I love corsets, bustiers, and have a particular fondness for something called tight lacing. This blog post is inspired by Jenni/Ivory in an answer to a question I asked on our adult social networking site Enchantrix Empire.
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If you haven’t been to Enchantrix Empire, you really should check it out. We have interesting conversations there. Some posts are sexy, some are naughty and some are about a bit of everything ranging from kink to life! It’s great (and free) and we’d love to *see* you there.
His and hers corsets
So, back to the topic of corsets! Jenni mentioned that she loves corsets. I call Jenni HER because that is how she sees herself. I do know the differences between a transgendered woman, a crossdresser and a sissy! There is also a difference in various types of corsets. For example, do you know the difference between a bustier and a merry widow?
Tight lingerie on a crossdresser
Sometimes you love to wear things that shape your body into the lovely feminine form. You might also like the feeling of being trapped in your feminized clothing. Whatever the reason, I’d like to hear from you. Do YOU like corsets, bustiers or other shape wear? Don’t limit yourself to foundation wear. As you can see from this cross dresser, a pencil skirt does the same thing!
I know you know how much of a turn-on cross-dressing is for me 🙂 I adore all the trappings of overt femininity and get a particular kick from the business look – smart, fitted pencil skirt and so on. Dressing this way is sooo very distracting that I never get any work done 😉
At a recent session I discovered a liking for restriction that I suppose my love of pencil skirts and heels might have hinted at… the lovely lady who was lacing me into my corset kept pulling it tighter and I kept thinking how nice that felt, and in the end she had to check… and I said ‘no, I like it… keep going!’. Luckily she understood (‘good girl’ was what she actually said!) and I spent a delicious few hours very tightly corseted.”
Ohhhhhhhh, I like the sound of that *gasp* as the corset gets tighter and tighter. What about YOU?
i recently had the opportunity to be tightly laced into a corset and i have to say i loved it! As the lady that laced me up kept pulling it tighter and tighter i felt myself get more and more excited. And when i looked in the mirror and saw my hourglass shape i was so excited i could hardly wait to go out into the world and show it off!
YES! Oh jolene YES! Oh and let Me say something about tightlacing and corsets….you WILL get that sexy hourglass figure and you could tell in your amazing photos! You looked SO HOT and very feminine and sexy! I agree with you in that I also enjoy the tightness! I’m really glad Jenni mentioned that because how could I have forgotten to say that!
Now…..for HIS AND HER corset training!? ~grinz~
OMG! I can’t believe I saw my own name mentioned in your blog! It’s so flattering. But anyway, “body shaping” corsets are not only worth it because they really work, they are very sexy looking themselves. They’re a little more struggle to set up the first time, but they are well worth it! 🙂
For each person it depends on their body size and type. For me it’s easy to shop for anything feminine because I’m small. But there are a lot of plus-size clothes outlets, out there too.
Aside from that, I model professionally in the lingerie-type corsets as well. 🙂
Oh but I still model in the VS and Fredericks type corsets. They are really more like eye candy and I love them also.
PS: It must be confusing to see my name as Jenni/Ivory. While both are me, well… never mind for now…
Oh Jenni / Ivory …. don’t worry at all about your name….I think of you as Jenni and will usually call you that….but I include the Ivory (mostly) so others can know it’s YOU-you 🙂 ~laughs~ Ahhhhhhh, the loveliness of a new profile on Enchantrix Empire!
Oh and I had to laugh out loud when I read your comment about being small! Girl, when I’m in My stilettos I TOWER over you but when a Mistress is nice and tall that is all the better to snuggle you right into My arms! ~smiles~
You’re so right about the eye candy bustier’s and the actual body shapers…and yes, EACH ONE has it’s place….like you, I’ve got lots of both….because sometimes you want to feel one way…and sometimes you want to feel another way!
YOUR lingerie is very sexy!
Oh Ms Olivia, how I long to be tight laced by you in a corset just like you have on. A matching thong a very tight pencil skirt and 6″ black stilletos!!!!
Corsets are GREAT! And you know your legs will look AMAZING in that pencil skirt and 6″ black heels! You GO girl! ~smiles~
Oh, yes please – combining restraint with very feminine attire is such a wonderful feeling! I’ve often wondered if there’s an element of bondage to (for example) wearing heels and a pencil skirt – after all, both restrict a fair bit what you can do. For me, taking that just a little bit further is very exciting… a very tight skirt, lots of garter straps holding up my stockings, the highest heels I can walk in (just!) and a corset that takes my breath away. Throw in some clip-on earrings that pinch my earlobes ever so deliciously and I’m in heaven 🙂
I think you’re right sweet (and naughty) sara! I think that when a submissive crossdresser likes to wear very restrictive clothing … yes, pencil skirts certainly do qualify … then there IS an element of BDsm bondage! BUT, it’s a little different in that it’s not rope bondage, it is bondage by lovely feminine clothing! It’s almost like you are being poured into your clothing by Mistress! I of course, love that part of it too. For Me, as a Mistress, when I do feminization phone sex, I like tight things on you because that gets Me into My Dominant space! It’s a win-win, don’t you think? BTW, are you enjoying My new blog for the girls? http://www.crossdressersphonesex.com I just posted a BUNCH of free erotic audios on the audios page. None are currently about feminization and bondage but, hey, that might change! ~smiles~
Yes, I did see the audios 🙂
I’ve been giving this some more thought (I’m like that – I like to understand things as well as enjoy them!). I’ve tried dressing in feminine attire that’s a little more… shall we say… subtle. And the thing is, it just doesn’t have the same effect on me.
Now wearing a corset, holding up my stockings with 8 or 10 straps, tottering around on 5 inch heels and so on isn’t what many GGs would regard as comfortable, or realistic, or desirable. I know that. But for me it’s not just about the appearance, it’s about the feeling. And when I’m dressed en femme I want to really FEEL feminine. Having clothing that hugs me, pulls, swishes, caresses is SO different to my day-to-day experience that it’s a cacophony of tactile and aural senses overwhelming me. I have no choice but to submit to it! And I love that it affects every part of my body, from my feet to my ear lobes 🙂
I’m not sure if my rambling makes any sense – what I’m trying to say, I think, is that the excitement for me is turning the femme volume all the way up to 11. That’s what gets my juices flowing ;P
WOW, I love that description sara! Thank you for your comment! And, I can totally get it that your experience of feeling feminine is from ALL of that….not just one thing. ~smiles~ I have seen you dressed to the nines and you really have a feminine silhouette. But, as you mentioned, it’s not enough to look feminine while crossdressing it’s also about how you FEEL your feminine sexiest! Well, the feeling femme AND, of course, submissive! ~grinz~ After all, that tight, sex femme dressing DOES inspire the submissive feelings, doesn’t it?
I love restriction in femme! I have never had the chance to wear a corset before, but the idea of doing so in a very tight manner sounds exciting. I’ve seen corsets online that come with padlocks! I imagine being in one of those corsets after being tight laced by you mistress and then placed in locking heels and a hobble skirt.
Hugs and Kisses from your pretty princess ballerina
Ohhhhh….corsets come with locks and so do high heels with ankle straps ….. ~smiles~ ….. nice and tight and so LOCKED for Mistress. ~grinz~
Do you crossdress? If so, how often do you wear panties (and more)? Does your cross dressing also go in cycles? I’m always curious about you! 🙂