You belong to Mistress

What does it mean to belong to Mistress? Kink relationships are just like any relationship.  There needs to be a mutuality in our interactions.  I was going to say we need to have a symbiotic relationship but if you look up the definition, there is one kind of...

BDsm and kink in pop culture

Lots of kink in pop culture Have you ever been watching a movie and go, “WOW, I just spotted a kink or fetish?”  I have. Quinten Tarantino has a foot fetish!  That’s just one example.  Oh sure, sometimes there is an obvious reference like in the movie 50 Shades...

Myths about finding real Dominance and submission

What is real Dominance and submission? Listen to me read you this blog post about MY Dominance and your submission. While phone sex is billed as a fantasy, the BDsm experience is very real.  This matters to you if you are a real submissive but you can’t go to...

Intimacy of strangers

Intimacy and the slave Listen to me read you this blog post about BDsm kink intimacy and erotic slavery. I had a VERY interesting conversation with a slave today. We started off talking about my recent blog post about the difference between a submissive and a slave....