Olivia 1-800-601-6975
I love getting your comments to My blog posts. In fact, when you send comments (or post here) it inspires Me to write more simply because it becomes a conversation. It’s not just one-sided musings. So, this post is inspired by magnus who comments on yesterday’s post about the gradations of human sexual preference.
Gender Preference
The Kinsey Institute (research in sex, gender and reproduction) has a scale to quantify where you are on the line between exclusively heterosexual and exclusively homosexual. Refreshing My knowledge of the various Kinsey reports they point out that where a person falls on the scale can change over time. That has been My experience as well in my un-scientific research via phone sex calls.
Fetish Preference
There are also LOTS of gradations in fetish and kink preferences. These can, and often do, change over time as well. Preferences in the acts themselves and in the desires … for example, magnus mentioned he loves foot worship. Take something as seemingly straight forward as a foot fetish. The arousal can be triggered by the feet themselves, the submissive aspect of body worship of a Superior Woman to all sorts of Dominant/submissive erotic games. There can be elements of cock control with tease and denial while flashing glimpses of coveted panties. Or even covert (or overt) bi-sexuality involved in sucking (spike heels, toes, the whole foot). The foot itself becomes a veritable sexual playground!
Explore with fantasy phone sex
One way to explore your fantasies and desires is through phone sex and/or sexy texting with a creative person who understands and is also kinky! That’s a no-brainer. Did you also know that we have a whole social networking site for like-minded kinky people? It’s called Enchantrix Empire. Check it out and, once again, let Me know your thoughts … you’ll inspire more posts. LOL
Olivia
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Well, thank you, MsOlivia, You honor me with your mention. I do enjoy reading Your insightful and/or quirky posts and enjoy commenting back to them.
I was thinking the same thing about different about different aspects to fetishes. Although there are many fetishes and certainly many people don’t share mine, I have noticed that even with those who do share my love of sexy feet, it’s YMMV all the way. Some people enjoy dirty feet or trampling and things like that. Those aren’t my thing as I prefer feet to be pristine and beautiful (though I guess I wouldn’t mind being the one who washes them 🙂 ).
I’ve also heard people mention the possible bi aspect to heel sucking and again, it’s YMMV. I can see some people with that mindset, and I think that’s fine. For me, although I’d be happy to do the heel sucking, it’s still the woman attached to that and it’s just another aspect of submitting to Her as power control.
YES !!!……there’s the physical aspect and then the psychological/mental/emotional aspect of ALL of this …. and, the really GREAT THING about the communication required in all aspects of healthy and sane kink and/or BDsm that makes the connection so INTENSE. Shoot, even VANILLA sex is great when the two people are actually communicating about needs, desires, etc. Of course, when sex or erotic anything becomes part of ammunition in any battleground between two people…..well then, THAT’s when you can kiss the sex (good sex and ANY sex) goodbye!
Mistress Olivia,
I’ve been mulling a different dimension of sexual variability. I agree that there’s a continuum of gender identity; I think that the appeal of certain fetishes lies on a continuum as well. But I don’t think each of us is at a single point of those spectrums — instead, we have a range we’re comfortable in. Where we sit in that range at any given moment depends on a number of factors, including who we’re playing with. Each relationship has a unique dynamic — a relationship is, in a certain sense, a living entity of its own — and a given type of play may be hot and fulfilling in one relationship, but lackluster and unexciting in another.
Thank You for this post — lots of food for thought here.
Your pet,
ThinkingMan
Hi ThinkingMan: Good point about the intersection of erotic desires, gender play, fetish play, and identity…..you’re so right…..it’s ALL of that and more, isn’t it? If fact, you’ve brought up a really interesting theme about the fact that *relationships* are living creatures….in that sense, care and feeding, nurture, sunlight, quiet time, waste removal (lol) and room for growth all come into play. I think some people assume that a relationship will stay *static* once *things* are negotiated and that’s just not the case at all, is it? The JOY of life is in the actual living of it. What was the Roosevelt about getting out of the stands and onto the field of play?
You know Ms Olivia, I’m reading the title of this blog and thinking to myself, “I want to be in the ‘Mistress pleasing business’…” I was glad to see you liked some of my videos (I like to think of myself as a pop culture DJ) so I wanted to come look you up. I understand what you mean when you say you’d rather your blog be a dialogue than a monologue–the more feedback anyone gets when putting something out into the ether (whether it’s a blog, audio, opinion, or an EE video), the more motivated that person becomes to increase that activity.
I’m just kind of “dipping my toe into the water” in this scene, but I understand your point that a certain kink that a person can acknowledge he or she is into might be a “gateway” to other things that person never would have ordinarily considered. Some of the LDW audios I’ve heard relate to kinks that I have never fantasized about, but the Mistress’ voice and storytelling abilities are so good that “the singer outdistances the song”, so to speak.
Anyway, hope you will continue to find the inspiration for more blogs and I will in turn keep posting videos. Look forward to interacting with you in the future…
Castaway
Thanks so coming to My blog castaway !!!!…..and, for taking your time to write !!!! AND thank you for all your comments on EE (www.enchantrixempire.com) …. I must admit there are several screen names that make Me smile when I see them because I know it’s going to be a fun/funny/interesting remark and your screen name is right there in My favorites 🙂
So, tell Me more……it’s really obvious you know your music and your pop culture……and THAT gets My attention :)……TELL ME MORE !!!
I guess thats why to each his own and what makes the world and LDW a great place… Ive never had a homosexual thought and i really dont get the attractiveness or fetish for the feet.. more of an ass man meself 🙂
But thats a good thing..it woujld be boring if we were all the same .. variety is the spice of life and that applies to LDW.. There is a great variety of mistresses that are talented (Like Ms. Olivia) and you can find one that will make your interest and fetish a vivid reality
Find ONE Mistress victim?……*snicker*…..<> ….. just wait until there are 4, 5, 6, or MORE ganging up on you…..hunting you down…..tackling you to the ground. Then you’ll find out what REAL ass worship is all about. *hands OFF* ::giggle::
i likes the wimmins who has the sexay voice likeah de
eartha kitt !
* wink wink *
*gasp* …. you even went to My blog….OH MY ! Looks like I *did* get your attention. *snicker* (without nuts)
mmm, sex with Vanilla
LOTS of yummmy scents…..just My two cents. LOL
Here’s one guy who hopes you start writing again soon, and a new pic wouldn’t be bad either 🙂 It seems the opposite is true as well……………we are inspired by YOUR comments!
ahhhhh Mike…..THANK YOU ! I’ve had some time off and you know how important it is to write when you’re *fresh* …. so all I can say now is I am fresh/fiesty and do hope YOU return to Enchantrix Empire when you can. Hugs m’dear.
Empress Olivia is amazing. She has an awesome personality and u can tell is not acting she really enjoys her work and gets satisfaction exploiting our desires in conversation. She needs little direction as she insrinctivley as able to control u and find out what gets ur lil guy to move :). Looking forward to my next convo! 🙂
Thanks for taking your time for write a comment ….. and it’s always great to hear that I can get that “lil guy” moving …. *giggle*
I’m really looking forward to our first actual phone call. Our conversation on the phone or during an erotic sexy text session will be even BETTER because then we can have an explicit conversation about sex and all that goes with those delicious erotic feelings. Here at LDW Group, we take customer service very seriously …. in fact, this needs to be a whole blog post! Look for that in the next couple of days 🙂 I’ll use some of your comments from our IM chats in that post.
Until then…..keep that lil guy BUSY !!!