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I had a caller recently who asked about my Domination style as a Chastity Mistress. That’s not a simple question to answer because it’s about the power exchange energy between two people: The Femdom and the submissive. In general, I have a playmate specific and fluid Mistress style. I like to keep my options open as to whether I am a sensual Mistress, strict Mistress, mean Mistress, and more. I like to mix things up! I’m the same way in my domination style as a Chastity Mistress. I think there’s a case to be made that chastity is the ultimate in submission and certainly makes her the Woman in Charge.
Caller comment about being a chastity slave
Like every fetish fantasy or kinky play, there are degrees of play. Chastity is no exception. On the very light end, it’s a bit of extended tease and denial. On the other end of the spectrum, the submissive becomes a chastity slave to Mistress. What is that like? Here’s a comment from one chastity slave.
“To me it is the ultimate symbol of the superior female’s ownership of her male slave, her ultimate triumph and his ultimate surrender to her. Even just orgasm denial can develop the dynamic to new levels. When the slave is continually aroused, sometimes to the point of near climax, again and again over days, weeks, who knows how long, his sense of total submission towards his Goddess will grow and he will find himself almost effortlessly becoming a better slave as the sexual energy of his Goddess’ power illuminates him. The building and ebbing of the chi energy is essential the same as “mainstream” tantra practices, and I actually think in the ancient practices of tantra, a devotee practicing chastity under the guidance of a Priestess imbued with the divine energy of the Goddess probably goes back a pretty long way. Actual orgasm when it comes, while quite amazing, is something the slave will almost want to prolong himself at times.”
“It can be a test, though, for the male chastity slave to avoid becoming self-centered and annoying to his Goddess. Obviously over the course of days or weeks, or whatever, as life goes along she will sometimes completely forget that the slave is in chastity for her. The slave must remember his place and feed off the feeling of ultimate submission that his orgasm and genitals really are much less important than his continued service to his Goddess.”
Service to his Goddess
I love it when you are ‘of service.” ~grinz~
Your Experienced Mistress,
Chastity is the ultimate form of submission. Ms Delia said I need to be in chastity as my stroking and fetish of wearing women’s clothes needs to be controlled. She said she would mention this to Ms Cindy. :0 🙁 also I would be kept dressed in abra/panty set all the time as well as wearing leggings/yoga pants/boots and makeup/lipstick/perfume and lotions. No more wearing my boy clothes as they’ve been thrown away. I’m just scared that I won’t get a release anymore and my chastity will show through my leggings. :(:0
It it’s just I’m never been put in chastity:( once I do that my Vick belongs to her and the other mistresses and I’ll never go back to being the guy I once was now that I’ll be locked and dressed in a bra and panties all the time along with wearing a slip.
Yep, you sure will be! 🙂 Have fun!
Being in chastity leading up to the wedding is such a wonderful time. My feminization feels more complete and the wedding planning takes so much focus. Between dress shopping and breast augmentation I hardly give those parts a thought 🙂
Chastity is such a great way to keep everything …. ahem … FOCUSED on the bridal planning …. and there’s a lot of planning to do!
I love this post. I suppose chastity is a great way to keep focused on things other than what we typically assume to always be a man’s main focus in life…sexual pleasure. To control his ability to orgasm does seem to be the ultimate in control. Especially when you consider that the Mistress, for him, is such a desirable and enticing figure.
Thanks Ms Rayne! Chastity is counter intuitive …. and, for those who are curious about chastity, holds the ultimate allure!
I want to give myself TOTALLY to You Mistress.
The idea of you controlling even when I can get hard turns me on SO much.
YUM! That sound brilliant Jake! Be sure to get a BIG chastity device! You do NOT need a small or average size.
Ms Olivia – What a powerful quote that chastity slave wrote. I believe that chastity can inprove a D/s or even a “slightly kinky” relationship! It can increase focus and attention to Mistress as Ms. Rayne said. And I agree with the quote that chastity CAN make one a much better slave. And plus, I simply love locking a guy away!! So it is all good with me!
This is fantastic …. not only to focus on Mistress, but also to focus on many other things in live. I put one guy in chastity until he finished his wife’s “honey do” list …. happy wife…..VERY happy guy … see? … it’s win win!
dear Mistress Olivia ,yes Mistress it focus the mind .a form of mediation .love sissy slave teddy