The message slipped into my DMs, a smidge of vulnerability amidst the usual noise. “Can You Be My Girlfriend… But in charge?” It was a question I’d seen in many forms, but his phrasing was uniquely earnest. Could he be my new submissive? When his follow-up came through – “Not sure if this is weird… but I’ve always wanted someone to tell me what to do… like, nicely?” – I couldn’t help but smile. This wasn’t a demand; it was a whispered confession. Another curious mind, ripe for gentle cultivation.

graphic. Words on an image of an open book. The New Submissive: What happens when he sends a DM to Mistress Olivia

Listen to this Femdom Erotica audio of the start of this series. Check out the Femdom Erotica Audios page for all the segments of this (and other) series.

We started with a conversation. Since he was new to Distance Domination, I had him read the page on this my blog called: New Here? Then, in our first session, I was able to fully concentrate on getting to know him – his daily routine, work stresses, the weight he carried on his shoulders. He confessed he’d never been with a Domme, didn’t even know the difference between a Mistress and a switch. But the desire was there, a quiet yet persistent desire to explore.

Submissive desires 

He knew he liked the idea of a woman being “in charge,” but the specifics were a blurry fantasy. “It takes courage to admit that,” I told him, my words a soft affirmation in the digital space between us. “And I respect it.” I’ve always believed trust isn’t built in dungeons with whips cracking; it’s built in these quiet moments, in DMs and conversations, over shared vulnerability.

It didn’t take many of these exchanges before he typed the word himself. Unprompted. A single, powerful message: “Thank you, Mistress.” That was the moment – the SHIFT. He wasn’t just horny, seeking a quick thrill. He was ready — asking for structure, for guidance. And readiness, my dear, is an invitation that demands an answer. So I gave him his first rule, simple and clear, a foundation upon which everything else would be built: “You don’t touch yourself unless I say so.” It was a rule about anticipation, about learning that pleasure is a gift I grant, not a right he takes. And just like that, with a simple sentence, the real training began.

Look for the next installment every Saturday in January.

A note about the Femdom Erotica series in January (and beyond)

Note: This is part 1 of the January Femdom Erotica series called The New Submissive. Each installment will be fairly short, just quick little teasing segments to move the story along. Do you have a story idea? Maybe it’s your own erotica or a story idea you have from a favorite roleplay session – if you have ideas, leave them in the comments here on this blog post or you can email them to me. My email is: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com.

If you’d like to co-write or co-create Femdom themed erotica with me, get in touch! I love the creative process and, of course, your ideas! Let’s see what we can come up with. I have a couple ideas for February, maybe something with a Valentine’s Day theme. I don’t have the that series written, but I have (maybe) a title for the collection: Obey Mistress. It would have a feminization or sissy theme – something like How I turned a powerful CEO into my sissy. LOL I’m not set on that idea but I do like the thought of a sissy maid serving me Valentine’s Day dinner in a cute little sissy maid outfit! What do you think? Feminization or even cuckolding would be great themes for the month of LOVE. After all, if you’re into kink, you know that love can have many expressions so let’s create together!