You work hard for your money.  Why should you spend it on erotic conversations? You probably have access to a sexual partner in your real life and/or there’s certainly no limit to free porn on the internet.  So, why CALL someone for erotic fantasies?

Most of our callers are in a relationship where sex is ‘available’

According to MasturbatingIdiot’s poll on our adult networking site Enchantrix Empire …. the vast majority of people who come to our site are either married or in a committed relationship.  You can access the poll here if you’re already a member of EE.  If you’re not a member you can register for free and enjoy our kinky and interesting community.

Since approximately three quarters of you are in a relationship that presumably provides access to sex, why pay for a CALL about your erotic fantasies?  I was chatting on IM with someone recently who gave some insight.  I’m curious about what you think of all this so tell Me (blog comments or emails).

What one phone sex caller has to say:

“The phone sex experience is extremely important to me because it allows me to fulfill my immediate and some long term needs.  Let me explain.  I am happily married and have children but the phone sex experience allows me to have my fun and satisfy my needs when I have the time.  I’m able to venture outside of my vanilla world and connect with like minded individuals.”

It’s about MORE than just sex

Nothing wrong with sex….I love sex.  But a regular caller articulates some of the nuances that I love to explore on this blog.  This post about intimacy is just one example.

Freedom from hidden agendas

Another plus to phone sex is the candor!  A caller puts it like this:  “When I am able to talk with You and confide in you it builds trust between us which is important to me.   No hidden agendas,  no pretending;  just You and I exploring and pushing respected boundaries.  The call itself is not the most important thing for a great experience.  When You allow me to chat with you and not rush me for a call it shows me that you are interested in me and want to find out what drives me so you can provide all the necessary elements for a call.”

How to use IM to make sure we get to know one another

We have a new service that allows you to to talk directly with Ms Ally (the Head Mistress) and other Mistresses.  It’s called Live Help or Help My Cock.

You can also contact Me directly.  My YIM is:  empress . olivia @ yahoo.com.  I will talk with you before calls and between calls.  I’ve had IM conversations where I suggest another Mistress for Her voice / style or fantasy.  I’ve also had long conversations with people who say they have no money for a call or an erotic text session.  You don’t HAVE to spend money here … there are all kinds of fun things that are totally FREE.  Check out the variety of erotic websites at your fingertips.

Value of IM

I love to IM with you.  It establishes the connection before the session.  One caller put it this way:  “If You don’t chat with me prior to the call I move on to someone else.  Let’s face it times are tuff and I need someone who will want to understand my needs as well as someone who lets me understand her needs.”

Things to consider when you IM this Experienced Mistress

There are a couple things to note about IM-ing with Me.  When I am on a call or a text session I do NOT answer IMs … you wouldn’t want Me to be typing away with someone else when you call now would you?  *nods*  Of course not.  Also, I answer IMs when I am off the session.  I generally have 10 – 15 open IM conversations going at any given time.  I’m not ignoring you when there’s a delay in My answer … you know what to do if you want My undivided attention.

Wow, this got long!  I’ll close for now, after saying the answer to the original question:  Why pay for phone sex?  Because HERE you get more than your money’s worth!

Ms Olivia