You know that Mistress has *plans* for each crossdresser this New Year!
By now, you’ve seen the posting and topics just for you girls! I love when we talk about all things feminine. Sometimes the blog posts will be sensual or sexy and sometimes the topic with be serious things like how to talk with others about your crossdressing.
I know that YOU are individuals. Some of you love to dress like a woman because you’re a lipstick lesbian when feminized. That means you’re a crossdresser who loves women! Others of you yearn to be the naughtiest sissy slut with My Femdom girlfriends or men! And there are so many more of you, aren’t there? The variety is fantastic! ~smiles~
So, what shall I DO with a feminized girl?
There are SO MANY things that are available! Here’s one possible feminized fantasy sent in from a delightful girl!
“… this kept me awake at work mon tues. you and i were having a few drinks celebrating my retirement. you asked what my plans for the new yr was. i just blurted out. i would like to start the yr new . doing something differant. get a new perpective of the world.
i saw that mischevious smile as you said that you could arrange that. with that you grabbed your phone and left. in a few minutes you came back. you then asked me to trust you. you have it all planned.
after a few more drinks i dont remember much. but when you wake me i have long brown hair d cup breasts and in lingerie.
i ask the stupid question what the hell happened. you said you just helping. me start the new yr differantly. now get out of bed you must get dressed for the party. you cant decide what i should wear –something that if i’m not careful my new tits will pop out or something to really show them off. formal or cocktail dress of course fuck me pumps. then to our new yrs party where everyone one will see the new me. cum the next question will it be a happy new yr yours nancy”
What is YOUR fantasy about seeing this New Year from a more feminine perspective?
through working with you I want to become more feminine emotionally and sexually 🙂 not only to wear the gown but to feel that I should have always worn the gown 🙂
Ohhhhh yvonne! Thank you so much for that comment! Now this is very interesting. Don’t you already FEEL that you were born to wear the gowns? I know we call it crossdressing but I think of you as a submissive feminine woman and I have always thought of you that way. Does that make sense? Don’t you also feel that way about yourself?
I don’t know how much of a submissive I am but I do adore my feminine side. The CDing is very strong in me right now. I suppose to some extent I already feel I was meant to wear the gown. These feelings can be so confounding sometimes 🙂
ahhhhhhhh yvonne! I think all girly girls …. however you experience your crossdressing (as a woman trapped in a man’s body or transgendered, or simply the enjoyment of feminine clothing for it’s beauty and elegance … I think it’s about the way you feel! And it’s very important that you CELEBRATE what you feel because it is REAL. Does that make sense?
I know that it is a great stress relief for me. It is so relaxing. I think I need to tell you a bit about my last relationship. I lived with a woman that identified as lesbian, but in reality should could swing from either side of the plate. She wanted to be the dominant, but to be honest she was not very good at it. She saw herself as a man trapped in a woman’s body and she really hated it. She did not embrace her femininity at all. The relationship never really worked. It was as much my fault as hers and we went to fast really. We moved in together after only a couple of months so we were learning about one another on the fly. Now talking to you, as a lifestyle dominant I can see the difference. Under the proper instruction I would make a fine wife to a woman who knew how to dominate.
Hope that makes sense
Ahhhhhhhh……THANK YOU so much for telling Me about your last relationship yvonne! I think ANY relationship is tricky and does take time to see if the people are really compatible so I *feel you* on that part! And your desire to live with a Dominant Woman who understands power exchange as applied to crossdressers makes sense! Femdom is like anything else, while there does need to be a natural desire or tendency towards Dominance, it does take time and experience to really excel! I’ve got a post coming that talks about books I’ve read and things I’ve learned that has helped Me to become fully expressed as the Experienced Mistress. It didn’t happen overnight and it doesn’t happen casually. Time takes time and experience comes from experience. I know that sounds trite but this skill set is unique. ~laughs~ Oh yeah, this skill set is unique! Thanks so much for your comment yvonne!
Yes I can understand that it is not something you take up and excel at. Very few things in life that are worthwhile come easy. On my next call we can discuss more 🙂
Absolutely yvonne! I’d love to talk with you about this and even give you some ideas. I’ll admit, there are few Femdoms out there so it’s hard to find this. But, I actually think ALL relationships are difficult. It’s difficult to find the person that you do fit with….AND, it’s even more difficult when you add in kink dynamics. You’re not alone in that 🙂 We’ll talk about it more 🙂 ~lipstick kisses~
On a lighter note, my pearl choker and earring set arrived 🙂 and I already have the bracelet, so now I just have to choose the perfect dress 🙂
This is wonderful news yvonne! It’s a wonderful set!! LOVELY!