What’s the deal about chastity?
((Note from Ms Olivia — Ms Constance is a dear friend of mine as a Mistress, a treasured playmate at LDW Group and a friend-friend in our private lives. She has graciously written a two part guest blog about chastity! Chastity can be a thrilling experience. I love how Ms Constance is straight up about the joy and challenges of being cock locked for this amazing chastity Mistress. Ms Constance really is the Intelligent Femdom. Enjoy!)
Ms Constance on chastity challenges
Everyone knows how much I love chastity and enjoy the thrill of locking up a cock and denying for however long I see fit…..but not everyone can handle chastity and that is okay!
You may not like chastity if
You are someone who only finds pleasure in cumming, meaning that if you are the type of guys who’s only pleasurable moments come from shooting your load than chastity may not be the way to go for you. It may leave you feeling empty and miserable from not enjoying the one thing that brings you pleasure.
Chastity is not for you if
You are sensitive, meaning if everything your Mistress does or says effects you even when it does not involve you than you may not want to be locked up for her. Those sensitive feelings are only magnified when you are cock locked and denied orgasms; I for one want it to be fun and sexy not depressing and sad.
But if chastity IS for you
Chastity makes men more submissive so if you want to submit to and feel owned by a Chastity Mistress then I can be ….
Your Intelligent Femdom,
ms constance, yes i want to be put in chastity . i once had a cb 3000 but purged it . i am small can you suggest a device for me ?
Fabulous question emily! I’m going to post this so Ms Constance can see it. Wanted to say thanks for your comment…..I LOVE LOVE LOVE Ms Constance and she’s amazing with chastity, chastity devices and all sorts of fun sexy phone sex stuff! ~grinz~
HI Emily thanks for the comment and of course the fact you want to be locked up thrills me to no end!!! You should look into the cb6000 that is smaller and should fit you unless you are itty bitty that is….you can also check out a site called mature metal they custom make steel chastity devices to fit snuggly and they have great customer service as well. I will warn you they can be a bit costly so you want to be sure you do NOT purge it or that is money down the drain. Do let us know what you get 🙂
~laughs~ Good advice Ms Constance! I’m a fan of Mature Metal …. but you’re right, it’s costly and not something to purge!
I’m with you Ms Olivia, LOVE LOVE LOVE Ms Constance! She is an amazing chastity Mistress,well amazing Mistress all the way around, as are you ~Winks~ Those are all great points and things to think about before deciding if being locked up is for you. But when you DO..it can be quite the intense and wonderful experience!
We ALL adore Ms Constance! She’s an amazing Mistress and I count her as a damn good friend too! She’s the one that got me on tumblr and I’ll admit I’m having a great time on tumblr — it’s totally different from the blog and twitter. Long live the Queen Constance! ~grinz~
why thank you Ms Kaylee and Ms Olivia hehehe wow you too make me blush and I adore you both and Kaylee you are right you must think before you lock up but if it is for you hubba hubba it is HOT and exciting
I can HEAR you saying, hubba hubba it is HOT! ~swoons~
Ms Constance, we are kindred spirits. You really hit the nail on the head for chastity training. It would be so wonderful to have a chastity slave to share. This slave would definitely be sensitive and happy to please us both, never cheating, never disappearing, and always in tune with us and our rules. His demeanor would be chivalrous and always willing to please. Hopefully some day!
Ms Cassandra I’m so glad that both you and Ms Constance are saying that chastity is an elite experience. Chastity is NOT for needy guys. pfffffttttt I would love to see what happens when the Dicktator Ms Cassandra and Chastity Femdom Ms Constance double team a chastity slave!
Ms Cassandra I have always admired your chastity style and am honored you put me in the same class as you. I totally agree that if we did share a chastity slave it would be such an incredible intense yet fulfilling experience for them one that would not be surpassed by any other!
Ms Olivia it is an elite experience and not for the weak and needy although after being locked for a long time they all get weak and needy and I dig that!
~laughs~ Ohhhhhh yes, Ms Constance, a submissive man in chastity will get even MORE submissive. When you and the Dicktator, Ms Cassandra, team up …. can I watch? ~grinz~
After reading this I really understand why chastity in real life is not for me. I love the fantasy part. In real life I think it would make me miserable. I will still wear the gowns and dresses tho 🙂 I don’t think you would have to worry about me being faithful 🙂
~smiles~ at yvonne …. there are lots of things that are amazing fantasy fun that don’t ‘work’ for whatever reason outside of fantasy. BUT, you are still going into chastity with the engagement ring….hey it’s a big damn diamond and you’re planning the wedding …. ~grinz~ …. trust me, you will have LOTS of activities to thoroughly occupy your time.
~blows kisses, blows lots and lots of lipstick kisses~
Yvonne thank you for this comment….I am glad that after reading this that you realize that the real deal locking up in chastity is not for you and that is very much okay…it is much better to realize that now than after lock up and hey not everything is for everyone and that’s cool! I do however love that you wear gowns and dresses I bet you look so damn sexy!!!!
Ms Olivia ya hit it on the head some tings in fantasy are amazing and hot and some are better left in fantasy and hehehe ohh still locking her up very hot hehehehe
Ms Constance, yvonne has the most beautiful gowns and wedding dresses and I’m telling you she is LOVELY!
Personally, I find chastity very satisfying because I feel like Ms Constance enjoys it so much! Being a chastity slave for Ms Constance was an amazing experience while she had me locked up, and I’m sure it will be again at some point. OMG… a Ms Constance/Ms Cassandra chastity double-team??? That sounds positively diabolical. hehehe
I wanna hear all about it jemmie! ~laughs~ Ohhhhhhhhhh I love it when a chastity slave comes back for more. That is COME not cum. hahahhahahahaha
Jemme you are a treat and so much fun to lock up in chastity your daily pictures of proof and how horny everything made you just made the experience that much better for me and yes you better look out girl if Cassandra and I teamed up on you man oh man you would be one hell of a hot chastity mess hehehehe
This exchange makes me laugh out loud! Ohhhhhh I can hear Ms Constance say, Jemmie, you’re a HOT MESS! hahahahhahahahahahhahaha
I have been in Chastity now for 39 days thanks to Goddess Mandy. One day I would love to have Mistress Olivia join our conversation or Mistress Constance because your giggle would add to my arousal. But I have promised Goddess Mandy that I would try to go the whole year without a release and no crying. IS that possible for a sissycumslut to do?
Have FUN with Ms Mandy and I think that’s a question for her.
Hi Ms. O,
POTUS again. Re: Sissycumslutonthewrongblogwastingeveronestime.
I get this a lot. People get on my website. and talk about how great Jeb Bush/The Pope/Beyoncé is but then want me to do all the work; fix the economy, lower taxes, end wars etc.
So. Fucking. Annoying.
Just remember Ms.O; Heavy lies the crown when you are the best at what you do.
And just 736 days, 10 hours, 14 minutes, 23 seconds before I can call 800-356-6169 and you, me and Joe B. can get our freak on!
~laughs~ OMG you are too much! You do make me laugh 🙂