahead with these wonderful sex toy purchases? I’d love to hear all about it!
I’d love to. I wanted to try something different. At first I rubbed my cock against the sheets on my bed. It was great at first then it started to hurt and’ get raw. Then it was vasoline. What got it all started was gillians island when ginger would kiss Gilligan and her hot dresses. Also having (someone) who would give me lipstick kisses. Her neighbor also put rouge on me. I sneaked into her room sprayed myself in her perfume. … Just seeing women’s clothes bras, makeup, lipstick, perfume, turned me on. One day, I was home alone wanting to do laundry, but load was in washer, then as I was walking out I saw bra and that’s what started it all. It was room mates girlfriends I put it on but was 34, but still I put on my chest and I got hard, also put on her lipstick. I stared going to Victoria’s secret buying bras, girlish items little by little, I found this site 12 years ago and loved it. Ms Madison and Ms Cecilia were my very first call. I’ve since bought dresses, top, bottoms, makeup, lotions, lipsticks, perfumes, heels, wigs, panties,toys,dresses, you name it. I’ve spent too much money to turn back now. I know it will never happen but I would so love to meet you and Ms Violet in person. I feel we are match made in heaven the 3 of us. Ms Violet told me and said it was I that made you and her friends for life. Its to bad your on days, I still want to call you and Ms Violet for hot 2 mistress calls. As I said the 3 of us have special bond. I feel us 3 will remain tight with the 2 of you having me your sissy lipstick lesbian dressed as girl. Sorry for the long post. You wanted to know everything you got it. Anything for the 2 of you.
Great answer peter! You really ARE our lovely lipstick lesbian! Now, another question about the sex toys. Am I remembering correctly that you waited a bit before actually getting the magic wand and the fleshlight? That’s what I remember. Can you tell Me more about why you waited to get the Mistress recommended sex toys? Were you nervous? Were you unsure about what to get or where? Also, tell Me more about your nervousness about actually using the dildo!
very nervous, I’ve never tried toys until Ms Violet told me to. I didn’t want to upset her. But I bought both toys and never regretted it. Wand is awesome in getting hard and getting off. Fleshlight is great to get off also with lube. Both are great together. Dildos I have never tried anal but put on lipstick and sucked on it. It was different feeling dressed as girl sucking on it. I’m not at all into guys but I liked sucking on it wearing lipstick. I really have dsl. I got turned on. I’m starting to lose interest in football, baseball, basketball. Still love the gym and tennis, but honestly I’d rather play with toys calls mistresses dress as girl then watch football, baseball, basketball. I’m scared dildo would hurt if i used it anal.
*nods* I can understand that you’d be nervous about anal play peter! But, if you’re willing to try some gentle anal and prostate stimulation and then some anal training, you might find that your acceptance of anal play might stretch to include a dildo right in your ass pussy. (the stretch pun was intended and I just couldn’t resist!)
Hi Mistress Olivia. my favorite sex toy is probably my queen-sized, purple butt-plug. as a sissy i’ve come to really enjoy the sensation of being plugged, of slowly sitting and feeling the plug ease past the thickest part. i also have several vibrating plugs, and for those special occasions a plug with a fluffy bunny-tail attached to the end. thanks.
~laughs~ OMG! That fluffy bunny-tail plug makes Me laugh so hard! I actually used a feather duster in a humiliation sluts ass on a call with a couple other Mistresses! He was making us all laugh so hard we about lost our minds!
Now, sissy sally, for the folks who are scared to try anal and use a butt plug (like your infamous purple butt-plug) what can you tell them? I recommend a series of anal training (which I do for plugs or strapon play). Did you do that first before the Queen size? How did you begin and what did you first use?
Olivia, We have many sex toys and are always looking for new ones. We have strap-ons, rabbit vibrators, butt plugs and regular vibrators. Those folks that have hang ups about using toys do not know what they are missing. There is nothing like the screaming orgasm I can give my wife by inserting a dildo and licking her clit with a vibrator against my tongue. There are all kinds of variations on the theme that make for a good sex life. Of course I doubt that anyone with a hang up about sex toys will be reading this, this just does not seem like a site they would visit.
~laughs~ You are sooooooo right player! The uptight individuals or couples won’t be reading this blog…..even though there are some wonderful sex tips and ideas for couples! I do have a couple of adventurous couples who call Me. The husband is a submissive crossdresser and the wife calls for advice on how to Mistress him! WOW! Now, I bet that marriage stays together!
Toys and, for us, BDsm kinky fetish stuff are what makes sex interesting and lively! I love that you left a comment! Thank you! And, I’m with your wife on the rabbit vibrator…..WOAH! ~smiles~
I have my fair share of toys too. Some I use with my wife, and others I keep for just for myself. The largest “catagory” is spanking implements…shocker. My favorites are the ones I’ve made, hairbrush sized, full paddles, etc. All wood, all nicely finished. I’ve weilded them against my wife’s bottom, she was done the same to mine, and several LDW mistresses have guided me in using them on my self. To compliment those there are some straps, belts, spoons, and hairbrushes.
Other than that my wife has 2 vibrators. We have a variety of ties, ropes, and scraves. And the newest of the bunch is a butt plug for me. I haven’t used that with my wife yet, it’s solely been at the direction of a mistress or two.
Thanks for your comment wellspanked! With a screen name like that I sure hope you have spanking toys! ~grinz~ And, toys that’s you’ve made are always fun because the making is arousing too, isn’t it? *wink*
I bought my first sex toy when I was old enough to walk into an adult store. It was this rubber tube thing that had a chunk of rubber on one end that was the handle and an open ended tube to stick your penis into and create suction. It was great for my younger mind but today I think it was the most awful thing ever made.
Now I have a small collection of toys. Some Fleshlights, I love the different textures oh so much fun. Some other masturbators and a few anal toys. On some of my longer sessions I will use more than one stroker, switching between them.
You bring up a really great point Forrest! Sexy toys are like erotic fantasies, what works one day (or year) doesn’t keep working. Now, some do …. but, like you said, there’s a learning curve to everything. Sex toys are no exception.
Hi MsOlivia. I’ve a few toys that I like. I may have mentioned my clover clamps before. I’m not heavily into pain but some is good and I like the dull ache my nipples get with the clamps on as well as the pain after when they come off. (I’m not do much into pulling the chain or hanging weights from it though.) I’ve also been gifted with a ball parachute which is very pretty though I’ve had some trouble getting it to stay on. Let’s just say its intended target tend to want to hide. 😉
Then of course I like the maile cuffs I made for myself when I want to engage in a little self bondage. (I use metal connectors I can remove myself easily. Safety first.)
I had to ~laugh~ when you described what your balls do when … ahem … confronted with your ball parachute! I think that’s a perfectly normal reaction and part of the thrill ride of kinky sex! I’ve heard it described as something you want but then say ohhhhhh no no no no no but you DO still want it. *wink* And, since I know that there’s a part of you that DOES want it, then …. it’s Mistress, let the games begin! ~grinz~
I will say I absolutely adore Japanese clover clamps because as a Domme, that chain between the nipple clamps allows Me to be very inventive and wicked! Thanks for your comment magnus!
I’ve accumulated a few toys over the past couple of years. The nipple clamps were the first and still my favorite. My nipples are a direct line to my cock and the clamps will always make both ache. My rubber pussy, well it’s very dangerous and always makes me orgasm too quickly. I’ve had fantasies of purchasing a dildo to cuck me with it, stretching her out and ruining her for me, lol. And my metal cockring, that feels wonderful when on. It’s heavy and makes me feel even fuller when teased.
Okay wait wait! Am I reading this right? You want to buy a DILDO to be the bull and you end up as the cuckold to a rubber pussy? OMG! That is one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard and believe Me, I’ve heard a LOT! That there is FUNNY, I don’t care who you are! ~snicker snicker~ You’ve made my day!