How do YOU decide which phone sex Mistress to call?
Some callers, like the first time caller I mentioned earlier, will call the dispatch line and simply ask the Dispatcher to make a recommendation from the LDW Ladies who are available.
If you want to SEE who is logged in go directly to a page like cock control. But, we all know that sometimes you aren’t able to access the actual site pages. So, when that happens you can just call Dispatch at 1-800-601-6975 and ask who is available and/or ask for the Mistress of your choice.
How do you choose a Mistress?
Which Mistress is right for you? You can tell a lot about personality and erotic style by what we write (bio pages or blogs) or through our free erotic audios.
You can read fetish specific bios and listen to audios on each site page … like this example of fantasies about men sucking cock. Or, here’s another example, for men who like to dress in panties. Or even something as specific as a Giantess fantasy. There are so many choices!
Tell Me what you look for in a Mistress
I’ve just created a new poll on Enchantrix Empire asking members of our adult social networking site to vote on various ways they choose who to call. If you’re not a member of EE then you can always post a comment here or send Me an email: olivia AT enchantrixempire.com or empress . olivia AT yahoo.com.
I’m always curious about what motivates people. So, I’d like to get to know you a little better by asking this question.
So many interesting people
I meet amazing people through this *work* and within our kinky/intimate community. The Mistresses are equally interesting. You’ll find a diversity of passions and a wealth of experience (erotic and otherwise). You can tell about many of My interests on Olivia’s Wish List …. lots of items that revolve around creativity and fun.
As I get answers to the poll, I’ll write posts. Thanks in advance for taking your time to comment and/or vote!
Ms Olivia
I commented a bit more at length on your poll this morning. But I love this topic! In short, besides the intitial visual component of attraction (which is soooooo obvious in your case), it comes down to compatability, comfort and trust. Is she a woman/Mistress I want to spend time and share secrets with?
I call it the ‘coffee shop test’. Can I imagine myself enjoying a Sunday morning sharing coffee and chatting and reading the paper with her?…………When you add that level of compatability it just wildly enhances the erotic possibilities as well! At least for me 🙂
Mike! Thank you so much for taking your time to comment HERE and on the poll asking how you choose your phone sex mistress on Enchantrix Empire!
There are a LOT of really valuable comments ….. I see I’ve *sparked* quite a discussion. YOUR thoughts are spot on … while some people call and have a specific limited fantasy they do each time …. others, like you, want to be able to connect on a deeper level because trust and intimacy enhances the erotic conversation. I absolutely agree that it’s more fun to have hot sex with the WHOLE person! LOL I can’t even BEGIN to tell you just how much I enjoy the Phoenix music group you created on the Empire. It really helps ME to express MY whole person-ness in the context of our adult networking site. AND, I love all the recommendations from people in our group.
Hugs m’dear! O
I find that and IM chat tells a great deal about Mistresses. You can tell them what you are looking for and what turn ons you have. Personally I adore lingerie and if I tell that to the Mistress in question it really ads alot to the call.
THANK YOU mandy for writing!! You’re comments are right on the money because when talking about men in panties there are so many different WAYS this can go. I also love IM chat because then I can find out about those various options: hetero men who like to wear panties and other lingerie …. sissies …. lingerie as an expression of submission or erotic humiliation …. a way to control a man into cock sucking and more …. or even just the love of really nice FABRICS that aren’t available in men’s clothes. Ahhhhh so MANY options !!!! YUMMY !