Who is in charge: Mistress or submissive?

This is a question that bounces around the BDsm fetish community and in our own kinky community within our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  Who is in charge?  Is it the Mistress who directs the actual play or the submissive who tells the Mistress what...

Do you masturbate at work?

You’re at work.  Maybe you’re horny.  Maybe you’re just a little (or a lot) bored.  Maybe you just want something to do. ~laughs~  There are a lot of reasons why men wank at work!  Remember, phone sex is wicked fun in the office! Sometimes it’s...

Welcome to chastity hell

I know that you’re used to Me as the sensual Mistress.  I know that most of these blog posts are flirty and fun.  Today, we’re going to switch it up a bit! You’ll have nearly a week to think about this because I will be away today, Thursday October...

Please Mistress …. Beg for Your Mistress

I’ll admit it, I love to hear you beg.  There are so many ways for you to beg but the simple words, “please Mistress” are sooooooooo delicious!  These are just three types of begging, but there are many more!  I want to know what makes YOU beg! SPH...

Why Isn’t My Wife Like a Phone Sex Artist?

I got this question recently about a wife but I also hear this about girlfriends and potential girlfriends.  Sometimes the question is couched in terms of asking where to find a woman like this Experienced Mistress.  I *do* exist in real life but if I meet you on the...