You don’t pay for phone sex, you pay for my time
So, you’re horny or bored or both. There IS a solution and that is sexy texting with Ms. Olivia. You can contact our phone sex Live Help desk to ask who would be the perfect Mistress for you.
I answer emails and Skype IM messages. I communicate with you and manage expectations, questions, and conversations outside of sessions. Here’s a quick Ultimate Guide for Femdom phone sex that answers the question: What is a session?
Great fucking phone sex
I’m really good at what I do. One way for me to BE really great during your phone sex call is to make sure I manage my own personal erotic energy. That means I use Skype IM to set up sexy texting sessions and Skype calls. I prefer emails for the hello between sessions. These emails are FREE and I give my time and energy to you for free and for fun.
This is an actual text I had with someone. ~rolls eyes~
random man on IM: Hi, can you add me?
Olivia: hi there ((he gets VERY explicit right away.))
Olivia: Wanted to make sure I have age verficiation before I add you ~smiles~
random man on IM: Oh ok I’m 32
Olivia: Are you looking for a texting session or a call? We’ll keep our IM pg-rated until you get your session time, but you can tell me in PG terms what you’re interested in.
random man on IM: I was hoping for a cam call
Olivia: wonderful! I do cam on Skype. Are you on ready to play now?
random man on IM: Yes I am I was reading your blog it seems you could be what I need
Olivia: Wonderful. Have you done a cam call with us before?
random man on IM: Yeah a few times
I think he might be angling for explicit and unpaid time
Olivia: Great! Send me the email you use to get the session. When I get your email, I’ll set myself to busy so we don’t get interrupted by a call. I stay logged in until I get your email. Once I get it, I’ll confirm with the Dispatcher and then we can PLAY! ~grinz~
random man on IM: Oh ok actually I’m not quite ready yet sorry, phone is almost dead. Need to charge it for a bit
Olivia: okie dokie! Have a great day and thanks for reading my blog.
Moral of the phone sex story
I get it, there are lots of folks who want something for nothing. When you get explicit or talk about your fantasy or fetish outside of a session, it’s a red flag for me. We have LOTS of free sexy fun. Use it! Enjoy! Please know that it takes lots of time to produce all the free sexy fun. When I’m not in session, that’s generally what I’m doing. When you want private, personal, explicit attention … that’s a session and I suspect you know how to get that, don’t you?
What are your thoughts about doing this on weekly basis with other mistresses? I’ve had to cut back on massages to once a week as it was to expensive:( but masseuse was totally understanding about this-we still are doing waxings every 4 weeks and she has me on same skincare products she’s using. With waxings I’m going wear foundation/blouse/lipstick/with bra/panties/blouse and breast forms. Ms Erika was right about the feminization circuit training program as it’s for real and taken control over my life/body and mind.
I’ve emailed Ms Tia/Ms Mandy/Ms Fiona/Ms Liz & Ms Audrey about the feminization circuit training program and they to are interested. Do you think I should do the 10 mistresses feminization circuit training program or do 2 mistress calls 20 minutes one a week?
Not sure what you’re asking — is this in response to the blog topic?
~confused~
Mistress Olivia!
Great post and a peek behind the Sexy Phone Sex Mistress curtain! Of course I can relate in spades as this past year I did similar with “don’t be a prick” post.
It’s true, we spend a lot of ‘non sexy’ pg time with clients, out of session and I’m happy to do it!
Particularly if someone is in training or chastity and needs that support.
But to try and get naughty from the gate, not respecting our time is frustrating.
Not to mention, if we don’t go through the proper channels to make sure everyone is age verified then I’m not doing my job and insistence from the other side of the keyboard that “I’m this age” is not going to cut it.
I guess part of what we do is to inform and educate. You’re doing a fantastic job, as per usual!
First golden rule about Kinky time:
We all have boundaries, I will always respect yours, how about you respect mine, as well.
See you around the Empire, sexy lady! ?
OMG Miss Erika I just read your Are you a prick post on your blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy.
YESSSSS —- I laugh when I point out that I am not like your girlfriend or wife — and wouldn’t put up with bullshit even if I was your GF or wife! I know people often don’t actually LISTEN but when a Mistress says something, it’s really best to listen — oh I’ll say it a couple times and then BOOM, blocked.
I have to say – I am so appreciative of basically all the very fine women at your service. They have helped to explore very, very, deep and real parts of myself – things that I would call beyond fantasy but very real and inside me. I understand the need to be very respectful. I think you all provide more than you can know. I could not be this vulnerable in person. I am forever grateful and think you are more than worth it. I have emailed to explore whether my disposition is right before calling. I would never use any other service.
Thank you SO MUCH for that well thought out comment! I suspect the douche won’t actually read this post — LOL — but there you go — it does inspire some really fabulous comments like yours and Miss Erika’s. I take this role very seriously and CHERISH being able to be a sort of “therapist” that sometimes done a happy ending! LOL Now if we could only get insurance to pay for it!
I mean every word. When I call it is like the mistress is holding my hand. When I really tell the truth (which is hard but I try) about my feelings it is like being so vulnerable and frightened and having feelings that I cannot put other places. You just cannot go anywhere (even a therapists office) and say a part of me feels weak and frightened in this way. I think the LDW mistresses often understand.
~nods~ I do know what you mean — I actually had a series of calls with someone going through a divorce because he wanted to explore BDsm and his, then wife, didn’t. He was seeing a sex therapist — but told me that he learned more about himself from me than his therapist!
I have so much respect for all of the Great Mistress’es of LDW that something like this should never happen. Especially with all the effort that is put into a call and session.
Thank you !!! 🙂 🙂
Ah yes, I like this use of the word ‘douche’, meaning bad for a woman! Your point about managing erotic energy needs to be in bold and underlined – when we run out, we sign out…or just take CBT calls to let out less erotic frustrations, lol. All silliness aside, I’m so glad that the vast majority of the men who call us are considerate of this, it’s just a shame that number isn’t 100%.
Thanks Ms Claire — and I will say that the VAST majority of people who contact me/us are GREAT and super respectful — those that aren’t get kicked to the curb pretty quickly. LOL
Dear Mr. Douche,
Does Ms. Olivia visit your place of employment and demand free french fries? Just curious.
As a result of your boorish behavior Ms. Oliva has been awarded a WintersAir Collapsible Cooler Bag with Reusable Ice Packs: 30L / 50 Can Capacity, 100% Insulated, Portable, Foldable, Lightweight Premium Grade Material. Arriving Wednesday, Mar. 20th.
As for you Mr. Douche, you get NOTHING! You Lose! Return to your mother’s basement and never darken the door of LDW again. GOOD DAY SIR!
laughs and laughs — you DO tickle me — and THANK YOU so much for your gift — that’s awesome — not that I’ll drink 50 cans of beer but I do love having cold fruits and veggies on a warm day!
Actually I had someone, years ago, really debate and hassle me about TIME — I finally got exasperated and told him, honey you’re trying to buy a Rolls Royce for the price of (fill in a really inexpensive car here) … you wouldn’t dream of going to a dealership with your “sob story” and “arguments” would you? OH OH OH and ANOTHER person, a lawyer, I finally said, hey send me proof that you’re doing pro bono work for legal aid and I’ll give you that same amount of time for free. He was like whattttt????? No way, I’m not giving away my time —- I just said, Seeeeeee???????? — rolls eyes — gotta love human beings being human.
Hey sexy!
I haven’t been around for awhile but I still get and enjoy your email notifications.
Mirroring several other comments here, I just want to add that my time spent with you is treasured. I don’t know much about therapy, unconsciuius drives and all that. What I do know is that you guided me to explore parts of myself that kind of healed me. Maybe it wasn’t healing exactly. More like growth through fantasy. Hard to explain. Love you for it though, Mistress.
Your willingness to put your real self into our calls was exceptional. Authenticity in the midst of guided fantasy. That, I believe, is the magic of you.
Hey, send this douche bag guy my way so I can practice some fantasy ass kicking! Oops, Do you think I should change out of my panties first? Might give him the wrong impression!
😉
JQ
Ohhhhhhhhhhh I never thought of it that way — “growth through fantasy” —- wow, that’s lovely!
Oh sure there are some people who just want the fantasy — and that’s okay — I will sometimes just gently see if there is something else there —I CHERISH the people who want that real connection because it’s even more fun for ME that way too. I’m so glad you wrote, I think of you often (in nice and naughty ways).
Ms. Olivia- Great post! So often guys think we owe them something to entice them to call us, but as you say, there is plenty of enticing free material all over the Empire. Setting boundaries is vital in any type of relationship, and we do that with grace and class. I really like the charm with which you lead the texting guy to understand you have value that is worth standing firm for.
I’ll go even further than that Ms Stephanie — I don’t even really care whether or not he “understands or agrees” that I have “value” — now I’m like “YO dude, think whatever you want but I’m on a call now with someone else so buh bye.” hahahahahahahahha #SorryNotSorry