Feminization is a great way to experience all the sides of a Mistress …
… and yourself … especially if you are a bit late to the sissy party! Listen to me tell you all about what to do when you have feminine feelings and urges. Please don’t get all caught up in the sissy label becasue that might or might not apply to you. And also note that simply being a man in panties doesn’t mean you’re feminine at all!
BUT when you want to be a girly gurl …
Don’t be shy about exploring feminization — take the advice of this self proclaimed sissy.
“What was good about discovering my sissy side later in life was that it was perhaps. less confusing to me than it seems to be for younger TS or TG or TV “gurls’.
Starting with panties, then eventually adding a silk nightie, to wearing full lingerie, bras, breast forms, dresses, skirts, thigh highs and ? heels (I have a lovely red pump) … each step was exciting and new. I simply loved the way I looked and felt in woman’s clothes.”
Ever wondered what you’re missing?
“The delightful crossdresser continues after I ask that question:
“I do wish I had started years ago … but while I always wondered about alternative lifestyles and marveled at how brave they were… not to mention how wonderful and happy many cross dresses seemed after their metamorphosis in full drag… I lacked the courage to experience it myself for years.”
A Mistress can help you be femme
… and can often help you with all the swirl of feelings that goes along with any sort of gender play. The lovely submissive gurl continues:
“I am soooooo happy I did and thankful to the ladies of LDW for making it FUN and being so excepting! I don’t feel gender confusion as some do. I’m not looking to ‘be’ a woman… I’m just a more enlightened and prettier me.! Lol Like Eddie Izzard once joked … I don’t consider my sissy outfits ‘woman’s clothes … they are ‘my clothes’ I bought them! ?”
I love that last comment. So, when you want to get YOUR girly girl on — you know what to do!
Your Experienced Mistress,
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Oh Ms I so get this. My 20’s and 30″s were so confusing that by the time I discovered the resources of the world wide web I thought I was TS. Then after a time I found I was a cross dresser and just enjoyed the look and feel of lovely dresses and lingerie. I wish I had LDW at the time. It would have saved me a lot of anguish and consternation.
Oh yvonne — nods — for all the issues, complaints and problems brought on by the internet — being able to find out that you’re not alone outweighs everything else. I too found my tribe on the net and am profoundly grateful. AND I can’t imagine my life without you m’dear — you’ve certainly made my world more beautiful and vibrant and … well … you bring life to life in your gowns and dresses and by you being YOU!
Discovering my feminine side and becoming a better sissy, with the help of a Mistress, has been both a liberating and erotic journey. Being a sissy gurl has unlocked so many doors. Letting go of male ego has helped me be a better sub for Mistress… Not only that, as a “gurl’ I’m now the me I was born to be . No one should ever hesitate to try it if they feel called to do so! When I putt on a skirt and heels , make up and all the wonderful panties and lingerie i cant help but wonder why everyone doesn’t want to try in such beautiful feminine items? This was Truly a delightful post Mistress Olivia … Your guidance, understanding and encouragement are truly Goddess sent’! ?
grins — thank you princess — you ARE such a sissy in all the senses of that word!!!!!
i’m sissy and i love ? everything about it. The joys of being en femme are so many.i truly believe Female is the Superior Gender so what better way to serve? Becoming a feminized sissy has opened my mind to serving Superior Females in more ways than i ever dreamed imaginable! Aside from from being allowed to serve, my feminine side has blossomed and it feels beautiful! i have never felt more complete. Everything about feminization is absolutely darling and i won’t ever change. Thank you very much m’Lady.?Praise be to Females ? Femforever ??michelle.
giggles at the Femforever comment! I love that you are fully who you are meant to be!
I would love it if you could help me get in touch with other girls
Not sure what you’re asking for joanne — can you tell me?
I’ve been doing this with you for over 10 years. I love how you took control over me on out very first ever call. You knew right away as I was staring at your bra/panties/hot dresses/clothes and you asked me if I wanted to wear them. I said I’m a guy and guys don’t wear that. But you giggled/put your arms around my neck and gave me lipstick kisses on my cheeks. That’s where it all began and 10+ years later I’ve become your cream puff girl forever. It’s to difficult to resist/say no as all of you are sooo hot/sexy and powerful to say no to. With pictures I sent you I really do look better dressed as a girl then I do as a guy. I believe all relationships should be this way and I’m glad all of you have done this to me!! This is what I always wanted and needed and it’s happened. I’ve decided I want to continue the feminization circuit training program throughout the year with you and the other mistresses keeping me as your cream puff girl. If we can somehow someway make my masseuse more mistressy with me that would be the best thing for me as I’m not boyfriend material anymore as I really do want to stay a weak soft submissive feminine cream puff girl with her.
Awwwww, you ARE such a cream puff gilry aren’t you?
“A Mistress can help you be femme” is THE statement that hooks me the most, of course every one of these statements are well thought out. Sissies tend to be the most articulate when it comes to self expression, especially when it comes to femme! Thanks Ms Olivia 🙂
That means a lot to me Ms Cassandra, thank you so much! I agree about the sissy comments — who doesn’t love a chatty sissy!???? I know I do!
Did someone say chatty sissy? LOL… I gotta say, not sure it’s relevant to this thread… But I guess as far as “labels” go… I’m a guy who is, well, a sissy… But actually I identify as a female, and LESBIAN … But reality(I have a cock, albeit small) is … I’m a GUY … And therefore, a SISSY
Hmmmmmm === tell me more about identifying as female but also identifying as a guy with a small dick. That’s an interesting way to put this. I’m curious
Ms. Olivia, I loved this post!It seems like some of those who like to dress get very caught up in the labels. I always emphasize that the labels do not mean the same thing to everyone and are not even necessary.The important part of dressing is how it makes you feel. Enjoying the clothes is really the whole point.
YES! The labels are great as a starting point to being the conversation — it’s like the crossdresser or sissy label is the beginning of a common language — and then we REALLY get to know one another! THAT is when the real fun begins 🙂
That last comment is my favorite part of this post too – not just the Eddie Izzard quote (which is pretty awesome), but the part about being a “more enlightened and prettier me”. I can’t think of a better reason to slip out of the gray man-clothes and into something softer, pinker and more YOU!
I agree Miss Claire! Prettier does often mean more enlightened — this really does qualify as retail therapy hahahahahahahha 🙂
I m so glad you commented on labels; as they are a starting point.
((( This was such a great comment — I’m going to highlight it in a blog post with my comments!)))
Thanks for all you do
FABULOUS and thoughtful comment Steffi !!!! I’m going to use this in a blog post and include my comments! THANK YOU !!! 🙂 🙂
I enjoy my femme side; i m not interested in reassignment surgery just like playing femme role with pretty sexy lingerie. It s fun its hott and it relaxes me; allows mevto go to a place far from my stressful life.
I love this comment Steffi — on the flip side I’ll admit to loving a bit of gender bending myself with a strapon.!!! 🙂 🙂
Strapon sex feels so good it takes me to places i can t get to any other way it allows me to let go and enjoy being taken filled oh the feeling of being full , and just letting go and being fucked sooooo good
Mmmmmmmm —- bendova sweetie — I’ll make you feel FULL!
I loved our call today, especially when I told you my Daily Affirmations. You seemed to really enjoy “I’m a Sissy Girl” – I love saying it too. I’m wearing my black fishnet nylons and pink panties. I feel so “girly girl”.
Thank you for helping me with my feminization. I will call you again soon.
Hugs & kisses,
Oh Cindy you are a delightful and sexy sissy! Daily affirmations help to reinforce ALL your sissy skills — oh wait, there is more reinforcement needed! Grins