How much do you know about CFNM (clothed female, naked male) scenes? I love the idea of me having all my clothes on, all the way down to my stockings and heels, while you’re naked, vulnerable…and very aroused.
CFNM Is An Automatic Power Imbalance
If the clothes make the man, what does it mean when you’re totally naked in front of me? It’s an automatic power imbalance, that’s for sure. The scales are 100% tipped in my favor. And I have you right where I want you–rock hard, blushing, trembling….
It’s a delicious thought to those of us who enjoy sensual humiliation and teasing. I love looking at you while you’re all turned on and naked and saying things like, “Wow, you’re so hard! You must like it, no matter what you say….” Those words always seem to get an immediate effect. Your cock starts throbbing and leaking between your legs, and your cheeks turn redder. (The northerly cheeks, not the southerly ones–that’s a whole other blog post for another day!)
It’s Hard To Imagine Anything More Humiliating
CFNM is one of those things that’s embarrassing to pretty much anyone, even if they’re generally the kind of person who has very little shame. But imagine going skinny-dipping or something and thinking you’re all alone. Then, when you’re about to get out of the pool, you see a beautiful MILF lying on a lounge chair. How are you going to get to your clothes without exposing yourself completely to her? It’s not possible! And it’s really hard to imagine anything more humiliating than something like that.
If I had you in that situation, I would definitely have to laugh. If you have a small dick, then a little small penis humiliation might be in order. This is especially true if the water’s a bit cold, and you’re experiencing shrinkage! But even if you’re hung like a horse, unexpectedly being naked in front of a gorgeous woman is still embarrassing as hell!
Teasing You While You’re Nude
Maybe I’ll just tease you myself, if I catch you in such a situation. Maybe this Experienced Mistress will tease and torment you with my words and my laughter. I might even have you play with yourself for my entertainment. You won’t be able to tell me no, after all. We both know that already!
Or maybe I’ll take it a step further and call my girlfriends. They’ll come gather round the pool and watch you in your nakedness, too! You’ll be even more embarrassed, the more ladies who show up. We’ll all tease you about how hard you are and how you’re so obviously enjoying this form of CFNM humiliation.
Naturally, me being poolside while you’re skinny-dipping is only one of many ways we can explore CFNM together. I bet we can think of plenty more scenarios in which you lose your clothes in front of me! Or maybe we won’t even need a real roleplay scenario. Maybe you’ll just strip for me in my play room, and we can go from there.
If you really like CFNM with a large audience, I can arrange that, too. Perhaps a multi-Mistress call would help you explore that kind of fantasy. Or maybe you just want me to invite some friends to the play room while you get naked for me. Whatever way(s) you’d like to delve into CFNM is good with me! I just want to see you naked so I can giggle a bit. The hows and wherefores are less important than me being entertained!
How did this blog post make you feel? If you’re aroused then I think I know the answer, now I want your confession in the comments.
Well, Ms Olivia, as we both know, I’ve had several encounters with you at the side of a swimming pool, albeit in a different context. One common factor was that I was the one who always got wet and ended up completely humiliated!!
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You DID end up quite vulnerable didn’t you?
Especially when I team up with Ms Hunter to put you in your place!
Dear Ms Olivia, you and Ms Hunter certainy do make a really dynamic duo! Actually, during the swimming pool scenario (we both remember it well!), I was briefly ‘naked’ for a few seconds. After you revealed that you were an off-duty lady police offiers, you ordered me to get out of the water, told me to sit down next to your sun lounger, and handcuffed me (with my hands behind my back) to a pole next to your sun lounger. Then, you had an idea for some more public humiliation. You took out a chastity belt (amazing what a memdom carries in her handbag!) and a spare pair of your underpants. You pulled my swimwear down for a few seconds (the naked moment!) so that you could click the belt on me and then replaced my swimwear with your underpants. And so, now that I was the one wearing your underpants, the name dramatically changed to ‘knickers’ or ‘panties’ (LOL!!).
You cracked me up with the line about “amazing what a Femdom carries in her handbag” that’s TRUE !!!
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Actually not just femdoms, any woman with a large or largeish purse can have all sorts of things in there … I have been known to carry ….
oh wait, I’m not going to tell you.
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And I judo flip you right back down the basement stairs.
I love CFNM . I am a nudist so I have no fear or shame about being naked in front of anyone clothed or not in the parking lot at nudist resort some people are clothed . I am usually naked weather permitting. I especially like to be naked or almost naked and walk the isolated beach and see women in swimsuits. some wear g string or thongs others have full one piece. When I walk in the woods in a g string I wonder if there will be men back there masturbating and will they want to have sex with me.When I can’t get a woman I want dick.
That’s an interesting point…I wonder if being a nudist brings up the same feelings during a CFNM roleplay. I think part of that kink is the ‘zing’ of embarrassment of being nude while ‘she’ is wearing clothes.
Being a nudist dulls the physical arousal for men . When seeing a nude woman as a Nudist and being nude . There is no physical excitement just mental like maybe this woman is interested or not wait and see don’t make a move. On the woman’s part she sees a nude man if she is clothed I have noticed women are friendly more to a naked man then a clothed man.
Hmmmmm, that’s an interesting observation …. I think when the women has clothes on but the man is naked, there’s a natural and very obvious power imbalance there that’s hard to miss! She feels in charge and HE feels vulnerable and exposed — really flips the script.
You know that I love exhibiting myself when I have a captive audience that wants to see and is excited about it. Not a humiliation thing really but I love the idea of you inviting a bunch of your friends over (the more the merrier) for a tea party or whatever and, for their entertainment you have me fully naked. Then you have them all gather around to watch as you order me to masturbate for them. You give me a bowl and instruct me to cum in it and not to miss a single drop. Then you, not only, have me eat it but, hold it in my mouth for a very long time and swish it around, gargle it etc. All for you and your friend’s amusement and excitement! That would be awesome!!!
Ohhhhhhh that visual!
I also think of you, naked, in the middle of a circle jerk … where you are sucking cock after cock after cock and then some of them cum in your mouth and some spew their loads all over your body and then the ladies scoop up the cum in our fingers and feed it to you.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Ohhh, that would be so fantastic! Another thing would be ball busting whether you were doing it to me or having me do it to myself.
Mmmmmmmmmmm
Or set you up in front of a ball busting machine so your arm doesn’t get tired!
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Hi Ms Olivia….A few months back there was CFNM themed blog post that i commented on. Alas, it went unanswered, so in full disclosure I will re-post my comment here. An unusual step perhaps, but i thought it was fun enough to share again. I posted…
CFNM as i have confessed to before, is one of my absolute favourites! And seeing as how i am on the smaller…okay “very” small side of the scale it is combined with SPH.
(( all this )) has me tingling in my pink cage. Hmm. is it STIL CFNM if i am wearing my little cage?
OH NO! Did you post that comment on one of my blogs?
It might take me a couple days to approve it but I always do and write a response.
I’m so sorry if I missed it – tell me the blog and the post and I’ll go back and look for it.
That said, your “is it still CFNM if I’m wearing my little chastity cage” ?
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I laughed out loud.
Isn’t that a bit of a ‘if a tree falls in the forest and nobody hears it did it really fall’ type of question – and of course I love it!
You always make me laugh!
No no no, Ms Olivia, not your blog, it was elsewhere! Sorry for the confusion!
No worries !!!
I love your comments — you always make me laugh and think and I like that …. a lot!
A number of times in the past I have been the NM for a CF. At times more than one CF! It is always so decadently naughty to be on display for Mistress in what Mother Nature has given you…and in my case, what she hasn’t! My presentation always seems to amuse and delight, and I suppose that’s what is most important. The hoots and hollers still ring in my ears as a quartet of CF’s got a very good evaluation of my “almost” quartet of inches during a most memorable encounter.
OMG hahahahahaha
Okay first I have to share my blonde moment — I read NM and I thought oh I love New Mexico, how fun that lil peg has been there too. hahahahahahahaa
Then, I was like DUH naked male!
I probably shouldn’t confess that but I will because it made me laugh!
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This is such a hot fantasy! I LOVE CFnm as you know Ms Olivia! I love the complete embarrassment, the vulnerability, the loss of control. And of course, the laughter and perhaps teasing that may or may not come with it. So far it’s been all fantasy, but you know that I long for this to someday happen to me. No matter how I think right now, I would certainly turn beet red and if any teasing occurred at all I would not be able to control my arousal. Which of course would make it even more embarrassing! Whoopsie, I think my slut switch has just been activated!
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I was reading that and immediately thought …. hmmmmmmm, I wonder if he’s writing this with the slut switch turned on!
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You know what?
I want you to email me a followup to this blog by answering the following questions:
1. Try and explain to someone who doesn’t ‘get’ CFNM or erotic humiliation why: complete embarrassment, the vulnerability, the loss of control is so arousing.
and
2. How you feel when you are, say, performing for me and Ms Erika and you hear us laughing and teasing you.
Assignment time!
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OMG. Mmmmm. Yes Mistress! I love your assignments!
I thought you might like this one in particular … delivered in a sort of public way.
Plus it is a way of “claiming” you.
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I must admit this is one of the fantasy’s i have planned in my head many times. In fact it is the premise of a fantasy script that has been developing in my head for Ms Erika’s new audio page.
The fantasy is often that of being the servant at a Domme Tea Party.
Having been instructed to arrive dressed, but caged by the head Mistress. Then Ordered to strip before the group. Before my servant duties began. Walking naked and vulnerable amongst the group of Mistresses to serve drinks and snacks. Available to be touched, pinched, swatted rubbed as any Mistress felt inclined to do. Maybe Head Mistress removes my cage maybe She doesn’t. Maybe the group decides that.
Perhaps it goes like this. I am required to arrive early and greet each Mistress as they arrive naked and take their coats and drink orders.
Maybe i arrive expecting only to serve my Mistress. Ordered to strip as i arrive and follow Her out to the pool, where i find a whole group of Mistresses waiting to have their fun with a nakedly vulnerable male.
Yep so many ways it could go.
And yes. Your blog post made me think of finding myself in all these possible scenarios
And it definitely leaves me aroused. and currently, not allowed to stroke.
Besides Ms Erika. You Ms Olivia are the only other Mistress to have seen me naked.
So You will have to be there. Do You petition for the cage to come off or keep me locked up?
Well now, I LOVE these CFNM ideas!
There usually is a CFNM party at BDSM conventions — either in one of the suites or a section of the play space (usually in the hotel ballroom).
I LOVE the trick and switch, bait and switch types of things.
You THINK you’re coming over for one thing and then … BOOM …
I’m thinking right now of the accidental CFNM roleplay — for example, you come over to help with something and oopsie some red wine gets spilled all over you and I tell you, strip and I’ll toss all this in the wash.
I give you a towel but once your clothes are washing OOPS I grab the towel for some reason
and boom you’re butt ass naked and then more ladies arrive!
hahahahahaha
DEVIOUS…..and so much fun!
I think locked up …. but then off at some point.
Normally the idea of being exposed is rather terrifying but also exciting This is awesome! While you are quite exceptional on the phone, you take it to a completely different level sometimes. The embarrassment and feeling of vulnerability are there at the beginning,but once you start giving instructions it is just pure bliss. I’m always amazed at your ability to both control me and satisfy me simultaneously . On top of that ,you are just Fun,Fun Fun.
As for your question “how did this post make you feel?” Raging hard and wishing I was with you.
Ohhhhhhhhhhh what a wonderful, delightful and completely accurate comment.
hahahaahahah
I can hear you laughing reading that.
Mmmmmm we DO have so much fun, don’t we Dr. S?
You tickle my funny bone and other parts as well.
? I would be utterly mortified to be naked in front of you.
Oh wait, I think it has already happened and yes, my hard cock betrayed me so I can’t deny being turned on … by … My Alpha Female, while you play with me for your entertainment.
Too late for me. That ship already sailed and I got left behind with no clothes.
“Hey! come back, you have my luggage on board… all my clothes!”.
OH NO! who is that coming my way down the beach?!!! There has to be something here… to cover myself up, some seaweed or oh! there’s a conch shell… Ooou, you really can hear the crashing waves in it…
…Aaaah! OH FUCK! THAT’S not waves I hear, it’s… it’s… the roar of laughter!
Where did all those OTHER women come from? Oh damn! They’re getting closer, turn and RUN!
!!!!! they’re coming from that direction TOO! Where do I go?…
Is that Olivia at the front of the group? It IS!!! Oh holy crap!
“Gather ’round in a circle ladies…”
What?!!! She invited all her girl friends?!!!
“Hello David *****, THAT is MY conch shell and I will need it back…thank you LOL, LOOK AT THAT ladies! He’s as hard as a tree trunk! Ha ha ha! And speaking of shells, You remember One”L” Michele, right? Well judging by your hard on, you do! Don’t deny it.”
“Hmmmm…. we can’t very well have him cum in the sand and lick it up. Let’s go to my cabana. It’s up there in the trees, the coconut trees. So apropos, don’t ya think? I mean yeah! We ALL think you should milk out your coconuts ha ha ha ha ha!”
OMG! MORE women! It’s like a revolving door around here!
“I have A LOT of friends… I actually sent out invitations to all of them, ha ha ha! they will be coming and going all weekend and YOU ARE THE ENTERTAINMENT cabana boy!!”
“C’mon in ladies. Free drinks at the bar, the kind with those little umbrellas in them, food will be served as David serves all of us, plenty of seating so sit back and enjoy the SHOW! And let me TELL you about the ‘star’, David *****. Oh he’s done this, and that and OH! wait to you see him @#:* HA HA HA!”
And when it comes to the $ shot, guess what I tell him to doooooo?!!!!”
“Now, grab that melon and get busy!!!! WOOOO HOOO!!!!”
(the roar of laughter, hootin’ and hollering like like only women on vacation can do)
“I told you it was true and now you are seeing it with your own eyes!!!!!”
“I, that’s moi, am his Alpha Female and I made him a Women’s Play Toy for all to enjoy!”
“No rush, we have the entire weekend here and OH! if you have to leave? Make sure you come back for the grand finale, Sunday, right at sunset! ”
“What is it? Well let’s just say I have had him ‘saving’ for months. Trust me, you won’t want to miss it ladies!!!!! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA !”
hahahahahahaha
EPIC comment and I can totally imagine that …
the invitation reads something like …
fun, sun, lots of drinks on the beach
AND
A surprise that will be out of this world!
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i was offered to go to one of these down in fort worth texas. i misse it because i dont live near, but the mistress holding the party that i would have won the smallest dick there. none that was invited were small. but have a future offer to go if in the area.
Most women who are into CFNM like all kinds of naked dicks … one reason is because of the power dynamics – those are totally switched.
Of course, one reason why I love it is saying things like …. awww want to get dressed? Okay! And then holding up panties!
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Ran outta room higher up! Don’t need my comments in a tight little cage as well! Thank you Ms Olivia…they say confession is good for the soul, and your honesty is very endearing!? My turn…”I’ve never been to New Mexico!”?. Tame? Yes. But I think you know my naughty confessions already!
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I know LOTS of your naughty confessions …. but not all … for example, Ms Erika sending me that pic of you and the vibrator and I ‘thought’ the vibrator was you and then oppsie nope, there YOU are peeking out like the “killroy was here” drawings!
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OMG!!!!especially seeing how small I was!!! You’ve seen me naked then had me put bra/panties/heels/wig/makeup/
Lipstick on-I felt soooo weak and helpless!!!! Can’t wait to have another call in which you will dress turn and keep me as a your sissy girl with lipstick kisses on my cheeks!!!
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I have seen you naked and while that is fun … it’s even BETTER seeing you in pretty feminine bra and panties and, of course, clothes and heels and more.
You’ll never escape!
Instantly aroused! CFNM coupled with being submissive and having a less that average cock size makes for a good time. I used to be embarrassed about being small but after having a dominant girlfriend who jokes about your size it becomes a turn on. Absolutely love being naked and exposed now.
Isn’t that funny how one comment (like the one from your dominant girlfriend) can … ahem …. open up so many new ways to experience arousal and pleasure!?!
I’ve lived real life CFNM moments, from hotel maid walking in on me while in my hotel shower, even walking up to me to chat (this was in Germany), to being at the gym shower and the lady in charge walking in (also Germany), to a number of other times including mixed saunas. It’s one thing that they are fully clothed and completely comfortable, but it’s also SPH as I’m a 4-inches hard. I can’t help but to notice them smiling and I think they told other employees..it seems unavoidable and I’m forced to accept it.
Hmmmmm, I can’t speak for others but that sort of public exposure or humiliation isn’t my thing … not unless it’s consensual but that’s just me.
The most truly embarassed I’ve ever been in a CFNM situation was when I was only in a t-shirt, washing my clothes in my apartment when I was a college teacher abroad, and my American colleague just opened my door (as she usually did) and walked in. I was usually in my underwear and t-shirt on Saturday mornings, and Ash always knew when to come over. Her boyfriend and her and I were friends, and she’d seen me nude several times when we took Sauna together. This seemed to give her license to watch me whenever she wanted. This time I had no underwear, just my t-shirt, the rest was in the wash. I started getting kind of nervous and embarrassed, and started to pull down the front of my t-shirt to keep my small penis from popping out. She sat comfortably and begin noticibly giggling while focusing her gaze on my penis, which was almost more embarrassing as it poked out of my t-shirt more transparently than my underwear. As I fumbled with my wash and we chit chatted, I became more nervous and kept pulling the front of my t-shirt down, and the more she kept giggling. This went on for about 10-15 minutes, until she left and giggled as she turned around and said “see you later”. It was the most embarrassing and vulnerable I’ve ever felt.
ohhhhhhhhhh I love this!
And, since she stayed and watched and giggled SHE also enjoyed seeing you embarrassed by your small penis. Awwww, now that is one way that a woman who might be naturally dominant begins to explore and perhaps even becomes a Femdom.
Did you see other Femdom qualities or behavior in her?
Yes! She talked about sexual positions (we talked openly about sex) and she described one where the female rides the man like she’s penetrating him but he’s an inside her. She looked and me and said, “only more well endowed men can make this work.” She also mentioned I should try finding more supportive underwear to play sports in. She actually made a lot of references to big versus small dicks. It made me have to take care of myself sometimes as it was somewhat humiliating and obviously intentional. She also talked about statistics of how many men are under a certain length. She was smart. I couldn’t confront her on it as she was not explicitly calling my dick small, but it was obvious she enjoyed it.
That’s the MINDFUCK !!!!
Oh my how wicked and devious! It also sounds like she was playing with Dominance and submission aka power exchange. Did she talk about BDSM – was she doing that deliberately do you think? Or, was it that she happened into behavior she liked without even fully understanding it?
I think she did it deliberately; she once took a picture with of me when I had no underwear on (long story), only thin sweatpants as we took a hike in the mountains. I didn’t realize that she had perfectly caught the right angle of the sun, and it was painfully obvious in the photo that I have a tiny penis that was poking straight out of my sweats in the cold mountain air. She set it up in her picture Rolodex in her apartment, and showed it to all of our female Chinese colleagues and a few students, telling them, “take a look at the picture of Elbert from our trip to the mountain”! and give me a grin. The women in China would never say exactly what they were thinking but giggled a lot every time. I tried moving the picture to the back of the Rolodex when she wasn’t looking, but I found she placed it back on the top so everyone would see it. I think she would love to be a femdom, she often talked about dominance in sexual relationships. Those moments of SPH and embarrassment stuck with me for many years afterwards.
Great story and you’re right, I think a lot MORE women would be Femdoms if they had the environment and circumstances to explore it. Why? Because it is FUN! And, yes you remember it all those years later …. I bet the ladies do too!
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Yes, I’m getting embarrassed and hard thinking about it all these years later. Ash was smart, and as I think back she made a LOT of references to sex, small and big penises, including how big her boyfriend’s (he and I were also good friends) penis is, and women’s preferences regarding penis size. Her boyfriend and I and her took sauna together (as many of us do from our home town), and she kept laughing and giggling the first time to the extent her boyfriend told her to stop. Since then, she was always comfortable walking in if I was in the shower or otherwise not clothed. She always showed up when I washed my clothes on Saturday mornings, I was usually in my underwear and T-Shirt, with the exception of the time o was only in my T-Shirt. I have to say the photograph on her Rolodex made me feel the sexual fetish of being SPH’d as well as genuinely embarrassed when our female colleagues would look at it. It was painfully obvious how tiny my penis was in the cold with no underwear on. There was a definite power dynamic going on, and despite being very sweet, she had a dominant and playful personality. I still feel the SPH to this day. Thanks for letting me share!
And thanks for sharing !!
Great stories as always!