Levels of cock control

Each of you will have a different take on cock control.  The common element of any tease and denial scenario is that you don’t have control — you are not in charge of your basic sexual self, your ability to have an orgasm. There are a bunch of fantastic chastity interviews by the Intelligent Femdom Miss Constance.  Here’s my Mistress interview on keeping you cock locked.

BEG.  No really BEG FOR ME!

Personally, I like the begging.  No matter how long is a LONG TIME for you, I promise you that you will be begging.  Something like this brings a smile to my face:
“Ohhh.     I need PUSSY soooo badly!     Please help me!!!!!!!!”

Control and submission

 Being a submissive means that you enjoy power exchange.  These scenes almost always include tease and denial — and control of when you get to have an orgasm.  Here’s a wonderful description from a chastity slave.
“Chastity for me is giving up the control of my orgasms and willingly give that power to someone else. I love chastity and being submissive to a beautiful female.
“Of course, I have the desire to orgasm and it grows but as the days turn into weeks
“Even though I get more desperate for release the idea of losing the respect of my keyholder is definitely more.  Being a submissive male, I want a strong, dominant and confident woman to take control of me. She knows what is best for me, and protects me.”

the relationship between Mistress and submissive

I thrill when I am in charge … that is my Domme space.  YOU also get to have a sort of erotic vacation and your own sense of fulfillment.  Something like this:
“To have the burden of alpha lifted from me and my main purpose is to please my Mistress is a true gift.
“I love to make her happy and want nothing more to please her.”

Please your Mistress

How can you please me?  Let me count the ways.
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia