Are you turned on by sexy feet? If you are, you’re not alone – I have a foot fetish too! I’m always looking for new and creative foot fetish fantasies. Let’s explore what makes the foot fetish so appealing, the different ways you can experience your sexy kink, and why incorporating some kind of foot play can make our phone sex sessions even hotter.
The origin of my foot fetish
I’ll never forget the first time someone gently held my bare foot in his hands, gave me a foot massage and then kissed my toes. I was on the couch, he was on the floor. I didn’t know anything about kink, power exchange, female domination or BDSM. All I knew is it felt really good in a sexual way.
Some neurobiologists say my arousal makes biological sense because the area of the brain that processes genital arousal is right next to the part that processes foot sensations. As they say in real estate – it’s all about location, location, location!
The Psychology of Foot Fetish
There usually is a psychological element to any kink or fetish. Sigmund Freud had a theory that people like feet because the toes resemble a penis. Other psychologists believe it’s because feet are often covered, making them a taboo part of the body. For me, I discovered I loved the way it made me feel, I enjoy being pampered and then, getting into BDSM, I realized incorporating foot worship scenes into erotic roleplays can make scenes even more intense.
Exploring Foot Fetish fantasies
There are many different ways to explore a foot fetish. Let’s start with BDSM and the power dynamics of being dominated by the feet of a beautiful woman.
Foot worship as a sign of submission
“Kneel before your Mistress” or “Worship the feet of your Goddess” are powerful words. Ms Erika and I have a BDSM / kink podcast called The Weekly Hot Spot. We talk about fun with feet in this episode called: Did you know you can use your foot fetish to seduce a woman? We touch on some of the foot scenes we enjoy and even create a 2 Mistress scene during the podcast.
Popular foot fetish scenes
In the BDSM world, foot domination is popular on it’s own or as part of other scenes. Pain play might involve tramping or using stiletto heels for CBT. Humiliation scenes can be licking the soles of her shoes or licking her dirty feet. Imagine being embarrased and then cumming all over her feet and being told, “Look at your mess – clean it up, lick up every drop of cum” or hearing her taunt you until you cum.
One popular activity is foot worship, where one person worships the feet of another. This can involve kissing, licking, massaging, or even just admiring the feet.
Footjobs, or using the feet for sexual pleasure, are also a favorite among foot fetishists. The possibilities are endless, and each person’s experience with foot fetish can vary greatly.
Embracing Your Foot Fetish
If you’re intrigued by foot fetish, don’t be afraid to explore it. Talk to your partner about your sexual desires, and see if they’re open to some foot play. It’s important to communicate your boundaries and desires, and to be respectful of your partner’s as well. This IM chat is an example of what NOT to do when trying to bring your partner into your foot fetish.
Remember, if your partner doesn’t want you lovin’ on her feet, you can always call me. Whether you’re into foot worship, foot domination, footjobs, or just admiring a pretty pair of feet, let’s have fun with this!
Do you have a sexy scene in mind? If you do, leave it in the comments. You might inspire a followup blog with a sexy foot fetish scene and erotic audio.