The message slipped into my DMs, a smidge of vulnerability amidst the usual noise. “Can You Be My Girlfriend… But in charge?” It was a question I’d seen in many forms, but his phrasing was uniquely earnest. Could he be my new submissive? When his follow-up came through – “Not sure if this is weird… but I’ve always wanted someone to tell me what to do… like, nicely?” – I couldn’t help but smile. This wasn’t a demand; it was a whispered confession. Another curious mind, ripe for gentle cultivation.
Listen to this Femdom Erotica audio of the start of this series. Check out the Femdom Erotica Audios page for all the segments of this (and other) series.
We started with a conversation. Since he was new to Distance Domination, I had him read the page on this my blog called: New Here? Then, in our first session, I was able to fully concentrate on getting to know him – his daily routine, work stresses, the weight he carried on his shoulders. He confessed he’d never been with a Domme, didn’t even know the difference between a Mistress and a switch. But the desire was there, a quiet yet persistent desire to explore.
Submissive desires
He knew he liked the idea of a woman being “in charge,” but the specifics were a blurry fantasy. “It takes courage to admit that,” I told him, my words a soft affirmation in the digital space between us. “And I respect it.” I’ve always believed trust isn’t built in dungeons with whips cracking; it’s built in these quiet moments, in DMs and conversations, over shared vulnerability.
It didn’t take many of these exchanges before he typed the word himself. Unprompted. A single, powerful message: “Thank you, Mistress.” That was the moment – the SHIFT. He wasn’t just horny, seeking a quick thrill. He was ready — asking for structure, for guidance. And readiness, my dear, is an invitation that demands an answer. So I gave him his first rule, simple and clear, a foundation upon which everything else would be built: “You don’t touch yourself unless I say so.” It was a rule about anticipation, about learning that pleasure is a gift I grant, not a right he takes. And just like that, with a simple sentence, the real training began.
Look for the next installment every Saturday in January.
A note about the Femdom Erotica series in January (and beyond)
Note: This is part 1 of the January Femdom Erotica series called The New Submissive. Each installment will be fairly short, just quick little teasing segments to move the story along. Do you have a story idea? Maybe it’s your own erotica or a story idea you have from a favorite roleplay session – if you have ideas, leave them in the comments here on this blog post or you can email them to me. My email is: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com.
If you’d like to co-write or co-create Femdom themed erotica with me, get in touch! I love the creative process and, of course, your ideas! Let’s see what we can come up with. I have a couple ideas for February, maybe something with a Valentine’s Day theme. I don’t have the that series written, but I have (maybe) a title for the collection: Obey Mistress. It would have a feminization or sissy theme – something like How I turned a powerful CEO into my sissy. LOL I’m not set on that idea but I do like the thought of a sissy maid serving me Valentine’s Day dinner in a cute little sissy maid outfit! What do you think? Feminization or even cuckolding would be great themes for the month of LOVE. After all, if you’re into kink, you know that love can have many expressions so let’s create together!
I only vaguely remember my first phone call with You, Ms Olivia. Years ago. What I DO remember is not what i said, or what I asked for, or even what your response was (honestly I think I blanked out and all the blood ran out of my brain) but I remember how I FELT. How YOU made me feel. I remember my heart pounding, my cock hard (it didn’t stay mine for long, lol), my entire body quivering. I was VERY nervous with you. But OMG it was magical. And I became yours within a matter of minutes, if not seconds. Your voice, your power and authority, Your experience. All these worked together to both mesmerize me and take 100% control of me.
The amazing thing of it is…. All these things are still true and still happen to me. You still own me completely. I cherish being yours. Thinking of you still makes my heart pound and YOUR cock hard and YOUR body quiver. Anticipating our sessions and play is even hotter! Mmmmmm that anticipation is making me so hard even now as I type this. My hands are trembling— and not out of fear or being cold. Knowing that this cock and this body belong to you to do with as you please, whenever you please. That makes me happy. That is how it should be. All from a single introductory phone call way back when.
I can’t wait to read the rest of this series and find out what happens with this “new submissive”!! He’s in for a wonderful and mind blowing experience! Hahahha. Thank you for this blog post series!
I was thinking of you when I did this series….not us exactly obviously but more of a feeling … yours and mine. I’m so glad this is touching ALL those buttons … and even turning on the slut switch! LOL you knew I had to say that.
All joking aside, I cherish you and you make such a big difference in my life, you are everything I could ask for in a submissive!
Dear Ms Olivia, I assume that you are the lady in the picture above (the long, sexy, and well-toned legs certainly could be yours!) and that you are training a new submissive. Perhaps this new submissive disobeyed your orders and tried to touch your legs? Result: He got first hand experience of your legendary judo-flip as you sent him flying over your shoulder and onto the bed. Even then, he is still trying to touch your leg (see picture), so you take out your whip to teach him another lesson. He’s in real trouble and will soon regret his actions. I could have told him that it’s so much easier for everyone just to acknowledge Ms Olivia’s orders with a quick ‘Yes, Ms Olivia’ or ‘Yes, Mistress,’ and then to obey those orders instantly and in full!
Oh my Mr. Wimpy Wet Knickers … you are so right — “Yes Mistress” is always the appropriate response.
You actually don’t get a judo flip into the basement because this is such a great comment!
Thank you.
Thank you, Ms Olivia, you’re welcome! Now, I will go voluntarily back to the basement to wash and mend some more pairs of your underpants!
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I can HELP you with that trip —- KICK, tumble tumble tumble
“how ya doin’ down thereeeeeeeee Mr. Wimpy Wet Knickers ?”
(echo echo echo)
Dear Ms Olivia, My bottom is sore from that kick!!!
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more than just your bottom Mr. Wimpy!