I’ll admit it, there’s a *giggle factor* to phone sex. I had no idea just how powerful this could be as a source of erotic exploration when I took My first phone sex call! If you are new to the possibilities of a cock control Mistress, then I understand!
I’ve asked a variety of people who now call Me about their fears and concerns before they actually made the first call. Here’s what one man says. He knew he was interested in erotic humiliation, but wasn’t exactly sure how this could work on the phone. Here’s our IM chat; btw, this caller is someone who is now one of My favorite playmates!
IM chat about how he felt BEFORE his first phone sex call
Ms Olivia: How did YOU feel before the first session? Were you nervous?
Man: very nervous and scared
Ms Olivia: What concerns did you have? Tell Me about being nervous and scared.
Man: was nervous and excited at the same time. I never done something like this before. My concern was whether I could do what you ask for but you were very nice.
Ms Olivia: I love that !! What made you actually decide to call?
Man: read ur blog and ur page. They really turn me on. Then i chatted to you on yahoo and ask you questions and you gladly answered them.
Ms Olivia: Were you nervous about phone sex? Were you nervous about giving control of your orgasm to Me?
Man: I was very nervous my heart was pounding my palms were sweaty but i was excited at the same time. I was with an experienced mistress that took it easy on me the first time.
~giggles~ Now, I’ll tell YOU, I didn’t take it tooooooo easy on him that first time; I took him on that thrill ride of erotic humiliation (his particular kink). By the way, we did an amazing session shortly after that IM exchange with a naughty, humiliating cum eating twist, and here’s what he wrote after he caught his breath: “ thx olvia best 75 dollars ever spent!”
You know I leave you with questions to start the blog comments. What did YOU want to know before doing your first phone call?
Ms Olivia
I think the biggest question I had was how interactive was it going to be? Was the misttess going to give me some practiced erotic talk to get me off, or be mostly silent and have me do most of the talking? The truth is I’m not the biggest talker on the phone, and when a mistress has me preforming on cam I’m also pretty silent (show don’t tell maybe?). Where I am more talkative is in the begining “hello get to know you” part.
I think this works out well. The mistress asked questions to get to know me, and while we chatted she crafted a dialogue that would take me where she thought I wanted to go. I was not disappointed. The entire journey of introductions, turning on the cam, working up to a stroking session, stroking, and possibly getting off is full of hurdles of excitement, embarrassment, humiliation, fear, arousal, release, contentment. A wonderful ride every time.
*nods* Well put wellspanked! I know that each Mistress has her own way of interacting before the call and then doing the actual phone sex session. We are as individual as you are! For Me, I like LOTS of interaction, because we’re creating the erotic experience together. That said, I have a variety of people who do sessions and they are totally silent on the phone…..but we’ve already talked about what they want and they turn themselves over to Me. You’re not alone in that *not talking on the phone* part wellspanked. 🙂
you know how to make a man crumble before your feet. You take it easy on him at start. Then during the same session you keep pushing him to his limits. When you made him close and thats when you make him do anything you want and persuade him to do some erotic things 😉
*nods* oh YES…..thank you so much for saying that crashhawk! ~laughs~ And you have EXPERIENCED just how far I can take you in a phone sex session, haven’t you? ~griz~ OH YES you have…..and I’ve pushed you farther than you ever thought you’d go. Prepare baby, you’re going DEEPER into submission and you will love it!
I have to honestly say I was not that nervous the first time I called. I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that it was just a phone call. It wasn’t like it was a first date with a girl I have had a crush on for a long time. I do notice that even though I am very comfortable with Ms.Mandy, and have spent around 20 hours on the phone with her, I still get very excited every time I call her and feel myself having to relax, take a few breaths, and stop talking like I am one of those speed autctioneer guys. I might need one of those elephant tranquilizer guns handy to “take me down” if I get way to amped up. This is all without caffine
~laughs~ That’s GREAT Matty! That’s just great! Personally I think it’s FANTASTIC that you’re so wired up and excited that you are talking fast! That’s part of the *rush* of phone sex and the sensation of endorphins and all those yummy feel good brain chemicals. And who wouldn’t get all worked up for Mandy? ~laughs~ She’s delightful! And so, dear man, are YOU 🙂
I knew straight away My 1st call with Ms Olivia was going to go gang busters. She has shown time & time again on her blog to be a woman of intelligence, grace, imagination. Do like she says, tell her your innermost fantasies and what you like about them and she will transport you into cyber space leaving you spent and submissive to her. With the flawless beauty of Helen of Troy,. the wit of Mae West and a voice like 1000 sirens that tempted Ulysses, she will effortlessly peel each layer of your psyche and rewire it before you know whats happening.
WOW sub-pet-tony THANK YOU SO MUCH for taking your time to post a comment! I had the BEST time with you! Getting *inside* your head and then using My creativity and imagination…….I could see, taste, feel, smell and hear the scene and, YOUR experience of it. ~laughs~ And, when you were gasping there at the end of our phone sex call, I was SMILING! You are a DELIGHT !! Thank you and I’m looking forward to the next time I peel away each layer of your psyche! *wink*
I have started the process of calling but have always stopped myself short of actually doing so.
I agree with Wellspanked, I am usually not a talker and worry about there being uncomfortable silences during the call, embarressing for both of us I imagine.
Thank you SO MUCH for having the courage to post your comment Eric! And, I would imagine that it DID take courage! I’m acknowledging you for that!
Please don’t ever feel like you HAVE to call. Enjoy all the free erotic content and sexy audios. They are here for your …. ahem …. enjoyment! *wink*
I spend a lot of time on the sexy teases and encourage everyone to ENJOY them fully! 🙂
The only purpose of the actual phone sex call or session is when you want My personal, undivided attention on the topics of your choice.
That can and often is everything from conversations as friends to explicit sexy roleplays. No matter what the topic is, the common factor is that it’s My personal attention without the delays of something like a blog comment.
What you *pay* for is My time. This is My livelihood and I wouldn’t be able to DO this blog and all the other interactions without the financial support of calls. This is why I do insist that when you want the unique experience of My undivided attention geared to you, that IS a session.
And, what you *get* is not merely the immediacy of our time together during the session … what you GET is My wealth of experience – not only in terms of everything erotic and fetish related but also how to BE an expert conversationalist regardless of what you do. Does that make sense?
Really, don’t worry about being quiet. You are NOT alone! LOTS of men are totally quiet on the phone with Me and I can still *hear* you with your breathe, gasps, moans….. believe Me, you ARE participating in a conversation with Me!
Now, let Me mention something about men in general …. LOTS of you are not *talkers* ….. please, please don’t stress about this! You are delightful just the way you are! It’s a DANCE, and I *do* know how to *lead*. Usually the man who says he’s quiet or shy will actually get quite talkative when he’s comfortable …. at least that has been My experience. You be EXACTLY the way you are ….and I’ll do ALL the rest! *wink*
Thank you Ms Olivia for your kind, encouraging words, it has gone a long way towards convincing me to finially get up the nerve to call. It is heartening to know that my fears are shared and that I am not alone in this !!
Eric, I promise you that you’re not alone! In fact, I still have LOTS of conversations with My guy on IM because sometimes he’s more comfortable on IM rather than talking on the phone…..and that’s not even with all the *stuff* of calling phone sex! You are way more TYPICAL than I think you’re thinking you are…..and you are just fine EXACTLY the way you are. Sends you a hug!
First time I called MsOlivia we hit it off instantly!!!!It was like we knew each other forever. I told her I want to have women put me in dresses/makeup/bras/lipstick wigs/panties and if I cum I have to be their sisyy girl forever and thats what she did to me. Im puddy in her hands and I cant ever say no to her…How can I if im in dress/bra/wig/lipstick? I cant. I was nervous but she put me at ease when she started kissing me and then it took off and we havnt looked back. Then we added MsVioet week later and Im now both their lipstick lisbian lover/boytoy submissive sissy girl.
dearest lesbian lover boy toy submissive sissy girl ….. *wink* …. did the salutation make you SMILE! Did you know I can *hear* your smile during our phone sex calls? *nods* I can! Ms Violet and I will be launching several joint *project* over the coming weeks so keep an eye out for those! I ADORE her as much as you do! 🙂