I like the sound of that! ~smiles~ Handcuffs immediately come to mind so let’s take that mindset and turn it into Femdom pleasure with chastity!
So, the naughty device that has your cock locked is the start of a new feature, Wicked Wednesdays. As many of you know, Mistress is into the BDsm scene in real life. I’ll share My experience, advice and kinky stories with you! Let’s start with chastity, shall we?
Is a male cock device a sex toy?
While something that locks up your cock and makes it impossible to get hard might not automatically look like a sex toy, it is one of the most amazing sex toys ever created! THIS is the sex toy that puts Mistress in control … cock control! I always say, control the cock and control the man! ~grinz~ Sometimes you need to be locked up! Cock locked!
In fact, a cage is one of the sexiest items in My Mistress sex toy bag! I’ve posted before about chastity devices that I really like. If you aren’t able to get a custom sized cage like the Queen’s Keep from Mature Metal, there are other cages. The birdlock and the CB series immediately come to mind.
Different Kinds of Sex Toys for Different Loving
I’ll be posting about various sex toys that I have in My personal sex toy arsenal. Different toys for different situations and circumstances. I like the variety! And chastity is one of those items that can be combined with various other sex toys to very good effect …. ahem … for Me! I admit that I enjoy seeing that trapped cock, trying to get hard but only getting so far. ~grins~ Imagine Mistress using My vibrator on Myself and then taking that pussy juice wet vibrator to the cage that traps you. OH!
Chastity for Crossdresser and Sissy Girls
Of course, if you have a clitty, then you really do need to be in chastity because that makes you all the better as My sweet feminine submissive. Putting a crossdresser in chastity is a thrill because, trust Me, you DO experience your femme self more intensely! A sissy needs chastity because you DO get so very slutty! ~giggles~
Caller reaction, is chastity a sex toy?
I had to laugh at this comment by jizzhead on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire, to the question of whether a chastity cage is a sex toy:
My wife and I started talking about kinky things in casual conversation one day and then the journey took off from there. But it takes time, and money. For example I still remember the day we googled chastity devices and she was like, “So…you want to spend $150 to lock your dick up in that?” That was about 5 years ago. I’d say she got her money’s worth. We both did!
Jizzhead brings up a good point. A chastity cage is an investment! But……oh so worth it! When Mistress lets you OUT of your chastity cage you experience sensations you’ve never had before. Until then, you will feel very owned by Mistress.
Good morning Ms
I think chastity is what my bridal shower is for 🙂 That is when you lock me up till at least our wedding. 🙂
Ohhhhh! That would be another excellent idea for a blog post yvonne! Chastity at your bridal shower! ~grinz~
Is a chastity device a sex toy? i am sure that it definitely puts Mistress in control. My goal is to be the best submissive sissy girl that i can be in devotion to Mistress Violet. So, yes, it is time for this sissy to get locked up. i have been speaking with Mistress Violet about this and she feels it is an excellent next step for me to advance in my submission and my feminization. So the die is cast, i will be placing my order very soon. And Mistress’s sissy stick is very excited about it, enjoying a freedom that will soon end. i do expect, as you say, that i will be able to experience my femme self even more intensely. i have grown a lot in my femininity under her guidance and i look forward to her stripping me of the remnants of my masculine self. i have come to understand that submission is an act of my giving not of receiving and the longer i know Mistress Violet the more i want to give in honor to her. So i very much look forward to being locked up for her, knowing that she has accepted my submission, as i know that she is my rightful Mistress. i am sure there will be challenges . But i believe i will be much the better for the deepening of my submission to her and for the sweet truth of seeing my male self fade further into the past as my feminization deepens.
Oh YES! Putting a sissy in chastity is a wonderful idea. You’re right, it’s something that will deepen your submission AND it will deepen your feminization! ~smiles~ What chastity device are you getting?
i have been back and forth with Mistress Violet over the last day as i have been researching the options and asking her guidance. So now it is set. Today i will order a CB Curve (www.cb-x.com) and i wlll have it in hand (so to speak) in a few days.
i am very much looking forward to deepening my submission and my feminization – i see them both as paths of growth and self improvement. i am very much looking forward to being locked for her and so very firmly under her control. Definitely a sex toy but so much more as well.*smile*
Well put susan! Yes, a chastity cage is a sex toy….but like many toys there are all sorts of uses! As you correctly point out, sex is also mental and emotional. For a submissive, the mental part is usually more important than the purely physical part. I’m glad you’re getting what you want and need! 🙂
Well, all I hear all day long, is how great Violet is at this and how wonderful Violet did that. Violet, Violet, Violet!
Enough already. We’re here to celebrate the transcendent radiance that is Ms. O.
Focus people. Focus.
~laughs~ Ohhhhhh, My radiance is TRANSCENDENT now? My oh MY! *wanders off to watch the Brady Bunch bowling movie*
Is there a device that will allow a man to stay hard but will not allow him to cum? i fantasize about a device like that a lot. Like a tube that fits only on the shaft stops just below the head, which will allow You to tease the head and balls but when the wearer’s cock tries to swell to the moment just before cumming the tube doesn’t allow it and the man can’t cum. i like my erection and i want that yearning of sweet release. i want blue balls with out the fear of not being able to “get it up” anymore. Beyond the fear of being in an accident and trying to get the chastity device off is the fear of what happens if i cant get it up anymore? What if i get used to being forced not to have an erection or being milked without an orgasm? That is a big fear of mine. Again i like my erection, i luv my hard cock and i think You can have more fun with me hard than locked up. Thank you for keeping me in denial but please don’t take my hard on away! Thank You Ms Olivia.
WOW bumkin this is SUCH a great comment and you’ve got such great questions I’m actually going to turn it into a blog post. Can you wait for the answer? While you’re waiting, take a look at the 5 gates of hell or the 7 gates of hell on the stockroom.com website. NOW…..these will NOT make you “not cum” but damn I think they look smokin’ hot and it’s what I thought of when I first read your comment! ~smiles~ OH one thing……do NOT get or use the gates of hell with the penis plug, this is not something to play around with 🙂 Finally, let Me think some more about chastity….I’ve done chastity without a chastity device using numbing cream. You WILL lose your hard on so you won’t cum and it’s a very effective type of chastity without the chastity device. BUT (there’s always a but isn’t there)….somepeople love that sensation of the numbing cream and some really hate it. I think THAT might be an idea to try! I totally agree with you about the chastity cage in your situation. ~giggles~ I don’t want to ever take away your hardon, it’s FANTASTIC!
I respect everything you said and yes I can wait for the answer. BUT (yes i guess your right there’s always a but lol) i thought about those creams and have heard about pills that casterrate a man (never happening) but again that scares me too. If it pleases you i would like to request, just for now, lets just keep Your Hard Cock and have some fun with it…cool? lol Thank You Ms Olivia. You Are The Best (as long as you don’t take my hard-on away lol) oh ps the plug? sorry not ready for that either. remember its been a while…cool your jets lol
Erm…..I think we might be speaking of cross purposes here.
I actually don’t know how to answer the rest. But thank you for your comment!
yeah nevermind sorry