I loved doing the Cookie Jar Challenge last Monday. I do need to *tweak* it just a bit to make it more fair to the various time zones, locales and jobs of the fans here on My blog. So….THANK YOU to everyone who wrote with suggestions about how to make this even better! Here’s what I’ve come up with so far. Again, this is a work in progress so send your ideas and suggestions — post to today’s blog for a chance to Reach into Olivia’s Cookie Jar or if you’re very shy, you can send Me an email: olivia AT enchantrixempire.com.
I’ll post the topic or question for Olivia’s Cookie Jar Challenge every Monday.
What I want from you is LOTS of interaction here on My blog. There will be multiple layers to the rules. Read the rules carefully and feel free to ask questions! Each question more than 25 words will be HALF of a raffle ticket.
Double your effort, double your chances
- If you post a comment on Monday or Tuesday, you will get DOUBLE the listed credit.
- If you post a comment on Wednesday or Thursday you will get the regular listed credit that follows.
- If you post a comment on Friday before 6 pm (eastern, US time) your comments will get credit – but only half the listed credit.
In this way, you will be able to figure out when and how you want to play this game. Everyone can play and how smart you play will give you more tickets. I’ll put all your points onto tickets and do a drawing for the prize.
Here are the Cookie Jar Rules:
- For the FIRST comment more than 25 words, you’ll will automatically get 1 entry into the Jar for the final drawing.
- After that first comment of 25 words – you will get one entry for every comment over 100 words. There’s no limit to how many comments you can post that are 100 words or more (but they will have to be on the topic — or something fetish related. Your writing must be original, do not do any cut and paste from elsewhere even if you wrote it.)
- You will get TWO entry points for cock stroking assignments that you have heard of or done that you like. These posts must be a minimum of 150 words.
The contest will stay open FIVE DAYS until FRIDAY June 22nd and will close at 6pm eastern (US) time.
The winner will be announced the following Monday, along with the new Cookie Jar Challenge.
THIS time you’ll be competing for your CHOICE of what’s inside Olivia’s Cookie Jar. Sooooooooo………may the odds be ever in your favor.
- Are you a cock stroker? Of course you are and I’d like to hear ALL about it.
- Tell Me about your masturbation habits. I want to know if you have ever had a Mistress as your masturbation manager.
- How often do you masturbate? Do you use lube? What kind of lube?
- Do you like porn? What kind of porn?
- What are you favorite stroking scenes, assignments, challenges, etc.
There’s a great poll on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire, about masturbation materials. The poll is by Loyal Cute and exactly the kind of thing I’m curious about! So, take a look at the poll and the comments, they’re interesting! 🙂 Then, post your comments here! I’ll, of course, reply to your comments …. ~smiles~ … AND, I’ll keep you posted on how many chances you have in the Olivia’s Cookie Jar raffle. Remember it IS a raffle but you can choose to put the number of raffle tickets you want in the Jar. *wink *
You can ask the lovely Ladies on the Live Help Desk when you need someone to HelpMyCock.com but they won’t do your writing for you! ~laughs~ So….wash your hands and start right now…..tsk tsk…TYPING stroker! *wink*
Good Luck!
Ms Olivia
ps, I’m posting EARLY this week so you get a ‘heads up’ …. in the following weeks, I’ll post Monday morning (eastern time). Have FUN and I’m so excited to see what you have to write!
What a wonderful way to get people excited about posting on blog post. I have recently started posting comments on blogs and the ones I enjoy the most are the ones that are responded to and give me something more to think of and post additionally to. I do hope this contest creates interest in people posting to other blogs as well.
*ding ding ding* Congratulations Forrest! Just for being the very FIRST ONE to post…..you get to have access to an Olivia’s Cookie Jar photo.
AND, you’ve earned one point toward the raffle! Send Me an email and I’ll show you what to do to get access to your special photo!
I totally agree with you BTW, about the blogs and postings. I really love the interaction and when the original post is merely the START of the conversation (here and on other blogs!)
Well thank you so much I will send an email right out to you.
As to the questions of the week, yes I do masturbate and enjoy it to the fullest. I have never had a mistress and a masturbation manager but I have been my own stroking instructor. I have been teaching myself in the finer arts of masturbation for many years and I am always trying to push my own limits.
I masturbate daily sometimes multiple times. A good day would start with a ten or fifteen minute tease and denial session in the morning. Another denial when I take a shower after work, then a full to finish session before I go to bed. I use lube, holy shit do I use lube. I recently took a look in my lube tray and discovered I had almost forty different ones in it. I have a bit of a fetish for lubes, or maybe even different sensations. I like all different kinds of lubes.
I do enjoy porn. I do not like long scenes and prefer either short scenes or compilation mixes that are done up like a music video.
I am not quite sure what you mean by stroking scenes so I do not know how to answer that one. I do enjoy assignment. I remember one last year that one of the mistresses did that she had a different type of stroking each week for Masturbation month. I had fun doing the ones that I could do. As far as challenges, other than the challenges I have given myself I can not think of any that I have done, although some of the items in the assignment I was talking about could have been considered challenges.
WONDERFUL! Thank you Forrest…..
and now to your questions/comments!
I LOVE your comment about teaching yourself the finer arts of masturbation! I’m a firm believer in learning ALL about things that interest Me….and, well, sex and erotic pleasure has been an interest for many years!
Can you tell us a bit about how you’re able to DENY yourself? That’s really hard (no pun intended) and that is the single biggest impetus to come to a Masturbation Manager or Masturbatrix (a Mistress who manages your masturbation and orgasm).
Also…….I would love to hear about your top TEN lubes and why. You really ARE a lube expert and I didn’t know that about you!
Didn’t Ms Ivy do a bunch of stroking and masturbation assignments recently? I know she’s been doing some amazing work on her blog. WICKED FUN!
I really like that idea of daily and changing strokes…..~laughs~…it’s kind of like girl’s panties that have the days of the week on them!
THANK YOU soooooo much for your comments…..I’m going to award you 3 points …. and remember, you posted on Monday so that means these three points are DOUBLED ! You might get ANOTHER reach into Olivia’s Cookie Jar! Good Work Forrest!
Well as I mentioned I have been doing orgasm control for many years. During those years I was always under the belief that if I start I must finish. I discovered Enchantrix Empire a little over a year ago. That discovery has taught me many things one of which one does not have to cum every time they stroke. Now I have the tendency to go for a long time when I stroke, on average about an hour. When I was stroking and did not have the time to go long I would have to do high speed stroking to finish. Usually that would occur in the morning, I wake up horny and wanting to stroke so I start and the time gets away from me so to finish I go fast, not so much fun. Enter denial. I actually found this to be quite easy to do, I would get myself going then time would run out so I would stop. I actually did not realize that this was a difficult thing for most men until I started reading more about it. I really can not say why or how this comes so easy to me other than that I have very good self control over my body and self.
Dear Forrest, I absolutely LOVE your comment! Thank you for posting it! You sound like you’ve always been very *present* for your masturbation….and maybe for other parts of your life. I’ve done blog posts about being *present*…ie the value of turning OFF the automatic pilot that we, as human beings, tend to get into. For example, I’m right handed and I will change things up and brush my teeth with my left hand just to make sure that I pay attention to the routine, mundane things of life! It’s sad when masturbating and cock stroking falls into the category of routine/mundane! And, you’re sooooooo right….orgasm control, cock stroking games, stroking assignments and orgasm denial ALL can sure bring that stroking session into something other than routine! ~laughs~
Do you think your ability to control is a mind thing? Are you able to simply make up your mind in other areas and “just do it”? THANKS for taking your time to post 🙂
I would definitely say it is a mind thing and yes I can make up my mind and “just do it” most of the time. Its funny how you mention the auto-pilot most of the time I have mine turned off and get to points when I just turn it on, usually when I do this I let my mind wander. Usually if I get to a point where masturbation seems like a routine I stop for a while, another thing that I can do without a lot of thought, I just decide to stop till I think of it again. Usually when that happens I try to do something really different or special.
Thanks for detailing that Forrest! I know that true masturbation experts do look for challenges and ways to make the stroking special! It’s like the difference between fast food and a gourmet meal. Fast food is just fine sometimes just like a quick wank. But, other times, ahhhhhhhhhh!
It’s all very complicated … we are lucky to have such a clever Mistress in charge here 🙂
My question is, Ms Olivia: Since you will be replying to all comments, you will be posting most comments … so you will be earning lots of points to “dip into your own cookie jar”?
Now, THAT would be one of my favourite stroking scenes 🙂 Not to mention scenes with all the other EE Mistresses who are lining up for their chance to dip into your cookie jar.
Sweet, honey-soaked cookies. Mmmmmmm!
~laughs~ Now, that is a DAMN GOOD QUESTION Steve! And, since you combined a question with a comment on the topic (and it’s more than 25 words) you get your first entry into the “Reach Into Olivia’s Cookie Jar raffle!” You know……hmmmmmmm…..you’ve got Me thinking. I’m going to look at ways to do a two Mistress audio to put in the Cookie Jar….because OMG, our Mistresses are smokin’ hot and if you’ve ever heard two of us together! WOAH! So, thank you for the idea!
I’m putting My thinking cap on to Randy Newman’s tune: Baby, you can leave your hat on! *wink*
Oh and yes, I DO dip into My own Cookie Jar *licks sweetness off the tips of My fingers* and then *struts out of the room*
Ms. Olivia,
Thanks for keeping your blog printing press open so we could check out the topics inside this week’s Cookie Jar a day early. I look forward to organizing my thoughts this week in order to answer the questions you have posited…
You’re more than welcome castaway! 🙂 You’ve got your very first ticket entry! And I know you’ll have more things to say. I might continue on the “possible early post” but will make sure I’ll post BY MONDAY. I kind of like this early posting too…because I’m *off* but, obviously engaged in and excited by the Cookie Jar because, hey, I”m checking! ~laughs~ Of course, I’m enthralled by the comments! That’s MY thing. OH and, “I like to WATCH, Eve.” — the exact line spoken to Shirley McClain in WHAT movie? LOL
Ms. Olivia, even an extreme early riser such as yourself has to get up pretty early to sneak a movie quote by me. I may not know where my car keys are half the time, but the arcane pop culture stuff never seems to leave the mind. As your March, April, May, and June strokers may attest, “there will be growth in the spring”. Both your and my quotes are of course from “Being There”, starring the aforementioned Shirley MacClaine and the late, great Peter Sellers. I’ll bet you like to embrace the mantra of Chance the gardener on your webcam calls. The 70’s were definitely a great decade for all kinds of interesting and challenging films.
You’re so right castaway! And, somehow I *knew* that about you! 🙂 I just loved Chance the Gardner! The whole movie really captures My attention on many levels. I know that this might look like we’re talking “off topic” but y’all know that I’m ALL about the interaction here in the blog comments! Sooooo…….since this blog comment is more than 100 words, you get ANOTHER ticket in the Cookie Jar raffle! I’m going to go check My Netflix to see if Being There is on Streaming. I really should watch that movie again! 🙂 Thanks castaway!
I would not say that castaway has gone off topic as you were the one who brought up the movies and cast was just replying to your comments. 😉
Shoot Forrest, you’re absolutely right. Regarding off topic….I can travel off the topic reservation faster than anyone I know (well maybe magnus can equal Me). I actually LOVE the off topic comments. I guess I’m changing that rule too! LMAO! Keep up the comments, once we get this all sorted out, this will be kick ass fun!
Mistress, your sultry voice always gets me hard and throbbing. Recently, I’ve been working it by grabbing a tall upright lamp post in my bedroom with both hands and humping against it, making that frustrated meat rub on either side of the hard post after lubing up with Astroglide. Thinking of your voice or another blond cocktease who teased me online and telling me how naughty and feisty I could be and how much she enjoyed making me squirm makes me hump that post even harder. Recently, I’ve been beating it even harder and more intensely by watching this video of a mistress making her slave hump between her boots and lick it off…
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 8 inch! That is a delicious and delightful entry into the Cookie Jar Challenge. You answered multiple questions! I have a favorite pair of leather boots that I love to get POLISHED with a throbbing hard meat rub. And, when I heard you were *doing* the lamp while we were on that call….OH MY! Lovely comment m’dear….so naughty!
Hi MsOlivia! I do like the revamp to the rules though I was kind of looking forward to another knockdown bare-knuckled donnybrook like last week, or at least challenging my brain to figure out Your clues anyway. And as for participation in Your blog, gee, I don’t think I know how to do that. 😉
Since You asked questions, I’ll provide some insight into my own habits here. Do I masturbate? Yes, You see, I have this affliction. It’s called being a guy. 🙂 I certainly can’t say I enjoy it as much as full on sex, but it has definite advantages in that it only requires me. If a partner is not in the mood, both go without. (And such situations happen. I’m not disparaging anyone for not being in the mood at any given time.) I can masturbate without needing another, even if the whole of the situation is not the preferred one.
I don’t normally use lube as it can be messy. That may be inexperience speaking however, but for me, I do like an easy cleanup. I suppose if I were just about to take a shower anyway it would be fine. Hmm, so I may need to rethink this. Another reason not to is the spontaneity. You asked about porn, which I do like, and so if I am enjoying porn at the same time, lube may get in the way. (I might drop the remote. LOL) Again, rethinking time may be needed here.
I don’t do assignments or challenges so that’s out for me. As for scenes, I don’t know if I have any actual favorites but I do often think of porn scenes in my head, often involving a male ravishing attention on a lovely pair of feet. (Bet You didn’t see that coming… 🙂 ) Or perhaps involving bondage where I’m helpless. Stuff like that.
I totally agree with you magnus! I liked the excitement of the live quick challenge. I’m going to add that back in but I’m not sure how I’m going to do it. There were several people who were really sad to miss this so I’ll be trying and doing various things to make it fun to us all….including those quick knockdowns that are SO much fun!
~laughs~
Now, I’ve got a question for you…..you’ve posted a long comment. Do you want me to count this as ONE ENTRY …. or more like four? Did you see that you can post multiple times? Just checking. Remember, since it’s Monday you will get double your credits!
~laughs~ I am enjoying this!
hello Ms Olivia yes I an a cock stroker. You know that with past calls we’ve done. How can I not be. I always wear bra, lipstick to get in mood for stroking as well as getting ready to do calls.
~laughs~ You’re right Peter! You do have a cock and when we get you all dressed up as our lesbian lover then you DO begin to leak, quiver and stroke! ~smiles~
for masturbation I use hatachi magic wand as well as astro glide lube and fleshlight. I masturbate everyday. I’ve never had mistress masturbation manager before. To get ready I wear bra, wig, lipstick, dress, heels to get off, as well as lotion on my girlish soft smooth skin and blush, foundation on cheeks, face. For porn its women dressing guys as girls, that’s hot and it gets me hard and gets me off.
Thanks for posting that Peter! OH I remember when you got the fleshlight! Wasn’t Ms Violet the one who really urged you to get that and kept after you until you got it? I remember when it came, you came! ~laughs~ You’re wonderful and our special girly girl!
Ms Olivia … hats are my second most favourite thing, after cookies. You seem to have a talent for reading my mind. 🙂
I never knew that “You Can Leave Your Hat On” was a Randy Newman song. In the past, I always preferred the Joe Cocker version:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pruYLmuEbjg
to the Tom Jones version:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGBvbrXNjs0
but now that I’ve heard Randy Newman’s original:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXLYFQef7O8
I think he has an edge over both of them, even though it’s more laid back and simple … it would be my preferred version for a live performance.
And since you are so “in charge” here, Ms Olivia, may I suggest a police-woman’s hat for you? I have one here, waiting … and I’ve started learning to play the song on my guitar :):):)
~laughs~ I actually DO have a Police Woman’s Cap! And let Me tell you Steve when I get out MY handcuffs and night stick…..well! OH MY! Mistress is VERY in charge! *wink*
OH and I’m thrilled you like the Randy Newman version….yes, he’s got an even more stripped down version as one of the alternates on his album that is just so spare and I can HEAR the yearning of arousal in it…I love that tune!
Just found another cover of “You Can Leave Your Hat On” … by Etta James!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01L21HayIcU
Hot!!!
The question is … clearly Randy Newman, Tom Jones & Joe Cocker are each singing to a female dancer … but who is Etta instructing … a girl … or a guy?
Extra hot!!!
Thanks for the Etta James link! Her version is sooooooo Etta! I love her. I’ve got her bio on my Wish List. I love that whole Chess Records Vibe….that Chess/Staxx/Volt/Alligator Records vibe just thrils me! Now, for this song, I would totally have the Etta James version for a traveling in the car song….but, for an in the bedroom seduction striptease song, it would HAVE to be Randy Newman singing it. The Striptease by Kim Bassinger to this song is wicked yummy!
You asked to hear all about my habits, Alice is happy to comply. This is a bit personal but I decided to do it as a blog response in hopes that maybe others like me will see it and understand they have hope. I know they exist, I remember one of the girls on HBO’s cathouse describing how frustrating it was to try to de-virginize someone who used my exact technique.
The way I learned to masturbate gives me possible deniability. I learned to do it fully clothed, on my belly, essentially dry humping the floor. This allowed me to pretend I was doing something else if I was walked in on while doing it. Since the full weight of my body is on it, it does not get fully erect using this method and essentially results in a ruined orgasm every time. No lubrication is used using this method, and my undergarment has to be changed afterwards.
A couple years ago I tried the “normal” way of stroking with my hands to a masturbation instruction video I bought on-line and actually had success once, but I did not keep it up, I went back to the other method, it was what I knew and was use to. When I first joined EE I again tried that method, because I learned about edging. I only wanted to edge, and I used pictures of a domme without asking her permission first and when I got to the edge, I couldn’t stop. After that I made a vow to never use LDW pictures without the permission of the domme in question, but a few have actually told me they want me using their pictures. I still think I shouldn’t without their instruction to do so, that’s just me.
I have trouble masturbating in the presence of beautiful women. I thought it was just performance anxiety but when trying (and failing) with Andi, we talked about it for some time and it was an extremely meaningful call, I came to realize there was a lot more than just performance anxiety going on. Andi set me down the path of getting things sorted out and I will never forget that call, she is an incredible woman and what she did for me is mind blowing. I had a mental block related to my upbringing where masturbation was taught as wrong and sinful. I don’t want to knock religion, I still hold to it, but I think organized religion often does a lot of damage, twisting something that should be beautiful for the purpose of controlling the masses. Anyway, it is really hard to shake that kind of indoctrination and that was my issue.
I got further help from Iris, who did a lot of experimenting with me and we figured out that the way I learned to masturbate was not skin on skin, so we used a glove and it was much easier for me to stroke hand on jonston with a glove. I bought olive oil for lubrication, and for non penetration lubrication I think it is the best (penetration lubrication for health reasons should probably be water based, like astroglide). I bought a fancy highly aromatic kind to stroke with, and now the scent itself is a turn-on. It feels so good too, and less is needed than other types of lube, and I can just rub it into my skin when done. I no longer need a glove, I can do skin on skin.
I’m a slow stroker, I can’t maintain fast strokes, I don’t like fast strokes for some reason and that detracts from the experience. Long slow strokes.
I finally had my first orgasm using the normal method of stroking while on the phone, it was with Piper. It was the most fantastic experience I have had and is definitely preferable to the ruined orgasm method I initially learned.
With respect to porn, my favorite is short clips from smaller studios. I particularly like tickle femdom videos, where the submissive (male or female but male makes me hotter) is tied up and tickled by dominating women. I’m very ticklish, and the thought of me being in that position is very erotic.
I’m not quite ready for stroking assignments yet, but hopefully soon.
I’m crying right now Alice! I can’t even begin to thank you for being YOU. Okay, so a couple of quick comments here. First of all, THANK YOU for opening up and for posting this. You are absolutely right about this helping another! While I flirt and have lots of fun on this blog, readers also know that I focus on comments/issues that are real sex issues for real people. You have identified one that I think is common to MOST people….here’s the thing, how someone learns to masturbate is the “go to” way to masturbate and it is often the only way to masturbate for that person. Your experience with that is not at all uncommon. AND, just like learning anything else, as you grow older you can learn more and choose to try new things, do things a different way.
I’m actually going to put ALL of this in a series of blogs.
Now, you did post this as part of the Cookie Jar Challenge….I totally agree with your suggestion, this wouldn’t have worked if you’d posted something like 7 posts….therefore I’m changing the rules (because I can! lol)…..Alice, you’ve got 7 tickets and since you posted this on Monday, that’s doubled! So you have a total of 14! Hey, you’re clearly in the LEAD!
*hugs and kisses*
Alice thank you so much for sharing that story it was very deep and touching.
Hey Forrest! I’m giving you another double points value for this comment….I’m going to start doing points for comments of any length (but heartfelt) to another poster in the comments section. I love that you read and respond to one another. THANK YOU for writing and leaving a comment to Alice! YAY!
Hi MsOlivia. Ah well new rules and all so not a big surprise I might trip over them. I guess that should be four posts then. I had thought You had wanted the answers all as one.
You know what magnus! Alice pointed out, and I agree with her, that it won’t FLOW as well as little posts. Therefore, Do them ALL as one post…..and I’ll award point numbers for longer posts at 1 point per 100 words! 🙂 I LIKE the long posts and it WILL flow better as one long post, rather than breaking them up. ~laughs~ It’s a really GOOD THING that y’all are making suggestions because I clearly can use them! And, I’m so glad I’m the Mistress in Charge in addition to being a beautiful woman. This means I get to change My mind at will! ~grinz~
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
I just got done stroking me furry Wookie stalk; hands are sticky so this is all I can do for now for the cookie jar.
Ok that was over 150 words does this count?… big silly grinz.
~laughs~ OMG, Bookie this is tooooooo funny! Hell to the yeah you get a Cookie Jar raffle ticket for this! You made Me laugh! OH and since you sent in your comment on Monday/Tuesday it counts as DOUBLE! Now you be very NICE and attentive to that furry Wookie stalk! LOL
Well, it appears like bookman has just sent in his written audition for the LDW adaptation of “The Shining”. Much like Jack Torrance’s predicament, once you see what bookie has going on in Room 217, you can’t unsee it…
*just for posterity, conflation of novel and film adaptation details were thrown together in the passage above in a ritual sacrifice for (alleged) comedy*
~laughs~ And THAT is one movie I’m going to go see…..in part because can’t you imagine what the wookie will wear on the Red Carpet?
Arrggh I just missed the deadline by 2 minutes… darn sticky furry paws… Had to do it Milady Olivia, been a long goofy day, been releasing stress through silliness on all of my blog and poll responses today after I got home from work.
I will write a serious one for this week, on this topic, never fear.
Great…I got gooey, goopy Bookie Wookie fuzzies all over me keyboard. Wow just look at them little fuzzy wuzzy Wookie Wigglers go!
I hope you at least rolled your eyes or grinned at me responses Milady Olivia, if not… trust me my humor can only get worse…. just ask Cast……
HUH what deadline? I don’t think you missed a deadline. The comments are Monday and Tuesday for double points. Wednesday and Thursday for the regular point value and Friday before 6 pm for half value. Now, don’t worry if they don’t post immediately. I have things set so I have to approve your comment. I do that for two reasons, 1. it’s my blog, I approve and 2). to make sure I RESPOND to you!!!!! Because I really like reading the comments and responding to them! ~laughs~ Especially when I read about gooey, goopy Bookie Wookie fuzzies! ~laughs~ That is just tooooo damn cute to words!
Ms Olivia … over at EE, you asked me what I would like to take out if I dipped my hand in your cookie jar. Well … continuing along the above theme, about the song “You Can Leave Your Hat On”, and the “stripped down version” by Randy Newman that we both love, and your policewoman’s hat … I would love to see a picture of you in that hat, and nothing else.
But … I would be happy if the picture showed only a close-up of your beautiful face. You have such a sexy look in your eyes, Ms Olivia, that the mere thought of you being naked (apart from your hat) would be enough to make me explode.
And that thought is so distracting … I’ve forgotten what this competition is actually about. All I remember is that somewhere there are some of your tasty cookies waiting for some lucky guy (or gal).
~grinz~ Awwww……Me thinks Steve just might be flirting with Mistress! And, you sir are a lovely flirt! 🙂 I’m especially laughing at the thought that you are now so discumbobulated that you’ve forgotten what the contest is! ~snicker~ I’m just plain naughty that way, aren’t I? Seeeeeeee how cock teasing and tease and denial works? *wink*
Well Ms Olivia, this weeks challenge is right up my alley…. You want to know all about my masturbation habits… If there’s one thing i love to do, that would be to provide a detailed report of all my recent masturbation activity with an experienced Masturbatrix like yourself 🙂
So let’s get started:
Ok, ya… I like to masturbate, A LOT. I used to masturbate 2 or 3 times a day. But i have sought the help of a Masturbatrix. She has taken control of my penis and my masturbating and she has put me on a masturbation schedule that allows me to masturbate once a day. I can contact her and ask for permission to masturbate more than my schedule allows, but she usually says NO!, sometimes she will grant permission to masturbate if i really ask nicely.
In addition to my scheduled masturbating, my Masturbatrix and I will regularly meet or least talk on phone about twice a month or so for Supervised Masturbation Therapy and Training sessions. During our sessions my Masturbatrix will usually carefully examine and measure my erection and review my recent masturbating activities, she likes to compare whats on my masturbation schedule to what i say when we meet to make sure i am sticking to my schedule. Somehow she can tell if i am not reporting all my masturbating to her or masturbating without permission. I dunno how the heck she does that, but she can. This is a good place to mention that she uses what she calls her ‘Penis Ruler’, old style thick wooden ruler to administer discipline. She likes to tell me that the real intended use of the ruler is for discipline, and it’s called a ruler because it a tool used to rule over you and your penis. The fact that it ‘could’ be used for measuring is purely coincidental. If she suspects that i may have masturbated without permission, she will administer discipline with the penis ruler. She will make me sit up straight right at the edge of my seat with knees apart and penis fully erect, then she will strike my penis with the penis ruler along the shaft, up one side, down the other, and sometimes she will even strike the head (just to let me know she’s serious hehe).
During our masturbation therapy sessions she usually supervise me while i masturbate. She will instruct me how to masturbate for her: how to hold my penis, how fast to pump, and most importantly when to ejaculate, for which I must ask for permission. My Masturbatrix will order me to masturbate for her several times during our sessions, she really enjoys supervising and watching, I really love that she allows me to masturbate for her, it’s a real turn on to see her sitting there closely watching as I pump my erection. Very often she will get really turned on herself, i will hear her breathing heavily and letting out a few moans and sighs while her eyes are locked on my erection. Seeing her watching me really turns me on making me want to masturbate again and again ….
My Masturbatrix likes have me do various masturbation training exercises: One of her favorite ‘exercises’ is to order me to masturbate at a very fast pace and get right to the edge of release and hold back my ejaculation. i must inform her when i feel i am close to ejaculating at which point she will watch very closely as I continue to masturbate giving her updates as i get closer and closer the edge, she encourages me to keep going, then just at the last second she orders me to stop and let go of my penis and not to ejaculate, hold it back. She loves to watch me struggle as i try and hold it back for her. Sometimes i can hold it and not ejaculate, and other times, well, hehe you get the picture i am sure, i feel my penis pulsate as it bobs up and down a little then i feel that surge of cum make its way right up to the head then my penis just before it starts to pump and squirt out nice big gobs of cum.
Another one of her favorites is to order me to masturbate as she counts down from 10. she varies the tempo of her count, speeding up, slowing down and of course i am NOT to ejaculate until she gives her permission. When she senses that I am getting really close, she will slow the tempo of her counting and upon finishing, begin again right away only allowing me a few seconds at most before starting again.
As for the materials I like to ‘use’ (hehe) for masturbating. Well lately I have developed quite a crush and three very beautiful female celebrities – Kyra Sedgwick, Holly Marie Combs, and Jennifer Aniston. I don’t know what it is about them, but i just love to masturbate to their photos or while watching them on TV. Kyra’s TV show The Closer is on every day, and Holly’s show Charmed is on 4 times a day which makes it very very difficult to stick to my masturbation schedule. Often while watching Holly or Kyra on TV my penis will become fully erect and I’ll have to take it out and hold it and feel it (my Masturbatrix will allow this). I cannot count how many times I’ve had to contact my Masturbatrix to ask for permission to masturbate, sometimes she takes pity on me and gives her permission. I also have gathered quite a collection of photo’s of all three that I like to look at as well. Another one of my favorite masturbation materials are CFNM video clips, oooo i just love those! … 🙂 I especially like the femdom CFNM clips where a mistress mercilessly masturbates her slave forcing him to ejaculate then milks out as much cum as she can before stopping…..
I also love to use baby oil on my penis when i masturbate. feels good to make it all slippery so i can pump good and fast. My Masturbatrix also loves the sound of my well oiled penis being pumped good and fast, she really gets into it and watches me very very closely.
Well that’s about all I have time to write today, if you want more of the ‘gory’ details let me know 🙂
Chronicmastrbator! Thank you so much for taking your time to write all that! WOW! You are a very serious masturbator and it sounds like you are exactly one of the people who does need a Masturbation Mistress! Oh before I forget, let Me just say that I tooooo LOVE the sound of oil or lube all slippery and wet while that shaft gets milked! AH! Okay, I digress.
You bring up a very good point that a Masturbatrix can guide you in many ways. You mentioned giving some structure and control to how much your masturbate. That is very important because any good masturbation coach can guide your into getting the very MOST out of your masturbation! I’m a big fan of personal coaching and personal training. It doesn’t mean something is “wrong” it means an expert can help to guide Me (or you in the case of masturbation) to get the BEST experience out of it!
Did you have reservations about turning your masturbation habits over to another person?
What did you wonder about or worry about before you started your Masturbation Training Program?
I’m thrilled you answered so much! THANK YOU and by the way, you’ve earned 11 tickets. since you sent this before Wednesday, that counts as double points. You are now in the lead with 22 tickets! You might just get to reach you hand into Olivia’s Cookie Jar and get some more masturbation material! *wink*
Congratulations on your win Chronicmasturbator. Interesting story by the way, very descriptive.
Oh YES Forrest it was wasn’t it!? I love the detail, I love getting to know people, I love the connection!
Was going to enter with my “thoughts” about Jackin the Beanstalk but read Alice’s post and hit delete.
Great post by Alice.
So strange that we live in a sex saturated culture that often fails to promote a healthy view of sexuality. Additionally many are straddled with the burdens of guilt and shame at a very young age. It takes courage and effort to break free of those feelings.
Props to Alice for exploring, learning and moving forward to a better place.
No ticket for me Ms. O. It’s always up to the Uber Domme, but I hope Alice gets some cookies.
Ahhhhh, thank you Dear John! I absolutely agree with you. Alice and many of us here in the Floating World are showing amazing courage to do some excavation and cultivation! All that and more. And, while I couldn’t add the free phone sex minutes to another, I can (and will) give tickets to another. I’m giving your ticket to Alice (and since it’s Tuesday, it will count as TWO TICKETS). Look for the coming blogs based on her comments. Thank you John for taking your time to write!
Thank you John! It means a lot to me.
John’s gesture means a lot to me too. He’s a good guy! 🙂
Ms. O,
You asked about porn and what kind we watch. Several weeks ago I was on the internet and accidentally found what I later identified as “porn”. (Very disappointed in Net Nanny BTW) I admit that I watched this “porn” for several minutes.
This is just my opinion. These are things that kind of suck about some femdom videos:
You’re not in them. Obviously this sucks on a cosmic level. We can end the list here but I’d like to drone on endlessly in the hopes of getting a point or 2 more for Alice.
Things that kind of suck about Femdom videos:
Mismatched Dommes/subs. So many videos are of a 22 year old, size 1, bored, total non Domme whipping some rich, withered, AARP ass. Sure, that’s her “real life, handpicked slave”. No power exchange here just a money exchange.FAKE. Femdom Fail. I think 75 year old dudes should explore their fantasies. I just don’t want to pay $24.95 (automatically rebilled) a month to see them do it.
Too much violence. There’s one Femdom site that’s basically the UFC with the guys not allowed to fight back. It’s about one good kick in the balls from being a snuff film. I watch it and I’m like “Dude, just admit you work for al- Qaeda before she gets out the water board. So much screaming and pleading and tears. Uber Domme, isn’t the test of a great Domme that she can get the same reaction with just a feather and a whisper of her voice?
Double standard for physical looks. The women have to have fake bodyparts and wear uncomfortable clothing. If you’re a great Domme can’t you just dominate someone in sweatpants and no makeup? The guys however make Ron Jeremy look like the Rock. Ms. O I believe we’re all beautiful and all created in the Sky Fairy’s image, but if I’m paying to watch, my new weight limit for male subs is 452 lbs. Sorry but if the riding crop gets stuck in the folds of your gelatinous ass maybe it’s time to mix in a salad and 3o minutes of cardio a couple times a week.
Cats. I like cats but I don’t want to see them walking across my computer screen on a BDSM video I just purchased. It happens more than a little. PETA needs to get involved.
You’re not in them. Still sucking. In fact it’s going to be a character to be in the next Avengers film: Major Suckage. He’ll be working with Captain America to keep the world safe and get you to shoot a couple Femdom videos.
No D/s dynamic or chemistry. All about the actions and power tools and nothing about what’s going on emotionally between the players. Beatings can get boring.
You’re not in them. I may have mentioned this already. At least I think you’re not in them. It’s a little strange that you never see Ms. Olivia and Maxi Mounds photographed together. Not getting all Oliver Stone or anything but I just find it interesting.
To end on a positive note. Here are some things that are kind of good about Femdom videos.
Explosion of amateur clips for sale. People are making little 5 minutes clips of every fetish imaginable. Real people/partners having real sex/playtime. Some of it’s pretty awesome.
Realization that Femdom doesn’t have to be visual to be hot. The words, attitude, knowledge of the Domme are what really makes it zing. Some of the hottest Dommes on the net that make videos may not be the societal ideal of feminine beauty but they are amazing, multi-dimensional women. That always rocks.
So if Femdom porn is getting boring here’s a suggestion:
Make you own. Buy some LDW Mistress audios or have a custom LDW audio done for you at https://www.eroticaudios.com. They’re really well done. Don’t have to waste your time and money with something that is only lukewarm sexy and doesn’t really scratch your fetish itch. (That’s LDW product placement right there Ms. O. Got to be worth a point)
Dear John, oh you tickle me and I don’t even have a tickling fetish!
Okay, so to some specifics. Some people really do like the “mean” Mistress stuff. Actually lots of people. BUT, that is as nuanced as everything else. Some people like the yelling Domme because they don’t know there is anything else, or another option. Just like with anything you don’t know what you’re missing until you experience something other than that which you’re used to.
Now, I’ve had people respond to my emails saying that I’m too polite to be a Femdom Mistress and I politely wrote back and then did a blog post about how there IS a difference between a Mistress and a bitch. ONE is sexy. Although maybe some men DO find the cranky bitch sexy….I, personally, just don’t find those men sexy. ~laughs~ My brother tells me that he thinks that most men (including him) think a woman is sexiest when she is a little bit “nuts.” Hmmmmmm. Call me boring, but I’m a fan of the adult communication technique of “tell me what you want, I’ll tell you what I want and we’ll both get what we want” types of relationships. For the guys that call that want mean, ball-busting Ubber Domme they can get it here BUT I enjoy the more subtle thrill ride more. It’s more my style.
OH and you’re totally right about the amateur porn! Some of it is AMAZING! But then, I also really enjoy the high production value of some professionally produced porn.
Dear Milady Olivia,
Ok these words to not count. I had a 3 day week had massive amount of things to get done in a short while plus lots of hours on reference desk. So I was somewhat brain dead in the evenings. I did not understand the rules when I first read them. I thought it was only Monday and not Monday /Tuesday combined. Now after reading them again, I got a better “gist” of what is going on. Just wanted yo let you know where the confusion came from on my fuzzy “end”.
This is where the words count starting below.
Ok the topic of the cookie jar is masturbation and the fun one has with it.
For me the masturbation habits vary to be quite honest. I try to do daily sometimes twice a day. There was once on vacation, I had a 6 time day (It was too rainy to go outside). Sometimes I use a little bit of Olive oil, but most times not. On that 6 day…..u mm yes I did dab into that ole jar of “extra virgin olive oil”.
I enjoy the feel of the fingers and thumb on me. I do more of “pressure” play, through the use of squeezing and stroking, nothing too severe, but enough to vary the feeling along with the tempo of the stroking. The Olive oil was fun, bringing a whole different perspective of sliding and reduced lack of friction. Sometimes the masturbation is to relieve stress and just to relax my body after a long day. I can sit / lay back and daydream about sensual erotic role-plays with my imagination and enjoy myself.
For porn for me it is more of the 70’s. For my tastes a nice trim or some what trim is exciting. Maybe it is because I am fuzzy myself, but a “forest” no not as much. I tend to go to the older adult movies because the women were natural, and not “cookie cutter” copies of one another as in the 80’s. I am not a super huge fan of plastic boobies. If done within the overall composition of a woman sure ok. But over “stuffed” no.
Milady Olivia to be honest my ex girlfriend was 36D. She sometimes did not like the way they went to the side when she was on her back, even while at rest. I mentioned to her that for me it was an incredible sight to see and to feel. To be able to feel the weight of a breast to caress the outer curve and pay attention to it, both with fingers and mouth. It made foreplay that much more meaningful and delightful. It seems like the recent porn as well has improved. Even though I do not know a lot of the actresses names. But for me it would be “aunt peg”, Tori Wells, Kay Parker, Seka, and Lisa Deleeuw. Plus others. These women were of various sizes of seductiveness for me.. For the ultimate in erotic sensual porn movies the ones produced by Andrew Blake top the list, beautiful timeless women. The French and Italian films are very erotic as well.
The only time I did a stroking assignment was with Milady Layla, on SKYPE, she was the first Woman to see me orgasm in over 11 years. And I will leave it at that to end this exposition for it was a special tender private moment, that was shared between us.
I love this comment for many reasons Bookie! THANK YOU! I know that part of My thrill of this role in life is learning how much variety there is in male sexuality! I think it’s easy for woman to think “all men think this way” (fill in the way) based on a limited number of boyfriends. FOR EXAMPLE, you mention that you’re not a lube man when you stroke. ~laughs~ Although I did have to giggle at the marathon masturbation day when it was raining out and you were on vacation! OMG! Okay, so the lube or no lube…I think that’s especially interesting because you’re a pressure stroker rather than a sliding stroker!
OH the comments about porn are spot on! When everyone looks the same….well then, everyone looks the same! The interest for Me too is in the variety of how people look….and that is generally the women, because the men can’t all look alike — well, not until they get penis implants! The fake boobs are ~sigh~ more than a little overdone for My taste, but I think a lot of that is business decision for porn stars. In that context it does make sense. French and Italian porn and even mainstream, more erotic movies are AMAZING!
Thank you so much for writing dear man!