Are you a pervert? CLICK HERE to hear the audio of this blog post. I did a blog post about how I’m using the term pervert when I ask, “Are you a pervert?” And, I really want to know how you see yourself and if what you call yourself matters to you.
Searching the internet for sex
Many people tell Me that they got interested in Femdom and Woman in Charge fetish themes by searching on the internet. Some say they really didn’t even know what Female Domination was until they started their research. Many people start the journey with a simple search about cock control. One of the really great things about the internet is that you can search for one thing and get other suggestions and check those out too. Some people say that is how they ended up curious about spanking or other aspects of BDsm.
Does the internet create a sex fetish?
What do you think? For Me, I know that porn and all the sites that talk about various sex acts inspire My creativity. When I first started doing phone sex I had no idea about the Giantess fantasy and that is now one of My all time favorite styles of fetish play because the Giant Woman is VERY creative! But, I don’t think that merely finding, reading, or watching these sorts of things on the internet could ‘make’ Me any certain way. But, I do know that the availability of information has influenced how I live and act in many ways — sex is just one of those ways. I dont’ think it’s a bad thing to learn more about passions!
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Which cums first question
So, back to the question here. Does the internet and the plethora of kinky sex on the internet create a fetish or does it reflect what is already there? What do you think?
Ms Olivia what a thought provoking blog!!! I know for myself that my interests were there before I ever found out about them on the Internet…for instance I was into cuckolding before i was ever even on the Internet. With that said it has afforded me the ability to see other like minded people sharing their kinks letting me know I am not alone….do I think the Internet made me a pervert? Well no I think I was a pervert from the start! hehehehehe But i do think the Internet has helped me learn more about my perversions and give me a place to openly explore them with like minded people…before the Internet you hardly ever met someone into a kink you liked..unless you ran in those circles now you can be in the most conservative straight laced place in the world and have every kink you could ever imagine at the tip of your fingers…………….ahhhhh I love the Internet!
Well said Ms Constance! ~laughs~ I’m with you!! The internet sure didn’t “create” me, but I will say that the wealth of kinky fetish information has certainly expanded my erotic fantasies! I laughed when you mentioned being a cuckoldress before you ever went on the internet and looked up cuckold fantasy. I’ve done the same. Personally I just thought I was being “adventurous” and naughty by cheating on my then-boyfriend….little did I know, that I’d turned him into a cuckold! I guess the internet put some labels on things I was doing and didn’t even know were considered kinky sex fetishes! I agree with you….I love the internet tooooooooooooooooo ! 🙂
I am in full agreement with Ms Constance, this is a very thought provoking blog. I love to have my thoughts provoked. I do not believe the internet creates perverts, although it can most definitely help explore them. All my kinks revolve around masturbation and the internet has given me some great ideas and suggestions towards that pleasure. I have also recently realized that I have a sensory fetish, I enjoy different sensations and feelings while masturbating. The internet has allowed me to see this by showing me different techniques and methods of stroking. The internet did not start my masturbatory habits, it did not facilitate them in any way. What it has done is given me new avenues of masturbatory exploration and for this I too love the internet.
~laughs~ And, I love provoking your….ahem….thoughts Forrest! You’re smart and interesting so I do enjoy your comments. Ahhhhhhh, you mention sensation play during masturbation. I too have a great passion for sensation play which is a wonderful part of all sorts of Power Exchange play. I’m also a big fan of mixing things up and urge everyone to try NEW masturbation techniques! Just like you mentioned, those new avenues of exploration are such a great addition! Thanks for your comment!