The recent conversation here about masturbation really got Me worked up. I revisited the poll on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire, to get your special requests for hot erotic audios from this Experienced Mistress.
In the coming (so to speak) days, I’ll be posting sexy audios for all the categories listed in the Audio Ideas poll and/or from comments. I love your comments and the conversations we have with the comments and replies. THANK YOU!
Power exchange is a popular topic and this sort of Dominant/submissive play can have all sorts of variations. One in five people voting said they wanted power exchange and that number goes up when adding all the kinds of kinky scenes we can do. For example, the office is a wonderful setting for hot scenarios. And it’s the setting for this free erotic audio. This audio goes out with nods to bigal, castaway, and tommie … and the others who asked for power exchange audios but didn’t leave a comment. *wink*
Power exchange is the common theme in most phone sex scenes where the caller is the submissive to the FemDom. The image of a powerful woman feminizing a man is very hot. And, one of the most popular forms of the feminization fantasy is where the man is humiliated for not being a man, turned into a sissy and then further turned into a cuckold. I love to do erotic audios of the drama of the hubby, sissy, cucky LOL
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Ms Olivia
MsOlivia, we have often had posts about how hot power exchange is and my love for it has not died one bit. I don’t have a love for humiliation, at least not in the traditional kind, but the idea of giving myself to a Dominant woman who knows what to do with me, of doing what She says for Her pleasure, gives me tingles in those special areas. I especially like the power exchange combined with my fetish for feet or CNFM, a leash in her hand connected to my neck, things like that. Some people may consider that humiliating, but I don’t as I would be honored to be Hers.
@ magnus …. EXACTLY !!!! The Gift of Submission is an amazing thing ! I think you’re right…..this ‘thing’ we do might look (does look) odd to most people who are outside of the Fetish Community or unfamiliar with BDsm. WE know how it FEELS is very different from how it looks.
You bring up humiliation and that’s a great example of the difference between how it looks and how it feels. For those that aren’t into erotic humiliation it be very confusing to hear (and see) the stuff used to humiliate the submissive. But, for the submissive it’s an amazing roller coaster ride of sensations.
Humiliation is a powerful emotion. Fear is a powerful emotion. Pain is a powerful sensation. Feeling powerless or trapped is actually FREEING in many ways. Putting a collar around your neck and walking you around….connected to Beautiful Amazing Mistress … WILL look very kooky to the uninitiated. My Domme colors are black and red …. I have a fantastic leash that is soft red leather. pet has a black collar stitched with red thread.
*slides up to magnus …. dangling lease in front of pet’s face……good pet…..come to Mistress…..”
*Mesmerized by the beautiful leash, no doubt it would look good connecting my neck to Your hand.* Ahem… where was I? Interesting you mentioned colors though, MsOlivia. I made a chainmaile collar (can be seen in a pic I put up on EE recently in fact). A friend suggested I make it in BDSM colors of blue, black, and silver. (Not sure if that’s the order or not.) It came out quite well, I think, especially with the heart shaped lock I put on it.
magnus …… LOL…..you ARE mesmerized aren’t you? I love that !! I love the bdsm colors …. and, of course, I just have to be different don’t I? BTW, I saw a cat (whip) in those colors this weekend……it looked like a tapered snake….totally sexy !
I’m back from a long weekend and getting lots of calls (y’all do miss your phone sex when I’m not around, don’t you?) I’ll check out your photo album on Enchantrix Empire to see the collar you mentioned. Thanks for the heads up … lol, so many HEADS going up ! (couldn’t resist that play on words)
I love it! There is something exceptionally sexy about power exchange, in any of its myriad forms, such as exerting authority, or turning the tables. A good fantasy plays with your expectations, and that heightens tension. I believe it is the same reason we get a thrill from something like a rollercoaster — being on the knife’s edge of out of control, but not quite enough to cause the onset of true fear and panic (which presumably would override the erotic).
@ NB ….. yes! I would HOPE true fear and panic would override the erotic. Still, that is the allure of kinky edge play. Just how close to that edge can you get? How do you feel when you GET there? What happens if you get dangled over the edge? I’ve had several IM conversations recently from people who want actual real life panic combined with various kinky fetishes. No way! Phone sex can really be amazing and a SSC (safe, sane and consensual) way to experience edge play. But, I actually don’t believe in any kind of real life panic or destruction.
I read your comment NB and I thought of movies….suspense or horror movies are tons of fun for all sorts of emotional release …. but just imagine if someone came out of the screen and approached you with a real knife…..woah baby, I’m so outta there and not happy about it! LOL
I love your comments, NB, very interesting and you always getting Me thinking of interesting things !
One part of powr exchange that I always found interesting is the “agreement” of both sides to decide where the power will be. In a situation where there is a definite dominant or superior person then the “exchange” part isn’t really there.
The willingness to submit, and the willingness to accept that submission is what makes it really appealing to me.
@ wellspanked ….. Your blogs on Enchantrix Empire are great examples of Power Exchange. Your post about the gift …. ie the gift of submission is deliciously wicked. You’re right in that Power Exchange isn’t possible per se if there are definite D/s roles. Personally, I’m not into 24/7 Lifestyle …. you won’t see Me on EE opining about Female Supremacy and all that rot. I think even when there are ‘set’ roles there is still power exchange in the negotiation of the scene. I know I’ve said it before but I enjoy the TUG of taking the offered submission and then creating something more, something unique to us, something that is worthy of My role as the Domme. It’s kind of like that scene in the movie Coming to America. Do you know the one I mean? The Eddie Murphy / Prince character says, What music do you like? The beautiful woman his parents picked for him says, “Anything you like.” Every question he asks, she answers “Anything you like.” BLEH!~ While in Domme space I sure don’t want a brat (whiny or passive/aggressive) I ADORE spark and sparkle!
Don’t you?
Absolutely,
In a situation where everything is consensual then it has to be fun for both parties. If the submissive one isn’t getting any pleasure out of it themselves (even if the pleasure is pleasing the dominant one), then they won’t want to do it again. At the same time, if the one in the dominant role doesn’t enjoy it, then they won’t do it, or do it well.
So this starts the whole paradox of “who is really in charge”, etc etc. All that basically comes back to are both parties open and honest and communicating what they want effectively. When the people involved really have good chemistry then it can happen in a fluid, subtle, subtextual way. And that is a hell of a lot of fun!
@ wellspanked …. OH YES ! LOL the issue of who is in charge….the Domme or the submissive. Reading your blogs on Enchantrix Empire I see that you (like I) am a very big fan of pre-scene negotiations. As a Femdom the freedom to create is actually lacking when the submissive says, ‘do anything.’ I personally like to know boundaries so I can push them. Limits so I can get close and then pull away, then get close again, etc. A thorough knowledge of the fetish likes and dislikes of a submissive creates the roadmap of the scene. Although I do tend to get lost while driving, I do NOT get lost in a session … phone sex or real life. I suspect the erotic play and fetish sensations actually mean more to Me than driving issues! LOL I described it like this recently to a caller: The conversations about turn ons and turn offs and all the other psychology involved in creating a really off the chart fetish or erotic scene is needed because if the person wants some serious edge play then I (as the Femdom) need to map the edge. That’s the place where it becomes, as you described, fluid and subtle …. bringing the play to a subtextual level elevates it into the stratosphere. Once again, it’s the dichotomy of BDsm! Thank you so much for your comment and, of course, your blogs!
Well, yes and no. While there might be as dramatic a change, there can still be subtle shifts as well as simply ones that challenge convention.
So if the scenario is a powerful executive woman and a subordinate male employee, it is true that there is already a power dynamic in place where the woman has more “power” than the male… but at the same time gender roles, sterotypes, and the like can still bring up elements of “power exchange.”
At the simplest level, the idea of males as aggressors, seducers, penetrators, etc. still exist to be exchanged or role-swapped, even if the woman has more “social” power.
But I would agree that it usually tends to be seen from the opposite angle. High muckety-muck is laid low by his underestimated secretary or whatnot.
As always NB I love the astute answers you bring to the conversation! I am struck by the phrase “usually tends….etc” because that is where the real ‘art’ of Power Exchange comes in. In a phone sex setting or real life BDsm play the trick is always to bring something ‘fresh’ to the fetish scene. My challenge and joy is to create an erotic roleplay that ‘looks’ like the expected situation and then juice it up, creating what pet describes as the roller coaster of emotions. When we played this last weekend I juxtaposed the sensations of holding him close against My body and alternately stroking, squeezing and paddling his red ass! VERY HOT ! I’m missing him! I am, of course, referring to baseball now that the season has started. ~ laughs ~
I don’t have much to add, except Right On! I think we all come here to experience ‘power exchange’ in it’s myriad forms, in all the various kinks………But, I do have a question. Where can I find the conversion tables for a cuckold traveling to the Enchantrix Empire? I want to be sure to get the best power exchange rate! 🙂
LOL @ Mike! I get to set the rate with you because I’ve gotten to know you…..as a person and as a cuckold. You are trusting Me with the edges of your play and each time we talk I want to bring out fresh experiences for you. The cuckold phone sex session in particular is a treasure trove of so many creative options. Not just with the fetish fantasy itself but also with your own personal history, experiences and psychology. You have probably noticed, I have “fierce” conversations. I actually LISTEN, remember and then weave what I’ve learned about each person into the scene.
I know I’ve said this to you before, but you DO remind Me of My guy in many ways. Your post here reminds Me of one of the things I absolutely adore about you both. You surprise Me and get Me to laugh. I love that !!!!
MsOlivia is soooo awesome with audios…OMG for me its wearing bra/wig/lipstick and putting on headphones closing my eyes with lubemagic wand fleshlight and shes right there next to me. Also calls we’vedone were awesome and hot!!!!its seems I always lose bets to her in making me cum when she puts me in dresses/bras/panties with wig makeup/lipstick/perfume with her slithering nest to me giving me lipstick kisses and rubbing lipstick maks in my cheeks to give me blush and keep kissing me. How can I resist? I cant!!1I havnt called her in long time but I need to change that and start caaling her more with MsViolet. Even though its by phone its as real as it gets and Id rather do it that way as you can do it your own bedroom and its safe! With money you spend on possible flop for date you can spend it on call for 20 30 40minutes to and hour and she will give you happy ending unlike gf/wife. Also you dont have to deal with any drama/games ot emotion with MsOlivia. Im planning on calling her with in week or 2 to resume my feminization training/fantasies with her and MsViolet.
I dont have gf nor do I need one if im calling MsOlivia and MsViolet as well with other mistresses on LDW…THEY ARE my girlfriends/mistresses.
awwwww…..peter THANK YOU so much for your comment. I have done some totally hot erotic audios for you and, of course, our phone sex sessions that included Ms Violet are among My all time favorites! Ohhhhhhhh you always had an *accident* and then were told that you would have to stay our lovely sissy girl forever! *hugs* and *hands you the lipstick* ~smiles~