You belong to Mistress

by | Sep 30, 2019 | BDsm

What does it mean to belong to Mistress? Kink relationships are just like any relationship.  There needs to be a mutuality in our interactions.  I was going to say we need to have a symbiotic relationship but if you look up the definition, there is one kind of...

BDsm and kink in pop culture

by | Apr 3, 2019 | Kink

Lots of kink in pop culture Have you ever been watching a movie and go, “WOW, I just spotted a kink or fetish?”  I have. Quinten Tarantino has a foot fetish!  That’s just one example.  Oh sure, sometimes there is an obvious reference like in the movie 50 Shades...

Myths about finding real Dominance and submission

by | Apr 27, 2018 | BDsm

What is real Dominance and submission? Listen to me read you this blog post about MY Dominance and your submission. While phone sex is billed as a fantasy, the BDsm experience is very real.  This matters to you if you are a real submissive but you can’t go to...

Intimacy of strangers

by | Mar 14, 2018 | BDsm

Intimacy and the slave Listen to me read you this blog post about BDsm kink intimacy and erotic slavery. I had a VERY interesting conversation with a slave today. We started off talking about my recent blog post about the difference between a submissive and a slave....