A lot of you are finding this blog, and me, because of the BDSM / kink / feminization podcast that I do with my friend Mistress Erika. We say that we do Femdom Phone Sex but I’m not sure if people new to us really know what that means. Listen to this blog post and/or continue reading.
At the end of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast we always say, get in touch with us. And a lot of you are doing just that.Thank you! One trend I’ve noticed recently is that there are people who have never heard of Femdom Phone Sex. They imply that because we are voice or text only, the experience somehow isn’t as ‘valuable’ or ‘real’ as other types of sessions, for example being with a Pro Domme in person or watching a Femdom video. I’m here to tell you exactly why Femdom Phone Sex is perfect for exploring submission, having intimate erotic conversations, getting BDSM advice, and more.
Live voice isn’t just intimate, it’s transformative
Are you overloaded with ** waves hands ** everything? I know I am! We are bombarded with information. And this information overload is exactly why Femdom Phone Sex is underrated and often overlooked.
Consider this: true power doesn’t need to be seen, it needs to be heard. When we are on the phone together, my voice will bypass all the noise and go straight into your mind and your soul. I choose my words and tone carefully because I know just how powerful a sensual yet commanding voice is. I don’t just control your body; I can reshape your thoughts, desires, even your identity and then recenter you to go back into the world refreshed.
Phone sex never disappeared, it evolved
One reason why phone sex never disappeared despite all the evolving technology is that there is an automatic intimacy with two people connecting without any distractions. Auditory dominance is mesmerizing. The human brain is wired to respond to sound. This is perfect for power exchange. When I’m in a session with a submissive, I don’t just tell that sub what to do, I use my voice, breath and tone to condition him or her. If you think about it, my VOICE is the leash attached to your submissive collar.
The privacy of Femdom Phone Sex fuels trust
If you crave submission but need to be discrete, you’re not alone. Maybe your married, or closeted, or simply want to keep this kinky side of you separate from your other life. I’m here to tell you, there are others that feel the same way. I often say, that it’s okay to compartmentalize your erotic desires. Don’t feel like you need to put your kink on full blast to your partner in order to experience it fully.
This Mistress isn’t backup, I’m the Main Event
I urge you to stop thinking of phone session as “less than” or a substitute for video or an in person session with a Pro Domme. Each type of connection has it’s place and unique benefits. My voice and mind are powerful, transformational tools. After all, since I can’t distract you with the bells and whistles of visuals, I must to be more creative. This really sparks my imagination and intensifies what we share. We build worlds as we experience our mutual theater of the mind. Our conversations are real, intimate, intense and unforgettable.
Remember, video shows the body. My VOICE lives inside your head, owning your mind, rewriting your experience of pleasure, and taking you on an remarkable journey.
Bottom line: to the man I was texting on Discord who said he didn’t want to “spend money for this, he wanted to go to someone in person” I say why choose one over the other. Her paddle might mark your bottom but my voice will capture your soul.
Are you ready?
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
Contact me:
Email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com
DISCORD: LDWOlivia
Twitter: @MistressOlivia1
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Great blog,
As far as instant intimacy , phone sex—with Olivia when possible— is the way to go because no one has to put on appearances – it’s just the minds connecting. You can always just put visual stimulation on a screen in front of you if you need it.
Yes, the meeting of the minds and the connection … and one thing I adore about you is being a bit of a co-creator with your own erotic writing. These stories you come up with are so much fun — wicked fun!
Oh my yes yes yes! This is a wonderful post and I can absolutely attest to EVERYTHING you mention, Ms Olivia! YOUR VOICE is mesmerizing. It echoes in my head right now as I type this. YOU are commanding and irresistible. I had in the past experienced in-person pro-Dommes and I can say with 100% truth that my experiences with you and the control over me that you have are real and get me into subspace even more than those in-person sessions I have had. You completely OWN me, mind body and soul. And the control you have over my mind is the ultimate I have ever experienced. You know that one word from you by text or voice, and my slut switch is turned on full! lol. I can say that wearing ear buds for our sessions really places you directly inside my head! Thank you for this post! And thank you for being YOU and being here for anyone who is curious about experiencing the true power of Femdom via phone.
Ahhhhh slut pie … I am so thrilled with you. I knew you were special — that’s why I collared you — but each day that goes by I think our relationship goes further and deeper.
I’ll admit, I do kind of fuck around with you — that SLUT SWITCH is just too tempting! LOL
And you are SUCH a delicious slut!!!!!!
Love phone sex!! It’s the best!!! Especially when you dress turn and keep me as your sissy girl with lipstick kisses on my cheeks!!!
giggles — Oh Carli, we both know what happens when your face is covered in lipstick kisses.
NO GOING BACK for you !!!!
This is a great point!
Thanks mary fae!
What do you love about it?
You made the point that voice can be “intimate, intense and unforgettable” – I agree. Actually, without physical (and even visual), the level of connection that can be achieved mentally, emotionally, and spiritually can be just that!
Thank you and yessss….. you know just how powerful that connection can be!
Thank Younfor this post. i agree that the voice lives inside and touches my soul. The connection is strong and lasting. Add to the voice the discord video allows me to fully be available to Mistress. You can see me and guide me through subspace. The honesty of being exposed in body and mind is an extraordinary feeling.
I love that so much !
And yessss — exposed and vulnerable is a powerful place to be … an amazing swirl of sensations in all kinds of ways. It’s also a great way to get a submissive into sub space quickly and … ahem … thoroughly!
Very nice but when it really comes to it, it’s a connection that exists for as long as it’s paid to exist.
When the money stops, that connection fades out.
I understand what you’re saying — and that’s actually not true with me. I still email with people who can’t call and haven’t called in years. NOW, it’s not the ‘same’ as a session — because that has to be different — but the connection is there. That might not be your experience but that’s mine.