Your sexual fantasies are deeply intimate. It takes trust to bring another person in and tell that person what turns you on. You open yourself up in so many ways. Yes, it’s scary! I know that so I want to talk with you about trust.
trust and phone sex
There are two key areas of trust when you’re considering calling for an erotic conversation. One question you should ask yourself is: How will the phone sex company handle private billing information? The other main issue is: Can I trust the person I talk with to really understand me? I’m going to start with the non-sexy part.
Your private billing information
We take your privacy very seriously! I do NOT get your private billing information. I don’t even know your full name, I don’t have access to your location or your credit card information. Anything you would like to tell Me (with the exception of your credit card information) I will hear and hold it in the strictest confidence.
Here’s what the owner, Ms Ally, promises:
Our billing procedures and data handling processes are PCI Compliant. What this means for you, is: we have designed our processes to comply with the Payment Card Industry’s stringent standards for secure credit card processing, which are designed to minimize theft and instances of security compromise. We have benefitted from extensive consultations with security professionals to make our processes as secure as they can possibly be.
In addition, in 2005, we assumed the expense of changing our call distribution system to limit, as much as possible, the number of individuals within the company who have access to your billing information. Even as owner of the company, I cannot see your full billing information once it’s entered into our system – all information is encrypted and unviewable by anyone, from the dispatchers to me, the Company Owner.
Will She understand My fantasy?
We know you want the perfect Mistress for you. We offer you our Live Help Desk where you can go for any questions you have. My schedule has Me working closely with Ms Molly, who describes herself as the CIA of LDW. In this instance, CIA means Cock Information Analyst or, if you’re a crossdresser then it’s Clitty Information Analyst!
The next post will be details about how the Live Help Desk and I work with you to make sure your experience is AMAZING! More on that in the next posts and by the way, have you noticed? I’m now posting blogs on a regular schedule — Look for new posts every Tuesday, Friday and Sunday.
My Current Schedule —- How to get a session
The LDW is a great trusted place. Very nice place and can find the right Mistress for you. I talked to Molly about my fetishes and she pointed me in the right direction to Olivia. That was a great choice by Molly :). Trust me, this place will not steal ur number or use ur information against you. I tried it enough times its fine and you get awesome sessions with Olivia. Or whoever you like.
ps. Hope to talk to you soon Olivia 😉
*nods* you DID come to Me through our CIA (cock information analyst) Ms Molly on Live Help. I did a really FUN interview with Ms Molly about what it’s like to be a Cock Concierge! ~laughs~ You’ll see excepts of that interview here on My blog in the coming (so to speak) weeks. I’m so thrilled that Molly got us together……because the phone sex is GREAT …. AND, frankly, your cock is VERY FUN to look at! *wink* Especially when I get to see the funny expressions on your face during the wicked erotic humiliation on cam sessions that I put your through!
Thank you SO MUCH for your post crashhawk! 🙂
Once of the reasons I called LDW was because they seemed very professional and trust worthy. Some of the other places just seemed a bit dodgy. And my experience with LDW has been fantastic. The ladies at the help desk are very nice and will help you find the right Mistress. For instance, if you ask for a beautiful, sexy, intelligent blond woman who’s first name begins with “O” they will put you through to Ms. Olivia.
The second part is a bit more difficult. Not that all the women won’t talk to you about your particular fantasy, I think some are definitely more into certain things. And I think this is great. That is why there is such a huge variety of women on LDW so that you can find the woman that really enjoys talking with you about your particular fantasy. You should also call some different Mistresses so that you can find one that you connect with. When you have trust and connection on the other end, there is no telling how far down the rabbit hole you will go. Now pick up that phone and call a beautiful, blond, sexy, intelligent woman whose first name begins with “O”
~laughs~ ahhhhhh, yes Matty……you know, I DO work WITH the lovely ladies on Live Help to make sure that each of you finds a perfect fit for a Mistress (sometimes it’s Me 🙂 )
I do think you’re right about the variety of styles and expertise here. We are ALL EXCELLENT. You wouldn’t BELIEVE how indepth the interview process in. Ms Ally gets way more requests to be associated with LDW then she brings on board. ANY Lady here is the creme de la creme! AND, each of us is different. Some are specialists. Some will only do Femdom (I’m a switch so I do Dominance and submissive sessions).
As a caller, you get options within a range of the highest quality in phone sex. When I first started nearly four years ago, I had less fetish experience than I currently have. Right now, I offer all types of sexy conversation, kinks and fetishes that we do on our phone sex calls. I’m versatile, creative and very naughty. AND, you’re so right, there’s that *something* that happens when two people *click* in all kinds of ways. THAT connection is beyond the sex call and ALL types of sessions are available and adored!
I even adore you OUTSIDE sessions, here on My blog! HUGS Matty!
First, new posts 3 days a week? I say again, MsOlivia. You are a posting machine! 😉
I like the way You laid out the two main areas of trust here. I know that MsAllly has always been very upfront about the privacy she offers. I would think of course that anything less than what she gives would be horrible for business anyway of course, but it’s so good that she comes out and says it.
I like though how You talk about the other kind of trust, which is really about whether is right for the caller. I have seen a lot of blogs about that and that different Mistresses may be better than others at certain areas. i.e. some are more strict, some go for the more sensual experiences, some are all about the strap-ons, perhaps. Really a lot of something for everyone.
yeppers magnus…..I’m NOW on a blog schedule of posting three days a week – Tuesday, Friday and Sunday. AND…….I’ll be making an announcement about doing a group blog with two of the sexiest women here ……are you curious? *wink* Since, you’re a regular reader, you *might* be able to guess WHO the will be the other two….I’ll give a hint, each has been mentioned here on My blog as a Femdom Mistress that I ADORE! Just sayin’ ….. *wink*
Now, to your comment….THANK YOU…..you’re right. Ms Ally and LDW are adamant about ALL ASPECTS of privacy! We want your phone sex calls to be fun and part of that FUN is a feeling of security!
There really is a variety of Mistress styles and expertise in all areas of fetish play. THEN, there’s that *something* when you click with a certain something. What we do offer is the creme de la creme of intelligent woman …. so from your standpoint, you can CHOOSE from the best of the best. Now, that’s a very good thing!
*wiggles toes and considers posting another photo of My sexy feet*
Ohhhhhhhh, magnus is DISTRACTED I think! ~laughs~
Quite distracted, MsOlivia. mmmmm…… toes…….. 😉
And yes, I am curious. I’ll do my best to figure it out too, if I weren’t so damn distracted. lol
~giggles~ What? mangnus is ‘distracted’ awwwwwwww ….. ~laughs~ and gives you a *wink*
I’m glad to see that Molly is still around here at LDW. Shes adorable, isn’t she?
*waves* Hi Roderico…….Ms Molly is the BEST !!!!! Oh yes, she’s still here 🙂 We’re partners during our daytime hours! BTW, I do know that she still does some phone sex calls by appointment. She’s a wonderful storyteller and very sweet tease! I’ll tell her your said HI!
Dear Ms. Olivia,
Thank you so much for the the time that you have given me for some IM chat to get to know each other. I have thoroughly enjoyed explaining to you the twists and turns of my desires and experiences in being an out crossdresser. As I said, I am smitten.
I can’t wait for our first call, when I can send you my pics and will hopefully model my girliness on cam. As we discussed, but I am reposting here for others to see, I am sexy, fun and imaginative. I appreciate honesty in calls and conversation – honest Q & A that then works its way into a fantasy journey is much more exciting for me than roleplay (I’m a terrible actor) or the fake “oooh oooh baby touch me there” that one gets from many other services.
I first began to experiment with crossdressing as a teen. I think like many CDs, I started with my mom’s clothing. I was the nerdy, smart teen – I didn’t date much so I think I developed CD tendencies to fight loneliness – if I couldn’t be with a girl, then I would be the girl. In college, I would occasionally find a pair of panties in the dorm laundry room, so I would sneak them back to my room and where them under my jeans. After college, well I finally got to explore it for real, buying my own clothes and visiting with pro dominas. And, I also went through stages of fear and guilt – what if I’m caught?, what if I die in a car accident and my parents find my girl stuff when emptying my apartment? how can I spend money for girlish stuff (and phone sex) when I have other financial obligations too? So I would purge. And then a few weeks later I would shop again.
Fast forward several years. Now I’m married with a family. My wife and family are my lifeblood. I only get to be “Pamela” when I travel on business. I have a place to hide my clothes. And sometimes I still feel horrible for spending money on my girliness when I should be saving it for my family. I still purge and I still shop again. Sometimes life is a hamster wheel.
Years ago I did tell my wife that I crossdress. She was not interested, even a bit put off by it. So we never discussed it again and she has long since forgotten. That’s ok – I’m not going to force it on her. But I also can’t subdue the need.
I like to be pretty. I want people to see me en femme and think that I am smokin’ hot. I have a medium build, I wear a wig and I do ok with my makeup. I’m not 100% passable, but I’m not a linebacker in a thong either. I can’t shave my body hair, so I wear long sleeves and dark hosiery. I have a nice shape and I’m very proud of my legs. I love legs – beautiful legs on a woman, made even more beautiful by hosiery. So I am thrilled to have nice legs myself. I mostly shop in junior’s clothing stores – the clothing fits and is less expensive. But someday I hope to be able to afford a woman’s business suit – pencil skirt just above the knee, blouse and a jacket with gorgeous lingerie beneath.
But I also love to be outed – I want people to think that I am hot, but also to be curious about what they would find under my skirt, inside my panties. I don’t want to shock them – I just want them to be interested. I guess “Pamela” is still a little lonely. I only shop in stores where I can use the fitting rooms and where the sales ladies are willing to look at me and offer opinions, to help me to select clothing and make sure that everything fits and is a good look for me. Everything is always very professional – I’m not trying to embarrass them or me, and I’m certainly not looking to be kicked out of a store or arrested. It is my fetish, not theirs.
I sometimes shop en femme, and sometimes it is a bit terrifying. I go to restaurants en femme too. And sometimes I’ll go to an adult bookstore, especially if there are video booths.
I loooooooooooooooooooooooove pantyhose. When I was ((young)), my teacher stood on my desk to hang some student art project from the light fixture. I was sitting there at the time. So I had a nice long look under her dress. I can still visualize her tan pantyhose and baby blue panties like it was yesterday. Since then, I’m hooked on pantyhose. I do love to see a woman in stockings with a garter and sometimes I wear them myself. Although a man’s body isn’t really built for garter belts – no hips – so I tend toward open bottom girdles. They stay up better and have a vintage sexiness to them. But at the end of it all, pantyhose floats my boat. To see the beautiful effect that they give the legs extended all the way to the waist, to feel the slippery smoothness go all the way up – it takes my breath away. Part of it I think is the tease of pantyhose as a barrier between me and her. And to know that the cotton crotch panel is absorbing her personal flavor and fragrance is intoxicating. Lately I have been in love with control top pantyhose, because the extra thickness of the nylon in the panty area is beautiful.
I’m bi-curious. I’ve had a few experiences (oral and hand) when pro dominas have had me play with one of their slaves. Those were ok, but somehow the reality never matches the fantasy. Despite my best efforts to communicate my fantasy to her in advance it has never quite worked out. Still, I’m extremely curious and willing to try again and it is something that I like to talk about a lot.
I don’t fantasize about men. That is, I don’t see faces. And I don’t find a particular thrill when I look at a guy, even if it is someone that I can say is handsome. To me, the excitement is below the waist. I frequently fantasize about below the waist.
When I’m en femme, I still have guy parts, not girl parts. It’s part of my thing about being outed as a CD, about being beautiful and stepping outside of myself yet retaining a little bit of myself too. And also because I can look at myself and see pretty, but I can’t look in my panties and see a girl.
I can’t wait to send you my pics and to be on cam for you. I love for ladies to watch me please myself and to be told how to do so. I’ll model for you and pose as you instruct me. I’ll keep my skirt down and panties on until instructed otherwise. And at the end, I’ll (happily?) drink my own release for you.
Maybe someday I’ll even get to join a Strokeathon or play Pass The Penis.
I’m not subservient to women. While I enjoy giving of myself sexually and taking on the submissive role, I do not feel inferior. I do not enjoy being belittled. I want to be pretty, not laughed at. I don’t like for my male parts to be verbally abused for size. I’m not worthless or pathetic. Although some sexual verbal abuse about being a slut and a whore, about being a (willing or otherwise) cocklover – that is totally within my personal parameters. But I am “Pamela” with a “P”, not a “p”. As the song says, “I am woman hear me roar”.
I look forward to our first of many calls. I hope that this develops into a long-term phone relationship.
Hi Pamela, thank you so much for posting all that! It’s great to get to know you here in My blog comments 🙂
One thing that strikes Me in particular is this: “I don’t fantasize about men. That is, I don’t see faces. And I don’t find a particular thrill when I look at a guy, even if it is someone that I can say is handsome. To me, the excitement is below the waist. I frequently fantasize about below the waist.”
That is more common than you (and others) might realize. Yes, a huge percentage of people that call for phone sex do have cock fantasies. But, that doesn’t automatically mean the caller is gay, bi or interested in a ‘man’ per se. There is ‘something’ about a cock that draws attention and inspires …. ahem …. lots of erotic desires. It’s the look, feel, taste, visuals (and sometimes the humiliation) of being with a cock (not the man).
Since I’ve been in this role …. and now doing this as My livelihood and career … I’ve learned that there are so many nuances to every sexual desire. Erotic sex fantasies, kinks, or sexual fetish play is as individual as you are! Before doing phone sex I thought it was much more ‘clear cut’ and the lines were clearly defined. Not SO! Thank you for sharing your insights with all of us 🙂