So, you have a small penis — what now?
Listen to me talk about your small penis in this audio.
Here are some things you need to know. There a big difference in your life if you have a small penis. I bet you’ve already experienced some of these things — your embarrassment and harassment. You’ve already suspected certain things and maybe you need some straight talk about your teeny weenie. Here are some other things you need to know:
1. Tiny dick “men” have a “special” place:
Awwww, it might not be the place you want but at least you are IN the life of a sexy woman. You’re there — not as a lover — you’re in the FRIEND ZONE. When you’re there — it’s like a black hole — you don’t escape.
2, 3, and 4: If you have a small penis I’m putting you in PANTIES!
This list is inspired by someone who emailed me with the following questions.
“Do you think it is more common for small or tiny endowed males to want or feel like they would like to wear panties?”
Well yes. That’s my short answer. You “want” to wear panties because frankly, they FIT you better than male underwear like boxers or briefs. Since they feel better you will (eventually) want to wear panties. This is your fate.
“Do tiny guys feel like it is “right” or they “deserve to wear them” or something like that?”
I’ll answer that this way: Tiny guys don’t deserve to wear male underwear! ~laughs~ It doesn’t FIT — and it’s dumb for you to even try.
“Do you think a woman is more likely to even think of putting a guy into panties if he is small? Is the thought less likely to come to her with average or big guys?”
~laughs and laughs and laughs~ Women do not automatically think of putting a large cock in panties. And, putting a guy with a small dick in panties is usually the first thing I think of when I see a small penis.
There are more questions on this topic. If you have a question, post in the comments and/or send me an email: olivia AT enchantrixempire.com — or just give a call and we’ll talk!
Your Experienced Mistress,
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For me I do have a small penis as it’s about 2-3’????. And yes I’m in friend zone as I don’t have gf. I confesssd to my masseuse about my cross dressing and she was non judgmental about this and accepting. She said I need to accept who I am and become which I agreed with her and have. I’m wearing bra/panties to all my massages along with once a month makeup/lipstick and dresses for her to take pictures of me with her phone. She can hit send anytime she wants as I have to do whatever she wants and asks. After much thought this is what’s best for me and keeps me in line with her and makes me a better person and much more happier.
I do agree I do need to be kep in panties as I do have small penis along with bra. With you and I being in relationship for over 10 years you really do own and control me me as your cream puff girl and I want to keep this going with you with more feminization training.
That IS a small penis — which is why we put you in panties! You’re the perfect girl!
I got rid of all my boxers. I only wear ladies panties. Can an average dick fit in panties? Or am I totally small?
The first time I put panties on, I was amazed how well they fit. Obviously, I knew they look prettier too but The fact that I had no bulge and everything fit snugly convinced me it was the right thing to do. I was always ashamed that male underwear made me look like I had nothing below. I was just wearing the wrong underwear.
laughs —- seeeeeeee ????? …. girls panties FEEL better on you for obvious reasons. LOL
We may not admit it but I think one of the deepest desires a guy has is to be “big” and “strong” and in a sense “conquer” a female and have her be “his”. If you are “tiny” or “small” (I guess that is a matter of a woman’s opinion which is which?) then you have this sense that you cannot “conquer” in that way. When a woman tells you you are small it is like she has conquered you in a way and rather than she be yours it is like the other way around I think.
awwwwwww ….. yes, SMALL is not a good thing for a so called man!
So true. It is odd to be in the , “Friend Zone”, sexually speaking with my own wife. Im the friend she talks to , and even brings up her , “boyfriend”, in the conversation at times.
Yep — you’re in the friend zone! laughs
I thought I was average with 6in. Started wearing panties about 8 to 10 years ago. Now I wear tight panties and my cock has shrunk to 5 or less. I luv how panties feel and look. I can wear panties and you cant even tell I have a cock. I luv how it feels when my womans jeans ride tight in crotch and rub with no sensation of manhood. What do I do?
WOW you must really be very small !!!!
Yes it looks so cute and sexy in panties
If I voluntarily cage my average cock so it shows as really small when they first see it, will women still want to panty me? (I hope 😉 )
I want to panty you! laughs
Of course she will. Once caged, there’s nothing left for her to do. Not only are you and I, tiny but in a cage you are a woman, sexually. You actually don’t even have a clit, either. Your sexual release will then come from internal, anal, stimulation. Analgasms. I know from experience what that’s like. Wonderful!!
I know you’re writing to Gem but I wanted to say thanks for your comment 🙂
LMAO Olivia!!! THis was the best! 2, 3 and 4 I’m putting you in panties! That’s perfect because that is exactly where that small penis belongs. I am personally so offended when one asks me out and doesn’t disclose immediately that he is in the teeny weenie club. What a waste of a good going out dress! They never get past the friend zone no matter what!
OMG isn’t that the worst! They’ll pay for that non-disclosure 🙂 🙂
Being upfront about size does matter and being put in frilly panties has sure helped me.
~giggles~ Awwww, sissy candy — with those filly panties I don’t even SEE anything in front. ~laughs~
Not sure what you consider small but, I’ve been wearing panties since I was around 12 and still wear them to this day. I’m 7 inches long and 5 inches around and love wearing panties! I’ve also been married for 19 years and happily at that! We have a very good sex life and she doesn’t mind me wearing panties at all!
I imagine being in chastity so long and with my hormone treatments I will forget bout mine 🙁
I know you will forget — a lady doesn’t need “that.”
Dear Mistress thankyou!best wishes !Thankyou for the truth!
laughs at sissy teddy
Ive worn panties since I was younger; my cousin showed me how much better they fit and feel. I don’t go on too many dates most of my interactions are with the women in barre classes and I wear yoga leggings so I don’t really have to tell them how small I am since they can see my lack of bulge. They are always so sweet to me not sure if they just feel sorry for me. One of the girls told me she could see the lacy back of my panties I was so embarrassed when she looked at my crotch and said its ok she understood why I wore them.
There’s NO bulge there …. and, yes, that’s why panties are so much more comfy!
I spent a lot of time worrying about “not having a bulge”. I was very aware that most guys did. In the late 80’s and 90’s at the beach and pool “speedos” were a thing. Many men wore these – especially men under age 40. I was aware of how proud and easy this was for many men. I was aware of how confident many men were – as if they were saying “go ahead…look at it”. I was also aware that even for quiet girls or women – how could they not notice. I think one of the most impactful things about endowment size for me was becoming aware that – most girls thought about it – even less social or extoverted girls.
DAMN right women look to see if there’s a bulge — and we DO judge a guy on that basis … I use the term man loosely if you have a small penis!
I been wearing knickers and cage for a year now after realising my 4 inch dick ain’t satisfying gf, I’m now a cuckold and other men please her for me
~laughs~ FOUR INCHES ??????? ~sigh~ and you’re just now realizing that such a small penis doesn’t do ANYTHING for a woman? hahahahahaha Yeah, well you were born to be a cuckold!
I have a 4 inch clitdick Mistress; I own about 20 pairs of panties but I still have 10 pairs of boxers which I sometimes wear
What???? Why are you still wearing boxers? ~laughs~ I think panties fit much better when you have a small penis! Think of this as truth in advertising!
I’m not sure why I still wear boxers Mistress Olivia. Possibly because I still think I’m a Real Man?
WHATTTTTT ???????? ~laughs~ I’ve heard that before — toss those “man” underwear — you need to be only in panties.
I finally did it Mistress. I cut up and threw away all my boxers…
OH MY! ~laughs~ Now it’s panties 24/7 for you!
I have a very small penis just a hair under 4 inches fully erect Will you please humiliate.
~laughs~ Let’s pop on a call — I feel like laughing!
Hi.. I recently realized that with a resting length of about 1.5 inches, that I belong in and was CREATED for panties! Its really more of a clitty and fits great in even little lacy panties which are best with pantyhose.!. Can I still truly satisfy a sexy girl with great oral technique?
~laughs~ Well ….. I have a question for you … if a truly sexy woman only wants oral — wouldn’t you think she would be with another woman instead of a “man” with a small penis?
Maybe not, if she’s not attracted to women..
~smiles~ Thanks for writing a comment!
Hi Ms Olivia, i may or may not belong to this club, in which, the only thing i kinda worry about is, well for me, having the doctor tell me there’s not enough to work with (srs – whenever that maybe) . Sad.
awwwwww…….that’s why you’re a sissy, right?
My ex girlfriend put me in her panties and laughed in amazement when her little lacy thong fit so well
Ohhhhhhhhhh looks like you’re on your way to being a #sissy.
Hello Miss Olivia
I’m 25y.o. and i want to know if a 4.7 inch penis is small or medium. I like to be a dom but i think girls only want huge cocks to be sub. Can i also be a good alpha male with that size?
laughs and laughs and laughs and laughs and laughs
Good luck with that goal.
I have a very small 3 inch penis I am 57 years old.
Is it really that small? :0
What do you consider as XS,S,M,L,XL?
~laughs~ what do YOU consider small? My minimum size if 7 inches for me and 5 – 6 inches is average. I’ll do you do the math.
Hello Miss Olivia
I like to wear panties and maid dresses and be humiliated and teased by mistress. Being “larger” than most i would like to know if a sissy hierarchy would be appropriate? Mistress can train micro-weenie sissy to suck my larger sissy willy. In return i can stroke her ball-less panty crotch and diddle her little clitty through her silky panties until she wets her cute frillies.
Ohhhhhh now that is something that I don’t do that often because most sissy clitties are in fact small … BUT I have done it and this sounds FUN to do with you! 😉 🙂
Hi Miss Olivia
Be real with me. What do you consider small, medium, and large? (4 or less small, 5/6 average, 7 and above large)?
So, my minimum size is 7 inches and thick — what size are you?
I am around 7 inches (17cm), and pretty thick. Lets say I was obedient and did as I was told, would you give my cock a chance, Miss? :p
Wouldn’t you like to know! ~laughs~
So under average is small? But 4.7 inch is not that far from 5 inch, for most woman it must be good yes?
I would small consider under 4 inches
Are short dick men not enough manly?
Should a guy say that he is small?
What do YOU say ?????
im bout 4inch. was forced into panties in my early 20s. went home with a girl and after she laughed when i said i was in, she made me wear her underwear and told me to always remember my place. ive been wearing panties ever since. should i just go with men?
Hmmmmmm, complicated answer to that question — and I don’t have an answer until I know more. Let’s talk!
I enjoy wearing women’s panties.
What is your fav cut of ladies panties — the panties that YOU are wearing!
I like wearing hipster panties.
Hipster panties are great !
I wear them because I have an extremely small penis.
Awwwww, yep. Small penis — wear panties.
how can we talk? im currently in the uk
Are you on Skype? Skype is perfect for overseas calls — my Skype name is: Olivia.800.356.6169
been trying to call you. im in the uk so im not sure if its a messed up phone line or something. you said lets talk so email me
I want you to start the email to me — my email is email@example.com Let’s talk!
i have come to this tape late; almost 1 year since you crafted it, Ms. Olivia. Thank you much for clarifying this for me; i understand now one reason i feel so much better in panties than in my ‘man briefs’.
I DO provide an “educational” service as part of the fun! wink wink, nudge nudge
after one of my past girlfriends had an issue with me when I pulled down my jeans, I could tell she was severely disappointed especially cuz I’m 6-1 and 260 lb bodybuilder.I have about 4 inchs hard, even smaller limp. My balls as she said are like peanuts, why are they so tiny. Then one night she got out her dildo collection and wanted to fuck me doggy stle. I then heard her the next in the phone telling her girlfriends how much of a b**** I was. of course we broke up later and then I got my taste of reality. And then I was told to wear panties because I have a little clittie kitty. And you’re right it does hide well in those and I do feel sexy in sissy in them. I always squat when I pee now even in public. I always shave my legs underarms that ass anyway and my pussy but now it’s really smooth since I consider myself a total Sissy. She used to call me Tarzan by day, Jane at night. thanks for your blogs I’m a little confused. I also wear Victoria’s Secret perfume and I love putting on A bra. But Im big and masculine? Confused Mistress. She used to always make fun of me shaving my legs and underarms she said only pussies do that. I wish I could meet a girl that was hairy and didn’t shave that would abuse me.
Ohhhhhh …. if you’re confused … and it sounds as if you are LOL then lets talk!
Of course with my modest endowment I realize that I belong in panties and only possess a few pairs of male underwear for certain occasions. I barely exceed half of your minimum requirement but can take brief solace in utilizing the metric system. My diminutive 3 3/4″ becomes a more impressive 9.5cm when converted! However, regardless of which, it is always in its rightful place, concealed beneath silk and satin, pastels and ruffles and lace panties.
My minimum is 7 inches — and you have 3.5? DAMN that’s a panty sized “penis” for sure!
Hi Ms Olivia,
About 6 months ago I got married and on our wedding night my wife pointed at my penis and said that she would never let that little thing touch her. She made me try on a pair of her old panties and took a photo. She then said that I would need to accept that sex will not be something I can participate in. Now, we live with her sister and both of them have reduced me to their live in maid who simply has to follow instructions, such as making beds, laundry, ironing, sweping, etc My wife’s sister, I suspect she saw the photos, have even bought me a maid’s uniform. My wife is forever on her phone and then her sister calls me to clean up. They go out often and come back late and then I’m told to go sit in the outside toilet when they have friends over. Once I even had to wash the one guy’s car. What I really wantvto know is, should I demand to have sex withbmy wife? I really battle to masturbate, my penis is only 1.5in erect.
DEMAND to have sex with your wife? WTF? With a small penis — 1.5 is a micropenis — I know you can’t demand anything from anyone and even if you got a pity fuck it would be a hand rub — LAUGHS — you’re too small to even get INSIDE a pussy!
I asked my gf to turn me sissy 4 years ago. I was 4 1/2 inches hard. She immediately threw out my boxers,panties only,girls socks.caged,estrogen cream. I am now 1 1/2 inches hard.
I am to small to even fuck.
We went to my Dr to make sure there would be no issues putting it in tinier cage. Nope,he said for an adult male,I have the tiniest penis he’s ever seen.
I have 2 mistresses outing me, one training me to deep throat 10 inches,as I can do 8 easily.
I like to be laughed at by girls in public, humiliated. I want to be broken down ,I’m nervous, but know if pushed,I’ll be forced to deal with it.
I love sucking black cock, dressing female and getting fucked hard. I love dick, swallowing cum.
My mistress is preparing to pimp me out, I asked her too. As long as I get cock,she can have money. She’s filmed me sucking cock and sent to my ex gfs.
. I am always looking for anyone to help.
hi. is sitting down to ((do my business)) something a smaller man like me should do? my ex girlfriend used to say i was too small to stand up and (((do my business))) like a real man. also does having a small penis make me more feminine?
~laughs and laughs~
Your ex-girlfriend is right! hahahahahahhahaha I don’t think we can even call that a penis — it is feminine and should be called a clitty!
So it sounds like a small dick men is not a real men and should better be a sissy? Are small cocks automatly gays? What kind of sexuality can a smally have and are there any doms with short dicks?
GREAT questions —- lets see if I can answer some of them in future blogs. These are awesome topics!
Small dick men are great at clean up!!!!! And obeying their wives, great for snuggling, and a safe place. I am and want to be a wonderful husband, and my wife deserves that, she also deserves a fantastic lover, a real man who is well endowed
My wife caught me wearing her panties, she wasn’t happy. We’ve been married 31 years and she told me I’ve never given her an orgasm. I’m 4” long with 3 1/4” girth . She tells me all the time “my husband has a small dick”
The first time I wore panties was when I was younger and I came in them with out touching my self ?
Now I am 26 years old virgin with a micropenis 3 inche erect
1 inche flaccid with tiny tight balls
and started wearing thongs and g-string they are very comfortable and fits me nice
Small penis should not be in men underwear
I have experimented with crossdressing with most of my relationships. I only take it so far with my partners.
Today I wore my wife’s panties and stockings and rode our motorbunny until I came.
My problem is that I can’t take it to the next level.
((( The rest of this comment is in a blog post along with my answer – GREAT comment and question. )))
What a great question. All giggles aside, for the man who wants to wear panties having a large penis IS frustrating but, don’t worry, I have a solution – actually several – I’m post the rest of your question and my comment in a blog post. 🙂 🙂
My wife and I have been married fo 50 + years. Approximately 20 years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer “The Big C”. The choices you have are very eye opening; do nothing and run the risk of the cancer spreading or have it removed and live longer, which I did. Two side effects of a prostate removal surgery is incontinence and erectile dysfunction. That is what they told me. What they didn’t tell me is the space where your prostate was once located is then replaced by pulling your penis back toward your body and suturing it in place. As a consequence of that surgery I went from a healthy 7 inch erection or is my wife used to call it “a fucking diamond cutter” to a 1 inch flaccid small penis. I was lucky and I have never had any incontinence troubles at all. However, getting an erection without the use of Cialis was my only alternative to achieve an erection. The very best I could come up with would be a 3 1/2 inch erection just half of what my wife was used to and enjoyed. It didn’t take long for me to realize that given my wife’s strong proclivity for sex we had to come to an agreement. We mutually agreed that I and her would continue to have sex with each other until she had an urge for something better. Over the last 20 years she has had sex with a variety of different men. At first it was a routine of about once every 4 to 5 months. We would do this usually on our vacations. I would participate for a little while and then take a backseat and let her enjoy a real man and a real cock. After a period of about 15 years it has decreased to one to twice a year. During this time over the last 20 years I have given up wearing men’s underwear because frankly my little penis looks absolutely foolish in men’s underwear. My wife and I have shared the same panty drawer for over 20 years. She buys them all for me picks them all out brings them home puts them in the mutual drawer. When I get up in the morning and take my shower and come out of the shower my daily panty is waiting on the bed for me. Our excursions work out very well we used to go to where there’s a beach lots of sun and acquiring a third party to our bed is very easy to attain. It usually involves dinner and drinks and some dancing. We go back to the hotel room and she gets satisfied. In life you get thrown curveballs you can let them go by or you can try like hell to hit them. My wife and I chose to hit them. If you’re wondering I take very good care of her and she takes exceptional care of me. One of the pluses if there are pluses of having your prostate removed is that you no longer have wet orgasms. So for the last 20 years my wife has developed into one of the best cocksuckers you can imagine. She has no fear of me coming in her mouth. And she doesn’t let go with me until I’ve completely climaxed. Panty wearing is just something I decided I should do because I look stupid in men’s underwear. I walk around every day all day with a small penis. Why would I wear men’s underwear! Besides it’s only underwear I’m not bisexual I have no urge to suck a cock and I have no urge to have sex with a man. I just choose to wear women’s panties. They’re very comfortable and I love the colors. All in all I’m a very lucky guy and my wife usually has a smile on her face most days. All she has to do is say I think I need a weekend. And off we go!!
I love this story so much! I’m a fan of making lemonade out of lemons and it sounds like you and your wife did that. I’ve always said cuckolding can actually strengthen the communication, intimacy and bond of a marriage. In part because your wife get the hot sex she DESERVES from a real man. That means she’s relaxed and happy. Happy wife – happy life! I love that she picks out your panties each day — you know, a cuckold with a small penis needs to be in panties!