I know that many of you want and need an Experienced Mistress to control your cock stroking. Perhaps you are like this caller, who needs:
Caller: “… a lady who can control me and my orgasms. Someone to abuse me and give me instructions and then get me to the point my cumming and then stop and then abuse me some more.”
Ms Olivia decides cock tease and denial wish
I get so many requests for cock stroking instructions before the phone sex call that I’ve decided to do a series of blogs. If you would like stroking instructions or assignments personalized to you, you can always call (or email) Me to set up your session.
Stay right here though for more general cock stroking and denial information and instructions. Even solo cock tease and denial can be FUN!
When you want Mistress guidance and control I’m available early morning and through the day (eastern, US time). You can check to see who is available for your stroking tease and denial sessions.
Orgasm denial without a chastity device
This man will not be in a male chastity device but he will have orders from Mistress on how to stroke his cock and then he won’t be allowed to cum until I give him permission to cum. I want to hear him BEG on his phone calls, May I cum? Please Mistress, I’m begging to cum!”
Did you click that begging link? Those are your first tease and denial instructions. We’ve talked on the phone so you know what other things Mistress expects you to do with that naughty cock of yours. Remember, there will be NO unauthorized wanking! You will perform for Mistress and follow My instructions.
I’d like your comments…what do YOU think of having a Mistress control your cock while giving you a sexy tease? What do you think and feel when she abruptly says, nope we’re done now, no orgasm for you! I want to hear from YOU (just click on the comments section and leave your thoughts).
Ms Olivia
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Mistress, I’ve edged once after our call. I was looking at your pictures as I was doing it, the sheer power you have even in pictures gets me hard.
Your Slave
Excellent Jake! Don’t overdue the edging…..~LOL~ …. you naughty wanker! THIS is why you need to be controlled!
Mistress,
I enjoyed the audio but it didn’t tell me what I should be doing?
When she says no, its like my heart has dropped, i was so close to the edge and then to have it all stop just before the moment of complete happiness is heart breaking.
I have edged once more since our call, and i worked out it has been 2 days since i last came, so i am feeling very horny right now. Its going to be a long week for me Mistress.
Your slave
~laughs~ You ARE horny Jake. The *she* in that blog post is ME! ~laughs~ READ the post…..that’s the instructions. The instructions in the audio are for you to NOT CUM! That’s basically all you need to know.
Stoke in the morning as per our tease and denial call this morning. Do NOT stroke more or you will NOT be able to do the assignments.
Do NOT cum!
Keep posting your feelings and experiences as we do this 🙂
I’ve done my stroking mistress, 7 minutes.
Good pet, how are you FEELING?
I been edge by olvia many times in one session. But i was always able to cum after thank god. I dont know if i am able to last even a day lol. I am able to cum like 5 min after i came the previous time. (only when im that horny). But anyways. I dont know if i can be edge a whole day without cumming lol. I so would do whatever Olivia would say to cum that day lol. Prob even a slave for life lol.(But im sure she would have more evil things in mind)
hope to have another session with you soon. 🙂
~laughs~ Oh you know Me, crashhawk! I always have LOTS and LOTS of deliciously humiliating and so arousing plans for YOU! You aren’t NOT in orgasm denial in part because I love to watch your cock cum when you’re on cam for Me. Purely selfish reasons! ~laughs~ Plus, I like *making* you do things with that dripping cum! *wink*
I feeling horny Mistress, but it’ll be worth it next week when i get to cum for you!
What should i do today Mistress?
Hi Jake, please do the stroking/edging I told you about on the phone call….I’m on a really long series of calls and can’t *design* something. So, just do the instructions I gave you during the call. And, tell us everything 🙂
Yesterday it took 5 minutes to edge, today it was only 3. I think its cum time Mistress, pleasssse.
Im desperate to cum, my cock is always hard, having a shower is really hard because of it. Ill do anything to cum today……
~laughs~ ahhhhhhh but stroker-slave you’re not even CLOSE to the length of time you’ve already gone! Oh MY! Tell Mistress exactly WHAT is going on that makes this so much more difficult to control your orgasm? Hmmmmmmmmmm? Is it the attention of Mistress? You can *easily* go the established length of time. You can DO IT ! 🙂
Now concentrate (~grinz~) on your success and not on your possible failure.
Dear Mistress OHHHHlivia I have in the past been under a Mistresses total control without a chastity device because of my situation and was kept chased for 47 days before release was allowed. It is certainly possible with the correct attitude and dedication to your Mistress and her desires to do this for her. Torment and enjoyment at the same time. You can make it so hard…..or should that be difficult? LOL. Stroking as she directs and always ending up desperately begging to cum. Oh what a way to live ones life for your Mistress.
Now THAT is very good point littlone! Orgasm denial without the *help* of chastity is certainly a way to *focus* EVERYTHING (and I do mean everything) on Mistress. Many people find that when the Mistress uses that torment/enjoyment effectively then LOTS of things happen….including the completion all sorts of projects from work to home to fitness goals to all sorts of things. Orgasm denial is very motivating to many! It sounds like YOU totally get that, don’t you? And, it is a delight for both Mistress and cock stroking slave pet!
We’ve done calls where MsOlivia has made me wear dresses/bras/panties/lipstick/wigs/makeup was wondering if we could do this with femization calls? But I like doing bets where MsOlivia makes me cum and I dont think she can….when she make/tricks me into wearing dresses…makeup/bra/panties/wig…We have yet to do makeup call where she buys makeup kit for herself and uses it on me without me thinkng makeup is for me and then goes the 9 with her putting makeup then dress..then wig..bra..panties and then I sayI dont want to wear this and then does bet and tells me if I dont get hard and cum I dont have to wear makeup..bras..panties…dresses..wig and I tell her if I dont get hard or cum then I can wear my boyclothes but if I lose…MsOlivia has me me dressed and made up as her lisbian lover.
Absolutely peter! We can do pretty much anything on your call! ~grinz~ And, the feminization calls are among My favorites, as you know 🙂 After all, I can and do often trick you into dressing in feminine clothes …. you don’t even suspect it when I take you to the mall and I tell you that we’re going shopping for Me. ~laughs~ We ARE going shopping for ME….I want to see you all dressed up and then tease you until you have to STAY that way! *wink*
The horny feeling only comes after ive edged which is when i post on here, but 5 or 10 minutes after i edge i feel calm.
Im feeling confident of doing this challenge and look forward to talking to you again Mistress
*nods* Yes, like most things Jake, desire ebbs and flows…..and when in orgasm denial there often is the feeling of calm even while your balls are aching because you know Mistress controls your stroking and when you cum…..there’s a surety in that, which IS (ironically) calming. You’re doing just great and I look forward to your call 🙂
My problem was hearing you say “No” just got me even more excited
You’re so right! That was totally hot! I’ve loved our calls and thank you so much for commenting on the blog. Now, should you stroke and cum? NO! ~grinz~
I feel horny today Mistress, it has now been the same length of time as the longest I have ever gone without cumming.
EXCELLENT Jake, I’m so very proud of you!
I’ll be here and available for calls tomorrow morning starting at 7 am eastern, US, time!
Let’s TALK 🙂
I think that sounds excellent, I look forward to it.
Although, I am worried too much attention and stroking and i’ll cum before i’m allowed which I dont want Mistress, but I’ll do whatever you want Mistress.
You are doing GREAT Jake! Mistress is VERY proud of you!
Hello Ms Olivia, I have never even contemplated orgasm control/chastity…. seemed counter productive to me 🙂 .. I suppose I could use some control though as stroking is a daily (sometimes twice daily) activity for me… hmm, something to ponder. It sounds like O control acts like an “absense makes the heart grow fonder’ kind of thing.
*nods* exactly eric! Orgasm control really does make the eventual orgasm more intense! In part because of the absence makes the balls fill and then stay full …. that part is physical. But, the mental part is what ratchets up the intensity of the physical. Your body sort of expects to stroke to orgasm. Therefore anything that is outside of what you and your body expects (or is used to) will be more intense because it’s different. Does that make sense? AND, when your orgasm training program is designed just for you then WOW, it’s amazing! 🙂
I am into complete orgasm denial; therefore, I need a mistress who can control me and deny me my orgasms! I need to be whipped, have my cum-filled balls squeezed, given instructions on how and when to masturbate, taken to the edge of my cumming, and then ordered to stop. Then abuse me more! I have learned and accepted that my cock and balls are strictly for the dominant woman’s pleasure, which is far above that of my own pleasure.
Excellent cum_filled_balls! I love to hear things like that. Tell Me, have you hear My audio, “No.” ~laughs~ I think you would…..ahem….like it a lot!
I have been practicing orgasm denial with Mistress Mandy for a while. I love the thought her contolling when I cum and when I don’t. We are also working on her only allowing me to cum when I am on the phone with her and when she says so. I love the thought of doing this for her, giving up that control to her is so incredibly sexy for me. And I love how she teases me with stories about men that she has been with. The thought of her being able to go out and have sex while I am under her control and cannnot is an incredible feeling. The longest I have gone is 38 days which was the hardest thing (no pun intended) I have ever done. Unfortunately I was not able to last very long once we started talking…but the orgasm was incredible.
~laughs~ I know what you mean Matty! When the cock teasing is combined with orgasm denial it’s ….ahem…..hard to control things when permission is granted! ~laughs~ Of course, there are lots of ways to keep you guessing about WHEN that permission will be granted….and that makes the erotic sensations even MORE intense! YUM!
Hi Olivia! I noticed you havent updated your blog in quite a while. Are you having a good holiday season so far! I hope you get some new shoes this Christmas! A girl can never have too many!
Hugs!
You’re right Roderico, I’ve been remiss about posting on the blog! I’ll get back on the regular schedule asap. It’s been crazy on the phone which means lots of calls before the holiday (a very good thing, for Me!). *wink* Of course I’ll be getting shoes….oh and also BOOTS!
Hello again Olivia. I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and New Years for both yourself and your family. I reread your femphone profile and once again I liked your enthusiasm for fine lingerie. Is there a bra and panty set that you are particulary fond of at this moment?
Hi Roderico, thank you so much for your warm holiday wishes! I hope you have an amazing and very sexy 2012!
Hmmmmmmm……..lingerie depends on My mood and what I’m doing. I will say that one of My all time favorite designers is Aubade. VERY sultry!
Do you have a favorite designer?
Great post and amazing pic to go with it! A bit of sacrifice and denial is indeed good for the submissive soul. And you are right, a sub should be able to obey and not stroke without chastity………..but I bet chastity would have it’s place for some! Thanks again and Merry Christmas!
Thanks for the holiday wishes Mike! Can you tell I had a busy holiday? ~laughs~ I am just now answering blog comments! Ahhhhh……more blogs to come!
Mistress,
I’m ready to do another orgasm denial call with you, and if I cum before you give me permission I have to lick it all up as my punishment. I’ll be able to call you on Tuesday! cant wait to talk to you again Mistress.
This series of orgasm denial and edging was very fun! Thanks Jake!
Hi Ms Olivia,
I trust you enjoyed a few days off and spent the time with those close to you 🙂
I spent the time somewhat constructivly by trying this tease and denial/edging thing with only some success. In three attempts I made it only to the third day each time. Despite stopping in time my second head was determined to ‘spill the beans’ so to speak. Makes me wonder how other guys make it days/weeks without an O !!! I am thinking that it is perhaps an aquired skill? Practice makes perfect is what I am telling myself 🙂
~laughs~ Practice does often make perfect Eric….but, when it comes to edging it often is really important to have a Mistress encouraging you to go the distance (as it were). You’re right, edging and orgasm denial IS an acquired skill! You CAN do it! 🙂
Thank you so much for your holiday wishes….mine were EXCELLENT and full of joy! I hope you had a great holiday as well 🙂
Heaven help the stroker who can withstand YOUR tease and denial games Ms Olivia! My goodness! All these kinky people must be pent up and very frustrated by the way you keep edging them constantly and yet SO deliciously.
~laughs~ Oh Ms Alexis….you really ARE the Sensual Phone Mistress!! I’m so thrilled you took your time to leave a comment! I’ll never forget one call in particular that I did with you where our teased caller was edging and edging to our instructions. I think I told you at the time that your voice and instructions got ME all hot and bothered too…..so, it ended up being a Mistress edging session as well! DELIGHTFUL!
first off mistress Olivia you are absolutely beautiful. Being a former chronic masturbator, cock control has done wonders for my relationship. My girlfriend has complete control over me. She allowed me to cum on valentines day and it was the first time since christmas that i was allowed to. The feeling was uncanny. I haven’t been allowed in her vagina since my birthday in august and that makes me appreciate her that much more.
*nods* Oh YES! The experience of the various levels of cock control is amazing! I’m always surprised by the number of men who are new to edging, orgasm delay or orgasm denial. There are so many things to do with this. And, invariably, just like you’ve said … when a man is denied his orgasm, it is soooooooooooooo much sweeter when he does get to have that Big O ! ~laughs~ I bet you build up a LOT of cum during the times that you’re in tease and denial with no orgasm. Oh YES! I just bet you appreciate everything! *wink*
OLIVA…
Y U NO UPDATE BLOG?
LOL I’ve been wicked busy on the phone! I will update the blog asap. ~kiss~
Im looking forward to starting up calls with you again MsOlivia…Its been too long I want to do calls with you MsViolet…MsCasey. Its time to start betting with you in making me cum and I try to say you cant do it and I lose the bet with you putting me in bra/panty/wig/lipstick/makeup and dress and kiss me in in lipstick kisses rubbing lipstick in my cheeks giving me blush makeing me cum and I become your lipstick lesbian girlfriend forever. Just trying to get you and MsViolet MsCasey MsMeredith together for night time weekly call
Hi there Peter! Thanks for leaving a comment! You know I always adore talking with you and I know the other Mistresses do as well! *lipstick kisses*
i know your a very busy and all but was wondering if you was ever going to make a giantess blog here i really would like to see one
You know what noblearrow? That might be a yummy thing to put in Ms Olivia’s Cookie Jar! Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Hi Ms O!
I saw Steph voted this morning on an old poll from last fall about favorite pics from your album on Cockcontrol. So, I wandered over there and took another gander.
While I remembered a number of them, either some are new or I need to be checked for senility! LOL….Whichever is the case, They are just outstanding! As to which one is best? How does one pick from the stars in the sky? Thanks for posting them and I am sure I am not alone in saying we miss your vioce on EE and here on your blog…..Hope to hear from you soon!!!
*winks* YAY! Thank you so much Mike! I know I’ve been remiss about blog posts and EE comments of late….but I’ve actually been working on some really fun projects that I’ll be announcing in June….it’s going to be a JUICY JUNE with this Experienced Mistress! Have you see the Poll on Enchantrix Empire on Ms Olivia’s Cookie Jar? Check it out and, if you like photos, I think there an Cookie Jar reward that you will…..ahem….work VERY HARD to see.
You always make Me smile! Thanks for posting a comment!
Ms. Olivia,
I have no doubt that with your level of popularity and talents for engaging your callers that you are indeed inundated with requests for assignments in between calls. It’s very generous of you to take some of your “off-Mistress time” to collaborate in that way. And I must admit, I have with the right Mistress found that to be a fun way to build up the anticipation leading up to a session, pinpoint certain areas for concentration, and bring the Mistress into my head space. Perhaps it’s something we can discuss more in that email leading up to “D Day” (or rather, “Ms. O Day”)…
That’s EXCELLENT castaway…..please tell me more how you do that! Here’s my issue, I can do the *flirts* outside of sessions via email but once I sign in for that day I’m highly likely to be tired up with immediate activities and callers. Most people want the *flirt* right before their call. How do I communicate this and do you have any suggestions? I’d love to find something workable for both parties (something other than me signing out prior to a call in order to give a caller attention — LOL that’s really NOT a smart move at all). I’m open to suggestions and am excited to hear your ideas!
Ms Olivia …
I really love having my masturbation totally controlled and managed by my Masturbatrix. When she makes me stop and denies permission to ejaculate it is frustrating i will admit, but, i willingly try my best to follow her orders. Sometimes when she orders me to stop pumping my erection I am so excited I cannot hold back my ejaculation she orders me not to touch my penis and she closely watches as it releases its cum with no touching at all, i believe this is what is called a ruined orgasm. For me, a ruined orgasm like I just described is the most frustrating thing of all, I want to take hold of my penis and pump it like mad but i am not allowed to. When my Masturbatrix does order me to stop masturbating it is usually at a time when she can tell I am very very close to ejaculating and she knows I will struggle and strain to hold it back for her. When i am able to hold it back, she will pleased and tell so and let me know proud she is of me. When I am unable to hold back, she expresses her disappointment and tells me how we have to keep practicing to get it right, then she administers discipline with her wooden ‘penis ruler’: she will strike my erection with her penis ruler 10 or 15 times, sometimes right on the head! Afterwords she gently caresses my erection soothing it as we discuss how we really need to practice ejaculation control so i can learn to hold it back when she needs me to…
Thank you so much for the detail! And, all of that training is exactly what a chronic masturbation needs, don’t you think?
I sure do! These sorts of training sessions are soooooo much fun for an Experienced Mistress because we can get to know you and then take it from there (so to speak ~laughs~).
Speaking of getting to know you, I’ll be the Featured Mistress on Friday June 15th. What this means to you is a free 10 minute call or the first 10 minutes of your call with me will cost you nothing! There’s no catch. If you’ve called our service before then this is our way of saying Thank you!
I’ll be posting the details on my blog, so keep watching right here! 🙂
My mistress in fact constantly shows off my ability to suppress my cherries and my urge to release. When she trained me, she would make me slowly massage my balls, and when I was on the verge of release she would give them a quick but firm squeeze and it would stop my ejaculation. Now, when she invites her friends over, I would strip in front of them and slowly paint my cherries with a lipstick, all the while shuddering. When I start dripping, my Mistress would order me to stop and I would end my dripping immediately. Her friends always giggle at that, and sometimes the do reward me with a pair of their panties or a quick finger into my rear end.
~laughs~ Well MY MY MY! Thank you so much for posting that! It sounds like your clitty DOES need masturbation control! And, it sounds like you’re getting it!