We take phone sex very seriously here at LDW Group. If you’re reading this then you know you want (and need) something more than the fakey “PSO” voice and dumb sounding ohhhhhhs and ahhhhhhhhs.
You can be a silent guy and still have great phone sex but we find that most people like the erotic conversation with an intelligent woman. The interaction is the main difference between porn and phone sex. You watch porn. You create your erotic experience with a smart Femdom.
intelligent phone sex
I got to thinking about this today because of something on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Alice Wonder did an interesting post about a controversy in the porn industry involving the Duke porn star.
There are lots of comments on the blog post and I had to laugh at this comment from Peter Tease Toy:
You need to have a body for porn, you need to have a brain for phonesex!
Someone could have both, but it is a different skill set!
high-end phone sex fantasy
I am a Mistress in real life and active in the kink fetish scene. I’m also a real person who brings my real life experiences to our erotic conversations and sexy roleplay sessions.
This might mean something as simple as what happened with a caller this morning. We talked (briefly) about hiking. He mentioned that he likes to hike and I told him about several trails I have enjoyed and about my hike to Mt. Everest Base Camp. That connection is what makes your phone sex really … ahem … connected! You’ll never ‘settle’ for moan and groan again!
And you shouldn’t ever have to settle for anything!
Ms Olivia
Hi Ms
Yes this is so much different than just moaning. We create something very special each time we chat. We both bring our real life experiences to the call. You have a variety of interests as do I. Creating our fantasy is what is so much fun. I have been day dreaming of wearing the dress I had on for our call at that fabulous Monte Carlo resort. Oh my goodness what a wonderful scenario.
xxx
yvonne
True dat yvonne! Oh and I was just thinking about ballroom dancing in an elegant ballroom at that resort. ~swoons~ Thank you for picking our the resort — we both have expensive taste ~laughs~. Actually, that’s one thing that is so great about our fantasy, we can pick anything and everything our hearts desire and not worry about the actual cost of our honeymoon suite — which, as you figured out is woah baby expensive! ~grinz~
BUT ….. as they say in the L’Oreal ad, “you’re worth it!” ~smiles~
Hi Ms
Oh yes ball room dancing. I can just feel you guide me across the floor. Our dresses swirling about us, the soft rustle of the petticoats. MMMMMMMMMMMM! The closest I get to gliding across the floor is in your arms 🙂
xxxx
yvonne
Knowing all (or many) of your gowns I can safely say we can go ballroom dancing for weeks! ~grinz~ And we SHOULD! Those pretty gowns needs to be shown…..so it’s like a new bride welcoming season of parties! Ohhhhhhhhhhh
“The interaction is the main difference between porn and phone sex. You watch porn. You create your erotic experience with a smart Femdom.”
That is so true! Most porn I find somewhat boring, and the porn I enjoy- I enjoy because it inspires fantasy, not because it fulfills fantasy.
With phonesex OTOH fantasies are fulfilled, created, and fulfilled, and created again. It is a much more fulfilling experience.
The same is true with phonesex vs web cam. Most cam girls only perform, there are exceptions but most just put on a show, the fantasy aspect isn’t there, and any fantasy is limited by what their camera shows. Your imagination isn’t as free to roam and go new places.
Oh WOW Alice! SUCH a great comment! I hadn’t thought of porn as fulfilling versus INSPIRING an erotic fantasy. You know, this is one of the many things I adore about you, you say things that make me go hmmmmmmmmmm, now THAT is new and interesting! ~smiles~
Even before doing phone sex with LDW Group, I was doing phone fantasies with partners even when we had access to physical bodies — there’s just something about (as you said) letting our imagination roam … and roam it does!
~smiles~
*squirm* I’m glad that you enjoyed that comment, Ms. Olivia!
Yes, in porn you are watching someone else’s pre-set fantasy, with a LDW PSO you have a very willing and sexy collaborator working with you in creating your very own personal fastasy, on the fly!
Although I do also like to make you moan Ms. Olivia!
OH OH OH…..now, there’s another great comment! Porn IS someone else’s pre-set fantasy! Now, it might be “close” to your fantasy …. but with phone sex we get the EXACT erotic triggers, etc. Of course, with YOU, my dear tease toy …. ~laughs~ …. you will only get close to orgasm and then hear this sexy cock tease say, “awwwww, no no no. You will stop now. Don’t cum for me yet, I want to tease you some more!” ~grinz~
*squirm* Exactly Ms. Olivia! *adjusts erection*
Porn tries to get around this by filming from a 1st person perspective and with having ‘interactive’ movies where the viewer can decide which scene happens next.
But the porn star doesn’t use your name (or nick name) etc. and those scenes are still generic pre-set scenes. So they might take you from A to B and then give you the option of C, D or E, but as Alice says, watching it might inspire a sudden desire for OH OH OH, and it doesn’t fulfil that need!
And as you rightly say, it doesn’t take the viewers personal situation into account, you can tease me and then remind me that I am in denial, the porn star won’t know that!
VERY good points peter tease toy! And by the time you see a porn movie the porn star is off and doing something else….she won’t know when to say, awwwwww, poor tease toy! ~grinz~ Just sayin
*squirm* Thank you Ms. Olivia!
Yes, it is impossible for a porn star to interact or be in control of someone after the titles roll, whereas with someone like you, your erm, influence, just continues to grow! *adjusts erection*
Oh, speaking of growing peter tease toy ….. why in the world are you SQUIRMING so much? Awww, poor guy … is it because I’m trying on new lingerie in front of you? “Watch but don’t touch … you like this don’t you? ~laughs~”
*squirm* Yes, I do think that it might be your lingerieness, that is having a squirmerising effect on me Ms. Olivia! *adjusts erection*
~laughs~ That’s a LOT of squirming there peter! Could this be tease toy exercise?
hahahhahahaha
*squirm* Well the sight of you does get the heart pumping Ms. Olivia!
cock exercises for peter tease toy….you know I believe in EXERCISE to get the … ahem, blood pumping! ~smiles~
*squirm* You do inspire, ‘EXERCISES’, Ms. Olivia! *adjusts erection*
~laughs~ with peter tease toy!
Dear Mistress Olivia,
There is a BIG difference between porn and phone sex. Talking with the girls at LDW is REAL! Most of porn is just fake, and it is only to be regarded as entertainment. I came across a website, which presents the following information, and I copied and pasted it. Here it is:
30 Things PORN Has Taught Us All!
1. Women wear high heels to bed.
2. Men are always rock hard and ready to go.
3. When going down on a woman, 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.
4. If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man, she will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist he have sex with her.
5. Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face with sperm.
6. Women enjoy having sex with ugly, middle-aged men.
7. Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blowjob.
8. Women always orgasm when men do.
9. A blowjob will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.
10. All women are noisy fucks.
11. People in the 70’s couldn’t fuck, unless there was a wild guitar solo in the background.
12. A common and enjoyable sexual act for a man is to take his half-erect penis and slap it repeatedly on a woman’s butt.
13. Men always groan OH YEAH! when they cum.
14. If there is two of them, they high five each other (and the girl isn’t disgusted!)
15. Double penetration makes women smile.
16. Asian men don’t exist.
17. If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex in the bushes, the boyfriend won’t have even the slightest problem with you jamming your cock in his girlfriend’s mouth.
18. Nurses suck patient’s cocks.
19. Men always pull out.
20. When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best friend, she’ll only be momentarily pissed off before fucking both of you.
21. Women never have headaches … or periods.
22. When a woman is sucking a man’s cock, it’s important for him to remind her to suck it.
23. Assholes are clean.
24. Women always look pleasantly surprised, when they open a man’s trouser and find a cock there.
25. Men don’t have to beg.
26. When standing during a blowjob, a man will always place one hand firmly on the back of the kneeling woman’s head and the other proudly on his hip.
27. Every guy has a penis as big as Peter North.
28. All women are completely bald.
29. Any girl with pigtails is a teen.
30. Any other girl is a MILF.
I had a good laugh reading through that, as it presents the silliness of the porn that is out there! Have fun!
Thank you for your post!
hahhahhahhahahhaha GOOD ONE! I love this list! FANTASTIC and yeah funny b/c it’s true 🙂 ~laughs~