April is my anniversary month here at LDW. In fact, I started on April Fool’s Day! What was a lark ended up being an exciting and fulfilling career. In honor of my anniversary, let me tell you why I love being a Femdom.
There is often a moment in a session where I hear that “noise” that makes me feel like my cells are vibrating. That “noise” is different for each person. For one person it might be a gasp or sharp intake of breath. For another person I might hear a ragged moan. THIS is what I crave, the control, power and passion that I have that creates ‘that noise’ from you.
Femdom is more than a title
Not every session is about BDSM or kink. Many of my relationships are profoundly intimate and because of our connection, the sexual part is amazing (for both of us). I talked with someone yesterday who is learning about being a submissive. He is open and willing to learn. He has the heart of a true submissive; that means he is not a “do me” sub. I could feel him surrendering to my advice even though he is not “my” sub. That is the heart of power exchange – giving up some of your agency or power and giving that to me. I like to be in charge.
The Chemistry of Cock Control
Before coming to LDW I liked flirting, teasing, and fucking but I had no idea that there is a term for what I do naturally. It’s one thing to be predisposed in certain ways but it’s a whole different level when those innate skills improve with intentional actions. By that I mean, I pay attention to what you say, how you say it, and more. I’m even listening to the spaces between your words and what you don’t say (right away). Effective cock control involves more than simply stroking instructions.
My favorite Femdom rituals include:
- Tease and Denial: Keeping you on the edge for hours until your cock is purple and your mind is mush, begging me to let you empty those heavy balls
- Guided Masturbation: Dictating every stroke speed and position. I might touch myself and maybe (or maybe not) tell you how wet I am.
- Chastity Training: Locking away your penis while I describe the real men who get to fuck my tight pussy, watching you squirm with frustrated need as your cage prevents even a single drop of cum from escaping.
Transforming Men into Sissy Sluts
As an experienced Mistress – I love transformation. And, feminization is one of the most exciting transformation experiences. While people might automatically think of all the lingerie, clothes, shoes and hair/makeup, feminization can be way more than that. I believe in helping you (or making you) into the person that feels authentic to you. Remember, you don’t have to have just one role for all time. There are so many fun and creative femme adventures waiting for us!
Sissy training is always so much fun because whew, y’all can be so incredibly slutty! I love that !! Remember the sissy that called her lips cock pillows? Nods. Oh yeah, be my personal cock-sucking slut (actually you don’t have to be a sissy to suck cock).
So many fun kinks to explore
There are so many fun kinks this blog would end up looking like a laundry list. Check out my page called About This Sensual Dominant Mistress and you’ll find some more specifics. I mean it when I say I don’t have a “favorite kink” what turns me on the most is getting inside your mind and heart and then, of course, creating together within our unique relationship.
THANK YOU to all of you who make my life so much fun! Let’s celebrate my anniversary in April!
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